GIOYC / Get It Off Your Chest

No, it's pure excitement not anxiousness, we've been friends for almost a year now. She initially had a crush on me but I didn't believe it and wanted to get to know her better. I figured if I gave it enough time her interest would fade and it'd be over. It didn't though. Our conversations only got deeper and lasted longer. Talking for days on end through text and calls. It's like we were separated at birth, we literally have the same thoughts. I loved our friendship so much I became too scared to say anything.

One day I noticed I really caught feelings for her and then they overtook me, so I asked our mutual friend to see if she still likes me. She said she does. It's more than that though, I told them how seriously I liked her and that I didn't want to do anything if she didn't feel the same. Our friend said she feels the exact same way I do, that I'm not just a guy to her and she's not just a girl to me.

I know there are ways to define love, but this is intense. I've had crushes before, but this is something entirely new. What I'm feeling isn't nervousness, it's just like when you are about to get a gift on Christmas. It's pure anticipation. We get along so effortlessly, I never feel like I have to hide anything, and she stuck with me for so long. Very few girls will wait nearly a year for a guy to admit their feelings. I just want to run up to her and give her a bear hug and tell her all of the things I've been waiting to for so long.

Maybe it's dumb to feel this way but I can't stop it. I'm beyond happy, I don't even know if there's a word to describe it. Just pure bliss. Maybe it's not "love" love, but people talk about having a spark... this is a fucking blaze.

I can't stop thinking about you and our class ends in a few days. I don't know what to say to you. I get butterflies when you're near and I can barely speak. Of my 18 years of life I've never felt something like this before. I just...want you. I don't want to love somebody else.

I've got an issue talking to one of my best friends lately. While they haven't done anything overtly wrong, it's getting to the point where I can't talk to them without making myself depressed, frustrated, or remember things I'd rather not.

It was always this way but it's becoming increasingly apparent that she refuses to take part in my interests. Of course I don't need every friend to connect with my every interest, but the things that overlap with us are because she likes it. I will usually at least try what she likes but it gets exhausting when none of that is ever reciprocated. Mine are pretty well known to her at this point but I dread talking about my own hobbies because it's obvious by her responses (omg, wow, okay) that she really doesn't care.

After bottling it up for a year or so I confessed my feelings to her. She didn't feel the same way, which is okay. I got it out, I want to move on and stay friends. Recently she got into a relationship and it feels like she's constantly telling me every detail about what they do together, what she does for her girlfriend and how cute they are. On one hand I'm supportive and happy for my friend, but it's like a constant reminder of my own feelings for her. I just want to move on but every time she talks about her girlfriend it's like a reminder "I chose her over you". If you knew a person had feelings for you, why would you rub your relationship in their face?

In any case, between getting stonewalled about my own hobbies and unable to move on from my own feelings, what's the best way to distance yourself from a friend? I feel bad cutting them off cold turkey but it's getting to the point where I can't talk to her without feeling worse about myself.

Attached: cb5.gif (277x326, 297K)

I’m in love with my best friend

I understand what you're saying. I can't change your mind, even though I want to and say you're going off a cliff.

Here. Listen to this and feel good.
youtube.com/watch?v=9K7rmxjk5RQ

I once felt the same. It hurt me. I'd rather not have that mistake. But if oyu won't listen to me, enjoy it.
Because it feels good doesn't it?

Extremely degenerate

I know what you're saying, I really do.

It's just that I've spent so much of my life guarding myself, and it became so tiresome. I've turned down countless girls, even ended a relationship over it. For the first time I'm just letting myself feel what I want. I'm aware there's hurt, I'm aware things don't always work out. There's a 0.00000001% chance this won't destroy me, but I'm not thinking about that. I'm about to drive off a cliff right now but if I don't let myself do it I never will.

I live for experiences, good and bad, that's how we grow. I have no idea where this will take me, but I want to see.

