I'm so fucking lonely bros I don't want to feel this way anymore

I'm so fucking lonely bros I don't want to feel this way anymore...

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Same
Cant sleep properly because of it for 1 1/2 month now.
Loneliness is more harmful (even for the body) than smoking a pack of cigs a day.

Join a club or something, or maybe a church even if you’re non religious

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Had the same problem.

There are several ways to deal with it.
1)Easiest and most popular are the self pity, depression, doing nothing, living the pain way. It doesnt help it make you feel shitty and nothing changes.

2) More difficult, but at least can change things. You face your problem. Start examining it. Ask questions like "why do i feel lonely"?
Most probably its either lack of friends (close friends) or lack of girlfriend/boyfriend.

Start thinking what might be the reasons and make the list:
1) Looks
2) Social skills
3) Anxiety
4) Intelligence
5) etc.

Now when the list is done take each point and write how can you realistically improve yourself on that particular point. Like looks - you can go to gym, you can change your hairstyle or eat healthier. When thats done take each of these options and write next to it realistic way of doing it.
Like for example gym - look where is the closest gym, how much it costs (can you afford it), how much time you can dedicate for it etc.

After that is done create a new daily schedule for a weak that includes the most realistic points in it and see how it look. If it seems do able try it. One day, then next then a week. You will improve yourself day by day. With each passing day you will be better than you were before as long as you stick to your graphic.

Try to feel useful.
Are you in colege? Working?

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>Loneliness is more harmful (even for the body) than smoking a pack of cigs a day.
Is it really?
I mean, the worst point for me was probably when I started hearing voices one summer when I was 12 and I did think I was going insane, but I managed to end the voices somehow. And the last time I cried was last friday because of the realization of no friends and no gf at 19. ;_;

I mean, if it helps I volunteer to be your online friend if you want to talk. Just tell me how I can reach

i'm a full time student in college

Yes it is
Feel free to look it up. It is waaay more harmful than many think. Not only for the mind but the body too

Try to talk to people in class or work. Join some clubs too, you spend money to go to college, might as well use all of its benefits

Volunteer at some thriftstore, some program, some something
Join an amateur theater/musical group.
Join a sports club, any club, interested in table tennis? Join a club!

There, I just gave you dozens of opportunities locally for you to gain human experience/activity
Don't take my advice? Your Fault! Your weakness preventing you taking control of your life.

>AGHH no gff waaaa
STFU, having a gf won't make u happy, get some friends nigger

Serious question, there are a lot of lonely people out there it seems. What would happen if we had machines to talk to people and at least offer some time to listen to problems. Would this be bad for society? If this isn't a solution should we then try harder to help those on the path to committing suicide, some say there's nothing we can do and it's nature's way to select out those unworthy of passing on their genetics to future generations. I hear this, if you couldn't fit in society and didn't fight to integrate at some point then you're not cut out to live among humans.

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Gotta get the fuck off the internet man. You're too wired to instant gratification. It's literally fucking killing you.

Go dig ditches. Anything but more internet.

Same, the few friendships I have are very one sided and no one really cares about me. I think that this is my fault, but don't know what to change.

I dunno if bait or not but here goes:

1. Don't be afaraid to make a fool of youself.
2. Go to acting classes for a minimum of 1/2 year.
3. Gym 5x week IN THE MORNING, morning part is really important.
4. Dancing lessons
5. NO MORE EXCUSES

Do them all at once.

There are videos on youtube called girlfriend asmr. There are videos with girls breathing as they sleep. For me they really help.

>maybe a church even if you’re non religious
So that they can shun you when they find out you're irreligious and fail to convert you?

>all these normies ITT that never had social issues
What you faggots don't realise is that it's impossible to make friends at 20something when you've had 0 prior social experience.
Let's not even get into the gf and romantic experience part, that's far too gone to even worry about at this point.
Once the ship has sailed on socialising, there's no getting on it. And normies KNOW you're a lonely loser no matter how well you can hide it.

I'm lonely too, but I've decided that it's for the best. I can't function normally in this roller coaster society.

