>be me
>25
>6 ft
>between avg / above avg looking
>never had a gf
This is pretty simple here... I don't know what the fuck it takes in order to get a girlfriend. A friend of mine keeps telling me if you don't have good genetics or a ton of money then you're probably fucked. Should I listen to his advice or is that some incel shit? Seriously though, I even go to a college where the girl to guy ratio is like 7:3. I'm doing something fucking horribly wrong.
Help please.
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Take MDMA
wtf is that going to do for me besides drain my spinal fluid and make me a temporary social spaz?
You are 6ft you just need confidence (even if you need to fake the chad) and a bit of charisma
>t.5'6 manlet
Drain my spinal fluid.
Can't make this shit up
Your "friend" is a Jow Forums spergy incel. Stop going on Jow Forums as your first step.
You post this on every fucking thread. You being a virgin has nothing to do with your height and everything with you being an insecure faggot.
>has nothing to do with your height
and again you are literally not in my shoes and speaking by experience.
Yeah that's pretty much along the lines of "just be yourself dude".
Like wtf does that even mean? I don't know how to be a fucking chad.
Money is the only thing that's irrelevant when it comes to getting a girlfriend. The tier list goes
>Face
>Height (over 5'9)
>Confidence (you put yourself first over others)
>Skinny body/does cardio (muscles are irrelevant)
>Personality (not a little bitch)
>Social status (having friends)
>Career choice/money
In that order
The bee yourself meme applies to shortcels, neckbeards and turbovirgins.
If you are 6' and average looking it's just a matter of time or luck to find a gf. Or course you still need to initiate, but you already got the good roll dice.
Also
>a ton of money
Women don't care about money. Even if you are a multibillionaire she woud cheat on you for "6-pack 6' julio gonzales" any time of the day
so confidence implies being nearly a selfish asshole?
Womens doesn't know the difference actually
yeah but having tons of money completely opens up the entire playbook for you lol
why would a good looking girl want to be with a poorfag?
you can be homeless and still fuck multiple women if you just lie about what your profession and never make it apparent that you have no home. women care about looks first and foremost, money plays a very minor role. sure it can open up doors but if you're 5'7 and ugly then all it will get you is escorts.
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this video is fucking stupid but it helps prove my point
Not being rich doesn't imply being poor lmao
Even if you're rich it doesn't imply the girl will love you. She's will use you and your money because she knows you rely on it for the relationship.
Yeah but who cares you have money and you can take your pick of good looking girls. If they leave you or whatever so what on to the next girl.
Dude is a homeless chad lmao
I wonder if this sorta of shit (being able to hold girls attention thru conversation n etc) is tied to IQ.
He doesn't sound like he has a particularly high IQ, he just has balls because he really doesn't give a shit about failure.
All the other guys your height getting pussy prove you wrong. If you were 6' you would be whining about something else and making excuses all the same.
>girls like this, nothing else matters
>no girls only care about this
Incels who have never been on a date debating what women like. Maybe it doesn't occur to any of you that girls like different things? Some care about status and money. Some care about looks. But you will not find any girls who find an insecure, angry whiner attractive.
Yeah but it doesn't seem like he's low IQ either...
By Chadian friends who've been with a relatively large amount of women, and started way back early in high school, have calculated that their success rate in approaching women is about 5% to 7%. So basically, they need to approach around 20 women and get rejected 19 times before getting lucky. The process includes trying out different thing and learning from your mistake, because seduction is a skill and skills take practice.
Some people get approached by women first, some don't. Between my friend, I know a less attractive one who is frequently approached while the more attractive (but a bit stiff in personality) is very good looking and was absolutely never approached in an obvious manner. So for most guys, thinking that something will just happen by itself won't lead to anything, a woman won't fall from the sky for you, you need to invest effort.
Opposite of that list is what's true.
If I were 6' I wouldn't have confidence issues I gathered by being the smallest guy in every classroom/meeting/club and being seen as an old child
>oh not, I'm the smallest guy
You're seen as a child because you're acting like one.
I've seen 28yo guys getting laids and still talking about league of legend meta or playing let's play pokemon on their switch.
