I asked my boyfriend if he thought we’d always be together. He said “Statistically speaking? No. Humans are wired to get sick of each other after a certain time period. It’s better to appreciate the magnitude of the love you shared with someone rather than the duration. But if it makes you feel better I could also just tell you what you wanna hear.”. Then he booped me on the nose.
That wasn’t exactly the answer I was expecting. Should I be worried?
unless he says quirky shit like this a lot and this isn’t out of the norm for him
Ryder Carter
tell him he's not properly adjusting for relevant covariates in his survival analysis
Eli Campbell
He sounds turbo autistic, so yes.
Zachary Johnson
I mean, why are you asking that kinda question in the first place? Take it day by day, don’t go into relationships expecting anything like marriage or kids to come of it.
Juan White
Lol tell him you've thought about what he said and he's right. You got sick of him and it's over. And thank him. Then block and never talk again.
He deserves it.
Sebastian Rogers
What did he do wrong
James Young
See the first part is sort of ok. I mean, maybe he just doesn't go in for gushy shit and is too dense to realize what's going on. The boop part is weird. It's diminutive.
Connor Lewis
He is literally autistic.
Jaxon Russell
I was expecting a tender moment
Ethan Lopez
No don’t be worried he’s just a Ben Shapiro facts and logic machine
John Edwards
He's one of those one foot in one foot out non committal kinds and you should look elsewhere for your happily ever after guy.
Zachary Miller
I like feeling cute and small with him
Justin Watson
Oh, never mind then. It still sounds like kind of a dense expression. He's probably trying to remain realistic rather than fully considering why you might ask a question like that. Does he say things like that often? If he does, it's probably just a character thing. If not, it's kind of a red flag.
Jayden Anderson
If my girl browsed 4channel i’d tell her we’re unlikely to stay together too.
Aiden Williams
I don’t that would be very helpful. He hasn’t done anything bad to me. We do love each other after all. But he’s not the type to feel sad when a relationship comes to an end anyway. He said in life nothing is ever really gained or lost.
>Does he say things like that often? Not all the time. But his worldview is very “Ashes to ashes, Dust to dust”. He’s not apathetic but calm and detached. I’ve never even heard him raise his voice in anger before.
Sounds like that’s just how he is. He may have said a little too much, and could’ve worded it better, but if that’s how he normally is, then you kinda set yourself up for that one.
Luis Bennett
Sounds like a smart, cool guy.
He's technically right, and you're bait is bad.
Jacob Edwards
I probably wouldn't be so worried. It's a little inconsiderate to say things like that all the time. It makes you wonder if he actually values you or if he's just shielding himself against what he considers to be an eventual ending. This can cause problems later, as he will never move your relationship forward on his own.
Dominic Davis
He's either autistic, the middle school brand of wannabe brooding edgelord, or both. Not that he's wrong, strictly speaking, but saying it makes him sound like he's trying WAY to hard to be clever and brooding.
Kevin Howard
He’s pretty amicable and bemused by stuff most of the time. Although it’s hard to get a real read on him.
Lol all the feminist roasties ITT calling the bf autistic when OP is the one posting on 4channel and had a folder of minion reaction faces.
Connor Gomez
Minions aren't reaction faces.
Austin Wood
the real problem here is that your bf is bad at statistics.
it sounds like he's considering the probability of relationship failure in an absolute sense. but in reality, the answer to your question is conditional: namely, on important factors like how long you've been together. most of these factors are latent and immeasurable, like "commitment", which adds a ton of variance to any prediction based off of approximations of these factors.
so unless he knows he's the 'problem' with respect to the relationship not surviving, he can't actually say much statistically.
Yes it is you butthurt loser. And even if it’s not my original point still stands that OP is as autistic if not more autistic than her bf for reaction faces or avatar posting. They’re perfect for each other.
Josiah Moore
Back to b with you.
Jack Howard
How would you feel if he just said "I hope so."? Asking for a friend.
Isaiah Clark
>lost the argument
Levi Sanchez
>arguing on the internet
Hunter Baker
You’re the one that got mad over a small nuance you autist
Ian Ross
I just like minions and cats m8. They’re not my avatar.
but they aren't suitable as reactions to the posts she's replying to
Austin Reed
It is literally up to you lol. 90% of relationships end in two ways: The girl gets tired of the guy and dumps him The girl gets tired of the guy and turns into a cunt so he will dump her, and then HE'S the bad guy while she goes out with the rebound she's been grooming
James Collins
>coping
Noah Wright
u first
Jace Flores
>abloo abloo
Jaxon Hall
I can empathize with the guy, i had a gf who from the first moment said stuff about being together forever and ever, and while i did love her and was seriously looking for a serious, long-term relationship, whenever i replied "Yes, we'll be together forever" i felt awkward inside, as if i was lying just to tell her what she wanted to hear, not because i was thinking of dumping her or didn't love her, but just because you never really know what would happen. A year after we btoke up and i still miss her and think about a future with her. You can only really expect a positive and sincere answer to such a question when you marry someone
Hunter Reed
He sounds based as fuck I am also worried of the possibility of human nature that I'd some day get sick of the person I love, but I do hope that doesn't happen
Yeah that sounds like pure, undiluted autism. He could easily have said >"Who knows? But I enjoy being with you right now" Or if you two are more serious and long term >"Of course!" Even though you know you could be wrong in the future. There's a girl I talk to where we call each other soulmates. We don't even believe in soulmates, it's just flirting.
Camden Moore
I mean he’s right lol. Don’t ask questions that you know aren’t possible
Austin Brown
Tfw guy I'm borderline in love with thinks I'm not sexy and just says romantic shit to me for fun
Jose Foster
He acted cold in what is supposed to be a warm relationship.
Logical is great, but you need emotion.
Josiah Torres
Yes you need to be worried, and he is very wrong, pair-bond is a serious thing.
Jose Adams
This. Go find someone who lies to make you feel good.
Eli Gutierrez
And what exactly does that solve, genius? This is the kind of immature shit I expect from a high schooler. For fuck's sake grow up and get some perspective.
Elijah Hall
He sounds pessimistic as fuck. I can't say I haven't been as pessimistic at one point or another in my life, thinking that I'm "realistic", but honestly unless you're retarded... You should understand that relationships are subjective and based on feelings therefore what you say is what's gonna happen. So if I say to my girl of course we'll be with each other forever, as long as nothing bad happens between us. That would be the appropriate answer and leave us both satisfied and we can feel sure in us and in the relationship and make out, it feels great :)
Blake Ward
stale and lazy 2/10 because it will still get (You)'s
Benjamin Parker
Did you ever consider, that he might just have been trying to be funny? I defenitely know some people, who would say something like this as a joke and not give it any deeper meaning. If the relationship is going well, then don't worry about this too much.
Evan Murphy
Diffrent femanon but to me thats a perfect response
Lincoln James
Sweet. I'm not hopelessly autistic.
Josiah Fisher
He sounds like a fag trying to be 'edgy- style' in front of a girl
Jace Perez
wouldn't have been my answer but he's right to be objective at the very least i doubt that you would give a good answer to that question if he asked it to you, OP
Michael Carter
Sounds hilarious. Do you have a sense of humor, OP? The extremely dry, unromantic comment paired with the nose boop is very comedic. Maybe you just don't get his sense of humor?
Nathan Bennett
Never knew fedora tippers could get a gf. Maybe there's hope for me.