Is it possible to acquire an alpha mindset?

I'm a neet loser. I'm a coward, lazy and I want to an hero. But I look like a chad so people who don't know me respect because I look good and because I am smart. I could have had a good life if I really wanted to and gave my all. What do to change my nihilistic worldview pol? I feel trapped by my brain chemistry.

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have you read The Power of Now?

Buddhism helped me a lot

No, is it good?

In what way?

Bump, ditto.

Tend to keep to myself, nose the grind stone. Watch Chads in tailored suits flirt/sexually harass coworkers and get promoted. Shocked the managers can't see through brown-nosing bull shit.

Basically I learned (and still learning) not to give a fuck. Go on the journey user, you won't regret it.

take responsibility for your life.

Leave Jow Forums for at least a month.
Stop playing videogames 6 hours/day.
Stop smoking weed
Stop binge drinking alcohol
Stop looking at porn
Find some hobby....ANY hobby that requires social interaction


Guarantee you'll begin to be a happier and overall more confident person...Or you can just dismiss what I'm saying and look for some easy way out while being stuck in your old habits.

This is what I am trying to do but I care way too much.

I am starting to realize this but it's hard to change nearly everything about yourself at 30.

Some nigger tried to put me down today after I refused to go to a strip club with him.
He kept asking why not and I finally told him “because I’m not some degenerate fat pile of shit like you, GOT IT!?”

He couldn’t keep eye contact even tho I was 5’9” and he’s 6’2”

What’s he going to do? Beat me up? Fucking nigger knows his place now, he’s my bitch.

Start lifting

Good advice, but yeah I'm not going to do it. The alcohol and Jow Forums points would be the hardest.

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lesson in there. Solid advice user

not after 30.

yeah I hate strip clubs. They stupid

Yeah you can snap into it, and hold it like a muscle, and eventually you'll just stay there and it'll grow strong, and you'll just be like a man guy.
Being an alpha includes not giving a shit about other people's thoughts. Sometimes people need to let go, stop appealing to other people's thoughts and feelings, and stop being embarrassed about your thoughts and feelings.
Strive to not hide anything, only look for more opportunities to express what you want and what you think.

Sounds like having an alpha mindset isn't worth it to you. Hope you find whatever you're looking for.

>learned (and still learning) not to give a fuck
this is the key, but you don't need soyboy Buddhism to realise that

This, also lift weights and read about how to influence people.
I dunno if it's possible to go from beta to true alpha, but you can at least be like beta prime or something. Better than staying a total fag.

U TELL THAT FUCKING NIGGER user!!!

Then stop asking for advice you stupid moron. Man up, child.

BALLROOM DANCING. Learn to dance a woman around you lazy fuck.

Thanks for this.

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Thank you. I wish I knew.

That's a lot to do at one time. It's better to work self-improvement like a system. Once the habit dies for the first thing you cut out, you can start to tackle another. Telling someone who spends all his time on video games and Jow Forums, drunk and high, to stop doing all of those things simultaneously is setting him up for failure. Choose the one that damages your self-esteem most, and cut that one out first.

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Are you really young? I had this problem too but I just stopped caring when I got older. Once you come out of your shell you'll see most people are even bigger pussies than you are and it's pretty simple to get the upper hand in most situations.

What about stopping to care if, say, a coworker really pisses you off and you want to tell him.. do you step down and continue to just not care or do you tell him to fuck off?

>going on Jow Forums to ask advice on how to be alpha
>All of the advice is from people who clearly are not alpha and only wish they were
>Actual alphas don't spend time on this shit hole of a website

Just kill yourself, op.

I noticed:

Beta allotrope of TIN, white power!

lol

Yes I did it just be social learn what people like and be more active and act like your a 10/10 even if you’re a 5

i feel like this is a good start can you go any further

yes but not if you're short

>Leave Jow Forums for at least a month.
>Stop smoking weed

but what the fuck would I even do without these things, it's not like I don't get enjoyment out of them but am addicted it's still what I want to do. It's just that they also have a negative effect on you. But an alpha should be able to browse Jow Forums when he wants and smoke weed when he wants without it drastically affecting his mindset. Is there really no way to become alpha without sacrificing the shit that you actually love, even if part of the reason you do it is because it's easy or an escape? I literally have like no hobbies outside of anime, occasional video games and drugs. Do I just have to pick random hobbies and hope that being in social situations even if they're situations I hate and don't want to be in will make me more alpha? Is there really no other way than faking it until you make it? It'd be easier if I had some secret passion that was being held back by my beta-ness but there's none of that shit I'm just an empty shell seeking satisfaction or validation

not OP tho