Me too. Adding things to my routine and feeling more productive really helped for a while, and my loneliness would only really flare at night, so I'd go to sleep to escape it (though it would keep me up for a while). It's spilled into the day though, and I'm having a lot of trouble staving it off and remaining in a healthy state of mind

Don't know how others with similar issues have fared in their lives but in my experience this is how it is. People seem to gravitate toward people they can relate to, even those seemingly from the lowest class/standards won't want to associate themselves with others below them.

The only way I can see people like these making friends is to somehow miraculously finding someone/others like them with 0 socializing experience though I can't imagine this being the case since you do grow up with a family unless you didn't have one to begin with in which case, yeah you're screwed. Most if not all have some experience socializing to an extent.

Well at least that's how it is here in burgerland. In other places, it's actually pretty easy to make a few friends but it's not easy living in those places. The way I see it, I'd rather much live in places like Japan, at least everyone is quiet there from what I hear.

>Are you lonely?
>Do you masturbate?
If so, stop. Masturbating while lonely is like pouring salt in a wound.
Stop masturbating, stop watching porn, start retaining semen. It won't fix all your problems, but it will give you energy to fix them.
You will feel better, you will look more attractive, you will have more energy and motivation.
Every fap lowers dopamine for TWO WEEKS. That means you're going to feel empty for 14 days every time you fap. Every fap resets the cycle.
Start retaining now. The first week is going to suck, it always does, but after that you won't be able to go back.

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dude are you serious? do you have any idea how annoying it is to have a woman and a couple of brats constatntly demanding your attentions? jesus christ kid, here is your chance to get shit done with no interruptions. maybe you'll do something so cool that other people will be interested in you, and then you can see exactly what i mean.

quit whining and go do something.

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Can't be lonely while being there.

What can you do about your intelligence? You're either intelligent or you're not.

not that user, but i mean... maybe you could learn more, unless you're retarded or a high functioning autist

OP here, this is my fucking issue, didn't socialize or went out with friends that much in high school, fuck i hope this isn't the end for me...I'm only 20 ffs

If you're only 20 you still have a chance, but it's getting late.
If you haven't gotten socialising and romantic experience by 22-23, it's basically over.

oh fuck :(

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Not true for everyone. Since having a kid, I'm way less lonely than I was before.

Only a certain type of person believes this. It's not true.

Fuck women man especially while in school. Go buy a single cab 2wd truck and go /o/ also camping is fun too. Do what you wanna do and start ignoring people like me. Keep your head down and keep on pushing past people. There isn't a permanence to any college relationship even with friends. I'd say get a truck and solo shit man

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If you want a friend or someone you can count with, let me know and I will give you my number so we can talk

Take up a hobby, or get a job, or volunteer somewhere. I expect that you, and many other dudes who feel crushing loneliness, have deeper underlying issues of self worth and self loathing which will not only sabotage your search for someone but make actually getting a relationship unfulfilling. You won't be able to accept affection and validation from other people until you convince yourself that you are worthy of those things, which is a steep road. It's necessary for a real relationship though, because that's the first step in tearing down the walls you've almost certainly built around yourself

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Ignore this man. School is your best chance to not die alone.

Television and wireless devices did this to us, along with early clamping of the placenta and vaccines. We all have brain damage.

A nauseating truth, but the truth nonetheless. Join the right side and start reversing these mistakes.

Get a puppy and feed it murdered, ground up animals.

It just hit me that this is reality.

And we chop their balls off too. Damn.

I think you mean we "fix" them. Get your animal, take them into the facility to get them fixed. What's the big deal? They even have a "spay and neuter van" which drives around looking for animals that have slipped through the cracks and have yet to receive the benefits of this procedure. After which they're transported around until they can find suitable masters, I mean, homes. Because they're messed up until we get after their hormonal systems. This isn't hard to understand. It don't hurt em' any, we're doing them a favor.

Hey, we could do the same to people who happen to get lost and wander off the plantation. I mean, happen to find themselves outside of the system.