Against my better judgement I'll make a thread on this.
Long story short, we were in a weird almost relationship. Went out as basically a couple, exclusively, everyone assumed we were a couple. Just didn't do anything sexual, but she always made advances, which I never acted upon. Ultimately she got distant, and gave the "I wanna focus on myself" excuse. So we stayed distant for like a month until I reached out to see how she's been. She instantly suggested hanging out and made room for us to get together.
The first outting since the stuff was just at an abandoned mansion and wooded area. It basically went like this 1. She said "It sounds like those birds are fucking" when they were screeching near by
2. Told me to massage my face to grow a beard, despite her knowing that I wasn't a fan of beards, but she is a fan.
3. Asked my Bday and instantly blurted out my zodiac. She probably wanted to see if they were compatible? she's weird like that.
4. Had me go to a thift store with her while she did a little clothes shopping
5. Teased me lightly
Thoughts on what I should do now? Haven't spoken to her since then. Like a week and a half ago. I have an idea for something to do but I don't know if its worth pursuing further or what...
(Pic not related. Just reminds me of her a bit...)
By not trying to get inside her panties you are making her feel terrible, unsexy and ugly around you. She obviously wants sex, but since all girls are cowards, she will never tell you directly "please have sex with me". It is your job to behave as a male since you are literally male. As her on date, then on netflix and chill and then have sex with her. Start with GENTLY fingering her while her pants are still on. It is called foreplay. Watch lesbian porn and then copy it.
Austin Price
Well, she did basically blatantly say that. Said "I wanna ride something" and motioned me into a bar bathroom another time.
I'm just saying that she basically did ask me to fuck her. And I didn't react.
And was just curious about what stuff from this last "hang out" stood out.
Josiah Perry
She obviously hasnt found anyone better than you in the meantime and hoped you will finally do something this time... She is so desperate she will probably give you another X tries.
Logan Carter
Ahhh, yea. I guess I should message her and try to get together. Wonder what she wants. Just a casual FWB thing? (Can't see the effort she put in as being just for a one time thing.) or a more serious relationship? GUess that cant really be figured until it happens
Xavier Jenkins
How do people this dense exist? I don't understand it.
Lucas Russell
Somehow we do... Dunno why she even bothered with me. Hell, I didnt show her much attention until she started talking alot to me. (Before that she was asking people about me)
Asher Flores
They are the same people i get these tasty (You)s from.
Nigger, it doesnt matter what she thinks or wants. She is woman, the follower. All what matters is what YOU want. She will follow you. Plain and simple.
Wanna sex? Get to it. Wanna marriage? Start spamming invitation on dates and keep fucking her brains out.
just tell her "I'm sorry i'm socially retarded and spelling things out for me isn't attractive or alluring, but it's either that or be patient for me to finally take the hint" and then FUCK HER ALREADY, PUT YOUR LIPS TO HERS SMOOTH HER GO SLOW AND THEN PUT YOUR PENIS INTO HER AFTER YOU TAKE HER CLOTHES OFF. LEGIT DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT JUST DO IT.
Bentley Gonzalez
Well, yea... Its mostly that I got the hint, in the past, but never could react to it. Thats my biggest issue
I guess. I just wish I wasnt soo anxious.
Granted shes a bit socially awkward. Soooo
Aaron Gutierrez
bump
Benjamin Miller
Bump
Blake Morris
She's making it so easy for you. Just try to respond with the same like make hints you are into her and then try to get things into a good position where you are just sitting next to each other. And if there is a pause for a second where you feel the sexual tension, then look at her and kiss her.
Adam Howard
Honestly. There was one night that woulda been perfect for this. New Years we were in a field, all alone, sharing a blanket while I fed her chips. I probably coulda gone for a kiss there. Or at least put my arm around her and kinda cuddled.
But yea, I guess it's pretty obvious? Well, I think tomorrow or Sunday I'll reach out to try setting another not-date. And I'll try to make something happen
Daniel Cook
Do you want something to happen though?
Seems like you keep leading her on and rejecting her. You should see what u wanna do dude.
Austin Wilson
It sounds like a really nice time. It sounds like you, OP, are kinda going along for the ride, and also avoiding making a strong physical connection. That's fine. But you need to talk about your feelings. You need to communicate your perspective, thoughts, and stances on this relationship. Don't let things build. Assert yourself.
I had a girlfriend like this once. We dated for a summer. She took my virginity. She was nice but had needs that I couldn't meet. And we never really talked about htat stuff until we broke up, basically.
Cooper Hughes
You’re fucking hopeless. I feel ashamed to have read this thread.
Either you are gay as fuck. You dont want to fuck her You are stupid and clueless as a rock.
Thomas Roberts
That's my problem. I have no issue doing anything upto the sexual stuff. But then I'll freeze up and can't actually move further. Already got a Escondido chance. And I probably won't get ajother
Ethan Clark
The thing for me is that I really want to go further like she seems to want. But it's all kinda new to my so idk what to do when she gets suggestive.
Kayden Campbell
Ehhh, yea. I am clueless. All this shit is kinda new to me. Sooo yea...
Luke King
Dude, next time you meet her, stop thinking and just go for it. Don’t be unsure, you know her queues - don’t make matters complicated. Go for it.
Brayden Ramirez
True, true. I do got her figured out in that way. Just fucking struggle with acting on them.
Well, let's see what happens when I message her about getting together
Zachary Price
Probably should message her while the weather is nice seeing as it definitely puts her in a good mood
Joshua Brooks
Well, messaged her seeing about getting together soon. Lets see what happens
