ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

I work in a shop and every here and there a girl comes in. Usually she uses the post office but I've served her a couple of times.

Anyway, whenever she comes in she always greets me with the biggest smile and "hiiiii!" ever, as if I'm like some old friend who she hasn't seen in ages. Also I've noticed a few times beforehand, she always looks down and smiles to herself before greeting me.

I don't really understand because I don't really know a thing about her and like I say I haven't encountered her all that many times yet whenever she sees me she greets me like someone she's good friends with or close with or whatever.

Girls, why do you drive so slowly?
And, when behind me, why do you still stop a few inches from my car?

>18
>white male with brown hair
>5'7"
>average looks. not ugly by any means but not a chad either
>extremely antisocial. maybe there's some degree of shyness, but he mostly just does not give a fuck about others and does not have any social hobbies
>constantly jerks off to hentai and furry porn
>likes anime, vidya, listening to music, and shitposting
>studying mechanical engineering for financial reasons, doesn't give a shit about it otherwise
>uses hard drugs
would you date him?

>be me
>20y/o
>in long-distance relationship, 7 months now
>cross-continent, 12+ hours flight between us
>she's obsessed with me, has some trust issues due to all her previous partners being disloyal
>otherwise very loving relationship, she's great
>however, she is muslim and I'm from a culture that is extremely atheist
>would have to convert to marry her (and she's already assuming like that's what's gonna happen)
>other cultural issues exist
>anyway, won't be able to see her for at least another year
>but, right now the relationship is very comfortable to be in: someone to talk to and confide in while I focus on my studies
>still, being 20, can't see myself marrying her due to the issues listed above
>don't want to lead her on but also don't want to break her heart
what do?

write your number down on her receipt famalamam
no

Sounds like you're lucky and can't appreciate it because you are so young

Probably has a boyfriend whether she's into me or not dude. She's way too pretty to be single.

She doesnt exist

Yes, I know I'm super lucky. She's also drop-dead gorgeous and everything.
I just can't help feeling like I'm wasting my youth, while my friends have normal relationships and doing what young men do. Meanwhile, my family strongly disapproves of her background.

The first time I met her was in person, and I visited her twice. We skype regularly.

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Literally the worst case scenario is that she doesn't hit you up.
Nothing can go wrong. That's why number-on-the-bill is such an old trick.

Ive heard girls are insecure, but even if girl is tad bit overweight (but euro standards, and with very good fat distribution, and pear figure) yet her face is naturally cute and she seems nice, ive made post before about girl in question, she talked to me at gym, and while it doesnt mean anything, i doubt girl like that would even bother coming up to me and risk awkwardness.
Im not great looking by any means, i have okay body due lifting but not athletic chad with six pack either.
I cant imagine girl like that not having boyfriend or someone.

And the way she was talking like her soul was singing. Really made me fuzzy inside.
I think im going to ask for her name and if she would like to train togheter sometime

Don't assume she has a boyfriend until you find strong evidence (such as her outright telling you; not just a feeling)

Because they've been lied to about what 8 inches is.

Is it normal for a girl to ask me how my live life is?
Is there something in particular she’s after?

>extremely antisocial
>uses hard drugs

both of these are dealbreakers for any girl worth being with
there's a difference between being introverted and being actively antisocial
if you really don't give a fuck about others, why do you care if a girl would date you or not

Nope.

do you ever get /attracted/ to someone who you weren't initially attracted to? like, sexually?

Gf broke up with me 2 months ago. We remained no-contact for a while, I suffered and have been obsessing over her because the breakup was out of the blue. I wrote her a positive closure-type letter. A few days later she blocked me and our mutual friends on all social media. Seems kind of unhealthy?

I also saw her profile on tinder and I thought "damn, woman, you told me I wasn't making you godlier. How the fuck is tinder gonna make you godlier?"

Wtf is wrong with this chick?

wtf is wrong with you? She's no longer your gf, stop giving a shit about her

It's normal, I ask that my male friends with no romantic purposes

Yes

>It's normal, I ask that my male friends with no romantic purposes
So it's not a signal?
Why would you ask us?

because of the way it took me by surprise and she was ambiguous about reconnecting it fucked with my head.

