Where do i meet women that isnt a

Where do i meet women that isnt a
Club
Bar
Online?

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activities.
If you're a nerd, go for a D&D session.
If you like reading, join a reading club.
etc etc

Meet men.
Ask the men you meet to introduce you to their sisters/mothers/aunts/daughters/cousins/etc

Concert.
Dancing lessons.
Figure skating.
Work.
Uni campus.

>concert

Don’t like loud and super crowded areas like concerts

>dancing lessons and figure skating

Who the fuck does this?

>work

Almost all of my co-workers are male. The few women are dykes

>I’m 28 and never went to uni

I like this idea, but all the men i work with are older or their sisters are too young

How do you meet women skating?

What's wrong with clubs, bars, online? Those are the easiest places so why avoid them?

I met my ex and current gf by walking the dog
you have atleast one thing in common and it's easy to start a conversation or ask her to go out with her dog

Nothing at all. This is the part of the cycle where he makes a half assed effort and self sabotages, then later he points at his failures and rees about how it's all women's fault somehow.

It is called social events you hate for a reason dingus! Besides it is mostly "one time effort only". Once you get her number, you dont have to go there anymore.

Ask yourself: what are you willing to sacrifice in order to find wife?
>inb4 nothing
Stay single then.

>too young
Pic related.

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I dont like alcohol and the environment around them. Online is because i dont like giving out data to random companies

While i see very little wrong with this id like to point out it is illegal today. I wouldnt mind a 16 yo gf (legal age here). Hello nsa watchlist

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>one time event

How is that? What if that girl genuinely likes the event she met you at? She will want to go more.

Not only that, but it’s decieving.

I kinda tried this with an old internet friend, we frequented the same message boards not these and talked on facebook in slight gestures towards the same faiths. He turned out to have a daughter I never knew about, but that had succesfully known about me from a time when she was like 10 or something and decided she had a crush on me (i was like 17) while he visited a store I worked at where we nodded in approval of the other, and to some agree of approval, her father's, we started chatting and talking at eachother a bit on the internet. This turned into a sort of full blown relationship with her commanding my time but I would still never get to see her and it was never made certain that we'd meet. It also seemed like my presence in her life was then an issue to her because never have I ever felt more paranoid and disapproved of as when it felt like I was bring pricked by like government satellites and lasers or something because I'd get literal pricks in my spine, my face, my legs would like pop and twitch, my leg had like a twirl burn sprite that etched in scars into my leg that like showed I had electricity burns (made me cry, I loved my legs) but for some reason there was no way I was going to be with her anyway. She is 20 and Im 30. This went ofor a while, like 2 years, and recently was something I'd work on breaking ties with bc I was only supposed to wait a year before we'd meet and this abuse is no longer relative, people around me have a hard time relaxing or else bees everywhere. The relationship, which would've turned out fine had she not been a military spouse or had she not promised herself to other people this way; we wouldve met, dated, worked and schooled together except she just had it in her mind that everything had to be tried to juxtaposition in case anything with me went sour and she needed to make sure people knew that it was for a white man that she did it and not for a brown coat like myself.

>decieving
Whole dating game is one big deceit. You pretend you like her personality while all you really like about her are her boobs and secretly hope she can succ like champ. She pretends she isnt interested in you, flirts and try her best to find out if you have your own place and income without it being obvious.

Everything is allowed in war and love. Start the fight or die virgin. Your call.

>You pretend you like her personality while all you really like about her are her boobs and secretly hope she can succ like champ

You’re immature as fuck if you really think all guys JUST want to fuck. Most guys want to meet a nice girl the genuinely enjoy being around

Gotcha. He wants to get a gf with zero effort from his part, and whines when told that he needs to do some effort like everyone else.

What are you trying to prove? That she can be morbidly obese, hideous and you would still date her and marry her later because of her personality?

Stop pretending and in case you are op, off you go to social events you hate.

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I'm not that person but don't project what you want over the rest of humanity. That's mean.

So, you want to meet people but you have excuses for the activities that help you meet people? Don't you see the issue?

You can meet women doing ANYTHING, you just need to do SOMETHING.

I'm glad to see you don't want to pretend to meet people. That's good. You just need to pick something you like and that involves other people.

It's easy to see why you engage in flirting like combat.

What are you trying to prove? That the world is awful and you are so woke you need to help us see the filth too?

You can't believe everyone agrees with you, that everyone is a phony like you are. Some people are honest, some are like you. And that's fine. The problem is when you believe you understand what everyone else is thinking. That's when you come off as a teen.

