My gf is more sexually experienced than me and it makes me self conscious, anxious, paranoid, and jealous
To clarify, I was a virgin when I met her but she was not. we've had sex, but I can't help worrying >what if her past bfs were better at sex >what if they had huge dicks >what if she still feels attracted to them (she had 2 partners before me, both dumped her) >what if she secretly compares me to her past boyfriends >what if she thinks I have a tiny dick >what if she views them as "alpha" and will never be able to get over them? >what if im just the rebound
if she’s your gf then you aren’t a rebound. you need to stop being so insecure. she with you now and if you wanna know if you’re pleasing her or not then ask. a closed mouth doeand get fed.
Lucas Thomas
bro. you have a gf. your problems are fixable. just TALK TO HER. You could be like most of us, who do not have one atm. count your blessings
Cameron Martin
It doesn't go away, never does with the first. Eventually you will break up and that is the unfortunate truth. In your next relationship it could possibly still be there, but not like it is now because you now have a history of previous partners.
if sex mattered as much as you think it mattered, they would still be together, and she wouldnt have gone with a virgin. how long have yall been together? if its more than 6 months, youve already proven that youre not just some fucktoy to her. yall have a good relationship it sounds like, and every once in a while, you get in a rut thinking youre not good enough. it happens, its evolved with us to help build stronger bonds with people
and as for her being still attracted to people that dumped her. if i punched you in the face, you would think im an asshole right? same logic
>what if her past bfs were better at sex They probably were. Ask her what she likes or how you can improve.
>what if they had huge dicks What if they did? Big dick doesn't equal better sex
>what if she still feels attracted to them (she had 2 partners before me, both dumped her) She probably still is, why is that an issue? She can find more than just you physically attractive.
>what if she secretly compares me to her past boyfriends She probably doesn't intentionally, but I'm sure sometimes something pops into her head like 'X used to kiss my forehead too' etc.
>what if she thinks I have a tiny dick If you have a tiny dick and shes with you, she doesn't view it as a deal breaker.
>what if she views them as "alpha" and will never be able to get over them? In time she will if that's how she feels.
>what if im just the rebound Generally rebounds aren't relationship material so who knows. Either you'll break up or stay together forever
Gabriel Hall
>if sex mattered as much as you think it mattered, they would still be together
Did you not read? I said her exs dumped her, not vice versa
Also I lied about not being a virgin to her because I was embarassed.
>if i punched you in the face, you would think im an asshole right? We both know its not that straightforward with women
Aiden Anderson
Well then. This made me feel a lot worse, thanks
Robert Lopez
Hes only a cuck if he marries her. Gf implies he can leave at any time, no problem.
Oliver Collins
Anyone can get a gf if they lower their standards enough
Blake Cruz
Insecurities are hard, I get that. But everything I said is true. Basically quit thinking about it or break up. How old are you? A lot of your questions are immature
Gabriel Carter
not helping, dickwad. go jerk off to pornstars some more and expect your imaginary kissless virgin 11/10 dreamgirl to manifest right out of your choice animoo and touch ur unwashed pee-pee with the grace of a pornstar but she's totally pure tho
Daniel Torres
You think way too much dude. Stop thinking about other men when you’re with her, she obviously chose you over them
Levi Wilson
wat
Isaac Wilson
>she obviously chose you over them
So tired of hearing this normie shit. SHE GOT PUMP AND DUMPED, SHE DIDNT CHOSE ANYTHING. (At least she didnt choose to leave the dudes that pump and dumped her)
Liam Taylor
She chose to fuck them, not necessarily vice versa. There isn't something removed from a woman if she has dick in her besides the dick.
Benjamin Parker
She's the practice gf OP. These feelings will lessen when you move on to number two.
Michael James
why did they dump her?
Jeremiah Harris
You really need to stop giving a fuck and act like an adult. I'm sorry to say it user, but unless you're going for the mythical virgin that neckbeards are chasing after, every person that you'll date will have some sort of sexual history. That's just a part of life.
>inb4 all women are whores
If you're worrying about inadequacy in the bedroom due to a lack of skill, Google is always an option. If it's stamina, see a men's clinic. In all honesty though, this sounds more like a deep seated psychological issue that you need professional help for.
The way OP talks, this issue most likely won't go away if they break up.
