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>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>I'm an insecure/suicidal/anxious person who doesn't leave home
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>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

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Girls, serious question despite the fact it sounds like bait, but do you actually like to see your boyfriend get a little jealous over your attention sometimes? Not all the time, and not tantrum-levels of jealous. Just moderate jealousy.

Do good virgin males(not incel) exist?

I'm shitting my pants sometimes because I'm too lazy to go to the bathroom. Does this exclude me from being 'good'?

Yes but they're so polite that they won't even talk to you because they don't want to be bothersome.

Yes
But then I lost my virginity to a hooker

For the fellas:

>How would you feel if your girl found out about a possible deception on your end, and kept it to herself until a more appropriate time, if that time was months down the line?

That's the skinny of it, but basically I'm in a temporary long distance deal and was told no phone calls, but found out from another party that phone calls are possible. I'm for the benefit of the doubt, and genuinely want to talk about it with him in a constructive manner but I don't want to bring it up while he's away because I don't want to make him feel cornered into giving me phone calls because I was relieved that we wouldnt be doing them in the first place. Also because it's possible honesty problems I don't feel comfortable discussing over text. Damage is already done, I've already waited. Just wondering if its a reasonable thing to have done I guess idk
At least for me it's less about jealousy and more about him seeing me as someone of value. If the value is felt, the idea of making him jelly won't be enticing. I can feel it from time to time, but it's one of those feelings that imo is easily not acted upon and I seek other avenues of getting that kind of attention from my guy, cos it's his that I want and not someone else's and usually not constructive to entice real jealousy out of a partner that you want to maintain

Any time a girl holds onto a grievance so that she can hit me over the head with it later I'm furious. It's manipulative and cunning at best.

I like to make him a little jealous, but he likes it too. I know how far I can take it to push his buttons without making him feel uncomfortable or excluded, and he really likes it for some reason.

Actual quads of truth for once.

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Girls,

What do you think about girls with tattoos?

It's not so that I can hit him over the head with it so to speak, that piece of information had caused my trust in him to falter so I see any interaction around it until we are together in person again as a moot point because nuance is difficult via text. I dont want to feel like I'm giving up on him over a misunderstanding, and I don't want to make a misstep in presenting my case and offend him.

I also don't want to accuse him of anything, I just want to present it as a "hey so this scenario happened while you were away and it made me feel really uncomfortable" and letting him lead from there. I'm just curious, I am pretty sure its not because he's spending his time talking to someone else, I just keep getting left in the dark about stuff and this is a painful topic for me, so I don't want to do it while not holding his hand tbqh

I just didn't think about how holding on to it might be a problem until it was two weeks later n I pussied out the couple times I tried to bring it up already, I'm not holding out of spite tho. Though my sake is naturally involved, I'm mostly concerned for his

>I'm not holding out of spite tho
That's not how it's going to look to me at least, if I'm the guy in this situation. I've had girlfriends approach me in the most """"innocent""""" ways only to fling some shit and start a fight over something that they'd been stewing about which had never even crossed my mind as a problem. There is no approach to this that wouldn't seem like you'd been sitting on it and making yourself angry and blowing the problem up out of proportion just so that you could have a big fight about it at a later date.

Is your bf deployed in the military by any chance?

Girls,
Would you want to know up front if a guy you were seeing was losing his hair? 20 and my hair is going real fast. I want to start dating, but I know hair is a deal breaker for a lot of women and im not quite ready to start shaving it

Posting here for containment.

>She was a possibly lesbian extra hardcore blatantly obvious vegan with no signs she was interested me who I now accidentally turned into a half-friend I don't really want because, for just one thing, she'll probably murder me for eating a fucking pizza.
>I made myself believe she liked me because of the last girl
>my mind always tries to run a narrative that either all women like me, or no women like me. Not consciously, I mean it runs through lists and either accepts or denies every single one regardless of who it is
>I really am a pretentoius manchild with no maturity
>psychologists don't have openings tell me to wait over a month at best or more often just don't get back to me at all which I now I think about it, when I was just generically depressed they did get back to me so that says a lot I bet.
>I can't accept the truth that I missed the boat on any even being a successfully social person
>I can't accept this disgusting self history I was born into. I refuse to...
>All of it in my head was fake. I'm probably even asexual or something. Maybe everyone is wrong, which made since given they basically say that love is a symptom of success and happiness, something you don't need
>I still can't being myself to hate couples or people even though all I want is to return to where I came.
>nb4 someone curses me out about this post being immature
>they're right about my diagnosis of Asperger's. Probably worse. If I'm attractive and women don't like me, its my personality. If its my personality than I have deeply embedded personal problems and they can all tell.
>only some rare dumb teenage girls like me. Why would anyone my age and as mature as I'm supposed to be like me when I don't even feel 30?
>can only make """friends""" through dnd.

Just another one to toss in the heap of virgin posts. That's all it is.
I just wanna be how a normal person should be.
But they don't have these made-up-into-being-real stupid problems like me.

Don't respond to this. Don't even read this. Its fine. I'm fine. Why am I not fine

Unless they're supposed to be in memory of someone they cared about, I think they're a bad life choice.
Upfront, no. If it's something that bothers you it's fine to talk about it if you want.

