'You're a failure son'

>'You're a failure son'
Anyone got any bad parenting/upbringing stories with a good end? Also. Should kids be disciplined?

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'I love you son.' That's what my dad would say before he beat my ass.
'I love you, but you're screwing up, and you are going to live right.'

My mom used to whip the shit out of me when I really fucked up. I got caught shoplifting with my older brother and was whipped with a telephone wire until I bled.

Married 2 kids good job.

Slightly dead inside from looking at life through the eyes of an illegal alien that was raped, beaten, and saw family/friends murdered all around her on a daily basis until she was 17 and ran away to America with my dad.

She now has her own cleaning business and my father has a landscaping business. My dads a citizen as of 6 years ago and she is studying to take the test.

it's true man, I'd get popped in the mouth for the dumbest shit but the next moment he'd be like, "I just don't know how to get to you sometimes but shock, please don't be that way it ruins lives in ways your child mind just won't right now get."

and now I get it, thx dad for not raising me to be a failure

>That one time you decide that dodging the strikes would be a good idea
>*LASHING INTENSIFIES*

>be me 9-13
>summers spent and grandma's house house
>bad poster
>grandma carried a metal ruler and anytime i was slouching she would smack my back really fucking hard
>if i was sitting slouched on a couch id get smacked in the head withe the rule
>developed perfect posture
>literally had a girl compliment my posture and ask for my number
>be in car wreck at 22 asshole boomer tboned me
>fucked my back and arm all up
>after surgery have shit posture
>standing straight up hurts
>slouch for a year and gain wait because i couldn't lift
>currently 24 and trying my hardest to always have perfect posture
>perfect posture means i now pinch a nerve
>pain feels like i have a knife jammed through my lower ribs up to shoulder
>doctors only want to give me opioids
>fuck that shit
>i spend the whole day fighting to keep posture perfect just to live in pain
>wish grandma was still around to smack me everytime i slouch

>That one time you choose to fight back.
and that was how I bought my first home.

Have you tried cannabis?

>dad had a short fuse
>would get yelled at the smallest thing
>walked on a knifeā€™s edge everyday
>mom was a little open but would always make horrible decisions based on feelings
>one time I forgot something and went back to get it, dad blew up and kicked me so hard on my side I limped for a week
>even though dad was this way he was fair most of the time
>one night, all grown up he told me the stories how grandpa would discipline him
>they were 100x worse
>mfw I realized dad thought he was going easy on me back then
>mfw dad apologized for being too rough on me once he realized what he did

I have no resentment towards dad

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My dad was the most bluepilled nice-guy push over. It took me years to overcome what he imprinted on me.

>tfw you wish your dad had been a real dad and just hit you instead of using the "parenting" book written by a feminist jew

My dad used to flip out and just beat me up lol.
Left me psychologically damaged for quite a few years. As a man now I don't think hitting kids is wrong, but it has to come with the message of why you are being hit. Children, myself included, are such wild little bastards and need to be brought in line. My mum used to hit me too but she always told me why. My mum used to also make me really upset when she would tell me about the perspective of the things I was being nasty to. It used to make me feel really bad and guilty and that used to make me feel worse than being hit.

If I have kids I will hit them if they get bad, but I will tell them why it happened and why it needs to happen sometimes.

>Should kids be disciplined?
Yes, but people on both ends of the argument seem to be extremely retarded.

Children need to know that the parents are in charge, without question - especially in matters where their safety could be at risk. If they violate a rule that puts their own safety at risk (and I don't mean kids just doing rough and tumble shit, I mean stuff that can cause serious injury or otherwise) then I see that as an appropriate cause for discipline.

The problem is, some "pro-discipline" parents will use hitting etc for things like drawing on the walls, which doesn't really provide any lesson.

On the other end of the spectrum, morons think that a light smack is the same thing a beating them senseless with a golf club.

Parents let me play video games 24/7, eat nothing but garbage. Was obese and a uni drop out.

Quit video games/porn, got Jow Forums as hell, on track to saving the white race. Going to heavily limit/monitor kike media with my children and no vidya games.

it doesnt really help unless im really stoned and since i work construction and spend a lot of time 20+ feet in the air i cant plus i dont really like the feeling of being high

Maybe look into a new profession then. One conducive to your condition.

my mom was very young when she got me (17) my dad died when i was little and she never was the same after he died.
She spanked me atleast once a day.
Even if i behaved good i usually got spanked 10 minutes and it was hard.
If i behaved badly (she was very strict) she would sometimes spank me with a belt hard she also did it for like 10-20 minutes and some extremme chases it was atleast an hour.
fucking sucked then and it turned me into a beta, it also gave me a femdom fetisch.

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Why meme flag

Did you and your mom ever talk about the whipping? Or is it something that nobody wants to bring up?

my parents didn't raise me they just had me and kind of let me do my own thing my whole life. Never pushed me to try hard, quite the opposite, I was told school meant nothing. I feel like I have no path and never had any guidance, i am 27 now. Total fucking waste of space, I work as a waiter and look forward to drugs and pussy only. Feels bad when you can't see a good future for yourself. Angry at my parents for not raising me properly. Mum doesn't even live here anymore and dad's been distant for ever. I barely get by on what I make, I just exist. I wonder why they decided to bring a life into this world only to neglect it. Cheers

I have the most fucking sad/funny/happy ending story possible.

>Take part in an exchange program, get a host family in Vancouver to host me for a few months.
>Arrive in Vancouver, live with a dirty chinese family which does not speak a lick of English at home.
>MFG...protest to the school that put me in Chinese home...get relocated
>End up in Calgary with a white family.
>They speak English but are a bunch of drunks/drug addicts...don't give a shit, they speak English and have colorful insults when intoxicated
>pretty comfy.

After 2 months, I become acquainted with their youngest son, Chad (not kidding). Kid is 15, lives in an unfinished basement like some sort of phantom of the opera...the parents and siblings don't want him exposed to the booze and drugs but he knows what his family is up to. He fucking hates them.

I befriend Chad as I am also not a degenerate, don't drink, don't do drugs...I start talking to him about Jesus and the bible.
Christmas comes and Chad wants to be upstairs with the rest of the family...as soon as Chad tries to come upstairs it is always: "CHAD, GO TO YOUR FUCKING ROOM"

Chad screams: I FUCKING HATE CHRISTMAS AND MY FUCKING FAMILY!

Come back home, exchange info with Chad, we keep in touch and become good friends. I convince him to rat out his parents to the cops, they get arrested, he is placed with his uncle and aunt, upstanding people.

Chad is now a professional, went to law school and is a lawyer who prosecutes pieces of shit like his parents and siblings.

i actually dont need to work because i invested all the settlement into stocks and real estate but i love working outside and building shit. 95% of the jobs my boss gets are restoring these old beautiful victorian houses sitting in an office all day would be hell for me

God I wish we could end birthright citizenship so we could ship you out.

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You have to go back

Me and my brother would do some of the dumbest shit ever. Good times.
Regardless; me and my brother would get the belt, and on a few occasions; the switch.
Have you had your ass beat with a rose branch?
Didn't matter though. Me and my bro would keep on keepin on.
We didn't fucking care. The pain would go away, but the drive to have a good laugh always remained.

We eventually grew out of such behavior, but man; those were some fun times.

Blacks beat their kids' brains in. Hispanics too. Brain damage.

a reward / punishment system is for dogs.

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