Hey Jow Forums, I'm a 5'9 female and I recently started feeling bad about my height...

Hey Jow Forums, I'm a 5'9 female and I recently started feeling bad about my height. I've never been bullied (or noticed) about this. I just feel so bad about myself I feel like I can't socialise anymore. I know some people are gonna react really negatively to this post but it's okay. Any tips on how to accept me and feel okay in my skin?

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Not really. I mean, let's face it, there's no magic bullet for your self esteem. Certainly nothing we can tell you here is gonna help apart from, say, "I like tall girls." (which is true).

You good at basketball?

Are you thick?

OP take comfort in the fact that you are unique and are loved by God. If you don't have that truth in mind, your entire self-worth will be based on things that will eventually fail you and break your heart.

With that said, there's no doubt in my mind that there are plenty of guys who would prefer a taller gf, or for the tall ones they would also prefer a gf closer to their height. Tall women are sexy, also fuck the haters

Sorry, but what is not okay about your height? Conceptually I can't really grasp the problem in the first place. Do you by any chance read too much trash on Jow Forums? In the real world it really doesn't matter.

Don't worry, it's really not a big deal. 5'9'' is perfectly fine, most guys are still taller than you, and I doubt you look awkward. That said, you might want to work out a little to not look lanky if you think that's an issue. Tall girls are great.

>tfw 5'8" male
>tfw unironically want a girl taller than me so our kids are tall

Karlie Kloss is 6'2, so if you're attractive, anything is possible. I'm not saying that you have to look like a VS model, I'm just saying. Tall women can be attractive too if they take good care of themselves.

>5'9"

This is still 2" shorter than the average male height in the 18-30 age group in my country. The younger age groups look set to all be 6'4" freaks though. I have no idea what kids are being fed these days but clearly it's a better diet than we got and we got a better one than our parents.

You do realize that every model is a tall goddess? What's the problem?

They're models with top 0.0000001% facial aesthetics.

What are you on about? 5'9 is literal perfection. Look at all the female models, they're all somewhere around your height.

Girl, you've lost your mind in the sand.

>They're models with top 0.0000001% facial aesthetics.
This is actually false. It's more like top 25% *plus* an eating disorder.

Facial aesthetics are a meme. A lot of it comes from fitness. I also have a wider jaw since I started lifting. There is a lot you can actively do to be more attractive.
Self defeatism is not one of those things. It's ugly and pathetic.

Face is 90% bone and 10% muscle if you already have a reasonable bf%.

Ish I should say. It's not exactly 90/10 but you get the point. More to do with bone than muscle.

I'm 6'1 and I perfer to date tall women. Dating short women means I have to lean over or they have to stand on there toes just to kiss but with tall women the height difference isnt that much.

Well, if that is how it is then there is no point. These are your cards, now play with that. Moaning won't help. Moaning is another -10 aesthetic points. Work with what you can improve. That is my point.

>op disappears immediately
Thinking this is a bait thread lads.

Yep, she didn't even mention her weight and body type.

Even so, my sister is 5'10 and used to be really really insecure about it, all the way into her mid 20s.

>she fell for the shortstack meme

baka

I’m a 5’10 femanon and my parents would always comment on my posture, saying I slouch to hide my height.

Once I went out in 6” heels (so standing at about 6’4) had a group of guys making rude comments about me being taller then them, I felt humiliated and have never worn heels since.

Not looking specifically for a taller guy but since then I have always felt really masculine around men if I’m taller than them.

Tall guys are insecure. Just date a shorter guy who doesn't give a fuck about height.

that's ridiculous, and tallness has absolutely no implication on masculinity
never understood why these fucks would care
also

I am yet to meet a short guy who doesn’t actually care.
>recently dated a guy same height as me who got pissed that my running shoes give me an extra inch of height
>before that, dated a guy who randomly called me an “amazon princess” one day

I think there’s a possibility the “girls want a taller guy” meme has lead me to feel that being taller than my partner may make them insecure about their masculinity.

5'9 is not tall, but normal for a woman here
>t.Dutchie

Hi, 5'7" guy who has dated a 5'11" girl who liked to wear heels here. You'll be happier with a fit shorter guy who will dominate you in bed.

