I finally lost my virginity yesterday and it was incredibly boring...

I finally lost my virginity yesterday and it was incredibly boring. I was a 26 yo virgin until yesterday and honestly I think sex is just not for me. I had a hard time getting it up and was anxious overall, and the physical feeling was worse than my hand.

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I'm a femanon, but I lost my virginity a couple months after I turned 25 and didn't really enjoy it until my third or forth time. I was anxious and it hurt. I would get super anxious before sex (and still do sometimes) but it gets easier. If you can mute your mind enough you'll be receptive to the other person's cues.

Was it with someone you had genuine feelings for and/or serious physical chemistry with? Or was it just with some random?

Makes a HUGE difference.

I just lost it two months ago as well, i'm 20 and I didn't like it at first because It basically hurt me and I had trouble getting it up too.. However, you won't have trouble if you do it again because it becomes easier, and your dick will only hurt two or three more times after that. It will be fun I SWEAR

It was a girl I met through Tinder. I'm pretty sure she didn't like it and she also realized I was a virgin, it was pretty shit.

I honestly don't think I'm made for this. Plus now I'd have to find another girl willing to endure it so

That's how first times go. Anxiety ruins it all.
My boyfriend was really anxious during our first time - he couldn't get it up, then he couldn't come.
After a while we really enjoy sex together.

It's normal.

lmao dumbass
you're supposed to fuck your girlfriend
of course some random thot is not going to be a good experience
where is your father? he should have taught you better
you're still a virgin by the way

Congrats, you know realize that sex isn't as important as virgins think it is.

Don't worry, it does get better. Practice makes perfect you know. You'll probably have to fuck the same person about 10 times to really start enjoying it. Also communication is key to good sex.

I think this is the worst part. I've been so focused on sex and not being lonely for the last few years so much that now that I see what I've been working for is so disappointing I feel incredibly empty.

Fuck everything

After I lost my virginity I had a hard time keeping it up and didn't cum for over a month. Now I fucking bend my gf over and explode like a volcano inside her sweet pussy. Feels 100x better than a good fap.

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Don't worry user, like I said sex does get better. Waaaaay better, as good as you had imagined it before.

Now that you don't have the anxiety of being a virgin life will seem easier and you can now focus on what is important.

I got my first BJ at 16 and it was fucking incrediable.

The next 5 BJs I got (over the next several years) were terrible. Turns out that one girl was just awesome at sucking cock.

I had sex at 19, was wasted, didn't cum, ddin't enjoy it, whatever.

First real gf at 21, we fucked all the time, it was awesome, but she had insecurities so should wouldn't do certain things because "she wasn't a whore"so the sex was good, but could have been better

anyways, i'm now 33 and my current gf loves fucking, does everything fun and explores all the time. I've never had better sex.

26 yo is too late to lose virginity, i can say, i felt way more pleasure when with 20 yo then now with 25, you've lost something you'll never be able to have again man

>I'd have to find another girl willing to endure it
lol sounds like torture

fearmongering

This probably comes as a surprise to you but considering I was a fucking virgin at 26 I don't exactly have girls lining up at my doorstep

Seems like the key to it is intimacy and I struggle a lot with that. God I'm so defective

I lost my virginity at 18 and blew my biggest load ever that day. Told her i was gonna cum, she turned around and sucked me off until i came in her mouth a bit and she pulled it out and took it on her face. I honestly dont think i will ever cum that much again. Pic sadly not related.

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>Seems like the key to it is intimacy and I struggle a lot with that. God I'm so defective

it just takes time and more experiences user

Don't worry, you've taken an important step and it came with a major realization.
You have to enjoy the journey of life (and sex) or you'll always be disappointed when you cross the finish line.

haha, no way man, i was a machine back then, 5 years is a hell of a time for your body to become shittier ,

just because you suck now, doesn't mean everyone declines the same way

Well .. first time sex can go either way. Yours sucked, as did mine .. don't sweat it. As with most other things practice makes, if not perfect, better. I can but speak for myself, but sex has always been best with someone I loved

sorry your body went to shit in your 20's, maybe if you hadnt spent your youth as such a retarded degenerate itd be better

Sex is overrated

Wow, I wasn't anxious on my first time at all. I just asked a girl if she wanted to touch my penis and she said yes. It was a great time. Stop over thinking this shit do what comes natural.

>tfw bf fucked me 12 times in a day
>he's 28

I fear what he was when he was 18 at this point.

Damn... how was your pussy after that fuck session?

It doesn't even happen too rarely, we've been together for a year and half and it happened like 20ish times.

It's just... sore, wet, worn out. I come so hard that I can't walk, our bed is always a mess when we're done.

But it's fun, I love fucking him.

Virgins have to realize for themselves what they're "missing out on." Otherwise it's just a bunch of "but you're not a virgin, you don't get it" narrative like we were born laid

>youre still a virgin by the way
Kek

Thanks for this post. I'm horny as hell now.
I have a cuckold fetish of eating out my gf after she's done fucking with another guy. It will never happen though.

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Seeing as I've hired multiple escorts just to get laid this "sex is overrated" narrative really needs to stop. Sex feels fucking great. I'd fuck a few times a day if I could. Just because you don't enjoy it doesn't mean that it's overrated. It's not. Virgins truly are missing out.

The domme side of me finds that kinda hot but nothing I'd ever act on, since both my bf and I are extremely possessive.
Even if I'd never make my boyfriend do the eating out. I'd love if we shared a submissive together.

>virgins are missing out
>hired multiple escorts
>never made real love to a woman
Really activates those almonds

I'd love to be the submissive there and do the eating out, too bad we're probably pretty far away

I'd never be able to do that IRL, I love being monogamous too much. We're one of those super close knit, possessive, all day together touching each other couples.

It's more a power thing that I don't really get to have with him because he's definitely dominant and I'm more switchy, but I always had the fantasy of sharing a sub with him. It's just going to be a fantasy.

Yeah, that's a sensible idea. Some things are better off in the realm of fantasy. Sounds like you are a great couple, so congratz on that.

Had sex thousands of times with dozens of women, and I can tell you it's only worth it if you share deep emotions and chemistry with each other. Otherwise you're pretty much just jacking off with another person's body.

>Real woman
I'm pretty sure she had a vagina and I put my penis inside of it. It's ok, user, you can keep lying to yourself. We don't judge.

>I think sex is just not for me

The first time is always awkward you fucking ding dong what makes you think that every time is going to be like that

>nd the physical feeling was worse than my hand.

wat

did you have sex with a stuffed animal or a real live human being?

I mean, things improve but the first impression stands.

Also yeah it was a real person, but I guess I was too anxious over "performing" to really feel any sensation