Is marriage nessesary?
I am 23 years old now and have never had gf.
My grand mother recommended me arranged marriage.
She is same age as me. She looks like 6/10 for me at best.
She is not educated well.(she just graduated from community college) and she want to be housewife.
to accept this arranged marriage is beneficial for me because my grandparents will build the house for me.
But honestly, i don't have any rational reason to get married.
What do you think of marriage? user
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You're a man, which means you have time. Don't rush into a lifelong commitment with someone you're not too keen about, play the long game and wait to find a woman who is for you.
That being said, don't sit on your ass waiting for it to happen out of nowhere (I know someone who did that, and he is still unmarried in his sixties. Just "never met the right woman!"). You have to put in effort, speak to girls, be open and straight with them.
You're still young so the idea of marriage and children probably doesn't appeal to you. For some men in never does but most do get the urge to settle down between 25-40.
A free house is totally worth a failed marriage. Just my opinion
do it faggot
Nip post is best post.
stop being a cunt
he's getting arranged because he doesn't have the looks to pull women in
Go for it
There's literally nothing wrong with an arranged marriage especially if she's a virgin
>can get a wife to himself just like that
You ungrateful piece of shit.
>she want to be housewife.
>6/10 meaning no cheating
>free house
>not very educated
deal with an "educated" woman once and youll see how this is a positive
youre actually retarded if you dont accept
I have only been married for twelve years, but I am confident saying to you that marriage is a commitment. Love is all the bullshit you survive side by side with your wife. Go for it user, but only if you can commit. If you go into this feeling forced or like you could have done better, your life will be Hell. You will live with the shadow of regret and "what if". Look at the woman's picture and say, "Yes, this is the woman with whom I can build my life and for whom I can learn to be a good husband and father", if the words seem hollow, if you don't believe it, express your concerns to your grandmother as well as your gratitude for the opportunity she has provided. I am sure they will guide you from there.
Honestly if she has a good personality then go for it. Men who've never had to live with a girl don't have a clue how important personality is.
Would you mind posting a picture? Also, if she wants to be a housewife, do you have a stable job? Is she a nice girl otherwise? Not a gold digger?
Think about these things OP, also if she wants to have children or even can have them. I understand Japan’s birthrate has collapsed
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I like strong, tough, independent and educated woman.
I respect such woman not submissive inmature girl
or he's just larping
>I like strong, tough, independent and educated woman.
>I respect such woman not submissive inmature girl
oh youre gay
i understand now
Advice like that is why your birth rate is so low.
non educated woman is just boring.
I got probably highest education in the Japan. and when I talk to "norman" girls. it turns out that they are brainless retard. Soon, I will be bored.
>I like educated woman.
This is what an "educated woman" means in the USA.
> strong
> tough
> well educated
All of these are recent inventions.
Don't go down the route of an arranged marriage. You & her will only be miserable. My great grandparents had an arranged marriage. They fought like cats & dogs. My great grandmother also had depression. If you want to get married, find someone YOU love.
Its better than dying alone, sure you might be able to cope with it right now but you are going to be filled with regret if you don`t act now. I would recommend to go forward with the marriage, its not like you cannot have affairs at later point?
Our birthrate is the highest in Evropa
than you're an idiot because those are ideals made up by western society by imposing masculine traits onto women
none of those things are natural to woman and none of those things are good for a wife and mother
your preferences are setting you up for a life of failure and misery
You should find a 8/10 to improve you genes, otherwise it's a vicious circle.
Take the bride and the house do your duty a d produce some children . The two of you will learn to love each other and you will find a measure of happiness.
Whatever happens don't be fooled by movies and nonsense about true love.
all women are brainless retards you simpleton
you don't look to women for stimulating intellectual conversation
that is what men are for
do you not have any male friends??? wtf
stop looking for masculine traits that you would look for in a male best friend in a potential wife
Doesn't really matter considering you enter de facto "marriage" under the law by living with someone long enough.
You can never escape the roastie menace.
dude, every woman is retarded and immature
theyre made to have fun with and loosen up with
go out, no pressure on sex or anything sexual, let loose and try to have fun with her, go on a date, if you can have fun with her go for it
if you marry her then you can educate her a bit yourself
women are moldable dude, the feminine conforms to the masculine, leave the deep philosophical talk and shit to your buddies and sons whenever theyre older
community college is more than acceptable dude
again women are made to have fun with, prolly why youve never had a gf at 23
be social with her, go out and just be goofy dude, it will open alot of possibilities in your life
i struggled with this too when i was a bit younger
Is this larp? This has to be a larp. Literally all the worst fucking qualities of modern day slags.
love is an action and a choice to commit to making someone happy
it isn't a feeling
you sound like a simpering school girl
any determined confident male can turn any woman into the type of wife they've always dreamed about
assuming they don't fall for the lies of feminism and take charge and constantly demand self improvement from the wife
and she WILL fall in line because that is what women do
Do it, you need to save japan with japanese babies
They are allready fucking importing dirty europeans
This is why you're dying out, jap. Your instincts are shot. You sound like you're the woman. All the stuff you listed won't bring you any happiness at all. Find a woman you can love, respect her feminine nature.
