Topic: Men cheating on their wives with sex workers

>It's pretty normal for a group of degenerates to go to a strip club.
Fixed.

Most people I know who go to strip clubs are pretty shitty people. Obviously that doesn't mean everyone who goes are but still. I'd never go to one.

Look kiddo, this is an adult threads with adults talking. Take your teenager autism elsewhere.

It's one thing to go to a strip club alone, but another for a group of guys to decide to.

Not an argument, degenerate.
>adults like me don't bother controlling their impulses
>stop being so immature :)

That's not going to happen if you marry a good man and won't be a pain in the ass once you are married.

What you are seeing are men that lack commincation skills and have low loyalty. When a problem comes up in a relationship there are generally three outcomes
1. Comminicate about it like adults
2. One person leaves the relationship
3. One or both people cheat
There really is nothing you can do besides give the guys you date enough rope to hang themselves. Also, where you work you only see the third outcome and not the other two. Its like working at a bar and thinking everyone is an alcoholic

Adults are not horrified by things that are not rated PG. You clearly are disturbed by anything that is not aimed at children.

Degenerates gonna degenerate. And of course your sample is skewed. You're in a fucking brothel.
>no, it's a
fuck you. Deadass.

If you hang around a fitness store, you're bound to meet people into fitness. About the only other kind you'll meet in there is a type getting into fitness.
Likewise at a brothel, unless you're meeting people of dubious character who are 'just trying it once' or whatever excuse people make nowadays, you're really only getting the type of dudes who buy sex in relationships. Like, I don't know what you expected. These are all just people; the only single commonality is that they're all visiting your brothel.

Maybe-- and this one may come as a shocker-- don't look for your husband in or near a brothel. You might find someone with moral fabric.

Just filter the cancer away, poor little guy trying so hard to be edgy hahaha. Pic related that tripfag every thread I see.

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Well there's two sides to the coin, men don't cheat on partners that they feel emotionally fulfil them and are at the same or higher level as them.

The current culture among young people of both genders worries me since the promiscuity and lack of attention given to a healthy sexual relationship is praised as some kind of greater freedom or sexual liberation. This is a short sighted view that only leads to an inability to form any close connections an maintain a long term commitment to someone. A lot of my peers think it will just happen that one day they will find someone and spend their lives with them, but that's obviously not the case.

Obviously that's not to say that one should remain celibate till marriage, that would be ridiculous as its completely fine to have a series of committed monogamous relationships; sometimes things don't work out. But in a world where sexuality has no value it's little wonder that these men will cheat on women who equally have placed no value on the process of having sex. Personally I wouldn't want to be with someone who had had casual sex with a bunch of partners and paraded around their sexuality to mask their insecurities about their appearance, just as a woman would not want to be with a man with the same attributes.

There is the distribution of choice also, if we assume an equal spread between undesirable women (low income, unattractive, unpleasant personality, low intelligence, uncultured) and undesirable men (the same categories) I think we would find that the balance of who would settle for who would be somewhat skewed. (1/2)

Relatioships have always been an complicated affair. Thing is if the relationship is good and you treat your husband or boyfriend well then the chances of cheating are low. There’s always a chance because people don’t suddenly become unattractive when you start a relationship. The men you see are either shitty people to begin with or there relationship is unsatisfactory. Personally I’ve never cheated, had a few opportunities to in the past. But recently my girlfriend has been a bit of an asshole and we haven’t been intimate in a while. If I was out and had the chance to cheat I’d like to say I wouldn’t but at this point it’s hard to say.

Tl;dr Blow your man more often and don’t be a cunt to him and he won’t cheat

Men are not monogamous creatures.

Men cheat, especially ones in positions of wealth and power. The temptation is overwhelming.

The women working at these places are typically gorgeous model types and most men unfortunately cannot resist.

You trying sating no to the chick in the pic.
>Protip: you can't

So whether its webcam models, rub n tugs, escorts or strippers. Men's dicks are just making bad choices.

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You had a good point until you started blaming your girlfriend for the fact that you're too much of a little pussy to talk to her and tell her that you're unhappy. Please don't breed.

In reality the circumstance is that many women aspire to a more desireable man than they are desireable as a woman, and use their sexuality to obtain this. Equally men are self conscious about their own desireability and settle for those beneath them, or feel that they are not worthy of those above them. Hence why a millionaire man with a lifetime of achievments can manage to get a hot blonde 25 year old wife yet it would be rare to see a millionaire woman with a lifetime of achievments get a dumb deadbeat ripped 25 year old for a husband.

People have to evaluate themselves honestly and not try and shoot higher or lower, only then will you find someone who truly fulfills you.

>Topic: Men cheating on their wives with sex workers.

What do you need advice with?

This.

Go to spring break in college or a EDM concert. You will see promiscuity is the norm for 20-30s. How these people then form solid monogamous relationships is beyond me.

