My gf wants me stop looking at porn completely, what do I do? She has in detail described how shitty it makes her feel...

Tell her you’ll stop and save your essence for only her but she’ Going to have to take every drop of your seed and like it.

Looking at porn is completely normal user.
She sounds super controlling and you are a fucking adult. If she doesnt male libido then you need to get yourself a smarter girl friend OP. You give in on this then you will be giving in on more shit later on.

Only fucking scum watch porn. You shouldn't do it regardless of nagging pussy.

Either quit it or just fucking kill yourself.

dude, porn is something for when you don't have a girlfriend, what's wrong with you?

Yeah, stop looking at porn. You have a gf, just put your peepee in an orifice of your choice.

Giving up porn isn't that bad, it's good for your sexual health to masturbate

However, she sounds like she might be insecure or have issues which is the real problem here

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She has insecurity issues.... my ex-girlfriend hated the fact that I went to the Gym regularly and I only had a nice body to make other girls look at me.

I mean WTF, of course I hit the gym to look good I'm not doing it just because... but women always find something to bitch about I guess...

Women also watch porn and masturbate, this is just ridiculous

My girlfriend had a problem with this for a long time, she got upset and she even posted some threads online about it.

Fast forward to now and she's discovered that she likes rubbing her bean to gang bang videos. I think it was just insecurity (don't show them yours) and unfamiliarity.

How do she even know that you use porn? If you don't tell and use incognito mode I don't see what the problem is. And say that you just have a high sex drive. If she can't satisfy you like that then watching porn is better than fucking some other girl

Good. Porn is filmed abuse. If you don't believe me look up any ex pornstar's testimony

Does porn affect your sexual life? If yes, then what are you waiting for? If no, it's easy, you can't change her mind unless she gets into porn too, so either stop it, or keep watching and leave her, or make her suffer.

Record your own exploits with her. Seems a fair compromise.

I've been this route ,Op. She has esteem issues that can't be cured by your lack of open.

Good luck, faggot.

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Pron!!! Dammit, Pron!!!
It's not you, Op. It's her.
Trust me.

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Porn is fantasy.

Next she'll want you to never masturbate or hang out with your male friends.

>Fapping to professional garbage

Camgirls all the way.

Just stop watching porn, you degenerate. It's not good for you.

Ok I guess I am the only one who agrees with your gf.

Stop watching porn, like most other vices, it only produces cheap pleasure and slow destruction. Girlfriend or not, you shouldn't watch porn because it's bad for you.

Also think of the message you're sending your gf. "No matter how awful it makes you feel, I will always prefer to look at the naked bodies of strangers than you"

How would you feel if she cheated? Or worse, if she cheated and said she litterally can't stop no matter how it makes you feel?

So value her (if you do) and show some self-respect, that you have control over yourself, and quit. It's not that hard. If you feel the need to watch some, then run off and jerk it. Instantly the need to look will disappear.

Why not make porn with her?

Quit porn for a while but keep jacking off.

Does looking at porn affect your sex life?
>you don't have as much sex with her because you already masturbated beforehand
>you refuse actual sex with her in favor of looking at porn
>you don't find her as attractive because you're used to seeing dolled up actresses with huge tits and asses and barely any imperfections
>you have high/unreasonable sex expectations like agressively fucking her ass without any preparation before shoving your cock in her mouth and facefucking her until she passes out
If you answer yes to any of these, then you should quit porn.

Women can be very mentally ill about this. I am a porn addict, I'll say that upfront, and my first serious gf wanted me to stop jacking it to porn. I said "ok, sure darling", and then realised I was addicted properly when I stuggled.

Here's the fucking clutch point though. I realised what she wanted me to do was unreasonable from a logical point of view, but I also realised I personally had to stop.

So after a good few false starts I did it. I went a week, then two weeks, then a month, then two months. Two fucking months! This was huge. I excitedly told her that I'd hit the 2 month milestone and that I felt better, that my head felt clearer and, allthough there are no "superpowers" (I was sleeping with her as usual, and allowing myself to masturbate without porn if needed), I felt somehow better inside.

She said to me "what's the point? We both know you'll watch it again. You'll never change. You aren't capable of it."

That afternoon alone I masturbated until my dick was limp and bruised. We broke up shortly afterwards and aside from a period just after the breakup of near total absence of sexual interest in which I did nothing sexual at all, I've never made any serious attempt to stop. I think I'm about to again, it's been a few days anyway and the cravings don't get bad for me that soon anymore, after so many test runs at stopping.

But I share this long, seemingly unrelated blogpost with OP and all of you to urge you to, if you are going to give up porn/masturbation, don't tell your female partner, and do not do it for her, do it for yourself.

That one sentence of dissaproval from her, after I had pushed through my own complexes to give her what she want has left bigger scars on me than she could ever realise.

Don't cave in, she is controlling insecure bitch. Say that porn, as long you watch when alone and doesn't effect your sex life, is fine and she shouldn't try to control your life.

If a girl loses to porn and ends up leaving it just means she probably wasn't that attractive to begin with

So you just compare watching porn to cheating? Jesus christ, are you retarded or a femanon because that will explain your illogical thought of this none issue.

As long the porn doesn't effect OPs sexlife and watch every single day then there is no problem at all. We men needs to masturbate because it's healthy and good if you don't want prostate cancer.