Average Dutch woman is 5'6, measured. And you fags are not 6'0 on average, I'm 6'1 and towered over 80% of the men, only counting white men.

that is probably the case, but then again, who in their right mind would genuinely worry about this?
there's nothing better than to be completely entwined and overwhelmed by a woman's long legs around my neck and back, respectively
also, why would anyone feel insecure if their woman is taller? why do they always to MUH MALE DOMINANCE
fuck that shit

Women fail to realise that being masculine and dominant is a need, a need for most men. Forget about wanting it, we need it. It feels wrong, and seriously wrong too, if we can't be masculine.

Sorry I was busy.
I'm 68 kilos kina flat chested but pretty much everything else is average.

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Sounds good. Let's go on a date, so you can get some confidence.

I like short girls

>5'8'' manlet thinks his kids will be tall

kek, maybe with a 6'3'' chick, and not even then

I'm a 5'12'' girl and literally nobody cares
The people who bully you are idiots and that's all

>5’12
So 6ft?

Cite your source please?

His ass. The "all teenagers these days are 6'6"" meme is from Jow Forums.

What is there to feel bad about?

I care in silence.

I don't understand. Do you feel too tall? You realise supermodels are all above 6' tall and are considered the most attractive women in the world, right?

im 6,8 and from /r1c/

Nah, VS models are 5'8 - 5'11 with a couple of exceptions in both directions (Cara Delevingne - 5'7 not 5'8 and Karlie Kloss 6'2). And using models an example isn't a very intelligent move.....

Also, every single study shows that men prefer shorter women when it actually comes to sexual attraction. That being said, I thing height is a stupid deal breaker if two parties love each other unconditionally.

>using models as an example isn't a very intelligent move...
Tell me why, rather than just being a condescending little cunt.

Because models are models. They're outliers when it comes to facial beauty. It's like being born with an IQ of 150 vs 100. You should not compare yourself to outliers.

HAHahhah mayn.
5'9 is manlet-tier, so you'll be fine.

Being 5'9" as a woman is also an outlier, you fucking spastic.

I'm a guy who is 5'8" to 5'9", just about all of my girlfriends have have been 5'7" and up. While I was in college I went out with a girl that was like 6'2". Trust me, there are guys out there that prefer tall women, and it's not some weird fetish either.

Tall and thin is ideal.

I'm pretty average height wise. I'm sure some guys care, but I sure as hell don't so long as the girl is decent. Tall women are just so damn beautiful.

It is. I don't get your point.

Not to the same degree.

>As an outlier you shouldn't compare yourself to outlier because they're outliers and you're not an outlier
you're disabled

Utterly irrelevant.

>Tall and thin is ideal.
This. Only low-IQ "people" like thick.

I have no idea man, not american.

Guys don't care about height unless you're abnormally tall or short. Any problem you have with dating pool will be due to your desire to have a significantly taller male. Now fuck off

Yeah, you're 6 feet. 1 foot = 12 inches, so when you hit 12 inches you round up into another foot.

Context matters, you know. Those women are models because of their face, not their height. You can still model, even if you're short. Just not runaway.

>these women aren't models because of their height
>but you can't be a runway model if you're not tall
imagine being so mentally disabled

It was supposed to say "primarily their face and not their height alone". Why are you so mad? I'm trying to be honest with you, unlike your "friends".

What the fuck are you babbling about? Why would my friends be telling me that tall girls are attractive when I'm a tall man? You're a genuine mongoloid. You just cannot stop embarrassing yourself with every post.

How am I the one embarrassing myself when you're the one throwing insults? You can't disprove my points, so you come after me. I'm sure you're a very tall handsome man.

I never said I was handsome. Christ alive, have you managed to make a single post that isn't a strawman?

I haven't made a strawman. I made an "assumption". You're not even arguing the point anymore.

There was no point. You got caught out talking shit like 4 times in a row and then started with the strawman shite. Stop posting.

huh, bro
I'm a dude, and I still don't get this need to have a woman be weaker than you
it's just retarded, even if you see it as an investment it's just a bad investment

You're projecting. My point is that OP isn't a model. So telling tall women that "lmao models are tall and so are you xd you should feel better now" like you wanted an explanation to, is stupid. It is stupid. You are fairly stupid.