Any tips to move on? It's been two months and I definitely feel better now, been working out and meditating. What else can I do?

>Why would you ask us?
Because I care... I ask the same question my female friends and family members, I'm just curious what's going on in their lives. Not everything is a romantic signal

Girls, do you care about men looking at you in the gym? There's these girls that keep stretching in the gym and one in particular was literally face down ass up in front of me. I could tell what the exact shape of her ass looked like bent over. That had never happened before and I was completely thrown off by it.

No man asks a woman about her sex life unless they've had sex.
How is what you're saying appropriate?

How many messages do you get on dating websites?

>sex life
What?

>22 y/o kissless virgin

I'm pretty shit in the early stages of being social with people, like starting conversations/approaching women.

Any suggestions?

Yeah, happened a few times. Felt weird when it happened with my best friend

Girls, do I like desperate if my online dating profile has no preferences for potential women? Stuff like religion, ethnicity, hair/eye color etc. I just quite seriously have no preference over.

what do any of think when you stare at someone? People have said I was handsome, but the way people look at me seems like I'm a weird or something..

I think a girl is into me and I don't know how to handle this situation. We share similar interests and I think she's really cute. She always initiates conversation. I want to initiate too and show I'm interested in her but every conversation opener feels forced.
It's making me extremely anxious to think I'm missing the train.

When a girl asks me why I got a haircut, what I should reply?
a) To change a little.
b) Because you told me to.
c) Because girls don't like guys with long hair.
Something else?

Who asks WHY you got a haircut?
That implies they liked your hair before.

Do you have any self-awareness?

if your gut response isnt "because i wanted to" then there is no hope for you

How likely is it for girls to cuck their bfs? Have you or your friends done it and kept it secret? Bfs forever none the wiser?

This is the thing that puts the fear of god in me and puts me off dating. So many fucking threads and general posts here about cucking and how easy it is for women to be "swayed". I don't know how many are true and how many are bitter incels just shitposting. I don't know if I have the capacity to play all these fucking mind games

Really? Because most the threads I saw on here yesterday were about male anons cheating on their loyal girlfriends.

Hmmmm

This girl did. But she told me I'd look better with short hair.

Nope.

._.

I meant Jow Forums in general when I said here. It's so hard to separate the truth from shitposting.

I've never done it, and neither have any of my friends. One friend did start talking to a guy from work, but that was at the tail end of their relationship and she never did anything with this guy other than talk while she was with her ex. There's more to the story too

Did she hook up with him after the relationship ended? Did she know she was going to finish her bf while talking to this guy?

I've read about women having a "backup" ready to go to as soon as they know a relationship is going to end. How true is that?

People dont go to the internet to brag off about how they are monogamous with their fat wife for 10+ years (because nobody else would fuck her anyway...), but literally everybody goes and complains about their problems online, offline, everywhere. Dont fell for echo chambers and google real stats. Like divorce statistics separated by ages of the couple at the day of marriage or race.

Tldr stop falling for
lucidphilosophy.com/15-hasty-generalization/
lucidphilosophy.com/7-cherry-picking/
and use REAL statistics. Google can help. Literally anything any user tells you here about (not) cheating is useless in grand scheme of things. Not enough information to make any conclusions and then when you date real person, any statistic is useless since they are ONE.

>what are you doing on weekend?
>wanna hang out with me?
>what is your number?

>drugs
Kek.
>antisocial
How could anybody date you if you never leave your basement and are constantly high?

Sounds like you two should move together as an experiment before giving up. Just make sure both of you will have means to live separately if it wont work out.

What about this? "I got a haircut to look better for you!

How should I go about approaching a girl on campus without seeming like a creep? There's this girl that I often see in the cafeteria at my college sitting alone and I've thought about trying to talk to her, but I have no clue what I'd say or how I'd even start a conversation.

Second, unrelated question: There's this really cute girl who works at the Chick-Fil-A I go to often. I know employee's are supposed to be really kind there, but it seems a lot more genuine from her. She's done things like ask me if I want a refill before I leave after she gives me my food, and addressing me by name when telling me goodbye. She also smiles at me whenever I happen to look at her while I'm waiting for my food, but that's probably just so things aren't awkward. Anyways, think there's any chance she might be into me? But regardless of that, wouldn't it be rude to try to ask someone out while they're working? It seems like a super shitty thing to put someone on the spot like that while they're trying to do their job, especially when it's a job that requires them to be polite.

