I see it all the time; a bunch of yuppies or boomers out at some restaurant, drinking their faggy wines. Always to the side silently sit their children bored out of their fucking brains at all that faggot NPC talk.
Yet their faggot parents make absolutely ZERO effort to teach their children how to socialize, then they wonder why their kids are so akward, anti-social, or autistic.
It is fucking insane to expect a child to just know how to socialize by 16 when you've done precisely SWEET FUCK ALL to teach them???
By the time your child matures into a teen is the time your social needs give way to theirs. This is the time they should be conditioning social competence into their own children.
But boomers don't give a single fuck. Just pour another glass of wine and ask jeff how much he made on his newest property.
Why do Bommers FAIL so bad at Socializing their Children???
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tl;dr boomers don't socialize. They are all terrified of life and have social templates they rehearse and all agree to reflexively respond to each other with.
Ya my dad was and is like this. You either have to fake it like them or be an outcast
If you can’t figure out how to socialize on your own, you’re defective by definition. FFS, this entire board is losers blaming other people for the fact that they’re losers.
I just can't believe the selfishness in these interactions. It's social cannibalism.
I've lived on other continents snd have seen with my own eyes the great lengths parents will go to to ensure their children learn to properly interact with adults and each other, how a father will go out of his way to find his son a decent wife etc...
But then you see these fucking dumbfuck faggot boomers not giving a single fuck how their kid turns out, then they fucking wonder why their hermit son is addicted to video games. They never seem to wonder why their 14 yo daughter is an instagram whore though???
These faggots honestly count it a parental victory if their son doesn't shoot up the school.
Based reply, you should like quite the boomer
Socializing is a skill, and like any skill it requires practice. That's where parents come in. But boomers treat their fucking children like animals. They think all they gotta do is provide food and shelter and magically all the rest will figure itself out. Are you fucking retarded user?
I was raised by a single father who was never home. My aunt recently showed me an email he had sent her years ago. She had offered to watch my siblings and I because he wasn't able to be physically there most of the time. He responded by declining the offer and said he was doing a good enough job with the reasoning "at least they're not dead".
Pretty based parenting
And look at the average white teen today in the West!
Such great parenting right there.
Yeah, boomers did nothing wrong.
I've never really looked into it. Do you have any specific examples I could read about?
>When you run out of ethnic minorities to scapegoat for your problems, and have to now blame your parents
Bro your life sucks because you suck. Do something about it instead of pissing and moaning online like a preteen girl
Just look around you; insta whores, soiihh face, reddit, incels, school shooters... this is what boomers produce. Pashtuns, Chechens, and Nazis sure as fuck did not raise such abominations as children. Like wolves bleeding for poodle descendants.
Funny how you think assuming the worst about me is a good response to my argument. I expected better from Jordan Peterson.
People come to this site to vent moron. I'm guessing you're a classy father yourself
You’ve placed the onus of responsibility for psychosocial development onto your parents. That makes you a loser - not because you’re emotionally stunted, but because you won’t accept responsibility for it. Acceptance begets change. Nobody wants to read your fuckin woe is me diary entry.
If anyone over 30 or with kids comes to this site, I weep for those within their sphere of influence
those aren't averages
go outside
>Hey everyone, user's talking about the Jews again
Demographics of his site have changed, fren. Its mostly boomers now.
Did you know that all through the 80s and 90s boomers had y’all, their children, on actual leashes?
I wouldn’t know; I come here to gawk at the circular logic and cognitive dissonance of basement dwelling welfare racists
Insane egotism and materialism that makes them think children are an accessory to the boomer lifestyle.
They get children way too late and can't understand children anymore.
You need to have children in your twenties or very early thirties. After that you better not have them.
You'll be alone and unloved when you're 40.
It's pretty retarded to expect respinsibility from a child if you've never taught them responsibility. I guess that is the definition of parental failure. Welcome to 2019 boomer.