Coincidentally I jusy turned on a movie yo kill some time before class, Lost in Translation, and that scene when theyre in the bar and get kicked by the dude with a machine gun that shoots like electric bolts comes on as they run away from him chasing them with it.

Something mustve been lost in yranslation for him to use defensive military gear on them. Maybe I wasnt understanding that they were being defensive and saying that she and I didnt belong together and that she was playing the game from two directions rather than be fair amd straight up say no instead of use me to get something out of my vast array of connections, you know? I want to be fair and say her family offered that yhere would 100k in equity for us to get our relationship going but that theyd treat me that way and pretend they were being defensive after all that...maybe they didnt want me to be with her and they wanted to create one of those tailor to suit the dead guy that tries to pedophile his way into our lives like some fucking hacker or whatever...but really like goddamn fuck that shit. How much is equity in those amounts worth? Does a disability check from paralyzing the poor fuck or "casting" him to ptsd or disabled really pay enough to qualify that act as credential? You can bet your asses that whole family and that culture of theirs isnt going to get shit from anyone in the states, japan or even china...ok maybe china. But not the others cause that shit is not only illegal to the grounds that extortion only require them to finally make physical contact but yhatbalso the japanese and americans have been lying in wait for china to pull somr shit like this. And yes theyre chinese and the mother is white. Poor woman. Better get your asses over to korea if you want to get away with shit like that.

Step into Russia with a social standing like that, no more China, and youre liable to be found in a car flipped upside down or have your lineage flipped to pay the amount in pain as you have to credentual the stake you can bring any sense of profit pleasure to anyone but you yourself or your father.

Wow youre retarded. All i asked was where else can i go.

Not me, youre replying to three people. i just eant to know where else to meet people...

>Not me, youre replying to three people. i just eant to know where else to meet people...

You OP? Or you the second guy then?

I am not trying to "wake up" anybody, i am just trying to send OP to social events he hates so he can finally meet a woman, but apparently that is deception for people who has high moral ground.

Have a nice day.

>That she can be morbidly obese, hideous and you would still date her and marry her later because of her personality?

I didn’t say that. Obviously physical attraction matters. But it’s not entirely about sex. Just because a girl is cute doesn’t mean she’s worth being around. You’re implying all that matters is sex. That’s not true. How old are you, 17?

Yeah, anyone can read the rest of your dribble, man. We can see the worthless outlook you are pushing as fact. So don't say "i am just trying to send OP to social events" because you are saying so mch more, and what you say is so dumb.

Library
Museums
Art galleries
Bookshops
Dog walking in a park
Shopping for groceries

>t. Female listing places I go and hope guys will talk to me

>shopping for groceries
Kek. How is your dating game so far?

In case it is poor, try something where you can actually meet men and you hate it. In your case football match :-)

You are right. Now excuse me while i go back to my basement.

I wouldn’t approach females in those places. All of those are places that are meant to be quiet

Let's assume you are really a girl. Why does it need to be those places? Don't you engage in social activities?

This is like the guys that want to try a cold approach" on women on the street/bus. Both of you need it to be strangers because you don't do anything with other people.

OP, don't listen to her.

>Don't you engage in social activities?

Why is it automatically assumed that everyone does this?

It's not assumed that it happens. But it is the best way to meet people.

I asked the question to prove a point, not to get an actual reply. I know she doesn't, because if she did, she wouldn't be wishing a stranger talked to her at a book store.

She’s probably an introvert that doesn’t enjoy social activities

Im op. I just wanted recommended places and suddenly im afraid of giving up self for a relationship and the threads ruined

That's fine. But she won't meet very many people that way, now will she?

Anyone is free to live their life the way they chose. But when they come here to complain about not meeting girls/guys, then the only reply we can give them is: Do shit to meet people.

If they don't want to do shit to meet people, then they won't meet people. Simple.

Do these places work for you? Why/why not?

>How is your dating game so far?
Pretty strong actually. I have been asked on 6 dates in the last 8 months.

>In case it is poor, try something where you can actually meet men and you hate it. In your case football match :-)
I don’t like football, nor do I want to date someone who feels the need to stranded football matches.
Yesterday I had dinner with a lovely man, he is a doctor, Muslim and we have very similar tastes in Art and literature. It went well and we are having dinner again tomorrow, but thank you for your advice.

>I wouldn’t approach females in those places.
Why not? I can only speak on behalf of my female friends and I, but if you see a female in one of these places alone there is a strong chance she will welcome a confident stranger approaching her.
>All of those are places that are meant to be quiet
Exactly, I am a quiet person.
>whispering/talking quietly

Yes that’s true. But it’s having someone go into an environment they’re not comfortable with won’t help them meet people.

