Why is it so hard to find a girl that just wants casual sex?

Why is it so hard to find a girl that just wants casual sex?

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It's easy for good looking guys.

Casual sex is pretty boring, but people go to clubs to find it. Also, that's what Tinder is for.

It isn't

>Also, that's what Tinder is for.

It mostly isn't.

Make it abundantly clear in your bio that you only want casual sex.
The girls that don't will avoid you like the plague.

Girls already avoid me like the plague tho

Can't speak for women, but my guess is that casual sex usually ends up with a 9 month mistake that's gotta be taken care of for the next 18 years. Meanwhile the guy just ghosts out onto the next casual sexual encounter.

be careful what you wish for, unless you're come cool-ass psychopath or stone-cold autist with no emotions, you absolutely will develop emotions for that girl and want to have her as your gf

it's also easy to find not-so-good-looking girls

yeah if you go to bars and clubs it's pretty much what like half the people are there for

Not our fault bitches don't use proper birth control

>Why is it so hard to find a girl that just wants casual sex?
Literally all you need is basic social skills and you're set. I'm unconventionally attractive (a funny looking fucker) and a bit overweight. I can sign up to pof and get laid within a week.

Everyone who complains they can't get laid is a social outcast or they don't leave the house, women don't approach you for sex, you approach them, more often than not you can take them to a dessert place and then go back to yours because you chose somewhere near yours so the mood isn't gone when you reach your front door.

it's casual sex, nor careless sex.

It's like the thing about how people are more likely to get into a bike or car accident within a 5 mile radius of their home, whereas when they're driving somewhere new they're extra careful. It's when you're in a relationship with someone that you tend to put too much trust in the person and one of you gets the other accidentally knocked up.

Still need to be attractive to pull this off. Women care more about a guy's face than his body.

How do I know if I have basic social skills and if not, how do I acquire them?

>Women care more about a guy's face than his body.

That's like saying "men care more about about ass than they do about titties"

yeah some of them do I guess, definitely not all of them.

>Still need to be attractive to pull this off
I regularly get told that I look like Sid the sloth. My face is covered in moles, I have big bushy eyebrows. My waist is slightly wider than my hips, I'm overweight, I go to the gym 3 times a week, I eat too much.
>How do I know if I have basic social skills and if not, how do I acquire them?
Could you start a conversation with a stranger and befriend them?
Could you start a conversation with someone you found attractive?
If not, get a job in retail, once you can talk to people in a work scenario, talk to people socially (work social nights out) or talk to people in pubs and bars, then approach women and chat to them (ones you aren't interested in), then talk to women you find attractive, state your intentions early on.

This is true.

I'm also finding hard to find guys who don't want a relationship.

The vast majority of hot ones do, going by what I've seen.

Then the girls you're fucking are likely ugly too. Your advice is worth shit.

On that note, why do girls lie about wanting a guy who's "ambitious"?
I've been on a couple dates now where I mentioned my career aspirations (leading to high ranking business positions) or how I've been getting interviews lately and neither of these have been making much of a difference.

You women are all liars.

>I can't accept that I'm an autist and you're ugly but still fucking women, therefore they must be ugly too
I'm fucking a QT cardio bunny. I've fucked plenty of attractive women, I don't fuck ugly women, fat women, women who have kids or women who are older than me.

Women aren't pining for chad from the sports team with a six pack, women want someone with a little life experience, a few interesting stories and social skills, it's not anything new, ugly guys have fucked attractive women since the dawn of time.

How about you try not being a bitter little bitch, that might be whats stopping women from progressing further than talking to you.

You're there to fuck her, not marry her. We don't give a fuck about your ambition. Your ambition in the moment is to make her orgasm on your dick and that's it. Save your ambition talks for your mother.

K. I'm going to go on PoF this weekend with my best photos and take your advice. If I don't get laid throughout the week you have to admit you're full of shit.

>how I've been getting interviews lately

So you're unemployed right ? A girl whose looking specifically for someone ambitious probably doesnt like that very much

That's fine. But then why lie about caring about a guy being ambitious?

Nope. I tell her about what I do currently too.

I personally don't. As long as he has a job he enjoys that's all that's important to me.

One half of women are gold diggers who don't want to drive you away by playing with open cards so they'll act nonchalant about it. The other half thinks "Oh great, he's able to replace me with escorts or something in a few years" and loses interest in you for serious relationship material.

As for the casual sex seekers - as already mentioned above, they don't care about your ambitions beyond your bed sport abilities.

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>> a few interesting stories and social skills
Fuck

>If not, get a job in retail

Been a bagger for 4 years, and I'm just as socially inept as I was before I got a job. Hell, I might actually be worse.

Hear, hear. I'm fucking sick and tired of being seen as boyfriend, fatherly, or husband material.

Bump

>why is it so hard in our cruel, animalistic, hypercapitalist society to find a woman that will go out of her way to dole out the one asset she has in exchange for something even her cheapest sex toys do better?

What

>Make it abundantly clear in your bio that you only want casual sex.
that's a good way to get horrible matches. You can get just about any girl that's willing to meet up and at least go on a few dates to have casual sex with you. In my experience if she's willing to go as far as to meet up with you and see where things go she's fair game, you just have to keep stringing her along if she asks the inevitable
>what are you looking for
or my favorite
>what are we?
a lot of girls on there on paper will scoff at the idea of hookups or casual sex but will do it for the right guy, the caveat of course is the bullshit that comes with the territory when they start to suspect you're stringing them along. If OP has no concern for ethics he should take this advice.

Just string a women along so you get sex. If you like her then start a relationship. If not keep her in rotation with other women. Or just dump her

You just described the modern woman that gives away her body to strangers on the regular. They are everywhere.

I haven't seen them. In any case you can blame the weak state of modern men be the cause of women's today idiosincracy

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Its basic propaganda. Your enemy is omnipresent and overbearing but paradoxically idiotic and incompetent.
There are entire societies full of loose attractive women but they still won't fuck me.

In my experience there's only a small number of girls who want casual sex with multiple guys. Most of them want a loyal boyfriend

That's easy if you're not ugly