Hi Guys!!! Is it normal that husbands masturbate at bathroom watching photos or videos even when wifes are at home??

Hi Guys!!! Is it normal that husbands masturbate at bathroom watching photos or videos even when wifes are at home??

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Why do you care. If you want to make something with it talk to your husband. Maybe he thinks you dont want to fuck. Who knows.

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Do you masturbate? If you do it, when and with what (porn, toys...) Is your husband at home too?

No. Nobody should ever masturbate.

Depends on the reason why. Just wanna rub one out in the shower while the wife is busy or sleeping? Yeah. On the shitter because your wife never wants to fuck or has a "headache" constantly? No, that's pathetic. Most of the time it's completely normal though.
Regardless I never masturbate because my wife is constantly dtf and blows me whenever I want. Maybe try that if you're worried.

Well there you go. You can't understand it because you would never do it. You have to accept that he will do whatever he wants not to despise you or hurt you, he is just another person different than you. Different thinking, ideals, morals...

If you start trying to control him or judge him for whatever he does, shit is goingto get real. Learn to accept the differences between you two and you'll start to see that masturbating when you're married is not something bad (or maybe you won't worry as much).

If you guys never have sex, it's low quality or the relationship is going downhill, I would talk to him if you have any concerns about it. Only about the relationship.

Have you been married for a while? My wife used to be like that but she stopped for a while because I couldn't make her orgasm (she said I just didn't care to ask if she needed it). Still working on my fingering skills.

It is normal, but it really shouldnt be. It might be the sign of a unhealthy sex life between the couple.

Not sayin you shouldnt masturbate ever, but it shouldnt be your go to when your spouse is literally there.

Femanon here, married. Sometimes I do masturbate when I want to have sex my husband. He is not that good at foreplay so masturbating gets me even more aroused. I'll do a quick one in the bathroom and then I'll be ready for him. I don't do this all the time, maybe once or twice a month.

I don't think that's bad though?

Sex/masturbation isn't a need. anyone can stop whenever they want.

Assuming you are the wife, you should just break in on your husband's fapping and fuck him right then and there.
Assuming you are the husband, what's your problem m8? Cold feet?

>Sex/masturbation isn't a need
lol.

t. shitty gf or incel

>before having sex with him
>also femanon

You are blessed with the ability to have multiple orgasms , so its fine. But you should talk with your husband about him being bad at foreplay and help him get better at it. It will make marriage and sex life better.

I have tried but it makes him feel anxious to do foreplay. I prefer to not force him, wait until he does a little foreplay on his own (sometimes he does) and reassure him through that so he doesn't feel as anxious. I don't need the foreplay (he turns me on a lot) but sometimes my body doesn't work the way I want it too (too dry or whatever) so I need to get myself wet before. I just don't want him feeling bad while we have sex and he usually hides it so...

> Too dry

Get some lube, problem solved

Weird, i suggest you find a way to foreplay without making him anxious. You should both enjoy it , with each other.

>Be a normal male
>Don't masturbate or have sex
>Been this way since I was a teenager

I guess I'm some sort of god among men.

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What he said is thay he enjoys it and it's not a big deal, it seems like he stops feeling like that when I blow him or when we're having sex (not always though). He said it's getting better too so maybe it'll just take time.

I wonder if he would feel bad about it (insecure) but it's a good idea.

Look if you can make sex happen without a hitch due to the lube it should really make him more calm about his insecurity
In theory you could prepare yourself beforehand so you don't have to apply the lube to his dick

>normal male

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Yes. It would be abnormal if he don't.

That's the problem. That's what you think but not everyone may think the same way. Some need sex and masturbation and it's just the way it is. I am a girl and I need to have sex with my husband pretty often. I feel loved and I love it, so why should I stop?

Anyway, he either stops doing it (which would be unfair), you start working on yourself and your tolerance (others may be/think differently than you), or you find a point in between. Blow him, give him a handjob, help him masturbate if he wants. Or maybe have sex.

If he wants to have his private time, let him be. He is not someone you can control, he is your family now (he is your husband girl) and family should not be judged or controled.

It just means he jacks off a lot.

It's porn addiction, which is insanely common and "normalized" but not normal. Whether you intervene or not is really a matter of how much it's interfering with your lives

Hey It was just a question... as couple I just want to do the right things....

It depends on the why. I bust nuts on pretense of availability usually so I'm masturbating because sex is somehow off the table.