>be naturally attractive
>get attention from girls even in preschool
>some of it is a too forward over the years
>now I'm terrified of it
lol

Attached: sexy trap.png (350x305, 9K)

This is something a degenerate would say

I want to ask my coworker out but I don't want to make things awkward at work if she's not interested. Is there a way I could make that work or is it a bad idea altogether? It's a job at a retail store

My friend knows I have deeps feels for him that are unrequited but he still wants to be just friends (with benefits) and hang out with me while getting with other girls who talk shit about me. Maybe I’m selfish for wanting too much from somebody I feel like a fuckboy. I don’t want to hang with him anymore because it hurts too much when he gets w other girls before/after me. We’ve had sex a few times but he says he cares about me but doesn’t want me more than a friend. Idk why it hurts so much I wish it didn’t bother me. I wish I had other options too I guess

I just realized that women use love and sex as tools to fish for men. Sure women may care about romance and intimacy, but not as much as they care about status, resources, and providers.

This is why women fuck with Chads in their prime, and settle with beta-males much later on because they know they can keep them with sex and use them for their resources (money, food etc). Granted there are exceptions, ultimately though this is true in a genetic and cultural sense. That being said, I can't help but feel like a tool and nothing more. Maybe someone will learn to love me for who I am, or maybe they'll just notice that I'm useful and reliable and forget about thinking if me as anything more than their tool of choice.

Attached: indy.gif (245x210, 1.84M)

I fucking miss you.

I really need to stop going to the bar and getting drunk and embarrassing myself. Think I'm gonna take some time off.

I'm not doing well, even though I'm gaining success, I'm more miserable than ever. I have a low key drinking problem, and am getting too comfortable with the idea of dying young and alone.

I love you, Delaney. Please get help.

Attached: BearCrying.jpg (280x210, 30K)

> b me
> mostly beta
> has 7 inch dick and takes 20 or more minutes to cum, can go again within 30 minutes
I love being used. :)

Kek.

you are disrespecting yourself
why should he respect you at all
you don’t even value yourself enough to know your time is precious and there are millions of people on this plant I am sure someone would value your time.
caring about you is not the same as being in love with you. if you were the most extrodinary version of yourself would this be enough?
you must have a death wish
he is not careful of who he allows a physical sexual contact with anyone other than you with out notifing you could be risking yourself at risk for a fuck.

Why am I so afraid to ask you out? The last time we were alone I wanted to ask, but I felt the words got stuck in my throat. I hate being so afraid.

Attached: 1544651011298.jpg (249x190, 39K)

>always had buzzcut since I was a kid
>cousin asks why I dont cut it to look more Hispanicy
>Hispanicy
Wtf did she even mean? A buzzcut? Piss off.

>been dating girl for 8 years now
>still not married
>have not had sex with her in almost 2 months now
>I have been browsing Jow Forums and losing weight, mostly dieting properly
>still eat out occasionally
>girlfriend puts on a lot of weight since she moved in with me almost a year ago
>ask her why she eats so much
>says I "eat out too much"
>I eat out maybe twice a week on my days off work
>I count her eating 3 times in a span of 4 hours
>then she went to bed, got up a few hours later to eat more, then back to bed
>ask if she is happy, she says yes
>I am not though
>my love for her mostly degraded, we barely do anything together anymore
>she won't sleep in the same room as me anymore because of my sleep apnea (working on treatment too)
>I work second shift and she works thirds, we barely see each other, and I work 24+ hours of overtime a week
>even on my days off she spends it in another room reading
>ask what she is reading, refuses to tell me
>finally find out she is reading a fuck ton of yaoi
>she also weights a couple more pounds than I do now too

I do not know what to do. I lay awake most nights wondering what to do. She gave up her hometown lifestyle to live with me in the city, and she has no friends around here if at all. She gets upset when I see friends constantly but won't go out and do the stuff I want to do with friends anymore. I do not know what to do, she has been an integral part of my life. And if I do leave her, do I do it after she gets off work? Before? Or do I do it and go stay at my parents while she packs up? It hurts but I know it must be done eventually, I have goals and she does not want to meet me with them.

Sounds like sam

>gets fat
>reads yaoi
jesus what a mess

Bad idea, everything is sexual harassment now. For whatever its worth, I was crushing hard on my female coworker too. Just had to beat off/scream into a pillow. I know she likes me too, but just not worth the headache

so bayed

This year has been off to a surprisingly great start, but I worry that something might happen because good things don't usually last long for me.
I decided to focus on doing more and saying more as part of my resolutions. Going on my hikes and hitting the gym, getting back to school, not overthinking things or being afraid to say anything. That sort of thing.
So far, I've had great hangouts with my friends, i'm hitting the gym this week, I've been to the movies alone without feeling self conscious. And this Friday I might have a movie date with my best friend's sister in law. Trying not to very my hopes up, but I intend to go with the flow.