Leafs just pull whatever they find up their ass at the time and slap it on the table when they enter a thread.
To be fair, they did that in the 19th century too, because women wearing shit like corsets and hoopskirts couldn't run after toddlers effectively.
It's still not a bad idea if your toddler is super hyper and/or you're fat or crippled or just really really tired. Better than letting the brat run in traffic.
This site is nearly 2 decades old. You're insane to think there aren't plenty of 30+ year olds crawling around here. Nothing compares to this site because of its freedom, especially for people outside the US I'd imagine
Most people are alone and unloved.
This unironically.
I throw them a curveball sometimes and it hits them in the face so hard they start stuttering as they try to navigate their arse back to one of their predefined social templates.
It's hilarious. Really makes one wonder what the fuck makes boomers so intimidating when you're younger.
Already loved bro; female attention has been the least of my challenges to date. God help those for whom it’s constant fixture of their anxiety and depression
Yep. He'll learn.
>be child me
>taken to fancy dinner party of some jew lawyer my parents were trying to impress
>polite, follow proper table manners
>after they finish talking i chime in with a benign topical observation that is "kid funny"
>parents friends look amused & about to laugh/comment
>mom busts in with a stern CHILDREN SHOULD BE SEEN AND NOT HEARD
>all smiles evaporate along with the previously jovial banter
>never get taken with again
i guess i should be glad
>implying this delapidated boomer isnt pushing 60 and is already alone and unloved
True. When I first dropped by Jow Forums I was about 25 or 26. That was 2004ish. Do the math. Most of us don't live here per se, but we like to visit. I can fit in when I try. Sometimes I just talk like me. Sometimes I just listen.
Stop making excuses.
Sure you can teach yourself all the social skills in the world and fail until you succeed.
Doesn't change the fact boomers and millennials are fucking up their children.
Great, so you can come back in a few years and tell us about how she destroyed you.
>Look in EYE
>FIRM HANDSHAKE
it was invaded by boomers from facebook and reddit in 2016. It's fucking weird seeing all these geriatric old fucks and their demented posting style. It's like an entire generation of dementia out-patients decided to jump on the bandwagon all at once.
Sounds like they didn't impress the jew.
You got boomed
It was invaded by normies, and I'm sure you made your fair share of black cock threads when you got here.
Tbh most 60ish boomers are loathesome party animals with a large circle of vapid, aging, heavy drinking friends. Haven't you seen the repetitive ads for boomer retirement communities? "Join an active group of artists, sushi eaters, wine tasters and adventurers!" Yeah.
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You don't know a lot of boomers, I don't think? They were not the lonely, autistic, introverted generation of socially isolated NEETs and such. That came along later, and probably had something to do with boomers' extensive drug usage and narcissistic behavior. Among other things.
Boomers fucked up their children for sure. Also a lot of the world at large is fucked up because of boomers. I think most of us here know that by now.
I shudder to think about the children of millennials. I just don't even know what to say but it ain't gonna be pretty. I mean that kindly. I really do.
while leashes are still a thing, and a thing in the past, it was literally everywhere very suddenly around 85. My own parents would talk negatively about the prospects of these kids and all of their predictions came true.
all the kids on leashes ended up fat, useless, and scared of everything. as time went on you’d notice that it wasn’t toddlers anymore; by the early 90s it was common to see grown children 6-years-old to 11 or 12, on tethers. Boomer parents were literally the worst. My generation would vanish to play in the morning and come back when the street lights came on; the very next generation was hidden away in the home and told that outside was dangerous without a constant cord attached to mommy.
it's not boomers raiding millennials you retards, that's the lost generation
I'll let you know as soon as I find a millennial with a child.
this
when the ones moved in next door the first thing they got was an annoying yap dog
fast forward 6 years now they got 2 annoying yap dogs
it will be better for the world if they never reproduce
Older boomers are very easy to spot. Hippies especially always sound like they're tripping.