>Projecting
The pseudo-intellectual's "no u". As useless a comeback as when any old /b/tard uses it. You don't know what OP's face looks like. Stop embarrassing yourself literally every single time you touch your keyboard.

You can still be masculine without having her being weak, what the hell are you talking about?

This thread is beginning to make me feel stupider. There is no substance to this argument.

That is right, OP could have the facial aesthetics like that of a model, however, the chances of that being the case is slim. 1 in every 1.000.000 slim. So telling tall women in general that "models are tall, you are tall, you are like them :D" is incredibly dishonest. It's not true. Keep up with the ad hominem, though. You can "feel" a certain way about something, it doesn't make it true.

>models are tall, you are tall, you are like them
>this is somehow dishonest
Jesus Christ. You should seriously consider suicide.

Height is necessary, but not sufficient to be a runway model. How can you find that hard to understand, brainlet?

They're not models just because they're the same height. Gwendoline Christie is not Karlie Kloss.

>height is necessary [...] to be a runway model
>these women are not models because of their height
I genuinely can't tell if you're trolling of literally mentally disabled. It's a toss-up.

Nobody even said they were models because they're the same height? Is this all you being illiterate and not even understanding what is being said?

the point being that having a taller woman makes you feel weaker, meaning you want a woman that's weaker than you becausr you have a strange need for dominance that seems to be rooted in old, obsolete forms of human society and that's about as smart as eating raw meat because "it's in MUH INSTINCTS"

seriously OP, this is the kind of dude that you'll be missing out on because you're tall
do you really want to be with this kind of insecure 'male'?

Read

Height is not THE REASON they are models, shithead. Maybe you shouldn't post if you have double-digit IQ because that's pretty fucking easy to understand.

Holy shit. You are actually so illiterate that you don't understand what has been said this entire time. I can't imagine how utterly embarrassing your existence is.

No, I think men just find shorter women more cute and feminine. I don't think the masculiny factor goes through their head on a conscious level when visually deciding what is attractive and what is not. You just see something and you know you like it.

Life is good, man.

What is your point, thought? Really, what is it, what am I getting wrong according to you?

>so illiterate
Oh so I'm talking to an actual retard.

The post was clearly saying that being tall is an attractive trait. You've both somehow had actual spastic attacks thinking something entirely different was said. Kill yourselves. Sincerely. Throw a rope around your neck, tie it to a branch, and jump off.

it doesn't go through the conscious level but it still feels pretty damn stupid.
I never associated height with masculinity and I'm glad I didn't
though my only gf was 1,44cm tall so fuck me, right?

t. manlets

Hope you (singular) stretched before that reach

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>brainlet posting
Guaranteed manlet lmao

Sure, there are men who finds tall to be an attractive trait in women. It's just that the empirical evidence suggests that that is not the case for the majority of men. Also, models are attractive primarily because of their faces, that is why they are chosen in advertisements. They are pleasing to look at. Which brings me back to the point that using models as an argument is stupid.

This poster is 5'8" or below.

I'm 6'2 though.

>I'm not a manlet!
>I'm 6'2"!

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5'9" is not tall

>girl
>not under 5’5

just kys

Choose one (or both)
In this board we actually want to have serious discussions and not just spout memes like a Gen-Z retard.

>people ITT unironically considering fashion models to be top tier in terms of appearance
Are you guys serious? The average model is an underfed skeleton with a bleh face. They're selected by homosexual fashion designers on the basis of how good the clothes look on them.

And I actually find taller women attractive. I'm not trying to be a dick, I'm just trying to get it right, for everyone's sake.

>we actually want to have serious discussions
>that's why we spent the whole thread trying to put a girl down for being above average height
>STOP MAKING FUN OF ME FOR MY HEIGHT

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Majority of male fashion designers are not homosexuals. Also, it's subject, but I think referring to Taylor Hill, KK, Adriana Lima, etc, as "bleh", is cope.

Nobody likes landwhales but other landwhales

There is nothing wrong with her height. I don't think there is even a post in here saying that. What is being said is that men tend to prefer shorter women on average.

>that's why we spent the whole thread trying to put a girl down for being above average height
Maybe check who you're replying to next time before clicking "Post."