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I make these thread rarely because you people are a mess and usually ask the same question over and over, but I feel like helping my fellow Anons right now.

I will answer to all serious question that have not already been answer.

I love you Anons, I hope to shed light on what cloud your happiness.

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>have huge crush on guy, we’ve met up twice and slept together, realised we both have similar kinks etc
>last night we were messaging, things got ‘heated’, we swapped pics, talked about fapping
>afterwards I mention I’m in the mood for a cuddle, trying to be qt
>tells me to cuddle my cat. Lol wtf?
>get pissed with him because he literally could have just said “yeah would be nice” rather than arguing but about it for half a day

>tonight, we’re talking, things get heated again. Make a comment like “hehe but my vagina is delicate”
>it wasn’t when I was pounding it, it can take a beating.
>”um, you hardly slipped straight in user, you actually made me ache for days”
>you took it well, next time I’ll pump you harder
>get upset. My vagina is not a piece of meat. Most roastie thing to say but it really isn’t. I have always been really reserved until him

He told me I’m too sensitive and that he isn’t going to walk on eggshells when he talks to me I case he upsets me. I say I just want him to be a little nicer and consider that I am shy about these things. I feel like he thinks of me as some empty head porn star getting gangbanged.. emotionless flesh.

Am I overreacting and being too sensitive?

You have difficulties to explicitly say what you feel and get understood.

You're trying to create a specific emotion in someone that you barely know and get frustrated when it doesn't work. Just like you can't force an opinion, you can't force an emotion also.

You're delving into a dom/sub relationship and the guy is making sure that he's going to have it his way, it's part of the game. He clearly lack tack and empathy.

Are you overreacting? Up to you. He doesn't seems to gives much of a fuck about your behavior and he's probably thinking how he's going to make you behave the next time you see each other.

>You're delving into a dom/sub relationship and the guy is making sure that he's going to have it his way, it's part of the game.
I’m aware of all of this, I think he dislikes that I am challenging him in a sense. He knows I will completely and utterly devote myself during “play time” but I have had bad experiences with being sexually open with guys and having poor aftercare. He knows an actual cuddle after rough sex means a lot to me. This is why, when he made it clear he wouldn’t entertain the idea I got upset.

Just because I am submissive, doesn’t mean I can’t question the quality of his dominance?

>You're trying to create a specific emotion in someone that you barely know and get frustrated when it doesn't work. Just like you can't force an opinion, you can't force an emotion also.
I’m not trying to make him fall for me. I actually fell pretty hard for him but the issues have made me withdraw a lot. He is a psychologist and we have spoken a lot about my past and what I want from potentially a D/S relationship. He said it’s something he’d be interested in because he has “commitment issues” as he overanalyses constantly.

I’m also aware he is more intelligent than me, when he says I’m overreacting it makes me question wether or not I am. Should I be upset? He claims to be an experienced Dom but he can’t seem to negate or empathise with sub drops.

I am not happy with my life, and in fact have no happiness in my life currently. I scheduled a therapy appointment through my uni, but as the semester is nearly over I doubt there will be many sessions. What should I say to get the most out of a session but not compromise myself?
>I can't talk to people through a mixture of self-loathing and apathy, plus no conversation skills
>no friends or motivation to do anything besides half-heartedly trying to stem inevitable poverty
>never have been attractive/attracted to anyone; intense repression of sexuality
>lack of any type of emotional disclosure do to distant parents; I feel very uncomfortable speaking about myself or emotions

>He knows an actual cuddle after rough sex means a lot to me.
If he know how much you value it, he'll do it. I mean if he can't take care of your pleasure, and cuddling is part of it, he isn't a really good dom (in my opinion).

>Just because I am submissive, doesn’t mean I can’t question the quality of his dominance?
Of course you should always strive for the most comfortable relationship possible, I was just saying so that you understand his mindset better. Doms can be really self-centered.

I mean if you don't want a serious relationship out of this, focus on your sexual pleasure, period. Just make sure he cuddle you and don't hurt you too much and you'll be good. Don't overthink things, always make sure you're comfortable in his company, don't let yourself fall into the trap that you're more stupid than him therefore he know better what is good for you. YOU know what's good for you. You seems smart but lack a little maturity and seems a little insecure too, but you're good user, try to keep this as simple as possible.

>Dom but he can’t seem to negate or empathise with sub drops.
He don't necessary have to.