>tty people to begin with or there relationship is unsatisfactory. Personally I’ve never cheated, had a few opportunities to in the past. But recently my girlfriend has been a bit of an asshole and we haven’t been intimate in a while. If I was out and had the chance to cheat I’d like to say I wouldn’t but at this point it’s hard to say.

Alot of these guys seems like decent dudes. Older men, that are otherwise pleasant. Who have probably just been married for 20+ years and looking for thrill that isn't there in their marriage anymore.

I am afraid of reaching that monotony

Shitty people like to say "everyone is just like me, they're only in denial" so they can dodge any feelings of guilt or obligation to become a better person. It's like the retard version of labeling yourself an asshole so that you can place the blame of people you've hurt on them because they tried to stick around despite being "warned." You'd be a manipulative asshole if you were smart enough to pull either of those off, but you're too socially inept and that makes you transparent.

Nah I have talked to her but instead of a conversation she just ignores me or says she has nothing to say.

Soon society will degrade into just sex for fun with no partners.

Look at porn, its at the point where there are so many girls doing it now, you could watch a new video everyday and never see a repeat.

>le everything is becoming more degenerate meme
Actually young people now have less sexual partners than before. Hysterical chickens like you who want to see degeneracy everywhere are having a harder time finding it.

By like .5 partners compared to the 90s, because so many people just stay inside and use social media now. In the US, it went from an average of 7 to an average of 6.5, oh wow, now we're moral again! Fuck off.
The proportion of those in "casual" or "open" (((relationships))) just keeps growing, as does the number of miserable people.

>20-30 years
Try 10.

As a married man who uses escorts I can tell you that it usually has nothing to do with my wife being less attractive or getting old but more with her not showing any sexual interest.

I love my wife, I love my family and I love my life but I haven't had sex with my wife in over 3 years. She is not interested in sex whatsoever, after our third child she stopped initiating completely and at first I thought it was because she was ashamed of the toll it had taken on her body (even though she is still gorgeous and I would ravish her given the chance). She just has no sexual drive whatsoever, I'm lucky if I get a hand-job on an anniversary or if she lets me jump in the shower with her. We still spoon, cuddle, go on dates and she isn't cheating; she's just lost her sex drive.

I don't want another relationship, I don't want to date another woman so escorts are the avenue I use. I haven't told her because I don't know how she'll respond and I should have probably suggested it before I did anything but hindsight is a wonderful thing.

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Yes, and it's also entirely true. A strip club employee (read: whore) is acting surprised that the clientele is filled with amoral degenerates. Classic case of the pot calling the kettle black.

fuck you.
you're part of the problem

Do you never just take her when you're cuddling or something?

Tried, she'd keep saying no before pushing me away or shouting at me. Tried talking about it but she cries and says she doesn't know why she just feels nothing anymore. Asked her if she wanted to see a therapist and she said no.

Even tried going down on her once which used to drive her crazy but after 45 minutes it was as if she was asleep.

>I work as the receptionist
I wouldn't believe that if somebody told me that during a date.

That aside, you have a skewed view: you only see the cheaters during your job so you assume most men are like that.

However it is looked down to go to whores even among men, some subcultures make a big thing out of going to strip clubs with your buddies, but most will agree that it is cheating. Some do it because of their shitty wives, not because they think it is a good idea.

Look bitch, no man is gonna leave his wife for a cheap whore (assuming the wife isn’t a bitch). We don’t work that way.

Men need to fuck as many women as we can get our hands on to be happy. We don’t hate you or love you less when we fuck other women. It’s just satisfying an urge. Like eating or shitting. You can have a man’s dick but not his heart.

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>nothing to do with my wife getting old
>but more with her not showing any sexual interest.
That is what getting old for women means

>wife for a cheap whore (assuming the wife isn’t a bitch). We don’t work that way.
>Men need to fuck as many women as we can get our hands on to be happy. We don’t hate you or love you less when we fuck other women. It’s just satisfying an urge. Like eating or shitting. You can have a man’s dick but not his heart.

This what I am afraid off. This poster seems like a good husband and father.

Just regular dudes, cheating.

This entire thread is downplaying cheating, but who knows how many of you have been cheated on and are none the wiser.

Not the entire thread.

>ameritards
I can't imagine another place in the world where this is considered normal for normally functioning people

Most of the EU aside from a few med countries is even more degenerate than America.

What's the alternative? Men don't need to cheat, men don't need to fuck multiple women or have sex all the time (especially as they get older). Humans however need intimacy and sex is part of intimacy for men. Let's say I didn't get my rocks off with an escort, after 3 years I'd be so sexually frustrated that I'd be looking to blame whoever put me in this situation which would be massive arguments with my wife which would cause a rift to grow between us.

I'm part of a forum for reviewing/talking about escorts as it's legal in my country, the majority of the members are ones who aren't getting sex at home and are looking for a way to get their release. Sure, some of them prefer a young girl with firm tits, some prefer an older obese woman. Doesn't mean they don't love their wives or families.

