I'm a black female dating a white male for over a year now. Over the past months he's been slowly coming out more and more with racist shit. He doesn't think it's racist just statistics, whites are superior, it's just a fact and apparently I'm an 'exception'. I wonder what has made him feel this way and he tells me he's thought like this for years, just he feels more comfortable about saying his thoughts more around me.
I really do love him and it's heartbreaking to admit that this cannot be good in the long term right? I don't know what I can do to help change his views? I also wonder why the fuck he's with me if I'm of an 'inferior' race. We broke up for a bit but then he was pleading to have me back. I'm very confused.
I hope to get answers from some Jow Forums users to understand what his deal is with being with me while believing this stuff?
If you are lucky he is seeing that blacks are not inferior, but cannot admit it. Maybe some peer pressure thing or he is just a sperg. He cannot deal with it so he talks to you about it.
Or he is a massive retard.
In the first case talk to him but do not put too much pressure on him. But he has to know that you do not like that. In thr second case just Break up.
David Clark
Unless you're looking to start moonlighting for the Klan, tell him you aren't okay with him indirectly besmirching your entire family and your ancestry the next time he does this. Ask him, "If I'm just an exception, why can't you just find a white girl? Why me?". His answer will reflect whether he's ready to change.
Michael Moore
Well statistics don't lie, and you shouldn't be so head strong in your views that you can't see both sides why not look into the statistica yourself? Either prove they are false or recognise he might be onto something?
Sebastian Gutierrez
this b8 is bland and uninspired apply yourself, user
Nathaniel Jones
>Well statistics don't lie
the statistics show african americans score lower on shit, not that they have a low IQ or that it automatically makes them inferior, does lower SAT scores mean that white people are inferior to asians?
please apply urself
Ian Ramirez
He isn't racist if he considered dating and continues to be in a relationship with you. He is just stupidly honest. In general blacks are inferior to other races in some aspects and there are statistics, studies and historic documentation to support the theory. It doesn't mean that every single black person is that, but that as a collective a large majority are. If you want to deal with his "racism" there are two things you could try. One has to do with yourself, which is remove yourself from the tribal mentality where you consider yourself "them" and think of yourself as an individual. The second is to talk to him and ask that he stop bringing up the subject with you and that you do the same. When I say talk, I mean talk and not try to change his mind because he came to his opinion through research and possible first hand experience, I doubt you will be able to refute a lot of what he thinks.
Does he participate in gatherings with actual racists? Shout profanity at people of other races? Treat people of other races poorly or different? What you describe to me sounds more like a prejudice which based on information and not racism.
I say this as a white guy who despises nigger culture but find black women attractive.
Brody Phillips
Colonising is the thinking man's fetish
Adam Edwards
>does lower sat scores meam whites are inferior to asians?
Yes,actually, it does. The order goes
Asains>whites>mud skins>blacks
Thats not to say there are not exceptions, but this is the general rule.
Nathan Anderson
frankly he's a dumbass and the cognitive dissonance will eventually catch up to him and poison your relationship. Also other user is right, if we're just going based off metrics then asians are the masterrace and we should all just bow down like the guai lo we are
Nicholas Phillips
> I also wonder why the fuck he's with me if I'm of an 'inferior' race. Obviously because he is dating you and not your whole race.
I think blacks are less intelligent than whites, but there statistically must be millions of them that are more intelligent than average, and they should be treated accordingly.
Austin Fisher
>Ask him, "If I'm just an exception, why can't you just find a white girl? Why me?". His answer will reflect whether he's ready to change. Best advice itt.
Camden Lee
>I say this as a white guy who despises nigger culture but find black women attractive. Yeah I mean I bet OP wouldn't want to associate with bud lite drinking, pistol shooting, trailer living American white trash. We've all got prejudices. Tell him to tone his down because, honestly, it's not a terribly interesting topic of conversation, differences in iqs between races.
Parker Hill
Please investigate violent crime stats country stats as well as IQ stats I'll let you come to a decision I'd advise you leave your ideology at the door, I personally don't subscribe to this mentality but sadly the. science is hardly settled
Kevin Young
There is a very simple answer if this isn't bait.