Isaiah Collins
one didn't feel the same way" and the other presumably found someone hotter
>you'll date will have some sort of sexual history Yeah, so next time ill either date a virgin or not date at all
Asher Morgan
Then you won't be dating at all.
Looks like struck a nerve.
Juan Ward
why wouldnt it be that straightforward? if a girl dumped you as harshly and they did to her, how would you feel about that her?
Robert Nguyen
god it's so incredibly annoying how insecure guys are.
Jaxson Wilson
How long you've been together OP?
Cameron Long
>what if her past bfs were better at sex That's pretty likely actually, but since you were a virgin its not so strange. You will get better as well >what if they had huge dicks A huge dick does not mean great sex. My ex was pretty big and my current BF is average, the sex is different but not any worse >what if she still feels attracted to them (she had 2 partners before me, both dumped her) Unlikely >what if she secretly compares me to her past boyfriends So what? Shes with you now, so that means she prefers you over them >what if she thinks I have a tiny dick Unlikely >what if she views them as "alpha" and will never be able to get over them? Nonsense >what if im just the rebound Only people who are messed up in the head does rebound relationships. Rebound sex? Yeah sure, but getting into a new relationship as a rebound is retarded and only dumb people do it
Cheer up. My BF's ex had huge tits and i have only B-cups. That kinda bothered me for a while since i know hes into big tits, but then i realized he wanted me more than her (she tried getting him back) and i accepted it
Liam Bell
Because theres always those girls who get dumped and literally NEVER forget about it. stalk the guys social media for years, etc.
>implying women are not more insecure in other ways
almost 2 years
>That's pretty likely actually, but since you were a virgin its not so strange. You will get better as well
Nice, so I will get better, but it will never be as good as it was for her in the past
>A huge dick does not mean great sex. My ex was pretty big and my current BF is average, the sex is different but not any worse Lots of girls beg to differ. What sizes are we talking here?
>So what? Shes with you now, so that means she prefers you over them She didn't choose me over them. They dumped her, she had no choice in the matter. She met me some months later. If those dudes were still dating her she would still be with them
>Nonsense Implying theres no stories of women not ever getting over the guys that dumped them
>Only people who are messed up in the head does rebound relationships. Rebound sex? Yeah sure, but getting into a new relationship as a rebound is retarded and only dumb people do it Lots and lots of girls I know do rebounds. They find a new man within DAYS, if not HOURS of breaking up
>Cheer up. My BF's ex had huge tits and i have only B-cups. That kinda bothered me for a while since i know hes into big tits, but then i realized he wanted me more than her (she tried getting him back) and i accepted it Tits are an aesthetic thing for the most part, not a functional thing. PiV sex is the main aspect of sex..
Grayson Clark
>multiple past partners
yikes
Easton Reyes
there are men that do that too, and it would be very obvious to you if that were happening
everything you described in this thread is stuff that men also do, but you still treat women like theyre such an enigma. theyre really not as different as you think they are. id say youre thinking way too much, but other peoplr have said that already and you ignore it
Ian Hughes
>Lots and lots of girls I know do rebounds. They find a new man within DAYS, if not HOURS of breaking up
I don't know how does this shit work, but this has been my experience as well throughout the dating. It's either me who was the next man to be dated after the breakup, or someone else after breaking up with me.
Luke Hernandez
>Lots of girls beg to differ. Not the ones I've been with. :(
Jaxon Smith
>PiV sex is the main aspect of sex.. Lmao. Do you know that most women can't even orgasm from PIV not matter how big your dick is? The vaginal tunnel is not that sensitive. It can't be; when you consider what happens when a woman gives birth, it's easy to see why it is so. Having more nerve endings there would make it even more painful. It's about the clit for women. Eat her out and she will be satisfied with you, your penis size literally doesn't matter.
Leo Ross
Ok retard She didn’t chose you you forced her into a relationship Ok retard
Anthony Sullivan
Are you a girl or a guy?
You do realize women enjoy the sensation of being fucked, right?
You do realize some can cum from PiV alone, right?
You realize, many women enjoy being "stretched out" by a girthy penis, right? If all they wanted was someone to lick their clit, they would be lesbian.
She didn't "choose me over the other guys" which is what you implied. She chose me over some other dudes that were trying to ask her out, oK, but she didnt choose me over her exs.
Juan Adams
>You realize, many women enjoy being "stretched out" So? Many women don't.
Caleb White
Name one
Joseph Ward
My girlfriend.