If, when you get older, you feel like you're less attractive to your husband or you don't want to have sex any more; just talk to him. Sure, what I do is cheating and it's despicable but there's no real alternative. if my wife was willing to talk to me about it I wouldn't have needed to go down this alley.

I don't however go to strip clubs, seems like a waste of time to oggle at breasts and then go home with blue balls.

Those guys see prostitutes because their needs aren't being met at home (and they're arseholes). Find a nice bloke, keep him happy in bed, and you'll never have to worry about it.

Also not all married men see pros. I never would - if I somehow let my relationship with my wife deteriorate to that point we'd fix it or split up.

>It just leaves me feeling awful that in 20-30 year when I am not as pretty, my husband will be in here getting his rocks off with some smoking hot 25 yo that I cannot compete with in the looks department.

How do you think young men feel having to compete with older higher status, richer, more powerful men? Get used to it.

Hitler and I don't see eye to eye on a lot of things, but I find strip clubs and the people who visit them absolutely disgusting and am an otherwise reasonably normal person.

Women have an odometer. Men have an EXP meter. 45 year old successful guy is the male equivalent of a 25 year old hot woman.

That's 25+ years women had to persuade him to settle. That generation missed their chance and now the man has every right to ask a 25 year old woman out. If she agrees and they're both single then it's none of anyone else's business.

Yep, fucked up, but they only have themselves to blame, it's a harsh enviroment.

Everybody cheats. Everyone. Men cheat because we want to hump someone and the wife/gf won’t put out. Women cheat because they think they found a better man. I’ve shaken hands with a guy who’s wife was riding me maybe 14 hours earlier with him none the wiser. I’ve cuddled with my girlfriend on the couch and eaten sweets she baked me while realizing she’s arranging dates with another guy.

All I can tell you is to keep faith and do your best, and don’t get too upset if you’re disappointed.

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kek, stop projecting

>Everyone

Demonstrably not true.

I have not seen any proof of that so far

statista.com/statistics/248856/average-number-of-sexual-partners-in-selected-countries-worldwide/
As you can see, the US is a ways down the list.

Do you know how its typical across sitcoms or things like that for guys to complain about their wives and not really 'enjoy' marriage much?
That is the norm for me in an office environment, most men complain about having to 'watch' their kids and their wives and things like that, it is really disappointing. These are the sort of people that I imagine frequent places like those and seem almost like a normal person outside of this type of degeneracy.
That being said like many others have mentioned, its not everyone and you just hope for the best that you can choose a partner that shares your values and isn't going to cheat on you and is going to enjoy being with you.

Ah, I'm German, our number is half of even that, so that would explain it
but generally speaking, except for all this adultery, US culture seems to be all about sex these days

The link can honestly be ignored. Firstly the data is from 2005 and secondly most of the countries that are ahead of the US are smaller liberal countries such as the Scandinavian ones where being promiscuous is encouraged. If you look at larger more established countries like France, Germany and the UK the figures are much lower.

Also last I checked, none of these countries has an entire city dedicated to strippers, sex and gambling like the US.

Men's libido doesn't really go down with age, it skyrockets during adolescence and your 20s then settles down but stays pretty consistent.

Honestly I don't think it's such a bad thing. If both parties are okay with it and it prevents other problems, what's wrong? Assume you're a 50 year old married man who still feels the same craving for sex as always, you're fat and unattractive and your wife is also fat and unattractive, and due to menopause basically has zero sex drive.

Instead of making a huge deal about it and potentially going through a breakup, just spend some money on getting your needs fixed by a proffessional and be done with it.

People forget that we age, and while sex is sure nice and great during your 20s and 30s, once you start getting older it's hard to get your rocks off to your SO.

>It just leaves me feeling awful that in 20-30 year when I am not as pretty, my husband will be in here getting his rocks off with some smoking hot 25 yo that I cannot compete with in the looks department.
That might happen, yeah. But honestly, if he sticks with you for 30 years you've already beaten the odds severely. It's not that huge a stretch that you'd be able to go without cheating on each other, since often when people cheat it's because something's broken in the relationship.

Besides, in 30 years we'll have sex bots so at least he wont be cheating with a real whore.

probably true, I just don't travel much or am all that interested in random hookups, so I don't know too much about the culture here, but all I seem to hear from the US is either Trump and war or something about sex.

Lads, all our countries are shit, there's no reason to be pointing fingers at whichever one of us is sitting on the biggest, smelliest pile of it.
>US culture seems to be all about sex these days
That's Hollywood, controlled by (((certain))) groups. This was even noted in the 50s, that while American society was quite culturally conservative, its media was full degenerate. And I'm not saying the US is great, not at all.

>all our countries are shit

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You're alright, Hitler.

Thanks.
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