ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

some ppl used to say i was attractive in hs or were into me

but i make a tinder acc and get zero matches so i just feel like a 0/10

>Tinder
I don't know user, maybe you just have shitty look, or your profile game is weak (shitty photos or boring bio), maybe girls in your environs prefer different type of a guy. Tinder is mainly for people who look for casual sex, so if you are a handsome but nerdy kind of a guy, I can see why most girls would ignore you, acting under the assumption that you wouldn't be a good ons material, unlike some fuckboy hunk. Try asking out someone irl maybe?

do guys shit test?

Girls:
If I ask for your number, and you say you have a boyfriend, how often is this actually the case?

Who gives a fuck? There is no universal answer to this question.

Dip boi she already chose imo and move on

Ladies, my mom is desperate for me to find a girlfriend, but I can't do it because I've recently moved back home and haven't found a job that pays for rent. It's it a waste of time for me to date when I'm jobless and living with my mom? I do go to school but I feel like I'm a worthless partner. Do I date or wait?

100% because I actually do have a boyfriend

It doesn't matter, there are girls with boyfriends who are open to the idea of cheating.

If she says no, move on.

Friend dyed her hair and I will meet up with her in a few days.
What's a good sweet and flirtatious and compliment?

>my mom is desperate for me to find a girlfriend
>my mom
Yeah, but what about you?

Ladies, the girl i really like told me that she likes me as a person, but she doesnt want to get attached because shes afraid of hurting me/hurting herself. does this mean that she recently got off a relationship???? i cant even tell if she really likes me half of the time and then i think its just bad timing.

I'd like to, but I can't accept my current state of being. I'm working on it, but it's taking a ton out of me and I feel like women would just laugh at my current state anyways

Ladies, how can I train my wife to give better head?

I tried going into the city tonight to bar-hop/meet girls but I felt insanely out of place and uncomfortable and called things off after only two bars. I just don't like crowds and noise.

What places am I supposed to go to meet women that aren't spergs/autists? I like the idea of the bookstore but with my luck it'll all be single Moms.

ANY

I can handle initiating contact ect and chatting ect.

Although I just don't know where the hell to go to meet girls.

I'm a member of a church and there's lots but they're extremely prudent unless you're an engineer or doctor (Common profession at my church)

Where do I go to meet single girls? I've got Aspergers and I can't concentrate in a club for chatting but I've been groped by chicks before.

I've stopped masturbating and I've started hitting random girls on facebook.

I'm suppose to be christian but it sucks I'm just so horny because of nofap. I shouldn't need a girlfriend but I do with all these urges I'm having wet daydreams while doing university work.

Please advise

Close lady friend of mine ended a years long relationship.

I like her and we have great chemistry but obviously I don't want to just swing in like I've been waiting this whole time for it.

But I know if I wait too long she might just end up with someone else.

Wat do?

Your hair looks so good if it was a dick id suck it

Give her a few days. Then do it.

A few might, but for the large majority no. Men tend to view and approach relationships from a much more honest and non-manipulative angle than women.

>do you still have crushes?
i'm not sure what is a 'crush', but my romantic attraction to people isn't any weeker than when i was a teenager (i'm f/24). i had a year-long break recently though, when i thought i'll never be in relationship with anyone in my life, but now things got suprisingly good

i really like how you look, i won't assign a 'grade', but it would definitely be very pleasant for me to talk with you, look at you and get closer

i wouldn't mind if a guy lives with his family (i know it's a very common thing in some cultures, and where i'm from it's not shameful to live with your family while you're still studying). but if you feel insecure about it yourself (e.g. in your country most people of your age live alone), i'd suggest you solve these job/apartment stuff before you focus on relationships. it'll just make you feel more confident about yourself, and things will go smoother

just genuinely say what comes to your mind as you see her

it's possible that she had an unpleasant experience lately and didn't get over it yet, or she can just be generally insecure about herself. i'd say it's a good sign that she said she likes you as a person but doesn't want to get attached. it probably means that she likes you enough to be afraid of getting attached. if i was in a situation like hers, i'd want someone gentle and careful around me, someone who doesn't try to rush things too much, but still seems interested in me as a person. i think it'd be easier for me to relax around someone like that and get courage to be vulnerable again

If a girl browses Facebook while on a date, how should you react? Someone I know got mad and left the date because a girl did this. I felt bad for her desu, everyone is glued to their phones nowadays. Did he overreact? Was she being disrespectful? What is it?