>I can't talk to people through a mixture of self-loathing and apathy, plus no conversation skills
You don't have to force yourself to speak to people if you don't want to. This is important. Understand what you seek from your friendship, think about it, write about it, even visualize it. What is your interest user? Do you have any? If not, what would you want to learn? Find yourself activities where you can either apply or share what you've learn with people that share your interest and voilà.
>no friends or motivation to do anything besides half-heartedly trying to stem inevitable poverty
Focus on yourselves and creating a comfortable situation free of debt for you, it's an important goal and you shouldn't look down on it. Your motivation comes with your goals, your goals give your purpose and your purpose will give you the motivation you seek to refrain from depression, which is a lack of movement (toward your goal and purpose).

>I don't have any purpose
Find yourself one, easiest one would be to focus on healing the Earth, which is what humanity needs at the moment.
>never have been attractive/attracted to anyone; intense repression of sexuality
Stop masturbating and use this energy to canalize it into art, any form. This will re-balance your hormones will allow you to have more fluid conversation.
>lack of any type of emotional disclosure do to distant parents; I feel very uncomfortable speaking about myself or emotions
Try to find yourself nice discords where you will be able to. I have to admit that it's never easy to talk about your vulnerability. You always have to let yourself fall when you do so, which create a vertigo which can be both pleasurable or painful.

I feel like I've taken a step forwards, and a step back. I don't have any kind of negative reaction after self harming because I started thinking of it as "something I want to do, of my own accord" instead of "something I do out of desperation when I feel shitty". Is it better to perceive self harm as something I'm going to do, so just do it when you want, or as something to be avoided at all costs? This seems like a better way to go, but what are your thoughts? Should I even bother being concerned with something like this, or should I just lump it with my hobbies as something I enjoy?

>self harming because I started thinking of it as "something I want to do
You shouldn't alienate into finding way to rationalize or justify harming yourself. Try to canalize your negative thoughts into poetry, drawing, singing, dancing, sculpting, sports and art as a whole. Take control back of your own mind and every times you hear yourself insulting yourself or self-loathing in general, take a step back, be a witness of yourself, understand the nature of your thoughts and put positive ones instead.

Just like you can insult yourself, you can also encourage yourself. Even if the words seems forced, keep sending love toward yourself and at one point you won't fill the need to harm yourself.

Use this inner dark fire to better end than harming yourself.

I've become very paranoid over the last few months, and I've started to hear voices, like, small whispers at the back of my head with mixed opinions that kind of tickle. I had a doctor's visit recently, and she asked if I had voices like that, I said no because I don't want to be locked up and branded a lunatic. Although I don't have much confidence for the future as it is, I don't want to live branded as a lunatic. No one will get close to me, and I'm really worried my family won't know what to do and just, leave me to die or something. I don't know. I've had a less than nice day. I don't really need the advice, I know what the right thing to do is. I just need someone to talk to.

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This is a server I just created, you said that you wanted to talk, well I'm there.

My boyfriend has ADD, and it's worrying me. Right now, he lives at home. He's in grad school, and his mom still manages his schoolwork. For example, he's not allowed to go out and skate unless he shows her his finished paper.

He won't take medication since he's had a bad experience with it. So, he can barely focus. He can't pay attention to a movie he's not 100% interested in. If I send him even a paragraph to read, he won't do it. I've offered to make him a planner etc. before but he refuses.

I'm worried that
1.) When we live together, I'll become his new mother.
2.) Our kids will be like this too.

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Not OP but no one is going to lock you up unless you're going to kill yourself/someone else. Even if the voices are telling you violent things, you'll still be free. And no one has to know you're having these problems but your doctor, who legally can't tell anyone.

You have schizophrenia. You NEED to get it treated before it becomes terrible, or you'll become a walking shell of a man. Schizo is one of the rare mental illnesses that is real hardcore shit & can't be fixed by exercise or healthy eating.

He need support to find his purpose on this Earth, without one, he will have trouble to find motivation.

There is good chance that both of your worries become true my friend. Know that you cannot help someone who isn't helping himself. This is painful to realize, but it doesn't make it any less true.

GF broke up with me two weeks ago. It was kind of expected, no big shock about this. But the idea that she's seeing other guys/having sex with them still tortures me. I can think about staying away from her and living my own life, I don't stalk her, but a friend told me she was seeing other people. Imagining she's opening her body to other guys, guys that she'd totally dump in the past in order to choose me, is completely horrible. And this thought has existed in my mind for a while. What do?