They're better than tripfags.

Dang dude I'm sorry you've had to deal with that. I'm really aiming not to give this sort of impression. I have a hard time initially approaching something like this because how it makes me feel will cause me to approach someone in a way that may cause a fight/nonproductive conversation imo. I can't be level headed without at least SOME time.

I've done little charts and stuff to work through my initial upsetti at the topic, and I really only want to know why, and if I'm to jog it further than that: if he's capable of/or even interested in fostering a relationship with me that isn't as easily swayed by a comment so simple as "well my husband just got off the phone with me and he's been calling err day". This time has really helped me to strip all negative feelings related to it, and only leave curiosity and concern.

Really could not drive it further that I was more upset that he left it to me asking him two weeks into him being gone that he couldn't call me at all whatsoever, and offer no inbetween (muted videocalls, etc) again not something that I was that keen in the first place on but the way it was handled, as well his behavior this whole time is just too stonewall-y for me not to ask about


but yeah, he is. I'm just trying to cause him as little stress as possible while he's away because I'm not trying to be THAT person as well, or make him think that I'm out here goofing around and trying to place blame on him. Worst I've done is let those lonely feels get to me and send him less nudes because I was too busy feeling sorry for myself.

I have a couple of buddies in the army and they don't like to be in contact with their wives/gfs while deployed because it hurts too much.

Their job is stressful and is anything but a low stakes game. They need to stay focused and on the task and thinking about how much they miss their families and friends and partners makes it hard to do what they need to do. I wouldn't be surprised if this is why he told you no phone calls.

I've met this girl a couple of times, and she popped up on my recommended adds on facebook. I added her, she accepted immediately.

I want to pursue her romantically - how can I do this without sounding like a creep? I already liked her profile picture which I kinda regret.

I don't know how to meet her in real life without it being random, and as my time on this earth is limited, I chose to do something about it.

Yes. But good luck finding them. The ones who actively choose not to have sex also tend not to really care too much about attention from women (at least not much more than from men), and that makes them hard to spot from anyone else who isn’t thirsty as fuck.

>how would you feel if your girl found out about a possible deception on your end, and kept it to herself for a more appropriate time

In general, if I’m caught out in the wrong, I’m going to feel like shit no matter if it happens now or later. If this is a serious relationship, better for the long term health of it to just get it resolved as soon as possible because otherwise resentment starts becoming a thing on your end, which is usually inevitably the end of the relationship.

That being said, his case is not something I can really empathize with or fully understand since my mentality about communication seems to pretty much be the opposite of his.

At the end of the day though, there really are no absolute right or absolute wrongs when it comes to relationship. What really matters is that you’re on the same page about the important stuff and how you deal with things, and if you are, the rest becomes easier to work out. If you’re not though, that’s when unresolved shit starts piling up and that resentment I spoke about earlier kicks in.

Decide for yourself if this is something that’s a big deal to you or not. You’re the only one that can possibly know what is or isn’t comfortable for you or what crosses your bottom line.,

Time to slide into those DM's mate.

Find a (recent) photo on her page of something she did, a bar or a hike or an activity, and then ask her about it, or say you've been there, or tell her it's something you've wanted to try and did she think it was worth it.

Just find some pretext to open a conversation with her and put your foot in that door, then the rest is up to whether or not you know how to make conversation. Make some conversation, then invite her to hang out. Or on a date, depending on how much you think she likes you.

and thats why i just want to talk about it when he gets back is what im trying to get to the bottom of. it doesnt stink, it just stinks that he hurts yknow

She has no recent photos=(

Oof, how did you meet those times you've met? Was that at some activity you've got in common that you can talk about? All you need to do is go into this with at least something worth saying because you don't want to be one those "hey wyd" type guys who are boring af to speak with.

I get why you want to wait, but it's more cowardice than hurt feelings I think. There is pretty much nothing more frustrating than a girl sitting on an insecurity and letting it spiral past the point of fixing. Since there's no good way to approach this subject, the best thing you can do for your relationship is bring it up sooner rather than later to save yourself the worrying.

Swallow your cowardice and be direct about it.
>hey babe I know you said no phone calls, but I heard from [x] that she and her husband are able to talk on the phone so it possible for us? I don't want to be a clingy gf but I miss the sound of your voice :(

do women have wet dreams

I've joined the Navy.
I'm dealing with the idea that I might have to live with being alone for the rest of my life. Being in the Navy means every year I'll have to be away 6 months of the time. Maybe more.
Can I ever marry a woman with that kind of bullshit above us?
Can I ever TRUST a woman over that amount of time?

Sometimes.

If you think that the Navy, or any of the armed forces for that matter, is a lifelong career then you're kidding yourself. Excepting officers, most people do it for a few years or a couple of contracts then they give it up and ply their skill in the outside world. Pick a specialisation that can get you a job after your discharge and don't plan on being a lifer.

Recently fucked up and wasted a lot of money from the joint account I have with my bf. I explained everything and that I'd be putting in extra money from my pay, but of course he says that's not the point.
Anything I can do to rebuild trust? Would refilling the account faster than he expects be a good gesture at least?