that aint me lmao

people kept saying that guy was 5/10 or average looking and i was thinking damn if that guys a 5/10 then im a -4/10

>be apolitical
>girls assume you're hiding your love of Trump
How do I convince them I'm really just apolitical? This isn't a good thing but I honestly don't even know how America's political system works I only know it has 3 branches and some vague shit.

i didn't assume it was you at first, but from your (?) reply so someone else it seemed like the picture was yours

i just don't get this whole rating thing. at the moment i'm drawn to some people that are probably considered bad-looking by most. idk. you can also underestimate yourself (i mean i was certain that i'm not pretty at all a few years back, but other people kept saying that i am, and my perception changed lately)

that's what i thought. it's like he suddenly became a fucking woman.

>women
What's something you wish more men would understand?

Lowkey chad genetics you just have to have a frown. Also build your neck.

i wouldnt up and leave there and then, but i'd be very disheartened and probably wouldnt ask her for another date

It was disrespectful of her to do that (assuming she wasn't posting something about their date or looking for something to show him), but it's an overreaction to actually get mad and walk off.

It doesn't matter, men here are going to refute it anyway

idk, men are okay to me. if they don't understand something, i just explain

Like they'll turn it into an argument?

Basically, yeah

No that doesn't sound right. ;P

Jesus, it's like an awkward attempt to flirt online

If it's disrespectful enough to not want to date again, why is it not enough to leave?

Because that's akin to throwing a tantrum. He could have made an excuse to leave or just seen the date out and then told her he couldn't see it going anywhere afterwards. There are better ways to handle situations like that.

>women

Was the concept of you being a stay at home mom and housewife ever encouraged or considered a plausible life goal by anyone in your journey towards adulthood? Do you wish it was?

Kind of? My boyfriend earns a really good salary and his earning potential is such that it's possible that I could if we wanted. It's not what I want for myself though

How much does it bother a girl if a guy has slightly thin hair on top? Like you would only notice it if you were on an escalator or he was sitting down (or if the girl was tall)

Wondering whether it's worth to blow another $10k to make it perfect

Why is that?

Because I want to have a career. I didn't go to law school so I could be a housewife

Do you think the focus on a career will help or hinder your relationship?

Help, of course. Why would it hinder?

Lack of time spent together, lack of attention to the child, etc.

youtube.com/watch?v=-Z49ixqSFAE&ab_channel=FACEandLMS

youtube.com/watch?v=N0m_GVG3Oxo&ab_channel=FACEandLMS

how true is this?

Well we'd be out working at the same times and he would be 'neglecting' the child the same amount as me so what's your point? Besides, it's not like I plan to stick my children in day care from birth or anything

If you think it is a good call, go for it.

Maybe it will work out.

they already do understand, what i wish is that they would care

ladies

What are you after when you give a guy a tv show to watch and ask him which of the female cast of the show he likes?

My (ldr) gf ignored me for the entire day yesterday to hang out with her friends. I know she wasn't busy, because she was posting on social media about watching stuff and chilling. She could've said "hi" or literally anything else, but she didn't bother. It's the first time she's ever done this, too.

What do? I'm pissed off at her, but I don't want to erupt and start a fight, so for now I've just decided to not engage with her at all.

Just bring it up to her in a calm, polite way.

Tell her that you're hurt by the fact that she didn't want to talk to you and you don't understand why she wouldn't do that, since she was on social media. Tell her that you appreciate if she makes time to massage you every now an then even if she's busy.

Yes.
My boyfriend is going through a rough patch at the moment so we're not 100% sure we can pull it off, but ideally we'd like for me to be a stay at home mom and housewife.
I am working on a degree till he figures his stuff out.

GIRLS: what kind of jobs would you like a man to have

A skilled job.

Girls (and guys),
I have been friends with this amazing girl for a few weeks and Im really happy with our friendship. However, the worst possible scenario had to happen and I have started crushing on her HARD. I talked to her about it, the feelings are not mutual but she took it really well and helped me out of the dark spot rejection puts you in the best she could. We saw each other briefly yesterday and I was okay with it I think. We are going to hang out soon and Im honestly looking forward to it since I want her in my life regardless of her being interested romantically in me or not. It does still hurt though and Im still depressed. I have a few questions now:
1. Is there any chance that she will like me back given that Im now going to work on myself physically and that we are probably are going to grow closer as friends with time?
2. How do I get over the fact that she might be seeing other guys and do you have any tips for handling the situation should she find a boyfriend?
3. How do you make this situation the least amount of awkward you can?
4. How do you cope with rejection in general?