Selfish for wanting too much? Wow, I bet he makes you feel that way. Narcissistic person will selfishly take what he can from you knowing you have feelings and then make you feel likethe selfish one for wanting more. He can't give more because he's narcissist. He's using you openly and you're allowing it. Sounds exactly like my ex. I'm so glad I'm no longer with him and have my dignity back. Fuck that

Another girl that's not responding... I don't get it. First she's all like "yeah! talk to you later! :)" and then doesn't even fucking respond at all. I know she's busy but come on. Doesn't message me at all either, even though it seemed like we got along somewhat well.

I got used to girls not wanting to talk to me but it hurts like hell everytime.

Girls pretend they are being nice, but in reality they just want orbiters.

She didn't seem like it to be honest. I've seen girls like this and she was different. Far more interested and talkative.

I think at this point I need to accept that I have irreversible screwed up my life. I have spent my entire life trying to be better than my parents, but when they are the only people I can go to for advice, even though I know it is only going to be bad advice. Everyone keeps telling me I'm still young (33), but then I see people much younger than me soaring past me and it makes me feel incompetent. I have no passions. I read a lot but most of that I'd to make myself feel smart. I just don't want to be another loser who has to spend the majority of his life working. I've tried therapy in the past, but they just want to make me feel better about the situation I'm in, which is not what I want. I can't feel like there is any real hope for me, just the false hope everyone else around me has.

I have no friends except my bf and my drug dealer. In theory I want to change that but every time I'm around people I get annoyed by them or don't care about them enough to even remember their names. I used to hurt so much and wanted to connect with people so badly but I was fucked over so many times and put up with so much annoying crap just to say I had friends. Hours and hours spent getting fucked up just to tolerate the company of some druggies or assholes. Maybe I'm just not in the right headspace or cool enough in general to attract the sort of people I'd actually vibe with, for now I'd rather play OSRS than hang with any of those chumps again

I wish more virgin men would realize how insecure porn is making them.

It's not. Stop this meme.

Shaddup.
You know porn's not the only problem.

>I was crushing on a female coworker too.
Hilarious.
See you're both dumb.
I never get erect for a coworker.
I used that solely to my advantage.

The irony, however? Because I didn't feel the same about her, she went full 'nice guy' on me, but a girly version.

I wish women would understand that while I want sex I dont need it and I'm 100% fine just jerking off instead of getting close to a Person I dont like just for sex

I will never understand why short, fat, ugly guys treat me like I’m dipped in shit but tall, good-looking guys are nice to me. Why? This makes no sense.

Seriously I always do better with more attractive men. That’s what makes these fat ugly little assholes so infuriating. I know they do it deliberately, too.

On a larger note, there should be a War so these worthless guys can go die. But Millennials (the absolute worst of men) are pushing 35 so they’re almost too old to go.

I’d like to see these ugly snotty little faggots in body bags.

Fuck you for making me like you so much

Attached: chises-tears.jpg (640x360, 22K)

War is good for society. Men are supposed to fight and die in battle. It keeps society in balance. The ones who survive are truly grateful for the home and hearth. Now we have an overpopulation of badly aging little boys jerking off in their mother’s basement.

Only make friends with girls you don't want to fuck.

You're literally worse then a cuck.

You should respect yourself enough to never speak to her again as she doesn't care about you the way you want.

Or maybe stay in contact you could be her shoulder to cry on talk heaps of shit about her bf. Maybe when's she's weak from the break up you could fuck her.

if i randomly called you tonight it meant i might, one day, fall for you. you may or may not return the sentiment but regardless of my feelings being at risk-- i called you because I, no,

the world needs ppl like you.

but let me be the exception ffs..
how am i suppose to live through round 2 when round 1 was too busy loving the bottle until death?

-a

Attached: 1546632365598.jpg (575x1024, 46K)

Mgtow

Obviously your not her priority.

