Found this in my girlfriends bathroom. Wat do? I found empty coke bags in the bathroom too. She swears it was this girl she let live here for a few days who was kicked out for that reason. My gf has a history with heroine and drugs in general. She's done it behind my back and lied about it.
Anyone else? Wat do? I've made it pretty clear that this was the line. We live together and I'm jobless. I can go back home and get a job there.
Someone help. I want out of this but she's also there for me alot. Probably cause out of guilt from the secret drug use hu?
Go back home and get a job there. If it's anywhere around her and she's got previous issues she's more than likely lying to you to keep you around. You don't want to be in a place with something like that anyway or you might be considered an accomplice or an enabler. Even if she's not lying, why would you humor the possibility?
Make good on your stance that this is over the line.
Connor Ross
Self bump
Kayden Ramirez
Oh, if you really want to test her, bring her and the stuff into the bathroom and flush it. Her reaction will tell you what you need to know overall.
Jack Gray
Is there no hope? I think I'm in denial. She's cut down about 90 percent since we first met. Now 2 years later, about every 2-4 months I'll have random occurrences like this. She also takes a shit ton of Suboxone. Thing is, she works almost 40 hours a week, and I HAVE been jobless for over 4 weeks now. Do I need to lighten up? I honestly wouldn't look back if I wasn't such a mess either...let's be honest though all we have is unprotected sex. I can't see outside the box though because I do love her(pun intended)
Jace Walker
I'm one that always thinks there's hope, but you shouldn't reach for it in this situation.
James Long
Good luck with dating a druggie
Michael Bailey
It's only empty bags and residue at this point. And burnt squares of tin foil. I don't doubt it was the girl who stayed here, but she only stayed for 2 days while I was back at home getting stuff, the question is was she doing it with her?
Nicholas Barnes
Oh, the picture quality was low enough I had trouble telling exactly what it was.
Brody Young
That's what I thought when we first met man. And so I made it clear. When I was working though I partied too. But I never smoked anything that wasn't weed and at worst I've done coke with friends socially. I don't understand how someone so beautiful can stick a needle in herself. She's also rich, can cook, and basically takes care of my NEET ass..
What would that make me if I stayed? A bitch?
David Perez
Not a bitch, but someone whose word doesn't hold weight. You already drew the line, so you need to follow up. Let her get away with it when she knows what to expect from you and she'll just do what she wants even more.
Yeah man man hands are tied. I already left once and that was a few months ago. I feel defeated. I feel like her reaction would probably fake and full of tears and just the same bullshit.
Robert Ross
Well you may have more experience than I at seeing these things, how fresh would you say the residue is? Luckily, sex is a much easier addiction to break. Doesn't matter what her reaction is, focus on doing right for yourself.
Ayden Miller
It doesn't look fresh. We live together, and when she's not at work she's here at home. It would make sense that that little druggie bitch who stayed here was getting high in the bathroom and just didn't clean up. She WAS kicked out and staying here because of that in the first place. My gf is too "cool" for her own good. She'd smoke it just because it's there and she doesn't fucking think. She never gives signs of doing anything harder than weed and she's so jealous that she never does anything or goes anywhere without me.
It just doesn't add up. When I say it out loud I feel foolish
Zachary Hall
Well it'd be wrong for me to say one way or another since I'm not familiar with her character, but by initial impression is that she spends as much time with you as possible to convince you she's not doing anything. That could be more or less suspicious depending on the context. It's possible she really had no involvement in this situation, but you're well within your right to leave just because it was in your space and you've reneged before. If it's as much of a problem as it seems, she could probably handle working while on something. There's genuinely no way to tell from here.
Nathan Smith
She just admitted it. I'm fucking numb.
Noah Watson
Well once the immediate effect is over, get your ass home. You have no more reason to be in denial or make excuses for her. Be good to yourself the way she refuses to do for herself.
Liam Butler
I'm sorry, user.
You need to get out of there and move on with your life. Good luck, friend.
Nolan Bell
Im so sorry user,
Ger out of there, if she sees what happens when the trust is broken with your partner mybe she can learn a lesson of life. When your beloved one start to make lies, she never stops. Trust me , I've been there. Good luck friend.