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It doesn't matter to me. I dated people who were blue collars and people who retired at 30 because they made enough money.

Anything that makes them happy and makes them make enough money to sustain themselves.

beep boop

How am I supposed to handle my SO lying to me about being busy with work/study but actually going out with her friends/guy friend

Male here.
Where do I meet women? Where are you hiding? I just got done with college where it was easy to find girls but now that I've moved I have no clue.

Most people don't notice hair thinning let alone hair loss until it hits obvious levels.

Any social events. Work. Online. Hobbies.

Dump.

>asking this to girls
Good luck. lol

Refer to him as "Twitter shitposter".

I don't understand.

Girls and guys, I have a girl acquaintance. We greet each other and make small talk sometimes, but that's it, I keep my distance. Recently, I changed my appearance and I THINK I can get a gf now.
>Do you have a bf?
If her answer = no
>Can I get to know you better?
How is this?

>features a man in photo more prominently than self
>profile says you have a boyfriend
>"wh-why aren't I getting any matches, am I ugly?!"

If you want people to tell you you're pretty, just say so.

I don't know if I'd make a stink, but I wouldn't call her back and might make an excuse to leave if the opportunity presented itself. That kinda thing really shits me.

>to hang out with her friends
>I know she wasn't busy
Uh, yeah she was, she was with friends.

So you have this female friend and you want to have her as your gf. Changing your appearance might have sparked her interest in you more, but don't you think she would've already been interested before? I don't think appearance would be the only deciding factor here. Go ahead and ask her though, but I would rather move on to the next opportunity if you get a no.

Girls and guys,
How often do you just shamelessly answer questions intended for the opposite sex because you know you have all the answers? And if you do this, do you allow the asker to believe you're the sex they were asking for answers from, or do you preface that you're not?

I'm a girl and girls never do that.

When I really know the answer, I reply, but I do preface that I'm a guy.

Why not? This sounds like laziness.

Ran into a female friend who I haven't seen in a long time. I hadn't talked to her in that long because I thought that she was dating her gay best friend (I didn't know he was gay, he's masculine and he's in a fraternity so I assumed he was straight). Anyways when I see her she talks to me for 15 minutes about how she never sees me and how we need to get lunch etc. She also mentioned about how whenever anybody invites her on a date she always goes. Am I reading too far into this or was she implying that she wanted me to take her on a date?

She isn't really my friend, even though her colleagues sometimes refer to me as such. I purposefully never even asked for her contact to text her, because I don't think I'd have a chance and I didn't have any self-esteem.
>Changing your appearance might have sparked her interest in you more, but don't you think she would've already been interested before?
Highly unlikely. Even if she still doesn't have a huge interest in me, couldn't she give me a chance?
>but I would rather move on to the next opportunity if you get a no
Yeah, I'm expecting her to want to be friends if she rejects me, but I'd rather keep things as is, I will keep my distance and move on. I know I won't be able to just be her friend (unless I discover something about her that really turns me off).

Sounds like a thot looking for a free meal.

That guy is like a solid 8/10, are you kidding?

He's way too young for me, but he's a 8/10 in my book.

Maybe. The thing that complicates things is that last year she was a oneitis and while I've slept around this year she still kinda is a oneitis for me. That's despite me interacting with her at all. IDK why I'm so infatuated by someone.

Not really/somewhat related, but I'm an autistic shut-in with no life experience (never had a gf, never had friends) and I give people advice, fufufu.

He's not unattractive, he just looks like a child. I'm not a pedo tyvm

Girls, do you consider someone wanting a virgin girl their age who is saving herself for marriage as having high standards?

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Yes, guys aren't allowed to have standards. You take what you can get and are lucky to even have a glorious queen woman give you the slightest attention, you misogynist pig

It is a pretty high standard.
You're allowed to have it, by all means, but it's pretty rare to find girls who are saving themselves for marriage, especially if you aren't extremely religious or extremely young.

>tfw this one middle aged lady said I looked young and said she meant it as a good thing
Who here /youthful Chad/

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>high standards
No
>red flag
Yes

Fyi sane women don't find boys who look like they're 15 attractive

No, you really won't. Kek.

You're welcome. *muah~*

girls, what if a guy that you like has a small dick, would that suck? would your love for him be shaken?

>Sph
>Femdom