Turning 29 tomorrow. I don't want to be a wizard, but the idea of sex grosses me out so much

Turning 29 tomorrow. I don't want to be a wizard, but the idea of sex grosses me out so much.

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If you dont want to be a wizard just hire an escort

This. Just be straight up and say you’re a virgin and that you honestly don’t feel like doing this but you don’t want to be a virgin. Hopefully she’ll work you over real quick and then you don’t have to worry about it

There is nothing wrong with not having sex if you don’t want to. Just forget about it dude. If you have normie friends tell them you have sex so they don’t think you’re a wackjob though

you may end up enjoying it, my expectations for how things would go in bed was way different than when it happened. I would give it a go you can it may not gross you out afterwards, only live once right? might as well try it

If it's not shameful, why do I have to lie?

There is no objective truth. Whether you think it is shameful or not is all up to you. I’m just saying that I think in American or European society these days most people think it’s weird to be a virgin adult, so tread lightly when you think about spilling the beans to people you want to spend time with.

What's wrong with being a wizard

People think less of you.

Real friends won’t disrespect you about it. They might make playful jokes, but if they are real friends they won’t actually make fun of you

I'm glad I had sex with a girl the normal way, fapped way too much back then (still do lmao) and couldn't even come until like the third or fourth time we had sex.

Would have been pretty pissed if I blew money on an escort just to not get off.

This is a terrible idea desu.

If the idea of sex grosses you out then you should get some sort of therapy. I mean how long have you had this feeling? How has this affected past relationships? If this is truly the reason you are a virgin then wizardry is really the last of your worries.

Not OP but I felt like him for a long time. Only thing that changed my mind was I met a high quality woman that I liked. So the thought of sex with her seemed interesting.

I still think tho that sluts are gross

I can understand not wanting to bang every crackwhore, bar slut, and carnival gypsy but if you are going about your normal day and you are grossed out at the idea of having sex with every woman you see that's a problem.
Are you saying that you were turned off by every woman until you met this quality woman?

He's just ace

You should have your hormone levels checked and maybe talk to a therapist just to be safe. Other than that, there's nothing wrong with being asexual! I think it speaks well of you that you know what you want (or don't want) and haven't been pressured into making other choices.

24, M, virgin here.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. I've turned down sex before, and I'll do it again. I don't plan to have sex with more than one person. I'm waiting for the right one.

Society is ass backwards. Just because they have this idea that not having sex makes you a loser doesn't make it so. If it comes up in the conversation, I have no issues or weird feelings about telling someone I'm a virgin. If someone doesn't like it, that's their problem. If me being a virgin makes people think I'm weird or pushes them away, well then I probably wouldn't want to be friends with that person anyways.

Once you embrace it, it becomes easier. It's not you, it's them. You're a virgin. You made that choice. It's your morality, it's your code. You know what's right and wrong. Just because everyone else acts like a sexual deviant from Sodom doesn't mean you have to.

>I don't plan on having sex with more than one person
Pffffft hahahahahahahaha

>I'm waiting for the right one.
How will you know they are the right one? You might want to have sex with someone you don't think is right, if only to have them stick around for a little longer so you could find out.

sex is overrated my man. you'll do so much better if you take all that energy and time you spend thinking about sex and put it toward something productive.

Honestly just hire an escort. I fully believe I'd still be a virgin if I didn't just get it over with and realize it wasn't a big deal and that women aren't all that scary after I saw an escort. I got my first gf a few months after I saw an escort twice. I was relatively normie for a few years and still didn't get laid because I was terrified because I didn't know what to do and it obviously showed which turned women off.

Until you get married, then both of you drive yourselves insane wondering what sex with other people is actually like. It's okay, I'm sure you're more special and different than the couples in dozens of other threads I've seen here having that very problem. :)

Don't worry about it.

>You might want to have sex with someone you don't think is right, if only to have them stick around for a little longer so you could find out.

If the girl is willing to break up with someone because she can't keep her legs closed until marriage, then I would never ever want to marry someone like that.

That's not how I work or think. Sex is more than just "it feels good".

So I’m a 19 year old virgin, should I an hero?

>barely not underage asking if he should give up
Why dont you give life a chance jackass? You're haven't even finished a fifth of it