how do I deal with having an average length and girth dick. 6x5 to be exact. I can't stop thinking about my gf getting fucked by someone bigger and it hurts me inside. what do.
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Christopher James
Samuel Sanders
"Size doesn't matter" is not a meme. Obviously the extremes can make for a different experience, but within two standard deviations of average size FOR SURE, what matters more is how much she likes you.
Gavin Mitchell
Work on your insecurity and feeling more comfortable with yourself. Your dick doesn't determine your worth as a man and has little influence on anything in a relationship other than how deep you can dick her down... And honestly, most women can't take a much bigger cock than what you're working with easily anyway. I've been with two women who admitted to having 10" partners before. Both complained that it was scary and too much.
Also, work on your dick and foreplay game. You may not have the biggest dick she's had, but you can give her the best. The important thing is that she likes you for you, the other guys are in her past for a reason, and that you communicate during sex and try to make it feel as good for her as possible, explore fantasies or fetishes, etc. You may not be the biggest, but you can be the best.
Ryan Bell
so here's the thing tho, what if the bigger guys also put in s shit ton of effort? am I just kinda fucked then. I really like this girl and she likes me a lot too, i know it's not all about sex but i don't want her to settle you know? it would make me feel worse. it actually hurts knowing i can't fill her puss like some other guys can and have. does it really make that big of a difference i mean I'm s little above average ffs. tired of feeling inferior. it's even harder because this is where I get, I internalize all these insecurities
Connor White
>what if the bigger guys also put in s shit ton of effort? am I just kinda fucked then.
No because they're not your gf's boyfriend. Having sex with the person you've chosen to be in a relationship with is a far greater turn-on than an extra inch or two. And in fact, the extra inch or two won't do a goddamn thing in terms of sensation. Women literally cannot feel the difference past a certain point... or it becomes painful and unpleasant.
>i don't want her to settle you know?
Oh my god of all the stupid things. You realize good sex isn't the only thing girls care about? For a lot of them, it's not even in the top 5.
Evan Russell
but i still want her to like it? it's a little sad if it's mutually just meh.
Cameron Baker
op here
I honestly can't tell if I'm being autistic or i literally cannot physically please a woman as good as I potentially could had i been bigger
Kevin Rivera
Your dick is fine. Stop being a faggot, faggot.
William Walker
>but i still want her to like it? it's a little sad if it's mutually just meh.
Why do you think you're meh at sex? Does your girlfriend say you're not good at it? If not, why do you think you aren't good? And if you think she's had better, why do you think she stays with you? (hint: it's because she values your other traits more than the costs of getting together with some bigger dick guy from her past).
Seriously dude, you're not just being autistic, you're being a huge pussy.
Asher Ross
your probably right desu. it just hurts to know the bigger dick probably felt better. even if she values my other traits more.
Levi Butler
It won't be meh if you've got a good relationship and you put the effort into foreplay, her needs, and aftercare (cuddling, massaging, etc) you fucking twat. Your lack of confidence will hurt you way more than an average dick will. Mental and emotional attraction and fufillment will make people idealize or overlook a lot of average or unimpressive things about their partners.
Be yourself. Do the best you can for her. Don't worry about it.
Matthew Clark
I agree but does that mean she settles for my average unimpressive dick? that's kinda shitty to think about wow
Gavin Anderson
tfw it's the simple fact the bigger dick probably was better inside her than mine. makes me wanna commit lmao
Isaiah Adams
Jfc. No. She gave up that dick, it obviously wasn't that big of a deal to her. Is this your first relationship?
Nathaniel Gray
second actually. and even if she gave it up what if she thinks about it? what if she wants bigger and just settled with me.
Liam Moore
Have some piece in mind
I have an 8 incher and I'm a kissless virigns that is his late 20s and living with my parents. Big dicks are overrated. THey are only great when you have someone to tell you how huge it is. I don't even fap anymore. So my just a useless piece a meat that some girls and gays notice when I wear tight jeans. Seriously, I would trade an average dick for some better looks and height anyday of the week of I could.
Kevin Davis
op here
still feel like shit. I can't shake the feeling of not being able to make her feel like they did. I mean it seems like she enjoys sex but for all i know she liked the big dick better. maybe not the person attached to it but the way it felt in her. I want to die kind of
Caleb Peterson
Same here OP; only I’m a KHV to boot.
Nicholas Wood
KHV?
Cooper Ramirez
Kissless, Hugless Virgin.
Eli Sullivan
damn brother, can I ask why?
Hudson Bailey
Eh, fuck if I know. I don’t even have any friends at this point. I’m utterly alone with my studies, and I feel the constant paranoia is starting to rot my brain. I’m talking to myself, I’m having “evil” thoughts, and I go between extreme self-hatred and extreme outwards hatred. I’m a mess, really. I can mask it well enough for now, so none of it is visible, but...
Joshua Perry
damn dude. I know that pain in a way. focus on your studies and make yourself successful. try to be more social if you aren't. go to a bar, fuck it. meet people. and if you don't just get drunk as fuck walk home and jerk off.
Ethan Gray
Do you still think about the first girl? We're her boobs bigger? Pussy tighter or nicer looking? Bigger ass? Prettier face? Surely she had some trait that is better than your current girl's, but do you fixate on that, or enjoy the girl your with for who she is?
Nobody is perfect. When you love someone, you accept and prefer them in spite of all of that.