Everything you listed is a reason for her to not want you.
it makes sense if he's Japanese
a lot of young Japanese emulate western society
You're time will come bro. Make yourself available but don't get desperate and the right person will come out of nowhere. Do good deeds and tell the truth and the 'gods' will look out for you.
Go for it
Take her on a date and get to know each other better
>I like strong, tough, independent and educated woman.
I know you're LARPing but ironically these supposed qualities are guarantors to a failed marriage you are afraid of.
Nice larp yellownigger.
WTF?
I want partner who can understand my works.
+ I need human partner. I don't need pet which looks like human being.
Do it! Life sucks either way! You either run away from it or you embrace it! Love is a fraud, the best you can hope for is cozy! Just move in with her, don't rush anything then aim for maximum coze bro! Bathrobes and home spas! Eventually your dick will get wet! Also make her accept all your quirks, hide nothing and drop porn!
No it's not nessassary
>33
>worked retail my entire life because high school dropout
>meet 21 y/o shut-in girl off craigslist in 2011
>just barely finished high school due to being an anxiety-ridden mess
>doesn't want kids
>doesn't want to get married as we have next to nobody in our lives and I sure as fuck dont have $60k for a fairytale wedding
Stop showing off your easy and lucky life gook, yeah? Well at least my pepee is bigger than yours
Free house and fairly loyal vegene and bobs; knock out 4-7 kids and whats to complain about?
respond to thisand thisrespond you dumb faggot
you are just ignorant idiot.
My supervisor is female and she is one of most talented scholar in the Japan and world.
Gender does not matter. there is good,elite and educated female thinker in the world.
he doesn't have any male friends so he wants his wife to be his wife and act like his ideal male friend
Yeah I'll the court gives the house to the woman
Underrated
Depends on how much you value that shit OP. Forget whatever the fuck we’re talking about , or what everyone tells you to do. Do you want kids and a hole at the expense of your freedom?
You should consider yourself lucky that your family looks out for your interests, i wish i was lucky like you. Accept the marriage and be a good husband. Good luck.
Trips of truth. Also, 6/10 ain't bad if that's what you are too. Finally, she is only cc educated, so she likely isn't all uppity Ms hasn't been to feminist/sjw indoctrination camp aka college, AND she wants to be a trad wife and take care of her children? Jesus Christ faggot take the deal. If you don't want it, tell your grandparents I will.
Sounds like a good deal to me. Marriage doesn't have to be about love, it's a commitment you make with another person in order to start a family. You don't have to love that other person, you just have to trust their integrity, that they won't fuck you or your kids up. Western societies have pushed the meme of marrying for love and look where that got us, over half of all marriages end up in divorce, kids are so messed up they end up shooting schools or becoming snowflakes and we have an all time high rate of suicide. What you need to ask yourself is if you trust your grandparents. Do you trust their judgement? Do you think they are good judges of character? Or have they been mislead by a psycho that will fuck your life up?
man you are stupid
even if I assumed your supervisor is intelligent by male standards (which she most likely isn't) and isn't just a trained monkey who got her position by sleeping around (most likely)
then she would be an extremely rare female
there are NUMEROUS studies showing irrefutable evidence that men's brains are more efficient and IQ is higher and that women aren't logically oriented
also their brains are smaller. this is a well established fact
but even if she is then it's extremely unlikely you'll ever find another one because actually intelligent females are an anomaly
>gender doesn't matter
the field of biology begs to differ you ignorant buffoon
and career women cause nothing but suffering mark my words you dope
Read the Metaphysics of Sex by Evola user. I will include a link. To put is simply men and women are not equal you are solar and she is lunar. A women needs a man to shine bright and each completes the other.
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o fuq, I went to community college. Does that mean the japanese think I'm uncool?
and this is ignoring the fact that you're equating education and knowledge to raw intelligence
any idiot can get a degree
college education is completely irrelevant to IQ
for all you know your arranged wife is exactly the type of "intelligent" girl you're looking for
I think the simple idea is that you have a faux marriage to delude your old shitty grandparents into believing they'll have grandkids, make sure it's entirely in your name.
Fuck off NPC back to your cuckshed
Do you have any idea how many people in your own country killed themselves because they didn't have the offer that you have right now?
Given the falling birthrate and limited housing of your nation, I say you should marry the 6/10 and get the free house