How do you guys stay faithful when you have attractive women flirting with you? What the hell is even going on

How do you guys stay faithful when you have attractive women flirting with you? What the hell is even going on.

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Date a girl that you truly love and it's honestly not all that hard.

>attractive women
it takes strong personality to attract me; most of these bitches just presume their own self-worth anyway. And the other half of the time they have no fucking idea what they want, the last chick I bothered talking to was a fucking social justice warrior. Goddamn ass-blasted hypocrites, those ones.

It looks attractive because it's a prospect of achievement, but you know how it goes: play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

>when you have attractive women flirting with you?
I don't

this is when commitment come in.

if you choose to marry a girl it means you balanced all the pros and cons and you determind that marrying her would be the best option in your life.

then when hottie fliter with you, you ask yourself, if i fuck her, the pro is my D feels good, cons......i might get into alot of drama, maybe this long marriage i worked for will fail.

con outweight pros.

so .......you know what to do.

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i encourge op to fliter with hotties, it reinforce your self confidence, as long as you don't kiss her nor fuck her.

Do they send you nudes? Because if they do, maybe jerk off to them instead.

It's incredibly difficulty. Almost impossible if you've been with the same woman, no matter how attractive, long enough.

I meet women online, and it provides me a sexual outlet. I love when we get each other off. And I leave it at that.

I rationalize this by myself that since it's online, and I'm not actually fucking them, and I'm not cheating and remaining faithful.

Some, maybe even most, would disagree, but it is what it is. All men have urges, some are better at controlling them than others. For me the fear of missing out sometimes overrides my will power

Speak for yourself mate. I find it not only easy but enjoyable to not fuck around. Also the whole online thing isn't harmless or acceptable unless your lady's cool with it - it might not fall under your definition of "cheating" but it may well fall under your gf's.

>I rationalize this by myself that since it's online, and I'm not actually fucking them, and I'm not cheating and remaining faithful.

That absolutely is cheating.

What would you think if you found out that your wife would sext with guys online. She would say lewd shit to help the cum?

>I find it not only easy but enjoyable to not fuck around.

I did too until around the 3 year mark. Something tells me you're still in the honeymoon phase. I remember that part, sometimes I wish we were still there.

>it may well fall under your gf's.

It does. She's told me "I don't care if you look at porn, as long as you're not talking to girls on there." The problem is sometimes I feel like it's between this and actually fucking girls. Which probably would be more satisfying, but I do have some sense of ethics.

Explain to me how. I honestly don't see it.

Suppose I wouldn't be thrilled. Though I would be more understanding than most, considering my experience.

The sad( and to me hot) thing is, a lot of women I do things with are married or in relationships. It's honestly pretty hot when we work that into what we do, or when I see their wedding ring. But often these encounters are when I feel the most guilty. Because I know I'm having an impact on their relationship as well as potentially mine.

Nope, past the honeymoon phase. That's a totally reasonable thing to assume though.

I see that other poster hasn't answered you - they asserted that that constitutes cheating (presumably) because your lady would consider it cheating.

>Explain to me how. I honestly don't see it.
Talk to your gf about it. You'll see.

I know she would. She's told me as much. But to me I still understand why. I need something more than "It is because I say it is."

Honestly if you “love” the person enough you wouldn’t care enough to cheat. When I was in a shut relationship I always seemed to be looking at other girls. Now I’ve been in a great relationship with someone I feel happy to be with. I couldn’t care less about other girls and shoot down any that see me that way. No use leaving something if it’s great.

college student spotted.

Jerk off before going out.

Try autism, works like a charm

Most people are soulless, but women take it a step further. I find a woman who is genuine in how she acts, I'm staying with her.
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women don't flirt with me, so it's not really a problem

mfw

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>first gf at 26
>suddenly 16-20 somethings are interested in me
>gf gets on edge because they are flirting with me
>so socially inexperienced I think it's just harmless conversation
In my case it was being taken that made me desirable. I'm single again and no girl wants anything to do with me all over again. Next relationship will be around the time I'm 50

lmao. basic bitches just want to get to the alpha female position.
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that is when they say, you attract more water when you are a full cup, no water will come if you are half cup

Pretty close to the truth. I went after those same girls after breaking up with her. Now I just look like a needy bitch with a decent car and house.

>was being taken that made me desirable
But how do they know?

Girlfriend had friends, shared our sex stories and they started hitting up my phone. Also when you're out an about and your girlfriend sees competition they have a whole different kind of body language to let other girls know whose territory they're sniffing around. When the competition is a bitch they don't care and walk right up to her man and start talking.

It's amazing how petty girls will be when they are insecure. Next time you're out in public and your girlfriend moves in close or gets grabby with no warning, steal a look around the room. There's probably a moderately attractive girl checking you out.

Had this happen to me. Had a girl that never gave me the time of day even though I asked her out quite a few times. Then I found another woman to date. All of a sudden, this girl was wanting to talk to me and "hang out" and said that she was ready now and wasn't back then.

So I fucked her, then told her I didn't want her, she threatened to tell my GF, told her go ahead, had already told my GF about this girl (and showed her texts where I had rejected her plus edited the later texts we sent back and forth about meeting for sex into "sorry but I'm taken"). That girl did tell my GF, and GF laughed it off as an insecure woman getting mad she got rejected.

But I did hit that pussy. GF later cheated on me so maybe it was karma but that's life.

Most people are trash... 1 in 300 woman impress me. If I had an opportunity with that one woman even while married... ild seriously consider it.

It's really makes me sick when people in this fucking board talk about how "hard" it is to stay in a relationship in today's society. What is wrong with you people. I've been in a relationship for 7 years now. We're both 22 now. We met in high school and we've been together since. We've never had issues with cheating or disrespected one another in that regard. I'm at the uni now where there's girls my age everywhere, and I don't even attempt to flirt with them. How could I when I'm in love with a girl I've been with for SEVEN great years. People here talking about cheating like it's nothing, like it's changing your clothes or brushing your teeth. Can people not be fucking cunts for once. It's not hard, if you don't like the person you are with then fuck off, don't stay with them. If no one else will be with the person they love then I'll be a shining example for everyone else to follow.

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For those of you who do love your other half and don't mean to disrespect them, my respect goes out to you. Keep fighting the good fight, Not enough people in today's are in love, For those of you who do cheat and can't respect the other person, you are a wretched asshole and if you cannot give the time and respect to others then why do you yourself deserve that kindness? Fuck off and stop being a looser. Grow a brain and stop thinking with your dick. Have some self respect.

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You’re good, I just need to get into a position with a girl to do the things you said.

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75% of the posters on this board haven't talked to another human being using actual mouth noises in over a month. They just like to larp here and pretend they have normal people problems.

I saw college Chad browse /tv/.

My dad once told me to always jerk off before making an important decision.
He and I never got along, but it's solid advice. If you're with a girl and someone is trying to get in your pants, jerk off first. Either you decide it's a bad call, or you'll have enough stamina to make cheating worth it at least.

You say no you fucking idiot.
But you are correct in how easy it is to fall into the trap.
“honey I’m good” is the answer to your question.

/tv/ is a normalfag board, how is that surprising

Don't put yourself in a position where you can fuck them

Wish i had that problem.

thats a bad copy of the video. what makes it, is that before she questions him, he's shouting about how he wants/loves breasts

>I've been in a relationship for 7 years now. We're both 22 now.
i'm weak

Easy, just don't have women flirting with you. Also don't get what's the whole deal with the whole vow of celibacy thing, it's so easy.