I have been going through the same thing my friend and let me tell you something, be at peace with the fact that you will never stop loving her. Be happy that it happened and work on yourself and strive to be as happy as you can be to never look back on this situation. This is the best thing that you can do to yourself to go through this. The thoughts might take time to go away, but instead of damning this situation, use it. It's when you're at your most dark and sad that you're the most creative, use those torturing thoughts to make nice art. Let the pain flow.

I recommend looking up the YouTube channel "How to ADHD" and watching vids about ADHD and relationships. It helped me understand more of what I was getting into with my ADHD relationship.

I only seem to have empathy or love for people if they are physically with me. It's normally not a problem, but I'm in a relationship for the first time and while I feel warm and fuzzy while I'm with my boyfriend I feel like I don't care about them when they're not around, and it messes with my head because it feels like I'm in a relationship I shouldn't be. Is this normal at all? How do I deal with it?

Nobody is normal darling so don't even bother with that.

I have the feeling that your mind weights a fucking ton. You know how to deal with yourself user, if you don't, breath.

You know yourself, but you're also overthinking. Take the time to visualize the persons that you love, if you can't do so, maybe it's because you don't. Do not force yourself to feel some type of way simply because you think you should. Your heart will always know what it want user, just let yourself tune in.

>FEEL THEN THINK
important mantra.

Seconded. I have ADHD. There's no damage or real problem, the brains just super selective. Because it's not a disability and everything's working fine, it's pretty manipulable.

20 minutes of exercise has the same effect as Adderall for example. Need to focus, pump some endorphins sonthe brain stops being stimulant hungry.


But the trick is op, he has got to want to help himself. If he is closed down to this, you will be his new mother.

Refusing an agenda/schedule is a bad, bad sign. That's our goddamn lifeforce.

bump I'm still there

Please reply quick lads
I've signed up to the military. I want this. Fuck I want this. My pop was in. Now I want to do it too

The problem is that they aren't fucking responding to my emails.
Three weeks ago I asked "Hey what's up on my application"
Yesterday I tried phoning but I got a busy signal after an hour of waiting.
What do I do?
What the fuck do I do?

Take a bus to the headquarters? Write another email? Phone again?

Go drink some water and relax.

My girlfriend broke up with me after three years. She still wants me in her life but doesn't know if she wants to be with me. Right now she's going through shit and I'm pretty sure she needs time to just be a pal right now, but I'm worried if I act like just a pal she won't see me as more than a pal when she's done going through shit. Should I be like a flirty pal or be a pal and at times tell her how much I love and miss her? Tough stuff

That's a more insightful response than I expected.
I am drunk. I DO need water.
I will drink a half litre.
I will relax.
I will go to bed.

But tomorrow, I will wake up without an answer.

I appreciate trying to calm me down, but I want more than feelings.I want for fuck's sake a god damned governmental official to say "Welcome to the Armed Force"

The fact that you intuited that I was drunk from that just one post shows that you were are a smart person. Keep patrolling this thread. You will help people will complicated problems. I have a very simple one.

How do I find something I genuinely care about? 3rd year of uni but I don't give a shit about anything anyone does and I don't bother making friends since I talk to people from high school still. No legitimate connection to anyone from uni besides studying together and I don't care enough to change it, and I don't care enough to get a job because I'm scared of locking myself down.

Uni marks are okay since I go to all lectures/tutorials but every single submissible item is delayed until a day or two before due so it's never my best work by a long shot and I'm always incredibly stressed/guilty for not having my shit together

I think my problem is that I avoid stuff in general but I have literally no idea where to start here. What do I do? I'm not suicidal by any means since I can see myself as more successful and that keeps me going, but at the same time I'm not there yet and it really fucks with me

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I feel like she's trying to use you as an emotional tampon while dealing with her bullshit, but she know that you will not be part of her life once this will be over. Let her deal with her things alone, let yourself heal from this, it was her decision to letting you go, you should remind it to her. Don't act you'll be waiting for her or she'll take you for granted and won't give you the love you deserve. You seem a really caring person, but don't let it destroy you.

This maybe not the advice that you wanted, but this is how I feel regarding your situation.

I feel like you'll have fun figuring it out. Begin by your physical health, physical exercise, nutrition, stretching, breathing.

Then fix yourself goal aligned with your study motivated by a purpose that is your own. Your purpose should be based of how you see the world and want the world to be. Model the perfect utopia in your head and do small action to go toward that utopia.

