Lolicon

I've been a lolicon for a while now and I want to stop. I know people often say "lolis =/= real children" But after a while it got to the point where I have been interested. I don't want to be fucked up like this, and lolis have become almost like a gateway drug to pedophilia and I don't know how to quit. Basically I want advice on what to do to stop wanting loli stuff and fix myself.

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find yourself a girl who likes lolitas too man. my gf is asian and she gets turned on at hentai and loves cosplaying lolita shit when we fuck

Well now that you've gotten tired of lolicon, turn your attentions to erotic stories. Written word porn is just great. Go to (eight)chan, you'll find nothing here

i'd like an out rather than a place to vent my lust

There is no out, you'll have the urges forever. Just trying to save you some time here.
Seriously. you should consider the erotic loli stories as research because, well, you can learn from analyzing storylines. especially if you can consume a lot of them. What kind of character (you) are, and what you *should* be given your circumstance. I'd also say stay away from doujin/hentai/VNs/Light novels because Japs can write an accurate character only 0.0001% of the time.

I don't understand what you mean by learning what I should be

>you'll have the urges forever

This is not true

Stop looking at loli shit, stop looking at porn in general. This is an extension of you looking for the next taboo thing to jerk off to.

I think you're right about the taboo shit, if it's supposed to be wrong (but not disgusting) it usually makes it more appealing. But now it's to the point where it's attractive on it's own.

oh. be a pedo in the head, but always refraining from being abusive or lewd towards real children IRL - it's a centuries old problem. The internet (and society) is rife with textual content on it. Find a loli-loving character whose psychology you think is good/right/fair for society, in one of such stories, and emulate it. Emulating a psychology is much easier, than, trying to force a certain thought out of your head.

Lolis are nothing like real children. Lolis are just our own ideals projected and portrayed by characters designed to remind us of young children in an attempt to be endearing. In reality, this is not the case. You're never in love with the character, you're in love with a concept.

Just go outside for a bit user, and try not to worry about it. The solution is very simple.

i don't think pretending to be better is the solution

I understand, but it feels like a gateway problem, and it's becoming harder to differentiate

That's why I'm telling you to go outside. Once you see children, and spend time around them, you begin to realize that they're nothing like lolis. They're a scourge that needs to be wiped from the planet, and purified in an eternal flame.

I've been around children, they aren't that bad, unless their parents really just don't care. Plus the attraction to more "childish" bodies won't go away that way

Lolis are nothing like real children. They've much more in common with short/flat/asian women. Just date short/asian women. Problem solved. You'll never find what you're looking for as a lolicon in real children. They're just not capable of the things you'd want to do.

where would even be a place to find a short Asian woman? Even if that was a fix, that sounds easier said then done, especially when you also gotta get them to go out with you.

any dating site that lets you filter by height and/or ethnicity.

which ones are those, I've never used any before.

okcupid, match, pof to name a few. You and google should be able to handle this from here.

Alright, but shifting through these sights to find specifically a petite asian girlfriend especially one like is pretty difficult

well i certianly dont know how helathy that is

yeah, and id like a cheap robot that dispenses blowjobs: a blowbot if you will

citation needed lol

look man, you're not a monster, but you really only have 2 options here, and neither of them sound very good: the first is that you throw yourself at the will of the system and hope that it can help by way of science and psychology. but i shouldnt have to remind you that we know very very little about this topic as a species, and even worse, we actually roadblock ourselves from progress by way of the stigma

the second option is simply to wait. thats it. you wait for the science to find out who/what you really are. it's a heavy load, but everyone has their cross to bear.

*healthy

i don't like how green bananas make my teeth feel

oh and it is healthy. she loves it, i love it, we also do all kinds of fuckery like bondage and all that shit. not that hard dude, just get good at making her enjoy herself with you.

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well, i'll have to wait either way

I believe they have a starch in them that sticks to your teeth, so thats why it does that

If only it were as easy as getting someone like her, sounds like you lucked out.

>this roastie whore
I can see the vague disinterest in everything that isn't money and her making it in the hollow, dead expanse she calls her eyes.
This is that bitch who puts on a bunch of belts and goggles and a tophat, calls it 'steampunk,' and rounds the outfit off with a Nerf gun.

I can't unsee the cosplay because my roommates and I used to have one of those and it was the 'haha, you were too slow and didn't get the nerf gatling guns so now you get a peashooter.'

Fuck why cant i have this life

FUCK

Its just a fetish op, dont worty about it. As longas your not fucking with kids everything is fine. DO NOT tell anyone about this esp if your in america no matter what.

The more you actually get yourself off to this stuff, the more you're reinforcing it as a fetish. This goes for anything. You don't have to stop masturbating, but just don't do it about lolis. Just try it and see what happens.

you don't have to tell me about that, would basically be suicide

it's harder then you think to avoid it, it sneaks up on you

Porn in general is bad for you. If you can't beat off without porn then you know you've got a problem.

>it's just a fetish bro don't worry about it fetishes are completely meaningless

No they're actually an indication and manifestation of your sexuality. You can still change it.

>it's harder then you think to avoid it, it sneaks up on you

I haven't watched porn in like 4 years dude, it's actually way easier than you think.

well shit, can't even imagine what thats like, haven't stopped using porn since I discovered it.

Nobody wants to be fucked up like that. Just repress it. Hide it. Never speak of it. Don't even acknowledge it in your thoughts. Find a good relationship to be in and channel your desires.

Hey OP. I'm a pedo, I like little girls ages 5-12. I don't like lolicon, it's very far removed from actual children and it caters to a teleiophilic audience more so than a pedophilic one. It's not a gateway drug, but it's still degenerate.

yeah, i just want to stop

repressing stuff can be unhealthy sometimes and might not get rid of the problem