Alright, you're not gonna like this but let me tell you my personal story. Pic related. I started fapping at 12. And quickly became fap addict. I lose Virginity at 16, but it can hardly be called sex, get half chub, she goes ontop, condom makes me go almost fully soft.and i basicaly force the damn thing in after much struggle and she moves maybe 5 times before I fall out of her and she gives up on me
DO NOT HAVE SEX AGAIN UNTIL 22. Fapping daily to once every 2,3 days inbetween . Have sex again, guess what, can't get hard, hardest I get is half chub, no condom. Not once did i get fully erect a.month with this girl, I think she just thought I was a 4incher when i'm 7 like you. Don't have sex again until 23, after THREE different tries. I FINALLY get fully erect. From here on out I have no problem, few grinds in women and am good to go but now theres a 2nd problem. No matter how good it feels, I can't cum from sex or blowjob. My personality changes after girlfriend i got hard with first time and I start getting girls more consistently but go through bang 6 different girls, never cum, not even if i go 40 minutes straight. They LOVE this at first, think I'm sex god, but samenthing always happend. > Am I ugly user? > You're cheating on me aren't you? > You don't care about me Ruins every single girlfriend within few months Meet my current who I think is the one( maybe she isn't, idk) But decide once an for all I will not let my fucking porn addiction ruin my life with women. I quit fapping and pirn for 22 days. 22 days fucking days this took! I banged this girlfriend a few times inbetween and then finally, after we went 5 times in a few hours, on the 5th time I finally nutted.
Long story short, its the fap user. Its the fap and it's anxitey you have no power over because you subconciously think your dick is gnna fail on you. Quit Masturbation, it's hard at first but I have once since I quit and I didn't even like it anymore. I feel fre
To clarify, I'm not saying no should fap and you're a bad person if you do. Or that quiting will make you a levitating pickup artist Some people like anything else have a problem only abstinence can solve
Christian White
Same problem except I nut fast too. I bought pills for that though, but still struggle to get it up with girls. I stopped watching porn for a long time but just recently got back into it.
Maybe I'll quit fapping again but it's hard to sleep. I should def quit porn again though.
Asher Rogers
Sound advice OP. Will take it before I have to approach a crush.
Gabriel Sullivan
Thank you user. I need to read that. My experience is similar, I hope the message gets out
Austin Rodriguez
I think porn sets expectations in people's head. You can find all the perfect combination of things that get you going but it's fake, it's a fantasy you'll never get from a real girl. In addition to this I truly beleive it fucks up meeting them in the first place too because you aren't looking at them as a person you can have a partnership with but a fuckbag. You may work up coruage to speak to them but I feel like they can sense it in you, plus when you get turned down you may even get /niceguy syndrome and be resentful, thinking " why dis whore no fuck? Screen girl always want fuck"
Eli Price
Thank you good sir, fapping gives me like many others a temporary dopamine hit that cures my depression for a few minutes. But it's probably one of the worst things I should do. I will give it my best
Aaron King
And I fully understand, we are the type of people on Jow Forums. There's maybe 1 or 2 Chads or 9/10 guys on here per 1000. Plagued with weird habits and mannerusims and social retardation when we just want connections with womynz like anyone else.but litteraly don't know why or how we just can't talk to or be with girls properly.
Luke Powell
obviously nofap works. Longterm semen retention is literally the key to maximizing your chance of living a successful life.
Aaron Kelly
Is it true that cumming everyday even if in a girl is actually bad for you? I forget where I heard that, but i don't see how or why. I also know this couple together like 60 years and the husband said sex every possible day is the key to long lasting love.
Parker Richardson
yes, you're going to age very fast and not feel nearly as energetic and ambitious as a man with a full sack. And no, frequent sex with your spouse if anything can be harmful longterm because it gets so boring.
Angel Carter
I haven't fapped or watched porn (aside from ads on Jow Forums as I pass by) in almost two weeks. I've tried nofap before, but it was weird this time. I just kind of thought to myself, "I'm not going to fap tomorrow" and then didn't, nor have I since. I'm not super far in, but I've been a bit more productive, so that's nice. Hitting my first real urges today, kind of hard to stage off, but I'll make it.
Still really lonely though, and have oneitis forming despite my efforts to avoid it
Daniel Gomez
Personally for me I hit stages within my 22 days where I was litteraly the slightest comfort laying my bed was getting me to spring up and thought about gay shit or dead puppies to go soft, or 0 sex drive whatsoever. It was very strange. I also know it wont kill you though, have a a guy friend who just hates porn so much and has enough sex that even when he went for months without pussy he just doesnt jack off.
Oliver Clark
Is it just me or does the thumbnail for OPs pic look like hes pissing on the cat
Caught.... No honestly I didnt have any pictures related. My phones nothing but memes, some.of my dick pics, girlfriends nudes and selfies Heres one i used yesterday to troll and derail a r8 thread.
No wonder you went 6 years without sex, jesus christ.
Joshua White
Yes, the biggest myth that nofappers parrot is that your body knows the difference between cumming in a woman and in your hand, it's the same physiological response, sex and orgasm is great but you should learn to keep it in moderation, the dopamine high is really what fucks so many guys up, sex, masturbation, it's all the same, it's just another drug that people abuse that can ruin your life. Learn to control your body, you can still have sex but you should cum and orgasm a maximum of once a week
Aiden Miller
As a counter to your anecdotal evidence, I've fapped as often as you if not more since 12 and i've never had an issue getting hard or cumming, banged my gf almost daily while fapping 3 times a week. Not saying its not unhealthy but everyone is different
Charles Russell
Jacking off isn't bad, porn is. Never use porn again and only jack off when you're inspired to - not just to kill time.
Asher Butler
I dont see the need to fap if you're banging daily but to each their own
Isaiah Clark
its the porn retard
Jace Hall
I agree its 90% porn, but I also said not everyone is fucked up like me and not everyone needs to do this.
Leo Myers
Thats science who say that not just "no fappers".
And its not the difference between masturbations vs real sex, but difference between PORN and real sex.
People these days cant masturbate without porn and thats the thing that ruins you and your brain gets fucked up with on demand fap with unlimited fantasies and preferences avaliable on internet.
Tyler Bennett
Youre either lying or youre an exception.
Elijah Davis
I already said this. They are like people who can casually drink saying to Alcholics " why you can't drink like me? Just drink different stupid"