And agreed with what an user said earlier, she probably couldn't tell/ care about the difference. It takes far less to fully satisfy a woman, you're just looking to have your insecure ego stroked by knowing you're the biggest she's ever seen. Fix that. Saying you want to die because you don't have a horse dong makes you sound like a pussy.
Samuel Wright
So if she's your second relationship, is she a better pussy than your first one? Or you don't really notice a difference and it's the person who makes the difference?
As a female, really, fuck you man, nobody cares about the size of your dick, if a bigger dick makes me feel better, it's because the man is better, not the dick shape. If we did care about size, we wouldn't be dating any of you, we would be using those dragon dildos and you would just be a wallet. Can't you fucking trust your girlfriend? Why the fuck do you think she wants to dump you or cheat on you with just a fucking penis?
If you're so sure she hates your penis that much, just buy her a dildo.
Jayden Cox
idk, now I feel like an ass hat. it's not about being the biggest it's about pleasing her. which I feel I could do better at if I was bigger but honestly what do I know anymore
Wyatt Kelly
Honestly, a decent girl won't go with a guy just because his meat sword is a little bigger than yours.
I've been with guys with 4'' penis's and the relationship has been fine!
Think wife material my lad.
Kevin Cruz
I can't get drunk at this point. I drink whiskey in the morning, wine with dinner and lunch, and liquor in the evening. And I also find it difficult to masturbate. I feel as if I don't deserve it; I'm garbage, inside and out. I just rub one out every week or so. I've tried meeting new people, during these first 2 years at Uni, but everyone just gravitates towards folks from their home city or whatever, and I'm all alone.
Isaac Sanchez
yeah but we're you sexually satisfied? even given their size?
Liam Reed
well shit, all i can say is focus on creating a good life for yourself. sometimes relationships can be overrated.
Jordan Brown
I guess. But when this mood hits, any kind of motivation is gone. I've failed 7 subjects so far, mostly Math related, and I'm not sure what's gonna happen with Electronics Lab this Semester.
Zachary James
>tfw you're short but have slightly above average dick at 6.5x5.5
If I lost some more weight I might even hit 7.
>I'm 5'5"
Living can be nice Sometimes.
Carson Flores
6.5 length x 5.7 girth checking in.
Think I fall into average aswell. As long as you can make her cum it shouldn't matter much. Idk about you but I'm curved upwards and it's never been an issue making her cum
Grayson Jenkins
Different girl but I've been with two men. Which one satisfied me the most? The smaller one. He knew exactly how to work with my fetishes and make me his slut, while the bigger one just didn't listen to me (ex: "it hurts when you run my clit like that" "no, that's what I've always done with my ex so you should like that").
How did their penis feel like inside me? Like a penis. Past the first two-three inches, you just don't feel it. As long as it's not cold, I don't even feel that much of a difference between a penis and a sex toy.
Zachary Ortiz
what have girls said about your girth? wondering if the claim that .5 inches of girth makes all the difference. I'm only 5" girth and i feel like its meh
Jackson Harris
also what's the easiest way to make her cum from PIV?
Hunter Fisher
5 is fine user. Like
said
It's about learning how to use it. It's not the size of the pepper but how spicy it is.
Learn to use your hands and tongue. Foreplay goes a long way. You make her come close or better yet make her cum without your dick, and she'll be more than exited to take it regardless.
5" girth, I used to have that. My gf liked it just as much.
As for where I got the extra .5", it was a side-effect to some antidepressant I was on. One of the really rare ones, but it worked out in my favor I guess. That or the sex got better and my dick unlocked it's full potential.
Jaxson Brooks
I'll keep all this in mind. still feel inferior but there's nothing I can do so whatever ig
Thomas Flores
You stop that shit. That's what makes your dick look and feel small, because you are tiny. Confidence.
A plumber with a huge wrench won't fix shit if he doesn't know how to use it. Simple that. You just learn how to play with her body like you own it. Like you know just where her buttons are. She will love you for it. Go look at some lesbian porn and she how they fuck without a dick. Then you'll realize that you can add your d to it as a tool.
Foreplay foreplay foreplay. You go out there and toss that hotdog down some hallways.
Hudson Gray
so wait, is my dick actually small?
Eli Davis
Stop acting like a queer. Nobody cares.
Robert Butler
I have held, jacked, put my mouth on or had vaginal sex with 7 guys. Of the 7 only one had what I consider a BIG penis and it scared the hell out of me though he did get most in but I had to keep stopping. This one guy I asked him how big it was and he didn't know just said it was decent.
The other 6 were not big, they were smallish and every one of them offered at some point their size down to the decimal point. All of them said they were over 6, close to 7 and then something about girth but they looked kinda skinny to me. Thing is they all weren't the same size so some or all were lying to me. You guys can talk numbers all you want but the BIG guy just dismissed my inquiry. The others, how silly of them to try and impress me with numbers when I hand and eyes can tell the truth.
Blake Barnes
Bro you're a faggot and should kill yourself, it's not that big of a deal
Kevin Rodriguez
My dick is smaller and skinnier than yours and I'm not a self conscious pussy.
Think about that for a sec and deal with it fag.
Ryan Moore
God damn. You gotta understand that girls don't just hop on my/anyone else's dick just because it's big. There's literally no discernable advantage other not having your dick size neuroses.