One characteristic to look for is literacy, though. Even the genXers can write and spell well. With millennials that begins to fall apart. You can trace our decline in their shitty grammar and syntax, stupid text speak and gnat-like attention span. That said, some millennials are all right.
We've had a few really old people here during the election, like silent gen types, including a couple of guys who proved it with timestamps, IDs etc. That was actually really interesting. One was a 'Nam vet. Mostly Facebook is the worst thing that ever hit Jow Forums. That's where all the slimy NPC libshits of all ages meet up to conspire, or did. Instagram isn't good for groups, one of its few redeeming qualities. I've avoided the discord fad. Looks like that was a good idea.
>i watched you do it with my own two feet
that's one way to admit you are a fagget.
What do you expect, individualist society individualist parenting. Talk truthfully to most of those parents and they will tell you how grateful you should be for the past 18 years of food and rent free housing. That's right, the first thing to come to their head when thinking of the closest living thing to them, literally their own flesh and blood, is how you got away with not paying for the food or potential rent as you were a kid: and then they wonder why their kids rebel or whore themselves out, or how every teen to 30s seems to be on some sort of medication for either depression, anxiety, autism or even deciding they need to be different gender now.
Groundless family, groundless people and groundless society, the only God in their head is the dollar and what stimulation of can buy.
Worthless.
I think a few will do it at the last minute, like some of the older genx did. The rest will stick to pets, yeah. There are a few young single moms though but they're textbook timeless roasties/coal burners, just with angry feminism and blue hair added.
Sort of a weird situation where both my sisters were born when I was 13 so I got to watch them grow up from a place of maturity.
Neither of them, their friends, or anyone they knew growing up has a kid or wants one. They both went to college, one came back with a Hispanic boyfriend, one came back with gages and facial piercings, fast forward 2-3 years after college and neither of them has found a job that needed anything they went for.
>why do boomers fail at socializing teen children
>do
>teen
>70 year old women are having teens
I don't think you know what gen boomers are. Boomers are the dying elderly and grannies who's ovaries dried up decades ago. Teens today are being raised by gen x and the few boomee women who had kids very late in life. Gen x is the forgotten generation with a lot of issues as a whole. Ignored by mainstream media, first gen when working moms became a thing so they were all in daycares and ignored. If I remember correctly lowest birth rate of any gen because they didn't want to ignore their children like their parents did to them.
You sound just as retarded as senile boomers that thought late 20s-30 year old millenials were snorting condoms and eating tide pods last year instead of the gen Z teens. Every boomer thread I have to point out to the senile old fucks who say we need to wait to make a career that we are in our god damn 30s and no longer teens and young adults. They had a career and house 5 years before us at this point so maybe we should have the fucking right to complain finally.
>He doesn't know about all the boomers raising their kids grankids
raising their grandkids for their kids*
We're not talking strictly about the teenagers of today being raised. We're talking about boomer raised children as well. This mile long history lesson wasn't necessary
Boomers still have young kids? Wtf they are 70!
Yes. My uncle's nearly 60 and has a 5 yr old with his 30 something wife
I'm 37,raised by solid boomers who are 68. I'm pretty well adjusted but my brother is a sperg. I somewhat feel cheated on love. The money was always There but dad was always woking. I can't understand why they wanted me gone from the house so bad, when I was young the made it known frequently that I had to leave the house as soon as possible.
boomers were conditioned to be greedy sociopaths. everything is an object to them. they are basically products that don't know shit about much of anything and deep down they know it. especially economics and history. poor parenting is just a symptom.
all you have to do is start asking questions, provide alternatives to their appeals to authority, or really show any sign of critical thinking and these retards start glitching out. it would be funnier if it wasn't so fucking sad. the jews really did a number on them.
You raise a good point OP, and those are the same parents who will question why their son has no girlfriend despite them never helping them socialise since that's the key aspect for getting a relationship.
boomers dont give a shit about their kids, they are all narcissists
boomer migatard
Actual boomers can't be argued with, you'd have more success yelling at a brick wall.
