So, I have been living on my own for a while now, Im in my mid 20s. I moved from my hometown and I do not have a problem with that. Got a pretty good job.
Now, there is this girl in the office. I don't why, but there is something about her that captivated my attention. Everytime at lunch, she always eats near my vecinity. My group of female friends had noted that. I told 1 of my f friends what I think about her. She told me: "You and her? Nah, it wouldn't work".
I had some oportunities to talk to her, and eveytime I feel like I want to be with her and Im pretty sure she feels the same way. The thing is, from what I gather is that she is married. She is in his mid 30s, no kids.
So, should I act selfish and make a move with her? Or should I just move on with my life and find something else?
What to do?
>should I just move on with my life and find something else?
yes
Go talk to her just to talk to her. Stip this silly motive bs. Thats how you you stink of fear and feel sad when shit doesn’t turn out how you planned. Ask her a question, tell her that her shoes are cute.
If you need a frame, stroll up to her, ask her name, tell her yours shake her hand, tell her something nice and then go on about your day. Whatever tou do, do not linger after you make contact. Have a point, be confident about it, then be important enough to be needed elsewhere.
Don’t be a home wrecker
I have been thinking of that. I do not have fear of rejection, or to speak to her. I do not wish to destroy a relantionship just because Im looking for something. But I can't help but to feel hopeless.
Yup
Well do you actually know for a fact that she is married? Either way you should tell her, if nothing else it can get it off your chest. Besides that I could bitch and moan that being an accessory to adultery is immoral but it ultimately is up to you if you try to actually have a relationship with a married woman, worst that could happen is her husband murder you.
I agree with you about the immorality. I think it is better for me to go away and find something to keep my mind off this situation.
I have been living under a rock for some time. May I ask, whats the big deal with these pictures? lol
Look into his left eye.
Dont make your honeys where you make your moneys.
LOOK AT ME!
Why didnt you help me!
You could have stopped it.
This is your fault, you are to blame, you are the cause of the pain and suffering I had to witness and bear.
Did I deserve this suffering?
Did i deserve this pain?
Let me show you my pain.
I cannot become clean.
Help me to feel again.
I want to live.
Dont fuck with angry lovers.
Be careful what you wish for.
This
Unless she approaches you then don't bother.
Offer her to sit on your face.
user pls, coming from parents who divorced vry vry bitterly, don't do it
there are plenty of fish in the sea, don't destroy a marriage for the one that currently looks appealing
Look, you want this girl because you were told that it would never work. That ultimately makes us want something that we can not have.
Dont fall into this hellish trick user. Move on and forget about her. This will only kill you.
What does it say about a woman if she is willing to deceive/cheat on her husband to shack up with another?
Do you really want a life with a woman like that?
I'm sure you and her will justify her actions in whichever possible so you can deluded yourselves into thinking you're not horrible people
Stay away from her, she's poison. Typical woman who gets bored and wants new excitement without thinking of consequences or who she's hurting