He gets off on dominating you, an inferior person. Men do this shit all the time and have been since the dawn of time. It's a very common fantasy for me to 'purify' inferior women with their cocks and superior culture. Open a history book.
There is a power dynamic in every single relationship and in your case this man has all the power. Since nerds in this thread are obsessed with stats like the soft-autistic Anglo Whites they are, know that black female and white male marriages have the lowest rate of divorce in the US. Lower than white-white couples. Couple this with the fact that women across the board initiate divorce way more than men do, and white men and black women are literally on opposite ends of the racial hierarchy in the west, and you'll find your answer. Black women cling to white men and do *clap* not *clap* let *clap* them *clap* go *clap* (see what I did there?)
You yourself, again if not baiting, know all of this subconsciously otherwise you would have dropped him way earlier or not even look in his direction. You like that he thinks you of inferior and he thinks of himself as superior. Classic dominant male submissive female right here. This is also war bride theory in 100% full effect.
Nothing stopped french women from spreading their legs open for invading nazis, and white men have been cucking and dominating blacks on the macro scale for decades. It's evident in why black women are obsessed with light skin and having mixed babies.
You're not mad at him for being racist. You don't want to change his views. You're mad at yourself because your instincts and vagina are going 100% against what your mind is telling you. Your mad at yourself because you are watching your biological urges be satisfied by your great grandmother's rapist.
Have fun!
Kayden Thompson
Tell him to stay away from Jow Forums or to at least not take it so seriously. If you take that place seriously it will rot your brain.
Benjamin Roberts
Why do you care whether other black people are smart? It really has nothing to do with you and it's not like black is actually a thing. I'm white and there are a bunch of smart white people and a bunch of dumbass redneck white trash people. I don't consider how other white people perform on test to be a reflection upon me. Caring about this kind of stuff is a waste of your time and energy.
It is a true statistic that so-called black people when measured form worse on tests than white people. So are you going to say your boyfriend isn't racist for knowing what a statistic is?
Michael Howard
How many people do you think have asked me about my SAT scores when applying for jobs?
Aiden Jenkins
you're a nigger stop avoiding the truth, black people suck and whites are superior at least to theme. It's not racist. Racism is about skin color, he's just analyzing nigger's character. If he was truly racist he wouldnt date you because of your dark skin. Obviously he isn't a racist he just hates niggers like you.
itt I'm black
Jackson Lopez
them* sorry my inferior genes make me miss keys sometimes, long fingers
William Butler
Is he hung?
Landon Bennett
the problem is to him it isn't really racism, so you can only really battle this view with other statistics and try to prove to him that "exceptions" aren't so rare i guess. seems like a losing battle though
if his racism stems from insecurity it would be even harder to deal with i imagine
Wyatt Howard
White racist here.
When he goes on about all this shit about race, all you have to do is ask a simple question;
"Wanna go back to white girls?"
He's with you because he may be a racist cunt just like me, but he knows white women are fucking aweful.
I've had some iffy experiences with black guys. I actually do get on with some of them, some I don't.
But I've never had any problems with black girls, and I doubt he has either. White women though, they'll label you a creep if you ask them out, and they'll also call you a creep if you do not ask them out (bitch I was trying to do my damned job). Basically, they'll start shit for no reason just because they fucking can and a million dumbass cucks will let them, they're fucking evil.
I'm racist, but when you flip the genders, I also switch which races I hate, and I know for a fact I'm not the only one. Maybe try to play on that. Ask him if he'd rather be dating a white girl.
Blake Morales
*Perform. Sorry, stupid Google voice to text
William Scott
this 100%
Ryder Miller
Ethnonationalists are failures in social life. They can’t get white girls that’s why they date blacks or asians. Saying that “conquering other races” is good.
Jordan Campbell
She doesn’t disagree with him, stupid.
Luke Richardson
A lot of racist white guys are into black chicks. Seriously, check for yourself with online dating. Cognitive dissonance or something.