Remove her from your pathetic life and move on simp

You're not a loser for working your whole life.

It's a respectable role in society. Stop Looking at people above you look at how many people are below you.

Or if you were doing what you want it wouldn't matter what others are doing.

What would you like to be doing?

I'm nobody's priority I guess. Either way I was hoping she'd at least respond, meet me and all but I guess that's not happening. What the fuck is up with girls...

Begone thot

Fair enough, it's also great when the most fucked people have an outlet to do whatever they want to other people.

It's just unfortunate now we have weapons mass destruction, the fun days are over.

Your friends are druggies and assholes because people into the drug scene are losers. If you want to be happy ditch the drugs so people who don't associate with that lifestyle will actually talk to you.

Why would you want to hangout with someone who doesn't give you what you want.

You're literally giving you the power to her. On your knees begging for attention. Fucking pathetic.

Stop being a simp it's not okay

Have standards.

I don't know, user I guess I didn't know at the time that she doesn't give half a fuck about me. Plus for all I know she's legitimately a busy person so maybe if we got to know each other better, she'd find more time for me.

In stable societies none of the ruling class nor the scientists were ever forced into war. Societies built solely for the sake of war were hellholes with limited life expectancy, rampant disease, and no hygiene. Your utopian ideal of better men falls flat upon it's ass as in those societies women were property.

What the fuck is wrong with you? We were going good for a week, there, and now you're back to making excuses? You're not even TRYING to reach out.
>Hey, do you wanna call later?
I've told you a fucking million times to JUST CALL. And then I text back and say "yeah, I'm free," and don't hear back for days. Getting sick of this shit.

Not him but neither Prussia, nor Sparta were hellholes or bad. Look at Israel, it's essentially the modern Sparta.

Speaking like true addicts.

Going out to get groceries and seeing happy couples makes me a lot more insecure desu.

That's a lie user.

If you were a busy person you'd still find time for for her right?

Stop giving her the benefit of the doubt it's the other way around. She has to prove she's worthy of you

Well she's doing 2 degrees and she works. But yeah she'd probably find time to at least respond or whatever. She was interesting and very smart when we talked. I guess it wasn't written for us to take things any further.

I feel like you’re wasting my time, and I hate you for it.

"I guess it wasn't written for us..."

Stop being gay. She choose not to be with you. It's her choice alone.

Give up on it. It doesn't matter how great it could have been she's doesn't want you.

Stop it

Find someone who does you fucking simp

>Find someone who does you fucking simp
Nobody does. I tried shit with so many girls I already got used to girls ghosting me out of nowhere. Still hurts though.

Same

I should stop wondering how you're doing. You clearly hate me. But I just can't get away from this feeling. I love you so much... I realize we will never be together. I'm so pathetic.

I fucked up real bad...................................... They will never be the same again.

Fuck niggers ,chinks and arabs

I should stop overthinking and worrying and enjoy all the good things in my life. Finally things start to go my way and I start worrying, because it seems too good to be true. Fml.

Fuck off then.

Okay, so I'm in this great/awesome relationship with a 8.5/10 woman and she's pretty much everything I want in a person to be with me. Still, there is this girl, a friend, I simply cannot take away from my mind. She's not pretty much what I like in a girl, but she has enough of it, and she's a fckin 10/10. I keep thinking about banging her, she's a big titted, slutty-faced, thicc, shorty girl. But we're not quite into the same things.
Not only that, but this also goes for an ex-gf, which is the one I have loved the most of all, and she's the hottest, brightest girl I've ever met, and she's absolutely everything I could want. But our breakup was horrible, it's rather unlikely we'll ever get back together. I'd do everything, absolutely everything to be with her again... But she's a sociopath, also, which is the negative part about her.
Anyway... I feel all that, but I didn't want to feel it, bc I really am living a good life with my current girl, and I didn't want to risk it, so I feel like the worst man ever.

I hate myself

I think you're projecting that sociopath diagnosis on the ex.

Girl I am dating (agreed to be exclusive) I found out was using tinder, when asked her about it she said she was just using it as a joke with her friends. I ended things but somehow ended up talking with her like a week later and everything went back to normal (although I never said we were back together). In this period of talking normally after it all happened I slept with another girl. Is this cheating?