They're right, you're wrong, becuase.
They didn't, you're just a sperg.
lol if you need someone to teach you how to socialize... there’s a pretty good chance that even if you had the best teacher in the world, you’d still be awkward.
Did someone have to tell you how to put your dick in a pussy too? Lol fuck man
Meanwhile divorce rate is over 50%, depression and suicide skyrocketing and people say they got lesser friends than ever.
> b-b-but muh socializing comes naturally!!
You're excused, dumbfuck.
>rat utopia
>You got boomed
I copy this, soundscatchy
Is that supposed to be some type of refutation?
He's referring to an experiment with rats that has very little to do with the argument but I'm sure it made him feel smart.
Yes, I’d highly recommend researching it, again if you already have.
You might stop being an ansgty little fuck, who blames people around him. And start blaming the things that actually fucked you up.
You awkward fuckhead.
They view their children as a burden when they're little, so instead of taking them to socialize they hire a babysitter and go out on their own.
Small child would learn socialization by observing adults, mimicking their words and gestures and gain the social skills this way. Boomers don't give a fuck about their children socializing until they're older, but by the time they do the kid is already autistic.
Is that supposed to be an argument???
Lol faggot.
Try again.
Once again, the Eastern European Slav is much wiser than muh high-IQ western Hobbesian rat man.
It's not boomers, it's Anglo-Boomers that are fucked up, weird, zogbots, who are incapable of expressing normal, healthy human behavior.
The whole kick your kid out of the house at 18 is an Anglo-American boomer phenomenon that is not shared by any other culture, as far as I'm aware. Every single other ethnicity values family, friendships, lifelong bonds, and so on, while Anglo-American boomers is every person for himself, and the only thing that matters is money and sex. It's psychotic.
The kick your kid out at 18 meme was born many decades ago, back when you could buy a house and car with a year or two of work fresh out of highschool.
The original intent was to get them started on building a life and family as soon as possible, then it just turned into boomers kicking their kids out so they can have a second round of irresponsible partying.
satanic secret, our parents are really the youth.
the youth are the grown ups. as one grows old
around others, one becomes as the rest of the
hive, a narcissist.
the current generation knows firsthand how fake and unnecessary boomer tier socializing is because they've been raised on the internet. it's a means for women to make other women feel jealous in a group setting. hanging with your bros is a different story but is equally as unnecessary most of the time
No matter what, it's a completely retarded meme. Even for other European ethnic backgrounds, the Anglo-Boomer behavior is puzzling, because it's so unnatural.
Back in the day we would listen and learn. It is not our fault that kids prefer staring at a screen.
this
Its the world thats more fucked up. When I was a kid I was all day playing outside with neighbours, can't really leave my kid outside today unsupervised and we didn't have computers till some 10-14ish years. Next generations will be even more each on their own niche like videogame autists, sportfan chads, rich kids and outcasts(Jow Forums).
Some psychologist pointed out that what we are dealing today are like 3rd or 4th generation of egoists, psycho manipulators and whatnot. If SJW's are kids of hippies, immagine their kids - fucking social justice death squads.
Its not easy to be a good parent and make ends meet, hopefully mine turns out ok, but in a world with no heroes and no moral authorities, where the news is straight lying and faking shit in your face makes me go innawoods and makes every day more sense.
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t. GenX
It seems more unnatural becuase the meme developed in an era of unmatched prosperity.
As late as the 90's a man could support an entire family with a single job. Now? Well, I personally learned to cook just to avoid the now irredeemably nigger-spic ridden fast food in the city.
>"at least they're not dead".
This is what I always hear from boomers about their parenting
>"they're alive"
>"I fed and clothed them"
>"They had a roof over their head"
>"I did the best I could"
>"It could be worse they could be like those poor starving African children"
>"Back in my day my parents didn't teach me this or that so why should I have to hold your hand you should have just learned it"
>social templates
wow , that is the most accurate description I have heard.