Jayden Russell
your relationship is so fucked lmao and its not because of her
Logan Bennett
your girlfriend prefers small narrow dicks?
Ayden Carter
I already know the relationship isn't ganna go anywhere. If she wanted it to go somewhere, maybe she shouldnt have slept with random dudes that dont even want to commit to her
Angel Johnson
I'd presume she prefers something roughly average sized.
Connor Gonzalez
I'm a girl and I don't care about dick. My fiance could literally have a micropenis and I wouldn't care. I only really enjoy clit stimulation and no, that doesn't make me a lesbian. That makes me a normal woman. You don't know this because women lie to their guys to coddle their egos (of course I love your cock, darling!). Well, this is the truth. Your penis doesn't matter in a relationship.
Henry Ross
But all things being equal, if theres a a carbon clone copy of 2 guys, one with a micropenis and one with a above average penis, are you really saying you could go for either one?
Angel Young
And why does she prefer average over, say, less than average?
Yes. You probably can't imagine it as a guy, but I really feel nothing from PIV unless clit stimulation is involved. Well, there's an occasional pleasant feeling here and there, but it's rare and extremely faint. Nothing I couldn't live without.
Owen Powell
i feel you on that one. women need to do bettet at telepathically knowing you as a person beforr yall ever meet. too bad you fucked yourself over by not telepathically knowing the perfect girl for you..... you should stick it out, because now that youve gotten laid, its all downhill from here.
but hey hopefully it brings more insight and might help you. now that yall are breaking up, do you still lover her even tho she wronged you??? surely shes still gonna love you after dumping her because thats just how women work
you know, anime femboi foxes would never do this to you
I've told her all this straight up, shes still with me
Nolan Torres
Then why do some girls like, and often pursue big dicks? I feel like you are the exception, but you are acting like you are the rule
Kayden Garcia
Yes, but more than average makes her bleed, takes half an hour of foreplay even with a shitload of lube, and gives her more UTIs.
Dylan Sanders
kek
Aaron Green
A lot of reasons >they like the sensations >they like the aesthetic >they like the idea of their partner having a big dick >they're masochists >they believe big dick energy is a thing >they don't actually like big dicks, they just like making guys feel bad
Adam Jenkins
>implying women are not more insecure in other ways
You're replying to like 7 people at once in one post and writing 5000 words.
Ryan Cox
false online psy-op to brainwash would-be faggots like you into giving up and turning trans
Christian Powell
so how does this prove that penis size doesn't matter?
Moreover how could she ever enjoy a smaller penis after experiencing a larger one?
Adam Ward
It matters, but not to everyone, not as much as you think, and only outside a certain range.
Nathan Rodriguez
>if she’s your gf then you aren’t a rebound >Implying
Nolan Anderson
>it makes me self conscious, anxious, paranoid, and jealous
Yeah, thats your instinctual evolutionary caveman brain saying WARNING WARNING that child may not be yours. We have these feelingsand they are normal, but in the past 50 years or so we have been “educated” to dull our senses and be “sexually liberal”. Wouldnt want strong pair bonds and traditional healthy families now do we??
I can’t really take posts like this seriously. Are there guys out there that obsess this much about other men’s dicks?
Eli James
I dont obsess about other mens dicks, but I worry about my SO’s feelings about them. If your GF viewed your penis as subpar or inferior how is that not degrading and emasculating?
Jonathan Jones
I’m sorry but this is borderline cuck fetish shit. You should be worried how much mental energy you’re putting into this. You’re already making a connection in your mind between your gf’s sexual pleasure and other men’s larger dicks.
Caleb Sullivan
She will probably end up leaving you once she figures out what an insecure beta little fuck your are
Hunter Lopez
Just start sucking dick and get it over with
Luis Morgan
so by ignoring something it will just go away? got it
and nothing of real value is lost. she already knows i dont give a fuck if she leaves me. she still stays with me despite me telling her straight up that shes less valuable than a virgin girl
Nolan Jones
For a minute I was really confused about why that would be a bad thing. You'll get a sizequeen gf someday.
Liam Hernandez
There's nothing wrong with being a cuck. Cuck shaming is really harmful. It's also much more common than you think
Austin Johnson
Not by ignoring, but by open communication and trust. But if you’d rather become a literal cuck, go ahead down the same path you’re on.
