Sub-par sex

I've been dating my gf for almost 5 years and love her completely. But when we have sex, sometimes it almost feels like a chore. It's not like I'm unattracted to her, I get hard watching her change almost instantly. The sex is just boring and doesn't feel all that great. Her favorite position is missionary and it makes her cum relatively quickly, and if it doesn't I go down on her. the problem is that our sex sessions usually end with me literally pretending to cum in the condom and then going to the restroom and finishing myself. Is something wrong with me? She hasn't caught on yet, I think, and I don't want to hurt her by telling her she's bad at sex. What do?
Pic related, is her.
TL;DR: sex doesn't feel as good as I think it should.

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Have you tried talking to her about it? Like many problems, unsatisfactory sex doesn't become a smaller problem the longer you let it fester. Requesting a little variety in positions or the odd blowjob isn't unreasonable.

ask her what would make the sex better

or tell her what you want

or enjoy finishing yourself after fucking her for the rest of your relationship

I haven't talked to her about it because I'm pretty sure she'd be sensitive but if you have any advice on how to bring it up then please tell me. As for other positions, I guess it doesn't really have anything to do with that, it's more like she isn't really very tight which leads to not much sensation. In regards to blowjobs, we were each other's first and she hadn't so much as touched another penis before mine so her bjs are not good. She doesn't really like giving them either, but she will if I ask her.

>she'd be sensitive
This is exactly why you should talk to her about it now and not later, because the longer the problem goes on the worse she's going to feel about it in the future, that doesn't mean you can't be gentle with your honesty though

As time goes if you two are serious about each other on you're going to have to have lots of uncomfortable conversations about sex, money, babies, school, housing, blah blah blah-- maybe with each other, maybe with other people-- get the practice in now and have the conversation

If you're not getting much in the way of sensation it might be condoms to blame rather than a lack of tightness. I can barely feel a thing in them either, regardless of partner. Have you looked at any other BC options? Or thinner condoms at least?

As for how to approach it gently, make it less about "I need x, y, and z to enjoy this" and more about "I'd really like to try x, y, or z to make this even better". It sounds like you genuinely want to please each other, so just make it about discovering ways to do just that together. No offense, but there's always room to improve your own ability as well.

5 years and youre still using a condom? With a body like that I'm surprised you haven't. Why don't you try different things out? That's what being in a relationship is all about, communication.

Reminds me of Kramer in that episode of Seinfeld about faking orgasms.

>the problem is that our sex sessions usually end with me literally pretending to cum in the condom and then going to the restroom and finishing myself
But why? Just keep fucking her until you get close. It's difficult for me to cum with my girl, too, so I just keep fucking her until I'm on the brink. She gets to cum two-three times, and I get mine.

in almost 5 years you've been with her you haven't managed to have a nice fuck? that's just sad man, why did you prolong your problem without bringing it in the open for so fucking long? try to get her into new positions, also tell her what things you like and where she needs improving, not that hard and shouldn't be a problem even if she's sensitive about it.