How do I (19, straight guy) stop being utterly terrified of sex?

How do I (19, straight guy) stop being utterly terrified of sex?

>inb4 virgin
I'm not. Sex just fucking sends me into panic attacks.

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stop taking it seriously. sex is not serious. it's one of the dumbest things people do. make light of it and it suddenly becomes completely trivial.

Are you afraid vaginas have teeth or what?

>jus like dont do the thing hehe
Thanks, great advice.

No. I'm just completely and utterly overwhelmed and have no idea what to do. Whenever I think about sex, I end up getting stuck in these obsessive headspaces where all I can think about is sex. I get sent into autistic panic attacks that get so bad I start shaking and wanting to cry.

>"i want advice"
>"not THAT advice"
shelter yourself forever then you fucking sperg. you're going to have to do some digging to figure out what fucks you up psychologically about the act. self-esteem, interpersonal connection, repression? get to work.

I don't understand what you're saying. That's called being horny? Why does thinking about sex make you freak out it should just make your dick hard.

>That's called being horny?
No, it's not horniness. I can get horny but as soon as I actually try and think about ME having sex it ruins it.
>Why does thinking about sex make you freak out it
I literally explained why. It's overwhelming and I have no idea what to do. If I actually think about MYSELF having sex with someone it'll cause those panic attacks.

Your advice is trivial as fuck dude, trust me, if it was as easy as just turning my fucking brain off I'd have done it years ago

Get therapy faggot

if your mind is flooded with incomprehensible thoughts and you're overtaken with cognitive dissonance with no clear underlying trigger, then there's literally no advice that can be given to you. you're going to have to work through this yourself.

sounds like performance anxiety

just get drunk enough next time you have plans with a girl

It's not performance anxiety. It's far worse. Also, I don't drink.

start

I hate alcohol though.

Fuck a hooker

Learn to like it

I'd rather not and just stick to weed.

just lick the clit lmao

Ok then what, I don't even know how to fucking thrust properly

>I don't like sex
>I don't want to have sex
This problem solves itself. You're basically a whole new meta of human, you just think you're at some disadvantage.

It's like if we were all on a pill and you weren't because the pill recuperated our basic functions, of which you were already possessed.

Not being into sex, not liking it, you can basically circumvent a problem everyone has, which is that sex domineers a bunch of their thinking.

...do you not have any sort of sexual instincts?

How did you get that at all from what I posted?

It's actually
>I like sex
>I want to have sex
>However, I can't even think about it without having panic attacks

Nope. Do you really think I'd be making this thread if I did?

>It's not performance anxiety

>losing your shit when imagining yourself having sex

it sounds like very bad performance, but it still sounds like performance anxiety

>Also, I don't drink.

Then get into other drugs, prescription or street, until you're able to get over this mental hurdle.

If these episodes are so bad then you should be on meds regardless.

>Nope
Ok, in this case see a therapist who specialises in sex issues, get some sex counselling because that is not normal and Jow Forums can't help you with this one. You need to work on the issue with a specialist, sounds like it's a complex problem so don't ignore it m8.