Isaiah Clark
When I left my ex I met the best friends in my life so far through work and they've saved my ass repeatedly. I lost weight because I wasn't being fed by someone with no sense of nutrition, got to exercise more and have dealt with absolutely zero excessive emotions since.
Colton Foster
What did she say after she admitted it? That’s what really matters. And being truthful to yourself and your loved ones is the path to recovery.
Luis Morgan
>I was sick hun. I’m fucking sorry . I haven’t done shit to you but make sure you’re comfortable. You’re gunna leave me when I need you most ? I don’t disrespect you I don’t cheat on you I don’t talk to other guys I don’t even hang out with my homeboys the most I do is see Chris from time to time . And I was going to tell you . You keep a lot from me , you do a lot of stuff behind my back hun u ignored me for the longest when u were in Houston I had to beg for ur time or ur phone time . I guess I was Lonley . And I fucked up... I did . But god all I could picture was you doing coke with miller and mason till 8 in the morning . Knowing what kind of guy miller is and god knows who or what he would call over Or what y’all would look at . Shit you still look at porn and other bitches and jack off to it . Low key it bothers me but like it sounds stupid to tell you that but it’s how I feel. And I dno it’s ur so much sexual with other things and people and with what you point out directly first I dnt kno how to say it hun but it does bother me I do get jealous and I dno if that even is the right word for it . I get protective . I dno but besides all that I understand . I did it . I fucked up. And if you would of asked I would of told u. But I really that bag of coke wasn’t mine , but I’ll admit yes I did do the other thing . I’m sorry .... I guess I do deserve to be left or walked out On I don’t know I’m just trying my best with what I got ..... Im still an addict at the end of the day but I’m not half as bad as I used to be even u said in the old apt in Houston I can’t even have the place a little dirty cuz it reminds me of those times and ugh it’s just a lot . But I ducked my head and tucked my tail when you said bad bad Ariel . I know it was bad.... I know I was bad . I’m sorry .
Parker Price
like the other anons said, that's the end of the line. you stated your boundaries, now you need to stick to them. I'm sorry this happened, but it is better for you. You'll find someone better. Do it quickly now and grieve later.
I disagree. Don't give her any more chances. Drug users will keep pushing boundaries. She needs to go.
user, this sucks but you'll be better off in the long term, I promise you.
Christian Carter
Stop it. Stop dragging it out. It's over. Get out of there. The longer you talk to her the more twisted up things are going to get. You need to leave now. Any anons talking about giving her second chances are fucking retarded.
Ayden Clark
I hate her so much
Owen Garcia
Get the fuck out of there, these kinds of situations have ended in death before and I'm not talking about using drugs.
Chase Bennett
At least you are certain and can act with conviction now. I'd agree with everyone. Your word is not equally valued in this relationship; good time to get out before she """forgets""" her birth control or your condom """happens""" to have a hole in it.
Justin Jenkins
never trust a junkie abandon ship asap before something seriously fucked up happens t. voice of experience
Joseph Morgan
You are still not above her morally though. You're a coke head. You two will end up back together, junkie.
Colton Flores
I'm glad you said that dude. That's the part that really fucks me up. I dont do THAT much coke(can't afford it but I won't say no to it) But because deep down I'm the same kind of piece of shit is why we're together. I used to have a beautiful white girlfriend that worked at a floral shop, I had a new car and my own apartment... Fast forward and I'm with this ex model tattooed Jewish bitch that is absolutely bat shit insane and does whatever drug she can get away with that would honestly get pregnant on purpose to keep me around, I'm jobless, broke, I smoke weed and play fortnite all day and night.
This is a new low for me. We definitely would not work if I was in a better place. And she's bouncing back from eating disorders and rehabs and fuck man we're just a fucking mess and I don't want to give into that. I still have a shred of dignity saying I shouldn't stay just because we're the same type of garbage
Charles Long
Thing is, the only thing that hasn't happened is the cops getting called and me getting hauled off. I assume it's the next logical step if this anger and distrust adds up. One of us is gonna scream too loud. She's gonna stab me with a fork and then tell the cops it was in self defense and then get me locked up
Jace Cooper
It is on everything else BUT drugs. Instead of acting like a slut and going out looking to get fucked, she'd rather buy a Suboxone or a I guess smoke a bowl of heroine to make it even. I'm with her 95% of the time and I can tell when she's bent