Thomas Roberts
More and more white women are getting BLACKED, user. Look at what they search for on pornhub.
Gabriel Gonzalez
>>I fell in love with a racist >Mmm... Maybe it's some classmate or similar >>I'm a black female dating a white male >Wait, it can't be him, right? >>Over the past months he's been slowly coming out more and more with racist shit. >This makes no sense. If he's racist, how can he date her? >>He doesn't think it's racist just statistics >Oh, ok, so SHE INFERRED HE IS racist, but he's NOT. >>apparently I'm an 'exception'. >Well, those statistics are about the general population, so she is an exception if she doesn't fall in the mode >>I don't know what I can do to help change his views? >What? She wants to change his literacy, so that he can't read statistics anymore? >>I also wonder why the fuck he's with me if I'm of an 'inferior' race. >Yup, she inferred, the dumb fuck.
Well, sweetheart, try talking to him about it.
Jackson Howard
You disappoint me.
Jaxson Perry
But if he and you guys find white people to superior wouldn't you want to be with a white woman? I don't want to be some kind of back up choice and he would be with a white woman if they weren't 'awful' or whatever.
I've asked him about this and he says I shouldn't worry but I don't know what he's really thinking.
>cognitive dissonance will eventually catch up on him and poison your relationship yeah this is what I think is going to happen
user, I think you are right, my mind is conflicting with my heart, or 'biological urges' as you put it.
I feel like it's better to just break up now before I get in even deeper.
why?
Andrew Hall
It's possible you could change him but I don't see why you'd want to. Lots of white people are racist. Lots of black people have internalized racism. Lots of other races are anti black too. It's an unfortunate reality. He can be attracted to you and still be racist.
Wyatt Edwards
>But if he and you guys find white people to superior wouldn't you want to be with a white woman? We find white people to be superior only as a people. As individuals, whites are only superior to blacks on average, which means a minority of whites are not superior and a minority of blacks are not inferior. Blacks who are not inferior should get the respect they deserve.
That being said, if you don't understand that, you must not be particularly intelligent. So maybe he likes an inferior partner.
Or maybe he just loves you with both your qualities and your shortcomings.
>But if he and you guys find white people to superior wouldn't you want to be with a white woman?
I don't necessarily find us "superior" (everything has it's ups and it's downs). I'm merely protectionist about my own people.
I am racist in the sense tht I think the black community doesn't do itself any favours, choosing role models such as gangster rap artists instead of say, a good black role model such as Terry Crews.
It's less about being superior, and more saddened by the state of the black communities.. and the ennoblement of this self sabotaging behaviour from the Jewish liberal media.
I do not believe you to be inferior, but I believe you have the potential to be far, far better as a people.
>I don't want to be some kind of back up choice and he would be with a white woman if they weren't 'awful' or whatever.
I suppose it would feel like you are a "back up". Let me assure you, feelings I've had for black girl in the past were purely genuine because they were nice and caring people. They, did not act like stereotypes.
>I've asked him about this and he says I shouldn't worry but I don't know what he's really thinking.
People are irrational. Chances are he loves you and it simply conflicts with his political beliefs. This puts you in a position to push him away from ethno-nationalism and more towards civic nationalism. Basing his positions more on creed than by skin colour.
For the record, 90% of my racist is for jews, and that last 10% is for black people who think "suicide by cop" is a race issue. When white criminals pull a gun on a cop and get shot, we don't scream about how his life mattered and cry racism, we say "Good riddance, one less scumbag putting us all at risk".
Jose Miller
jews are only sinister on like a global, long term scale so i don't get the immediate and intense hate
on average a jew is going to be much more pleasant to talk to/easier to get along with than most shitskins because of our superior intelligence
Brody Allen
He’s right. Everyone knows it. Just like chinks have a higher IQ, lack creativity, have small penises and don’t feel pain. But there are always exceptions. You are one.
Leo Rodriguez
If he was racist he wouldn't be dating you
Maybe he hates nigger culture, not the black race
Jeremiah Cook
>white women are superior to the BBB (Big Black Booty) Yeah no