>Can I sit here?

Im 16 and very socially awkward when it comes to talking to girls, I dont know how to approach them and start a conversation, any tips?

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How to avoid the complete silence after that.

Really good point. Cherry Picking made me think of my friends relationships. 4 of them are in fairly solid relationships and I can't imagine any of their gfs cheating. I know there's guys out there who never thought their gf would cheat but still.

Comparatively, my best friend has cheated on all 3 of his girlfriends. But I think there's a deeper rooted reason rather than "the rush", but I'd rather not get into that. It feels wrong to talk about because it's pretty heavy.

On top of that, there was a girl I crushed hard, on and off for a few years. She played me like a damn fiddle but that's not the story. She had a serious bf for years. School sweethearts, basically. From 13-18. And then one day I learned she cheated on him during a drunken night out with one of her male friends. It completely shattered my perception of her and it even hurt me. Can't even imagine what it was like for her bf when he found out. I guess it's all down to the person and you can't ever truly know and that's what fucks me up the most.

yo jk im actually 18.

>Did she hook up with him after the relationship ended?
Yes, but she wanted a relationship, while he only wanted FWB. He led her on for like, a year.

>Did she know she was going to finish her bf while talking to this guy?
I wouldn't say so. Her boyfriend was psychologically abusive and basically wore down her self esteem to the point where she didn't think any other guy would be interested in her so she was better off with him than alone. The new guy made her realise it was bullshit.

>How true is that?
I'm sure it's true in some cases. But I wouldn't think that in most cases where it is true, that the new guy is the reason for the break up.

What colour should I paint my nails?
>inb4 don't paint them, nail polish is for whores

Girls: You go into a random Jow Forums thread and realize anons have posted your picture in an x-ray thread.

Photoshoppers are taking turns attempting to make your top see-through. One user manages to succeed and reveal your bra. Moments later, another shopper manages to x-ray your bra and show your boobies.

What would your reaction be?

"Jesus Christ, what pathetic, desperate losers"

You wouldn't be angry or upset?

I'm a man, but you shouldn't care. It's literally a PHOTOSHOPPER trying to see your boobies. See as a compliment, somehow. They find you hot and you haven't done any immoral thing, if you care about it.

Because it's just photoshop, not an actual nude?

>Because it's just photoshop, not an actual nude?
But it would be an actual nude because it's a legit x-ray exposing your breasts.

>good looking
>smart
>rich I guess

>depressive
>like talking about how I feel and how miserable I am about life

I'm a man. The fact I talk about life like a cryin' baby is that disgusting towards women?

They can do it to anyone. Every woman has boobies, every man has a dick. Not something to be ashamed, at all. Maybe feel angry about the exposure, but it's not even an actual exposure.
Just some kids trying to get some fun.

So ever since last Monday, this girl I've been seeing for a few months has stopped texting me.
We talked for a bit this past Friday, where she told me she's keeping away from her phone cuz her folks say she can't focus on tasks she needs to get done and is easily distracted by texting friends. Tell her that's ok and that we'll talk whenever she's able to.

At this point, should I just leave it alone and let her text? Obviously if she never does it means it's over. But I don't want to text her if she's busy with school and family shit.

Do you actually think those pics are of the woman's tits?

>but it's not even an actual exposure
>Do you actually think those pics are of the woman's tits?

Yes it is. There are color options in photoshop that allow you to make articles of clothing very see-through.

I don't think you guys understand this at all. So yes, it actually is your titties being shown.

Would you still feel the same, then?

if she likes you, she'll make time when she has her phone back. let her take the lead and you'll feel so much better than if you were dogging her

You're an actual retard if you think those photos show the woman's real tits.

I don't know if this particular case it was, or not, your actual boobies. I know you can photoshop such features.
Anyways, come on.
The biggest "problem" about someone seeing your titties is the fact you exposed it. Since you did not expose it, there's no social pressure over it.
Since shame is strongly associated with society puttin' pressure over you, no problem for ya. Relax.

