My BF (21) and myself (F20) have been together for about a year and a half. He moved directly out of his mothers house into an apartment with me a few months after we first started dating. We get along pretty well, but lately he had seemed pretty disinterested in interacting with me. Not anything major, we still spent time together but he had been spending a lot of time alone in the bathroom which made made me nervous.
Sunday we got in a disagreement which resulted in him saying that he wants more freedom. He said not all the time, just that he missed when we only had one day off together. I told him that I could spend less time at home and he said that wasn't what he wanted. When I asked if he wanted me to move out he also said that wasn't what he wanted either.
I go to use his phone to look up my workplaces number and see that he has been on omegle. I immediately started crying, asking him if he had been doing erotic role play again (something he had done before we got together a lot) to which he admitted. I told him that I would leave him over this and asked him why. He said that he thought of it like interactive porn. I cried more and told him that I had trusted him, that it took me a lot to trust people and that he had completely betrayed that trust. He begged me not to leave and told me that he had only done it once (hmmm) and would never do it again seeing how I reacted to it. That he couldn't stand to lose me over this, after everything we had been through together. He said that he had never considered the fact that I might leave him. We went through his phone immediately and there was nothing aside from that on it. I also went through his PC as well and there was nothing there too.
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