>. We men needs to masturbate because it's healthy and good if you don't want prostate cancer.
If you have a normal sexual life, you don't need to masturbate. And if you're incapable of fapping without porn, then I think that you need to stop because it's affecting your life

>If you have a normal sexual life, you don't need to masturbate.

Who decides that you or OP? Doesn't matter you can do whatever you want as long it doesn't effect your sex life.

Again OPs gf is just an insecure little bitch who want to control his life because "muh feeling insecure if he watch other girls on a fucking screen". I bet she is against OP fap an imaginary girl in his head too.

>And if you're incapable of fapping without porn, then I think that you need to stop because it's affecting your life

No. If you have regular sexy time and sometimes when your gf or bf is away, watch porn because why the heck not. There is no problem. You're adressing a none issue here.

>Who decides that you or OP
I'm just talking about the prostate cancer

>muh feeling insecure if he watch other girls on a fucking screen
Okay, so if some dude goes to a striptease show, girls should be okay with that?

Probably

Or that her boyfriend is a selfish moron

>I'm just talking about the prostate cancer

Normal sexlife is pretty individual so. But again if you have a normal sex life and want to masturbate it's okay.

>Okay, so if some dude goes to a striptease show, girls should be okay with that?

But that isn't what the subject is about, lol.

She didn't "lose to porn" dude. Did you read the post at all? Me making progress wasn't good enough for her either. She just wanted to be miserable. She would have found something else to hound me about. As seen with her being dissatisfied even after I gave her what she wanted.

The key point in my post isn't me disagreeing with the idea OP should stop. It's being careful of his girlfriend's motivations.

The kind of woman who insists her partner musn't watch porn has a risk of being an overcontrolling nutjob.

For the record, we broke up for a variety of the reasons, but two that stand out most are her having cam sex with a friend of hers, and her wanting me to stop talking to my friends.

Men: it's a daily struggle not to cheat! this is a fact because muh biology! anyone that disagrees with me is lying, even that guy, shut the fuck up and deal with it woman.
Also men: why is my girlfriend so insecure? doesn't she understand that she's enough for me??? clearly all women are crazy and none of this is my fault.

Men: porn is just a fantasy and has nothing to do with real life!
Also men: a a aaaaaaa i jerked it to gay porn one time oh god am i bisexual???? please help me adv ;___;

Looking at porn in a relationship sometimes is healthy and normal. Sex involves satisfying your partner too, and sometimes you just want to be lazy and get yourself off. Also, maybe she doesn't give up the ass or something too, so anything except complete compatibility is another reason

>Hey guys so I have this small problem..
>Just kys already lol

Quit porn
Start masturbating to her friends instagrams

My gf is like this too. She doesn't like me watching porn, but she's a pain in the ass to get in the mood for sex. I mean, she's not a dead lay, but she was raised in a pretty conservative household, so I think she's just not comfortable about it.

Should I leave?

This. Don't start doing shit for girlfriends. Changing yourself leads down a dark path (I'd give the same advice if the sexes were swapped).

Being mindful of your porn use is a good thing. Completely giving it up is silly. Does she expect you to ignore millions of years of biology and never think any other member of the opposite sex? Does she never ever think of another guy or get dripping wet when Chris Hemsworth's shirtless body is on the screen?

This is simply her insecurity.

>She doesn't like me watching porn, but she's a pain in the ass to get in the mood for sex
You need to have a frank discussion with her, but don't expect from her to change. If it's too much for you, then yeah leave

shed better be willing to suck you off instead of you masturbating.

also you two probably need to work on your sex. average sex ppl have is not their full potential.

I don't like that my boyfriend looks at porn (even if I don't "forbid" him, I just told him I don't enjoy when he does) but
>I fuck him whenever he wants, he just has to ask or initiate
>I suck his dick whenever he wants, till he comes
>If he just wants to fap, I'll follow his instructions and strip/dance/touch myself/do whatever
>If I'm not around, I'll send him nudes/videos

If she's willing to do the same, would you do it?

Women bitch if you don't fuck them enough. What they bitch about is not important.

I think she have to change her mind, let her know that it's something that you need, not because she is not enough

Yeah but if those are the complete set of guidelines, maybe you're still not checking one of the boxes. Maybe he wants you to jock his nuts like a bitch in heat. Maybe he wants you to dress up like a furry. Maybe he wants you to put baseball bats in your butt. There's an extremely wide gulf of things he could be possibly into that you can't or won't do. THAT is where porn comes in.
inb4 he's a filthy degenerate that should change his ways.

Choosing between beating your dick to girls getting fucked or fucking a girl yourself LUL don’t be a fucking retard

I do most of the things he's into, he really just has to ask. I have no problem indulging in his kinks.
Again, I'm not 100% opposed to him watching porn and wouldn't get mad or upset over it. I just don't like it much and prefer if he doesn't.

This is an amazing point. Sometimes there is shit I think is hot that gets my rocks off, but I would never want someone I love to be involved with, or it’s too secret and shameful for me to share with a girlfriend (for example, I have a sexual fetish for Barbie dolls. I could never share that).

That’s why I need porn every once in a while, and a girl saying it’s off the table is unacceptable in my mind.

Fucking is exhausting. Cumming on your own terms has its merits.

>”I either bust my nut to petit Asian number 15”
Or
>”you bust my nut whenever I want it”

Stop watching porn and start giving her dick. If she doesn't want to put out get a girl with a libido that matches yours.

Start NoFap user

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