Dude, it's actual possible. As I said, I dunno this particular case.
A few years ago we used to X-Ray some pictures back in my country's chan. So... I was part of it, I know you can make it.

So you're telling me that you actually think that photoshop can 'remove' any number of layers of my clothing, including a bra that has padding, to show my actual tits?

>You're an actual retard if you think those photos show the woman's real tits.
They do and it's easily done with color and shading adjustments.

>The biggest "problem" about someone seeing your titties is the fact you exposed it. Since you did not expose it, there's no social pressure over it.
>Since shame is strongly associated with society puttin' pressure over you, no problem for ya. Relax.
Okay, that's fair. But are you an actual female? Or just a male assuming this shouldn't be a real concern for the opposite gender?

>They do and it's easily done with color and shading adjustments.
See

Nope. It won't remove any layer of your clothing, but it will be able to represent how your boobies actually look. I mean, the difference of pixels can represent some sort of "waves" and PS can quite easily "clear" that.
You see, it's not you actual boob a 100%, BUT it's a representation of how it would look.
Some pictures, depending on quality, clothing and light, can't reproduce, of course. But it's fairly possible a fair amount of times.
Got it?

I'm a dude, as I said. Relaaaaax.
I know it may make you mad and I understand it bothers, but they are the losers who want to know how your boobies look.

for girls
gonna make this as short as possible

>girl and i finally meet after 10 years of being online friends
>date goes great, we get physical and open up to eachother
>her ex beat, cheated etc.
>"you gonna call me tomorrow right? promise?" at the end of the date
>we text and call eachother for the next few days. long great convos
>now shes suddenly ghosting me

wth happened? I can usually tell when someone loses interest because you can tell in the conversations, but i never got that vibe from how things were going between us.

Not the user you're arguing with, but I'm sorry guys, you're both wrong. I've worked Photoshop for nearly a decade and it actually IS the real exposed nipples being shown. Not a mere replicate.

Oh, RIP

>if your gut response isnt "because i wanted to" then there is no hope for you
This. Been there, done that

is 7inch peepee small?

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Dude, I'm one of the guys. I've also worked with photoshop.
We're having a meaning problem, only. It's how the nipple is, but it's not the image of the nipple itself.
I get what you mean and I know you're a 100% right. But, as I said, it's not an actual picture of her nipple, just how it looks... So, no problem for her.

>So you're telling me that you actually think that photoshop can 'remove' any number of layers of my clothing, including a bra that has padding, to show my actual tits?
Positive they can, but okay for the sake of the argument, even if you're right, let's pretend some anons actually did manage to show off your hooters through your padded bra.

Would you get offended, then?

ignore peepee cuck posters

How do i get a mommy gf?

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>Dude
>I'm a dude
>Dude

Doood!

for guys:
>be gril
>starting playing on a vanilla wow server
>basically everyone i talk to seems to think vanilla wow is basically tinder
>shit always gets super uncomfortable
>100x worse than playing wow back in the day

I want to know why this is happening. I just feel like there must be something going on that I don't know

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ignore this tiny peepee man

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Some shoppers are so good with x-ray they can literally reveal a girl's nipple rings she's wearing. It's a real thing, user.

Girls: What kind of underpants are you wearing on this Monday evening?

I know. For God's sake.
Try getting what I mean. IT IS THE IMAGE OF HER NIPPLE, BUT IT IS NOT AN ACTUAL PICTURE OF IT.
SHE TOOK THE PIC WITH CLOTHES ON.

Dude, chill. Dude, I'm a photoshop dude, too, dude. And like, I know it can be done, dude. But don't get your dude shorts in a twist, dude.

i agree with this guy, ya'll dumb brw

White with yellow ducks. Too nerdy?

My sides.

Same fag. He even started his sentence with a lower case letter, thinking that would disguise his obvious same fagging.

Now go ahead, user. Pull out your MS paint and edit a screenshot of both posts, removing the (You) to prove how you weren't same fagging!

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Even this guy's fucking memes have dude written in them.

Is that literally the only noun for the male gender you know?

>White with yellow ducks. Too nerdy?
Nah, it's cute. I like a girl who has a fun side to her, and ducks on panties suggest just that.

Whoa, don't have a heart attack, "dude."