Get flirted with all the time

Don't watch porn and don't masturbate for like 5 or 7 days before you go out to a bar again. It's anecdotal but it makes me more sexually aggressive.

I don't want to be a virgin, in fact I might kill myself if I am still an incel at 25

I tried that. I went 2 weeks without masturbation and it didn't make me any more sexually aggressive. I was hornier and wanted to fuck practically any woman I saw but I still couldn't make myself approach them

>it's not my fault

this line of thinking right here is why you will never amount to anything

Why is everyone shilling this book?

Im a virgin and 25. Did all the basic stuff except p in v tough.

user stop being bitch made and get over your fears. You can’t live like this forever.

The next time you’re flirting with a girl move in closer, put your hand around her waist, and take it to your place or hers.

I didn't choose to be born with autism and anxiety did I?

Being good looking and autistic/socially anxious is a curse. Every day I dream of the things I could have done if I was just born with a normal brain and normal social skills. I can pass myself off as normal to most people but at the end of the day, I'm still an autist who can't flirt with girls

I can't do that. I'm too scared of rejection or of doing it wrong

Have you ever been rejected before? Because if not, you never learned that it's not a big deal at all. Fr it feels like nothing, unless you are some beta buck who put 1 girl on a complete pedestal or whatever. It's never going to be harder or simpler than just walking up to them and saying "Hey, I'm user. Let me suck the stress outta your titties"

>Every day I dream of the things I could have done if I was just born with a normal brain
You are an idiot. You are not special. Every fucking man on this planet, except a few, have had this fear. Every man who learned how to approach girls and get laid did it by exposing themselves, despite the fear.

>I can’t
Correction, you won’t.
Oh well, can’t help the helpless. Enjoy your virgin life young wizard.

Nice bait

I've never been rejected and i've never asked a girl out. I know that its my fault. But the thing that isn't my fault is my anxiety and fear, i didn't choose to have those. Thats why I'm an incel

For me the fear is too strong, I can't overcome it. Also I just don't know what to do. Girls come up to me in bars and flirt with me but sometimes theyre too subtle or don't actually make any kind of move, so I have to do it all myself. And I don't know what to do because i'm a virgin incel. I dont know how to flirt or make a move

>that isn't my fault is my anxiety and fear, i didn't choose to have those
You are choosing to keep them. You aren't going through anything special, this is very common.

>but sometimes theyre too subtle or don't actually make any kind of move
That doesn't really matter. You are inexperienced and afraid so you want to have those very clear and direct signals. That's normal, but the wrong mindset. You can create sexual attraction in women. Women are turned on by being desired.
>And I don't know what to do because i'm a virgin incel. I dont know how to flirt or make a move
Read archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/18960720/#18960720

1) You don't have autism, 2) anxiety=being scared=being a little bitch. Stop self-diagnosing like a tumblr teen and stop being a little bitch.

I know this feeling somewhat op

I was at work and one of my co-workers really wanted to fuck. I could tell but I didn't want to fuck her because she isn't my type

So I just gave her like neutral responses to her interest, and she stopped eventually

But when you want to fuck too, you gotta learn to capitalize on these opportunities op. If women are hitting on you, Usually they will give you one shot, maybe two, to show real interest. Then they move on. If you're trying to hit on a girl, you might want to adopt this tactic too.

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>I was at work and one of my co-workers really wanted to fuck. I could tell but I didn't want to fuck her because she isn't my type
How could you tell? What did she do?

She was talking to me, and mentioned being lonely, mentioned specifically that she wanted to take a long bath and relax.
just the various ways she looked at me, how she talked to me, like half of it is body language, and tone of voice expressions which are hard to communicate through text, or describe.

Additionally she would touch my shoulders occasionally, but like in a very sensual manner

I knew because I've had other women do this to me before as well, she just wanted some pipe laid and I wasn't going to do the job LMAO

Disclaimer: Only do this if you're attractive or you'll be arrested for assault.

And make sure they're actually flirting with you and it isn't just autism on your part.

This.

I've had a girlfriend and I've hooked up with a bunch of women before but i still get scared before approaching a girl. It's part of the game and it's part of why it's so rewarding if you do eventually succeed.