Nathan Gomez
>>Not by ignoring, but by open communication
What is there to communicate? We all know she isn't going to give an honest answer, like the other anonette said anything she says will just be ego-supplicating
Dominic Foster
>that child
what child you dingus
Austin Bell
At least you are no longer a KHV.
Jose Morales
Welp, you clearly don't trust her.
Nicholas Williams
Shes human. Ergo untrustworthy. Only machines can be trusted.
Lucas Morales
Its not her, its any woman. Women are never honest about their pasts, unless they are inexperienced
James Thomas
You got issues my dude.
Julian Collins
>what is evolution
There is no actual child in OPs case, but in the caveman times, if your caveman GF had sex with other dudes, you would naturally be suspect since it was likely the child she bore was not actually yours, hence the emotions of jealousy, terrorial, possessiveness, etc.
Ian Perry
? How? Just telling the truth here. not saying there aren't honest/open girls out there, there are. They're the kind of girls who are bit more masculine and "know what they want", not really the type im into per se
Jose Parker
okay but there is no child and we're not in caveman times
being insecure that your gf isn't as big of a virgin as you isn't really common at all.
Mason Scott
>being insecure that your gf isn't as big of a virgin as you isn't really common at all.
Like I said, we've been "educated" to dull our senses.
oh boy yeah you're right 40 years of fringe feminism was enough to reverse millenia of biological instincts carried through evolution, retard lol
Charles Rivera
>oh boy yeah you're right 40 years of fringe feminism was enough to reverse millenia of biological instincts carried through evolution, retard lol
Clearly it did, otherwise you wouldn't have said
>being insecure that your gf isn't as big of a virgin as you isn't really common at all.
Evan Williams
Nice circular logic there pal.
Luis Diaz
Or
being worried that your gf isn't a virgin like you is something that only incel retards on Jow Forums care about.
I've been with virgin girls, it sucks. Only Muslims and Incels see virginity as some sort of prize.
Ryder Turner
>but in the caveman times, if your caveman GF had sex with other dudes, you would naturally be suspect since it was likely the child she bore was not actually yours, hence the emotions of jealousy, terrorial, possessiveness, etc.
[citation needed]
Juan Moore
Seeing as you're convinced that girls all crave gigantic cocks, I don't think you're in touch with reality enough for me to show you how dumb you are.
Isaac Young
Why would it suck? The emotions alone override any part of the actual act being awkward or unsatisfying.
Christian Peterson
I guess cause I'm not an incel and never was, being a virgin was not something that was emotionally appealing or something that would connect me with a girl on a very deep level.
Virgin girls either 1. Don't have sex, because they're virgins 2. Do have sex, and they're terrible at it, and then you're a terrible person for breaking up with them later on.
and no I'm not a psyop roastie or whatever dumb bullshit. Sluts are great cause they'll fuck anyone including retards from Jow Forums like myself bot of course the ideal girl is someone who's only been with two or three guys and in my experience that was most of them.
Tyler Sanchez
your bitter virgin ass shouldn't be so sad over this ??
Carson Moore
Some people are able to look past the conditioning
Leo Scott
I was like you, then we broke pic and now I’m with my second gf after fucking a few women here and there. And I don’t care anymore.
Jose Kelly
>I need a citation to say that if a girl had sex with other guys, the chances of the baby not being yours are high
>Seeing as you're convinced that girls all crave gigantic cocks Not saying that either
>I am too lazy and entitled to bother teaching my partner how to please me in bed. I also have no regard for her surrendering her body to me and giving me arguably the one thing a girl can give her husband. All I care about is ME ME ME. I can not fancy the thought of dating for the goal of marriage, and not just a hedonistic quick dose of pleasure for my mongoloid brain
Andrew Foster
>the conditioning
What conditioning? You just made up a bullshit story about cavemen and cavewomen with absolutely no proof or citations whatsoever.
Brody Turner
>Haha, I put peepee in her pee pee, Am happy now! haha! nothing else matter!
You do need a citation if you're claiming it's a biological evolutionary trait that carried over from "caveman times".
James Jones
>all aspects of our biology and emotions stem from evolutionary experiences >EXCEPT FOR THIS!!!!!!! BEING JEALOUS OF YOUR PARTNERS PAST IS NOT NORMAL!!!
What are you even arguing against?
Jayden Rogers
>how could she ever enjoy a smaller penis after experiencing a larger one? >how do vaginas work at all