Good luck, OP. I had a gf who was not smart in the slightest. In fact she was quite dumb. She was hot and we did all sorts of fun things together. But in the end, I had to end it. I simply couldn't have a serious relationship with someone with whom you can't even have any basic intellectual conversion. She was too busy posting pics on her instagram when we went out on a date.
Gavin Hill
Can someone tell me what’s wrong with my female friend?
>She is stunningly hot, like 9/10. >We met in highschool a decade ago. >Now I’m married and have my own life. She has no other friends other than me >she is super reclusive, passes all of her time either at work at a store, gym or reading books at home >I’m her only social contact, continuously talking to me about her ideas, her sexual desires, news etc >She is still a virgin at 28, while having a huge collection of sex toys and porn >Has never used social media like Facebook >I invite her to my house when I have a friend over, hoping to get her out of her shell >If she meets anyone other than me or my wife, she gets nervous and eventually leaves
I’ve never heard about a similar case anywhere. What’s wrong with her?
(Pic IS NOT her by the way)
Ryan Thompson
Making your own thread, stop derailing this
Elijah Ramirez
I try talking to her about currents events and she literally can’t form a coherent message arguing about anything
women don't have to be smart or really know anything when they are pretty. What does your GF do for a living?
David Allen
I guess if you're a caveman just trying bust a nut in thots. Some of us require our fleshlights had a personality and some of us fuck people's life over to bust a nut. >Alpha af m8
Hudson Morris
>talking to her about currents events and she literally can’t form a coherent message arguing about anything >arguing Oh, boy. I pity your gf.
Adam Watson
Maybe she has a really weird looking snatch that she's afraid to show.
Bentley Wood
She has social anxiety Turns out girls can have it too—see the entire female population of this board—whodathunk.
Camden Fisher
I'm currently with a woman I would call a 6 or 7, but she's very intelligent and we have great times just chatting about life for hours.
I see some really beautiful women out there, and yeah I wish I could know what they would be like to get close to, but I have a great thing going on.
In a casual way, I feel you should find someone that looks good enough that you will at least not be embarrassed to be with in public. I had an ugly woman for a while, she was maybe a 5 and it was depressing to out with her. Hot women would give me the look of "the fuck are you with this old hag for?" all the time.
Nolan Allen
Shit...
Are you me?
Brandon Lewis
Copypasta
Aiden White
This is about where I'm at, I consider my lady a healthy 7 without dolling-up (which is about where I'd put myself, if not lower). Now wildly intelligent I don't know about but she's clever and insightful, and her compassion and bleeding heart are a good contrast to me. I enjoy virtually any discussion, though at times she will invest in a point and be unwilling to back down or compromise.
Couples fight. They argue. They disagree. Any couple that doesn't do these things doesn't last. I hear stories about one or two or three years and think even at nearly seven years I'm not 'that deep,' we still have things to learn and show each other.
Ryder Young
My girlfriend isnt *dumb* per se, she's very clever. But we do have a huge education gap. As in I have a bachelor and she hated highschool and swore off education forever.
She's done great for herself professionally and deinitely isn't dumb... But my god the girl does not know how to think critically worth a damn, and gets all riled up over world issues with the wrong information and the wrong perspective, does not have a middle ground, no concept of bias, no concept of cognitive dissonance, no concept of the fact just because she feels a certain way doesn't make something true.
I know it sounds petty but it does seep over to our personal lives because I want to solve our issues constructively and take an objective look at what's wrong and she's pure emotion no thinking.
And like you, had two girlfriends in university who were PhD med students who were extremely good on these fronts. Actually used their brains and ignored their feels.
I also miss it.
James Parker
>I had an ugly woman for a while, she was maybe a 5 and it was depressing to out with her Same here, but replace 5 with 4. After some months with her I developed an aversion to her face and felt disgust every time I saw it.
That's what you get for getting a gf just for the sake of it.
Hunter Edwards
>And like you, had two girlfriends in university who were PhD med students who were extremely good on these fronts. Actually used their brains and ignored their feels. Most PhD students I know are devout atheist, feminist communists (and whatever other -ist you can think of) who are completely incapable of forming any opinion other than that of the mob around them.
Noah Clark
Yeah my hottest girlfriend was also the least intelligent person I'd ever dated. I have to explain simple things to her constantly. And thinking about a future with her? I'd have to do everything, not just make all the money but any household shit that requires a modicum of skill or forethought.
I'm not dating some a less hot, but still attractive, and has a degree in biomedical science. It's definitely more fun to not feel like a parent in your relationship.
Brandon Howard
>I need muh deep conversations
Gavin Walker
bump because i'm interested in the topic. particularly interesting how people say 'my current gf is not as hot' or admit 'my gf is dumb'. ivé struggled with similar things as far as talking about it. it's like i'm not supposed to be able to say 'yeah she's not the most beautiful girl on earth' and that i should be guilty for thinking it.
but regarding 'intelligence' i do think there's a point were it stops mattering. as long as she's not some club slut cliche, you could be fine. i've struggled a little with my gf in that my interests are a little bit more... well, i don't know, i can't expect to say negative utilitarianism and her to be "yeah, i've read about that", but really who gives a shit. i've discovered it's as much as 'we enjoy different things' as 'she goes trekking, i go swimming' or whatever.
Jaxson Green
I’ve never in my life met a woman who had any brains. There’s really no point in ever having “serious conversation” with a woman. You can have bullshit pseudo-intellectual conversations to persuade women who consider themselves smart into bed, but that’s as close as it gets.
Oliver Mitchell
Is she kind? Is she loyal? Is she a good person? Does she make you happy?
Intelligence isn't the only factor to consider here.
Michael Martin
Either intelligent women avoid you or you're just a giant asshole
or both
Brayden Garcia
More importantly OP: is she dumb enough to be easily manipulated and be made your bitch/assistant?
>I’ve been with her for 2 years so far and I’m getting to know her personality outside of sex. Lmao you sound even dumber than her!
Jaxson Nguyen
I broke up for the same reasons. Hot as fuck and loved sex but if I used a word with more than 4 syllables she'd be completely lost. Sex wasnt worth it Id much rather have intellectual stimulation.
Thomas Nguyen
I mean.... you don't sound very smart with your 14 year old generalizations. Why is it a surprise you obviously throw off intellectual women?
Hudson Price
>I'm a virgin
Justin Cook
Then how about just talk to other women you fruit.
Nathaniel James
Hot girls aren't smart because they've never had to be smart. They got everything handed to them for having a vagina WITH good facial features/body. How did you not know this?
Camden Stewart
Stop associating with people doing phds in gender studies and sociology then