>I agree. These are her toys....
See above for rationale...
>This assumes she cleans her toys regularly.
I have no way of knowing about this, as it just came out of the drawer.
>I think "used it with other guys" as the core of OP feeling butt hurt isn't true.
it kinda is but as i stated there is more to it.
> He's upset she gets off more powerfully with this big dildo than with him. But he shouldn't be.
Why not? of course I'm sad she liked it more than me.
>Sex should be fun and pleasurable.
agreed.
>Each of you should have the goal of making and helping the other get off as best he/she can.
go on..
>The body's sexual responses can be overwhelming, watch someone who's in touch with their own body experience orgasm and you'll see someone who gives themselves over to the internal drive to immerse themselves into the feelings and shut out the outside world. It takes a lot of trust to share that with someone.
yeah, probably more lyrical than id put it but ok. so why wouldnt i want that when im inside her? more to the point why wouldnt she want that when im inside her?
>I would be finding out what helps her enjoy this even more.
the fact its huge, and its not part of me.
>It doesn't matter if those orgasms come from fingers, tongue, penis or toys.
im glad you feel that way. i don't. i wouldnt mind if it was fingers, tongue or dick. i do mind that clearly I'm not built to please her.
> The intense complex chemical, hormonal and emotional reactions of such a shared experience builds trust and allows love to develop to its greatest potential
but im not sharing the experince, im poking in and out with a rubber baseball bat
im just not wired like that. im very into giving my partner pleasure, listening to what they like and doing my best to give it. i cant add 3" to my cock. (fwiw im not small, this was huge)
>Try it.
i did, i didnt like it.