Not attracted to 95% of women

>Not attracted to 95% of women
>Only attracted to the 5% or less who meet my impossibly high standards

This is the only reason I'm a kissless virgin. I've turned down opportunities with countless women because of this, because I'm just not attracted to them. And the girls I actually am attracted to are never interested in me

What do I do? Is it possible to force myself to be attracted to people?

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>Not attracted to 95% of women
If that really is the case, maybe you should get your testosterone levels checked. I'm a 21 y/o guy and i can honestly say that i feel sexual attraction to at least half of all the women i meet who are of my age.

If only 1 in every 20 girls you meet spark some kind of sexual attraction in you, there is something wrong with your sex drive.

I mean if I go like a week without fapping then yeah I start to get really horny and think about fucking practically anyone

But on an every day basis I'm just not attracted to most women. Im really hyperaware of all their flaws like if they have some acne problems, skin problems, slightly yellow teeth, smell a bit funny, etc. And i find it impossible to get past these flaws

What is the 5% you are attracted to like? Or what are the most common traits in the 95% you are not attracted to?

Its just the little flaws. Like i said in if i notice anything weird about a girl like if she has some spots, funny teeth, weird smells (i have a sensitive sense of smell) then i start to lose any attraction i might have had to her

real advice here:

Offer something that they want.

Money is the most normal go-to but it can be anything, you just need to be exceptional.

Idk man still sounds like there is something off. Male sex drive is incredibly simplistic. We're supposed to be attracted to pretty much any woman who looks young, decently healthy and fit for reproduction. The majority of women who are in the 18-25 age range fit that description which is why you should feel sexual attraction to many of them. Like i said, me personally, if there were no strings attached i would happily bang the majority of 18-25 y/o girls. I think this is quite normal if you have healthy T levels.

Also, how old are you? How often do you masturbate?

I can relate to this thread, only it's more like 99+% of women I find unattractive. I feel most could be attractive if they had good personalities and put forth effort in being in good shape, but the overwhelming majority either put forth no effort or, in most cases, put forth effort in doing things that make them less attractive (tattoos, piercings, expensive clothes that do nothing to enhance their attractiveness but make them appear vein, etc).

OP my advice is work as hard as you can at making yourself better, physically, mentally, and financially. Then you can gloat to the 95% of women that they aren't good enough for you whenever any of them show interest.

Im 21 and fap once a day at most

Idk what it is but im just really picky. I find things like spots, even slight BO or bad breath, yellow teeth to be actually repulsive. And I noticed that most women have those things to at least some extent. The only girls i've been attracted to properly are girls with almost perfectly clear skin and who smell like dainty pretty flowers.

Shh... having women not have those negative traits would require effort on their part, and that's simply asking too much.

I dont think its an effort thing user. I think you're being a bit harsh

Like I acknowledge that my standards are unrealistic. Many of the things i find repulsive, i probably have myself (apart from acne/spots because i for some reason never experienced a breakout of those in my life)

Its just a fact of life. Human beings smell weird and human bodies do weird things. Unfortunately i cant get past those facts and it means i find the majority of women unattractive, because the vast majority of women don't smell perfect and dont have perfect clear skin

I speak as a male who was overweight and weak as a kid, people can improve themselves. I run every day, do pushups and weight train and it has resulted in noticeably better physical condition. Unfortunately there are so disappointingly few women in the United States who seem to realize this, and as I posted before instead of exercising and practicing good hygiene (there's no excuse to not shower at least once a day, male or female) they get tattoos and piercings which makes them appear easier (guys will hook up with them) but less genuinely attractive. Finding a woman without one or more of those unattractive traits is so disappointingly rare it makes me cringe.

>And I noticed that most women have those things to at least some extent.
Of course they do. Almost none of us humans have a perfect body. Bar the absolute top few percentile, all of us have a couple of physical flaws. I would recommend you cut down on your masturbation habits to a few times per week maximum. You should also consider cutting out porn. Maybe you're fapping too much to perfect looking female pornstars with banging bodies. Leaving you disappointed with what most women actually look like.

If this doesn't make a considerable difference, like i mentioned earlier, i would recommend you get your T levels checked because this isn't quite normal for a healthy young man. Same advice for .

I dont mean to be mean when i say this. But i just dont know how most guys sleep with girls who have less than perfect hygiene etc. Like for me if im speaking to a girl and i smell her breath smells a bit weird i instantly lose all attraction to her. Thats a big thing for me for some reason. I notice that 95% of people, including women, have bad breath to some extent, and combined with general body odour that is my number 1 turnoff

This isnt anything specific to women either. Men are much worse, the vast majority of guys i know have horrible hygiene and smell bad most of the time. I dont understand how straight women or gay men deal with it, most guys are disgusting

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I'm in my early 30s. My T levels are fine and I demonstrate on a daily basis I'm in better shape and healthier than most people where I live. And I don't watch porn; they never do a good job convincing me there is an emotional attraction anyway.

I'm an asexual, I'm not interested in sex for the sake of sex, I need to experience an emotional connection, but at the same time I find innocence to be an attractive trait for women. And while I find the prospects to be extremely disappointing, I'm certainly not thinking of going psycho and hurting anyone, though I do enjoy harshly rejecting women who have the traits I find unattractive and pointing it out to them whenever they show interest.

I just looked at female profiles on Fetlife and I found one attractive woman out of 200. By attractive I mean that I wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with them in public. Most women are unkept, fat, or have no style. I would fuck 50% of them if no commitment or potential for diseases though. In real life there's a lot more attractive women, but still it would be like 2 out of 10 at best.

>Fetlife
People into BDSM and kink are notorious for being painfully average or unattractive. The concern in those communities are less what you look like and more what you can bring to the table kink-wise. I probably won't be able to spank Ryan Reynolds and ride him like a pony, but if that's what I get off to, then the physical body matters little to me than their consent to my actions.

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in order to get the top 5%, you gotta become the 5%. how you do that is up to you

im not sure what expectations you have, but a lot of women become better and better the more you get to know them. you cant forcr yourself to be attracted, but you can find other traits in people the more you oearn about them and like them for that

what does it feel like to be a manchild in a rapidly aging body?

why do they have to be attractive though? what if their personalities are awful and not compatible with you at all? you may as well pay for whores.

(You responded to my comment) I feel great about myself actually. I have a good paying job and I'm in great shape. And I'm told I look young for my age, so I wouldn't call it 'rapidly aging'.

But I guess your statement was meant to be a criticism. I wish I could be cool... like I'm sure you must be...

I'd bet money on your breath smelling too