If she goes to a bar. She’s just going to feel uncomfortable. Other people will notice that and stay away from her

She should do something she likes and that involves other people. I never said "It's bars or nothing, bitch!". I just said: Do social shit.

>but if you see a female in one of these places alone there is a strong chance she will welcome a confident stranger approaching her.

I can not imagine this. Just cold approaching some random woman at the supermarket. People don’t go there to meet people or relax. They go to buy their groceries and leave.

And you are right, OP. Most girls won't react well to that. You are talking to a pretty unique girl or to a dude validating his own ideas. Either way, yeah, not good advice.

This

This thread asked for recommendations, I gave some. I never claimed my advice to be 100% guaranteed to get you a date, it is only suggestions.

Why do you feel the need to question me so strongly? I do engage in social activities but if I am in a bar, I am with friends. If I am I a restaurant, I am eating and socialising. If I am at the cinema, I am watching a film with people I know well enough not to maintain a conversation for an hour and a half.

Are you suggesting it would be a better idea to approach a woman in these situations as opposed to the ones I suggested?

>Are you suggesting it would be a better idea to approach a woman in these situations as opposed to the ones I suggested?

I'm suggesting meeting people at parties or through friends works better than approaching strangers. Every single one of your examples is about walking up to someone you don't know while they are living their own life, instead of using common friends or flirting in relaxed social environments.

>Library, bookshops and shopping
>on a list of where you hope to get hit on
Christ woman, did none of your friends tell you how bad an idea that was?

>I'm suggesting meeting people at parties or through friends works better than approaching strangers.
I am a 26 year old woman, any parties I attened are the likes of baby showers, weddings, work related or hosted by female friends.
>Every single one of your examples is about walking up to someone you don't know while they are living their own life, instead of using common friends or flirting in relaxed social environments.
My social circle is essentially females I have known for a long time. I would not potentially date their ex’s, male friends or family memebers.
My suggestions are based on the possibility of already having a predetermined mutual interest. Is a conversation in an art gallery not considered a relaxed social environment?

I'm 50% sure she is a he, and 50% sure she is a girl neckbeard. Either one explains her "advice".

Why are you alone at the gallery? Don't you go with friends? Or you only go to bars with friends?

>concert
Everybody there is half drunk, "dancing", is younger and obviously relaxed. You still need a lot of courage to infiltrate group of friends, but thats where alcohol helps.
>dancing lessons
Older people, often very mature and you are literally made by instructor to touch and lead opposite gender while all you can do is to look into their face, smile and have small talk. And there is a sulprus of females. In some places are waiting lists where you sign up as a male and automatically get assigned female partner. Dating for autists!
>figure skating
Is a meme, but you never know who you will meet.
>work
Half my friends find their wife/husbands there. But it is hit or miss. Some professions simply dont have females.
>uni campus
Dating on uni is literally tutorial mode. Too bad at that time i was a nerd whose biggest worry were videogames and porn. To put it simply, girls werent interesting for me at that time. I was full blown stem nerd. But in retrospective, you need to try really hard to not lose virginity on uni.

I wouldnt call 1 date per month as strong. I presume the dates went nowhere and you are still hopelessly single, arent you?

So, you want to meet people but you have excuses for the activities that help you meet people? Don't you see the issue?

You can meet women doing ANYTHING, you just need to do SOMETHING.

What do you actually do with other people?

I'm thinking so because is such bullshit it reads like a parody.

>the issue
The issue is that i am an introvert. I hate meeting NEW people. My friend circle is very small and consist of people i met through my studies. All my hobbies can be done solo at home (except pool and gym, but i wont risk ban from these places) and it doesnt take a genius to figure out that i will very easily die alone unless i will bust my ass and do complete opposite of
>bee yourself
and literally drag myself outside to events i dont give a single shit about and hope to meet a girl with whom i can do various activities like cuddling and stuff.

And guess what, this approach works. Somewhat. It isnt ideal, but it is imho the best advice for OP.

Concert could kind of work, but i mainly go to recitals and similar.

Dancing lessons may, i already learned to dance in school. Could be good for partnering

Skating idk, i like to skate fast but i could try talking to someone. That feels way to movie scenario to me.

Work is only men. Men men men.

I dont go to uni


Man he aint even me. I dont get this hijacking

Then, you have some ideas to try now. Go and try them.

Were you pretending to be OP? What? Why?