Not actually, no. She's been diagnosed with it. I've seen that.

Wait you saw the actual diagnosis?
And how you deal with "love" says a lot about you as a person. Very self serving and narcissistic tendency desu

hey, I was wondering do you know the difference between love and obsession? and what's the difference between obsession and desire? do you think this feeling could last forever? God, I hope so

crush has zero social media, made her facebook about 3 months ago just to be in school classes chat groups.

ive been texting her on fb messenger for a while now, but she takes on average 6 hours to reply each time cus she only uses facebook on her computer... the replies are OK tho, lots of emojis, lots of "~"s, questions back and forth..

i just live life on autopilot waiting in the ~6 hour periods in between her replies nowadays

Life is shit, and everything matters, so fuck you for being an inconsiderate cunt.

Alright I really need to put on my serious face now. There's a lot of things I can't control so I'll keep them in mind but I won't worry about them. I also need to just have no ego and admit my limitations and vulnerabilities.

Yeah, I've seen it.
Life has taught me something: if I don't think about me first, no one else will.

In a group of girl friends.
Guys fall at the feet of the hot one and the other two tag along for the free food, drinks and car rides.
They rarely invite me anywhere. Went on the dream holiday we'd been talking about since we were kids without me. They tried to hide it from me and got mad at me for voicing my upset over it.
I'm so mad, betrayed and upset. I'm constantly left out of everything but I have no idea how to make friends so I'm just stuck.
Whenever I've tried to voice my feelings I've been told that its my own fault for being distant and that they've tried super hard to with me. By that they mean that they privet messaged my boyfriend to try and get me to go to a house party because they were 'worried' about me, when I reluctantly said yes they immediately asked if my boyfriend would be able to give them a ride to and from the party. Sensing the bullshit, I told my boyfriend to ask for fuel money and following that, they no longer had any interest because apparently less than £5 between them is way too much to ask for despite adding an extra 45 minutes to the trip and they'd rather get a taxi.
I fucking hate women and I hope I or those two faces bitches drop dead.

I don't really want to do anything. Our species' prejudice towards collectivism always ends up screwing me. I feel no compelling reason to contribute to the larger society (which is considered a given for some reason). I don't want to go off into the mountains nor be a loser who has to subsist off the government and definitely don't want to be a bum, but that means I have no real option that isn't a form of degradation. Sorry, but to me work is for losers. Inb4 you need to change your mindset/attitude/whatever.

GODDAMN I've got more. Just fuck you man. Every time we talk you gimme shit like
>I missed you
or
>I was thinking about you the other day
And you sound like you really mean it, but I don't know anymore. Maybe you mean it, in the moment, but I need more than one fucking moment. I want so badly to leave this shit, but I can't. I've seen other women, and they don't hold a candle to you.

Am I seeing signs of narcissism in you? Or is it your insecurity? Or my paranoia..?

Nevertheless, stop.

you know im pretty stupid. i had all these women interested in me and i am completely oblivious to it. would i want a relationship had i have known?

People who record concerts or scream or sing over them are trash

Legally Blond is a terrible movie

Parents should be required to take a parenting class to continue a pregnancy, although it should be free

Men should not have the right to vote on laws involving womens bodies, but they can have their opinions

School should spend more time in PE and music and less in math

High school should be optional (it is in many countries and they're graduation rate is higher)

There should be actual consequences for bullying

Hunger Games is also a shit movie series

Stranger Things is full of terrible actors and subpar writing

if they left because they would be happier without you, love would understand, accept, and wish them happiness

obsession would hate them, want revenge, or grow bitter

Holy shit I fucking agree with the parenting classes thing. So many fucking trash parents exist.
People who are clearly too mentally ill to have kids are allowed to breed like rats and its disgusting.
My own parents shouldn't have had me as they were both mentally ill and drug addicts who simply couldn't cope with a child. I've seen many people in similar circumstances and its so disgusting.

She's probably depressed as fuck that she's in a city with no friends. I grew up in the country and when I moved to the area city I became so fucking bitter. Fixed completely when I moved back to the good ol countryside.

Stay away from that person whiner. Problem solved.

Great attitude you have there. Enjoy a miserable selfish life.