Regarding females, they'll come your way if you have something going on with yourself, then you won't even stress about what to say what to do, because you will already be in movement, then she'll be the one that need to catch on with you.

I love you user.

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What does it mean when you interview horribly and they hire you anyway?

He doesn't understand vaginas. Get you a man who knows you lick it before you stick it.

>you're black and your interviewer had nose rings and purple hair
>the business is failing
>the interviewer was impressed by your CV and raw talent
>you applied for a warehouse or graveyard shift
Pick any of these

I hate you.
I hate everything
I am so fucking antsy about my future.
Thank you for at least giving me (you)s

One day I will come back and I will be wearing a fucking uniform. And I will be happy

So instead of grasping your own destiny you just throw yourself into the army in the hope that someone will find a use for you?

What are some common local activities that I can go meet women at?

I gone to some community dances and found those fun but sadly they are not all that common around this state.

Aim to meet people in general and make friends - it's usually a friend of a friend thing

>army
But no, this is my destiny. I've been avoiding it for so long. I grew up military
My pop and my grandpop before me.
I thought I was hot shit avoiding it. But I was dumb.

I want a uniform. I want to salute. I want someone to tell me what the fuck to do.
I will be an officer. I have a uni degree.
I will have some fucking butter ass bars

Dances are good
Try some clubs?
Depends on the size o your city.
Same with any dating, I spose

Why do you want those thing?

Northern Utah is where I live. They have country dancing at this one place a bit frequently. Tried going to it and honestly it was not all that great.

So I am looking for other activities to fill the gaps until the dances I want to go to show up.

Tinder

my best friend fell for the tranny meme. I'm worried he's going to destroy his mental health and his life and our relationship. No idea what I can do about it and just feel equal parts anger and despair. He has already changed a lot and i don't want to lose my best friend. fuck.

I'm going to be straight with you
Because people have always told me I was going to be someone.
I graduated in my highschool second in my class. My best friend was valedictorian. I actually had to give my permission to grant him that.
Everyone always said I was going to be something special.

I want to be someone to be respected. I want my mom to be happy about my life. I want my grandmum to be happy. She's fucking 90 this year.
I want to be what everyone thought I was going to be. Someone special.

I want to wear a fucking special uniform with shiny buttons and belt.
I want my mum to cry and think how right she was to expect good things of me. I want my grandmum to be happy too. I want my uncles to think "Yeah, I always knew that kid would do something".

I will be something. The second they fucking let me into BCT and OCS. God DAMN them

Someone analyze this and tell me if I'm bitch-made. I live in a dorm on campus and I just walked in the front way after getting some pizza. At the beginning of the semester it was required that any time you came in you showed your student ID so they knew you lived there. That quit after like week two, when the people at the desk learned who lived there and who didn't.

Like a week ago there was a girl who was asked to show her ID after walking out and right back in. The girl at the desk saw her walk out but still asked to see her ID. She was kind of rude about it.

So when me and the girl got in the elevator to go upstairs I was like "That's so dumb when they do that. They know you live here." or something along those lines.

Well, lo and behold, as I walk in with my pizza this same girl who worked the desk that day asks to see my ID. So I pull it out (kind of weird but whatever) and she makes the comment "I know you live here, but I heard you complain about showing your ID." I didn't even remember it so I said, "What? When?" and she explains the elevator thing. I was kind of like "Oh, well, I mean, you do know we live here." and she explains she didn't know the other girl lived here and that it's for our safety or whatever.

I said, and I think my voice might have been shaking a little because I hate being confronted, "well, I mean you know that I live here. You just said that." and basically says she wanted to make a point. So I just went "Ok, fair enough." and went upstairs. I'm sure she and the guy she was talking to laughed at me after I left.

I hate when people try to push me around like this. If I'm by myself and off my guard I don't know how to react, and so I come off a puss.

Oh, and then she said, "Yes, it is." after I said fair enough.

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Is it too late for this?

Girlfriend of almost two years/best friend of 2.5 years broke up with me on Sunday. No argument or anything, she wants to be independent and live life on her own. I pressed her into telling me if she wanted to sleep around, if that was the case I would tell her see you around, we had a good run, but no. She wants to be free of any time commitment, any groups, any schedules. We were fairly low-maintenance before and I knew she was the independent type, and she had threatened the breakup a few times but eventually came around to realizing it wasn't worth it. She isn't even sure what she wants.