If you are under 6' even teenagers are getting taller than you, how people can not see you as a early-aging 16yo?
If you were 6' you would have confidence issues you gathered by some other excuses.
Playing video games is fine. Not being able to handle your shit emotionally, getting offended over everything and pitying yourself is what's immature.
Playing LoL or pokemon has nothing to do with acting like a child. Those 28yo guys you have seen still act like adults when needed. You on the other hand sound like you have the mental level of a 13 year old, throwing tantrums and whining like a spoiled child.
>haha manlet btfo!
I'm still saying you never were on my shoes.
And the very few people who were roughly my height or a inch higher than me never had success with womans
In fact, every time there was a woman around me it was because I had 6' chad friends, of course without sexual judgement (because they were in a relationship) they were nicer and more open to me.
>Money is the only thing that's irrelevant when it comes to getting a girlfriend.
lmao
How people can believe this in fucking 2019? Unless being 13...
See and But if you want to be a betabuxxer seeing just go
You are proving the point. It has been shown over and over again you are lying and it has nothing to do with your height. You are clearly lying out of your ass when you say the "very few" men your height had no success with women. Guys that height are usually very successful with women.
The problem with people like you is that you refuse to accept the truth no matter how clearly it is shown in your face. Even now you go on an incel whiny rampage. You would be just as unsuccessful with women if you were 6' and as obnoxious of a whiny cunt as you are.
Getting back on topic. OP, don't be like this guy and you will be fine. Don't be an insecure, annoying, self-pitying faggot like him. Then things will be all right.
>>Social status (having friends)
fugg
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Yep i'm making things up
Also researchgate.net
But I guess researcher publishing academic papers are less valuable than your "it's your personality"
Also OP is 6' I don't know how he can relate.
I mean I personally don't relate to starving africans when I skip a dinner or two
stop sitting around waiting for a perfect girl to fall into your lap. Go ask girls out. End of discussion that's all there is to it.
>ready copypastas, aim, fire!
If you spent even a fraction of the time you spend looking for flimsy excuses on actually doing something that would get you girls, you would be drowning in pussy.
You need therapy. Seek help. You have serious mental problems.
What about guys your height who are getting girls you pathological liar?
I could posts hundreds of links and proof buy why would I do it when you'll deny every bit of it.
If you were my height or even something between 5'5-5'7 you would understand.
>If you spent even a fraction of the time you spend looking for flimsy excuses on actually doing something that would get you girls, you would be drowning in pussy.
Implying I never tried to get a girlfriend, nice projection. Too bad the moment I tried something with a girl another male came to take the chick, at least 3 times
It's like a ford fiesta stading in front of an old truck, of course the ford looks amazing compared to.
But you are just crusading against me because I told my experiences, well it wasn't very Jow Forums
I know you are all tired of Jow Forums leaking here but come on stop being delusional. How come r/niceguys and r/inceltears have hundreds of thousands of subs? People like me get crushed on a daily basis due to genetic traits or birth, well if you want, go ahead, not like I care anymore
So why threads like are so prevalent on Jow Forums and Jow Forums ?
Yeah short guys get girls, but how many? And yeah show me men my height getting genuine attraction
You deny proof right before your eyes.
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As mentioned, you need therapy. Your mental problems prevent you from getting girls despite being a near ideal height for it.
How many girls have you asked on date?
I have a feeling we all know the answer to that question.
Doesnt mean some of that shit isnt true...
Not him but getting girls as a manlet has always been hard, mostly because height as always been seen as a protective and masculine feature.
Maybe you'll find a guy or two sucessful with chicks but they compensate with a way higher charisma or quality
I have one more semester in college left... I feel like I should really take advantage of that because there is so many opportunities.
People always tell me that I need more self-confidence and I'll be fine. Still trying to figure out how to make that happen...
>owlturd
Cringe
I assure you that unless your future job will have females there, you will never ever meet any woman in the future unless you will go great lengths for it to happen.
Dating at school is like tutorial difficulty. Once you will be out of school, dating can be like dark souls: soul crushing.