Those aren't directed at retirees, but at the Daughters-in-law of retirees.
This thread hits a bit too close to home.
My worthless parents were also completely apathetic about it and always said that "the kid's supposed to figure all of that out himself, if he/she can't do it, NOT MY FAULT LOL".
And they also always said that they were good parents because they fed me, gave me a bed, etc.
Literally offering the bare minimum and then telling you that you're UNGRATEFUL if you call them out on this.
Death to boomers
The world is a bad place now. Communury is dead. Its dumb to let your kids run around the neighborhood. That much has changed for the better.
>God help those for whom it’s constant fixture of their anxiety
Everybody fears dying alone because it's a possibility for everyone, even if you're married now. Good luck user. Thinking you're loved by a woman and putting significance to that is pathetic btw.
Also two other things I always hear from boomers
>"spare the rod spoil the child"
>"YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO HONOR YOUR PARENTS NO MATTER WHAT"
I absolutely hate how they love to keep up this holier than thou Christian image when their hearts are friggin rotten, they take verses out of context to rationalize their evilness, and all they care about is money work money work money work money work money work money work
Thank you for validating my pain, my Australian brother
I have to disagree, my boomer parents got affected as well even though they were raised up behind iron courtain.I blame 80s holywood programming, that's the only thing they had in common with rest of the western world(sat dish TV & video were common thing here).
They somehow believed in video lies and mimicked what they saw to an extent it fucked up everything.
they fucked up relationships with their parents - cut strings to extended family, dropped behavior that was healthy(socializing with family, housework, gardening.....) teaching valuable skills to their kids...instead they were pursuing a so called american dream they knew from tv.father became a semi-succesfull business man, pulling 14h working day - resting by partying with others like him while my mom became bored housewife with drinking habbits of dallas soccer mom.now they are 60+, health completely wasted, father's business tanked so bad that they will loose the house to bank my grandma gave them when they got married.there is nothing left, just their narcisstic asses unable to grasp what went wrong.I'm not even angry at this point for what they did, it's just sad.
That's why I am a social outcast, it's all fucking fake and I had enough of it!
>how do you get a girlfriend?
FAKE IT!
>how do you make friends?
FAKE IT!
>how do you get a job?
FAKE IT!
I mean prove me wrong? When I was taught these things I was always told to fake it, to practice some act in front of a mirror and then repeat that same act I practiced in front of a mirror but now in real life... You see these same fake people at night clubs as well, dancing with moves they practiced all night with, using pick lines they studied weeks to get right.
Life is just one big fucking act, nothing is real.
Good job, you've figured out how to be a fake NPC person. To watch shows you don't like just so you can told to other people about it, to practice acting lines in front of a mirror so you can pretend to be a different person to get that job.
>I didn't starve my children to death or force them into homelessness, where the FUCK is my parenting award?
Ungrateful little shits.
The Baby Boom Generation was born into vast wealth and luxury. Even the poorest of people could find something to eat. Mass starvation was unheard of in the USA. You could bum around the country and pick up odd jobs anywhere you went. They were the first generation in our memory that was born into the Good Times. For many families, even the Zoomers are riding the Good Times wave that began after World War II. (I predict that the Good Times end for a lot of families around 2035 to 2055, as the white population drops way off in number and the darkies get to assert their darkie idiocy without enough Jews and white Good Goys to filter it out for them.)
With the Boomers, you have a generation that never had to work too hard to get to the middle class level. Being middle class was taken for granted. Many Boomers are like teenagers who never grew up mentally, they just got really old physically.
Your mom is a dumbass, if the hosts found you funny and likable then that works in your parents favor...maybe women are the ones that need a gag.
They will get more than that.
Don't worry, I'm sure she'll leave him her Beany Baby Collection worth no less than $12.