I asked her if we were worth fighting for like she had said before, if I was worth it to her. She couldn't say yes but repeated that she is in love with me and wished she felt differently. She said herself that she isn't sure what she wants, which makes it harder to accept that I lost my closest friend because they were unsure. I got emotional and told her that if this is how she wants to live her life then that's her choice. I boxed up every single memory that was tied to her and gave it to her. She told me we would talk later when we clear our heads and left me in tears.

She wouldn't take the most sentimental things like pictures from our senior prom a few years ago and my favorite clothes she got me as gifts. I wrote a letter saying she is now living a life without me, I am a fading memory and a husk. I asked her not to ask how I am if we ever cross paths again, because I will never really be the same. I've ended relationships before but this is different as we were friends and connected emotionally. I'm pretty much at the end of the road right now and don't know what to do. I have a counselling appointment tomorrow. I don't know how far I'll go with it but I might be admitted to hospital.

Try to be a little more self assured user, you shouldn't care so much about what other people think of you.

Americans with million dollar trust funds shouldn't complain about anything

I'm not sure what kind of analysis you need. She was being a cunt and you were a little bitch. Your comment about her just trying to make a point was fair or she wouldn't have agreed. Her reason for asking to see the other girl's ID was fair and you probably should have suspected something of the like in the first place.

paying my way through a crap college, senpai.

You may lose him, not to be mean. Taking hormones changes will fuck up your brain and your personality. The worse change are not the physical one but the mental one. There was a study showing that the majority of the people that undergo a change of sex either did the opposite operation afterward or killed themselves.

At the same time user, you can't force him to change himself, but you should advice him to love his body for what it is.

Why the fuck you're living in a "Papa is paying for the door man" dorm then?

what are you talking about? weird expression
it's a quiet dorm and it's relatively cheap. There's just a card you swipe to get in and some people who work the front desk.

let it go.

In my state, only Richy Rich trust fund babies have people actually check cards and shit at the front door.
Who the fuck cares?
You're an adult. You paid to rent this room.

Do they call you "Sir" and bow? Do you have room service?
The only "guard" that was on my front door was a fucking key

What are you so mad about? This is a thread aimed at helping people, behave and get beheaded.

I'm mad because people who don't get sprinkles are on their free icecream are acting pissy and like the world is ending.
I'm trying to introduce relativity.

The world sucks more than most of you fags know. But we all get by. We all get better.

Thanks, sarge

Pls help me over analyse my situation.

>know girl for long time
>worked together for several years
>she was super shy but did ask me out on a date once which went awkwardly and we never did it again
>both quit that job at around the same time and go our separate ways
>have probably only said a handful of sentences to each other per year in the several years, all of it on IG/FB
>fast forward to 2 weekends ago
>post to my instameme story
>she replies to it, which has never happened before
>talk a bit that night
>conversation stretches out into the working week
>we're replying kind of far apart
>she starts replying further apart
>but always with full responses and asking questions
>can't tell if she's trying to get rid of me or what since it was going pretty well, we had quickly established some common ground and there were bantz
>she messages me while I'm doing something else, reply a couple of hours later, takes her 2 days to respond
>too much self-respect to overcome the sinking feeling that she was too nice to leave me on read so I don't reply even though her message was kind of long and had plenty of meat for more conversation topics

I have had a low-key thing for this girl for as long as I've known her, mostly because she's qt obviously since we don't speak except sporadically, and this has only made me more confused as to where we stand. I've seen the kinds of seedy dudes who drool over her every picture and I absolutely refuse to be one of those people. I have no idea if she has left the door open for me to come back some time in the near future and start another conversation or not and it's annoying the fuck out of me. wd?

>The world sucks more than most of you fags know
OH PLEASE ASCENDED MASTER, TEACH ME OF THE GREAT SUFFERING THAT IS THE WORLD.

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She's moved on. Get over it.
Just because she's nice to you doesn't mean she's into you again.

Forget her. Find someone else. That's what you came here to hear, right?

Let your heart speak so that you can hear hers.

My intuition tells me she's into you.

I unironically think I know more than you.

Look, mate, once you pass 30, then you talk to me again. In the mean time, go do your maths homework or Islam studies or whatever fucking teens do now

I run semi-professionally and basically ran myself out until I collapsed while I thought about letting it go. I feel totally devoid of emotion. I already have a few potential rebound girls trying to talk to me but I can't do it because I know the friendship connection isn't there. I was there while she had depression, OCD, anxiety disorders. We both come from screw up families and have shared secrets that I swore I would never tell. Letting it go is probably not going to ever happen, as this is someone who I turned into an adult alongside. I could drink to forget and force myself to sleep around but it would only bury it beneath the surface.

