20f, (no longer??) virgin; had sex with dude (20m, also virgin, I'm the first girl he's done more than hold hands with) I've been casually dating. He's not very attractive, neither am I (I'd say I'm maybe 5/10 and he's a 4) and he didn't like it at all. He said my breasts "didn't feel like expected" (I'm a C cup??) and couldn't finish - he said we should just stop. I'm shy/inexperienced so I didn't disagree
Help?? Am I just uglier than I thought? Is he gay? He hasn't texted me since then...
Probably gay. Only time I ever considered stopping when I was drunk as fuck, banging a fat chick, and my buzz started to wear off and the situation kinda just dawned on me. But I still finished cause I'm not a pussy
Dominic Smith
Most likely he's ruined himself with porn.
Aiden Bailey
drunk , ED or gay no reason not to finish unless shes literally a whale
Wyatt Watson
Yea thats the point I was making, I was hammered and regretted doing it, but I still finished
Carter Sanchez
Could have been anxiety. If it was his first time, his nerves might have been what caused him to stop.
Caleb Sullivan
I'm not a whale (thin), he wasn't drunk so... gay I guess. i had a friend ask him if he was gay or bi and he said he definitely wasn't...
but I know he likes anime so maybe he watched too much hentai or something
Ryan Morris
just how much anxiety is needed for something like going soft??
Mason King
I wouldn't take it too personal then. From my experience, its generally better to have one person be a bit more dominant sexually, and if you where both first timers, probably a lot of uncertainty and timidness
Kevin Rogers
could be ED then? it would be hard to tell since your a ?virgin? though...... who know sorry for the awkward experience that sucks
Liam Nelson
id say its impossible to go soft if your allready hard and in the process , it only really stops you from getting hard in the first place
Carter Campbell
could be that, hentai boobs are bags of pudding
Mason Gomez
I was just bout to say the exact same thing. Even being hammered just makes it take longer to cum, you still stay hard the entire time.
Jack Lewis
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Eli Jackson
Did you really waste your virginity on a gay weeb?
Samuel Reyes
Sure did , it seems.
>He said my breasts "didn't feel like expected" mfw he literally fell for the bags of sand meme
He's probably just embarrassed but if you dont feel a connection then dw about it. If you're a thin girl with a C cup then you'll be fine.
Owen Stewart
Don't take it personal OP. People's first time are often awkward and unsatisfying. Despite that, the memoroes will probably become some of the happiest sex memories till he dies. My first was terrible, so was I. Sex was.bad, yet those times go into my memory as some of the best. She also wasn't anlooker and neither was I but 10 years later I remember her as one of the most beautiful chicks I've been with. So I guess my point is don't worry, sex for mosts first time is nothing like how they imagine in. Its awkward and typically ends up being assisted masturbation.
Also not being able to finish is kinda common. He probably is used to jerking off so it's hard for anyone else to get him off.
You're probably not uglier than you think. Besides, a 5/10 girl with a good personality beats most 10s easily.
Joseph Carter
so true , honestly personality > looks as long as you dont look like scp or some shit
Asher Green
He's probably addicted to porn.
Hudson Perez
A lot of guys cant get it up properly on their first time because of nerves and anxiety. Still doesnt explain why he s acting like a bitch a regular guy would say " sorry wanna try again some other time?" Instead of saying this gay ass shit
Robert Baker
thank you, this reply was super encouraging!
and I suppose I did waste my virginity on a gay weeb. I'm a weeb as well so it's not too bad. I don't really have much experience with gay guys so maybe I ignored obvious signs too
Liam Wood
>He said my breasts "didn't feel like expected"
If he was a virgin and never touched a breast before, how the fuck would he know what they feel like?
I would not put to much thought into it OP. The first time is weird for everyone, and even more so if you both are first timers. The first time i had sex i also struggled to cum since it was an unusual situation. If your head is elsewhere its really hard to orgasm.
>Most likely he's ruined himself with porn.
Also this. If he spent 5 years watching all kinds of porn he has no fucking idea what to expect since most porn is far removed from real life. Maybe he has some weird kinks?
Jace Sanders
> so maybe he watched too much hentai or something
Kek
Cooper Harris
If your head is elsewhere its really hard to orgasm.
Not OP but I actually do this quite frequently to prevent early cumming. I will think about like Baseball and grocery shopping and all sorts of random shit to not cum. Like man I wonder who the Lions are gunna draft in the 2nd round.
Aiden James
Is it just me or is every other thread lately about "I couldn't cum!" or "He didn't cum!" or "I'm worried about not being able to cum!"
Last week it was "How do I not cum too fast!" and "What if he cums instantly?!"
Parker King
>Am I just uglier than I thought? If this isn't bait, you're a whole lot uglier now. Remember me after your 20s are spent getting pumped and dumped.
Was it condom sex? I once didnt finish because I couldnt feel a godddamm thing.
Evan Foster
It's worth noticing this was one of my first tries as well. Also, I would never comment on a girl's breast size... at all.
Thomas Davis
Sex for the first time is almost always lame.
My first time at 17 was with a woman I loved after 6 months together. We had dinner after and we joked about how the dinner was better and sex was a huge let down and not all it's cracked up to be.
Then we got better at it.
First times are almost always awful. You'll learn
Noah Ward
Once again, Hitler did literally nothing wrong.
Hunter Wood
its just nervs and the fact he doesnt find you attractive
he really wanted to fuck but since no experience he thought its gona be okay
listen to your willy kids, if it doesnt get hard for a women it means you should leave her be (doesnt mean you are gay, happens to everyone)
Jason Collins
>Femanon here How to guarantee replies for Dummies.
Jacob Brooks
Sorry to hear that. Guys and their egos He tried to make you feel bad to make himself feel better. Better date no one than dating such losers. So how about you work on your 5/10 score?