I saw her today and walked back to my dorm room and cried. Wrote a short letter about day one alone. Not sure if it will ever get delivered to her, I am at a crossroads in my life.

>That's what you came here to hear, right?
Yes and no, I'm just a thinker so compulsively over-thinking shit is my (least) favourite hobby!

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>I've figured how life work
>I'm 30 years old I know my shit
hahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha

>>/pol
Off to your den la creatura.

This is the type of post I feel embarrassed about making when I was a kid.

I used to be like you "Heh, I just over think-things. I'm an intellectual. That's what I do :^)"
Fuck off. Move on.
Decide something and stand by it.
To be indecisive is to die.

She's not into you. Fuck off and move on. Maybe she's into you after all? Doesn't matter. She failed to show it. Fuck off. Move on.

Life is too short to be hung up about anything.
And you keep seeing the same people over and over again.
You think that you'll never see somone like her again. You'll see 10 more of her before you're 40. Everyone fits a type. Even you. Even her.

I take your point but I would like to defend myself by saying that my thinker comment was sarcasm.

I suppose my real issue here is that it feels so unclear when normally I've got a decent read on people. This girl is approaching 4channer stereotype levels of antisocial in her real life so that doesn't help. I will just move on though because I strongly suspect we'd be a crap match anyway.

What do you have to lose?
Tears when you jack off to Jap cartoons later?
Just do it and if it doesn't work, then you have lost nothing.

If you have a chance. Fucking take it. Number one regret right there

>fuck off move on
>do it take it

Mighty conflicting advice.

It means don't worry. Till the end of your days

>every time you post this online someone goes and rewatches the lion king

Honestly, this girl is probably doing you a favor pulling this now. Imagine if she decided to wait ten years before admitting she doesn't want the relationship. And I know she never said that, and maybe she even believes that's not the way it is. But it seems inconceivable that she would break up for that reason if she truly valued being with you. Consider yourself lucky that it didn't go any further.

Last summer of college before final year, not doing an internship. What kind of job should I get? Is it weird to not have an internship?

It was inevitable, don't get me wrong. What hurts is that she wasn't willing to try fix it, just accept her feelings as is and I am forced to live with them. She doesn't want a relationship with anything (me, anyone else, schedules, commitments, etc) but still is obviously tied to schedules, groups, classes and more. I think she needs to get help with is the only thing that makes some sense right now. Unfortunately that's not how she framed it and I don't think she will get help, leaving me as I am.

I have a deviated septum and my face looks really bad and ugly from a rightward facing angle but ok from the left and front. I'm seeing the specialist in 2 weeks and hope to have it corrected in mid may but I can't stop obsessing about how it looks now. Compounding on to this, I have AGP and want to be the gf rather than get a gf. I think about taking titty skittles sometimes but I definitely can't when my nose looks all hideous but I worry about masculinizing in the next 2 months. I dunno, the life of y mind is a complete mess, any general advice for either or both issues?

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Therapy.

This might seem weird but I'm honestly worried about being looked down upon as hideous and unpassable if I go in with my broken nose. I'd rather wait until I get it corrected in mid may I know that sounds crazy. It's hard to explain but from the left angle I'm like a 6.5/10 but from the right I'm like a 2.5/10. My nose is very badly deviated so it looks weird facing one way

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Medical professionals do not give a shit. It will also provide important context to your therapist about your dilemma.

>Medical professionals do not give a shit. It will also provide important context to your therapist about your dilemma.
I know, it's just personal weakness. I'm scared to see a therapist even though it's free for me and I probably should. Also as an agp I want to make sure my nose thing works out before taking pills. I dunno I probably should go to therapy first

Sounds like you might have a chance. Shy people don't tend to take the initiative without a strong reason.

I'm a slow learner, extremely asocial, delusinal and generally a sperg. And it may be bc of a damager brain, retatdation or autism idk. What do? Where do I get myself checked etc. with as few people as possible finding out?

Your GP. You go to your GP and you explain your problems and you ask for referrals to specialists that might be able to diagnose you. Going to a doctor with "I think my problems are due to some non-specific dysfunction" they will probably try to talk you out of getting testing but stand your grand.

If you go to a doctor by yourself they aren't allowed to tell anyone so I don't know why anyone would find out.