>Excepting officers,
>don't plan on being a lifer.
Bud

We met first time in november, then a second time in december, and then a few days ago. I could talk about an event we were at in november, but that would be weird, no?

>Would refilling the account faster than he expects be a good gesture at least?
No.

I posted here months and months ago about how my gf at the time had used my credit card while I was in the shower to buy a couple hundred bucks worth of lingerie. In her mind it was for "us" and thus I would have no qualms with footing the bill and that I make okay money and could afford it, but all of those things were beside the point.

We broke up, is the short of it, over the fact that she consistently misunderstood why exactly I was having issues with what she did. She paid me back and cried and told me she was sorry and it was all beside the point of the thing.

Fuck yes. If he sees that you actually act responsibly. He will learn to be cool with it. Still, I'd tell him next time, "hey, I'm going to do this." You shouldn't have to suck a dick over it but that wouldn't hurt either.

Like I said, I know that the money itself is not the point. But putting in the extra effort to pay it back on top of being more thoughtful won't hurt, right?

See. Your first poster projects his experience onto you. Don't be that bitch. I've known a few like that and would be plenty happy with one that could at least be sensible about doing fucked up shit. That would put you ahead of the rest.

They're much braver than me. Even moreso if its a stupid tattoo

I don't care. My bf is losing hair which he's insecure about but he has a good beard and is just gonna shave his head.

Nice trips.

And yes, sometimes. Even if I don't remember the dream sometimes I'll wake up with my hands up my shirt or in my pants fondling myself.

Bro, some people stop losing hair after a while. Don't stress and bald over that stuff.

Why would you ask that here?
Outside of Jow Forums, it also depends what you mean by 'good.'

The thing is, you can remove a tattoo if you really want to.

Honestly, it doesn't matter to me. I actually was dating a dude (26) for a little while who was losing his hair, but he was super well-kempt and had a nice body so it really didn't matter. We decided to just be friends, but just because of different views on religion, nothing to do with physical appearance. I'd say as long as you take care of yourself as far as staying hygenic and in shape (you don't have to be buff, just not overweight), you'll do perfectly fine.
Besides that, you probably won't continue to lose hair! But don't sweat it either way.

Do you know what the only true healer of trust is?
Consistently good actions over a very long time.
That's it, there is no shortcut there is no forgive me now I feel bad enough, and even if you had every cent this very second it wouldn't undo the injury to the trust.
Realize you will be in the dog house for some time.
Realize like a scar the wound will probably always be there to some degree.
Show through actions not words and do it long enough and it will mend some.

>Anything I can do to rebuild trust? Would refilling the account faster than he expects be a good gesture at least?
thats how credit works, right? if anything it would make me trust you more than if you hadnt taken any money out in the first place.

There has to be something I can do to take the initiative.

No, there isn't.
It sucks and not taking an action sucks too, but just be your best self consistently and you will get through it.
Let time take the bad memories fade and be replaced by new good ones.
Act contrite

They do sometimes, but probably not as much as guys.

If you find out a guy likes anime, is that a deal breaker?

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Nope. I love anime and most men I even talk to are atleast casual anime fans.

They would have to be an extremely casual fan for me to tolerate it

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For my fellow bros:

How do you deal with a girlfriend who keeps cutting you off mid sentence whenever you're trying to explain something in an argument? I don't really like us overlapping what we're saying at the same time because ideas are never going to come across properly that way. I'd like to get my point across properly without interruption and it's just hard when she refuses to listen and starts talking to me suddenly at the same time.

I've tried staying silent letting her finish first then would start explaining my side but she would cut me off and i've tried getting really mad and shouting over her to let me finish first but I don't really like shouting either. I've also already asked her to not do that previously and she still keeps doing it.

This may seem like a petty or trivial question but when it keeps happening it gets tiring in the long run.

>How do you deal with a girlfriend who keeps cutting you off mid sentence
slap her in the face with your penis

That just sounds spiteful.

Liking anime is part of the reason why I started talking more to my now-boyfriend. I wanted someone who shared some hobbies/interests.

Not all anime fans have shit social skills and love 2D more than 3D!

Say "if you're going to speak over me during my turn I'm not going to do this right now" then leave the room and ignore her

Telling her trust takes time is spiteful? How

How do I make some girl friends? It's really not the same as making friends with men.

I've actually done that recently. Since we're also prone to arguing over text or messages we usually type essays on day's end.

Just this time I got so fed up I left and told her to not even bother texting or messaging me cos I was so fed up with her doing that and on the second day of ignoring her she told me to never contact her again. This is kind of getting unreasonable with her now.

If talking to her about it didn't work, I think she might be getting too heated during the arguments to think about manners. Try toning the interacts down from an argument to a discussion. Tell her something like "We need to talk about X. I want to explain my side first, then you can tell me how you feel. Can you do that?" Keep your language during the discussion calm and non-accusatory, because getting angry at her will just make her get defensive and interrupt you. Calmly tell her how you feel about the issue and then ask for her input. If she interrupts you before it's her turn to speak, remind her to let you finish. If she interrupts you again, end the discussion. Stop engaging with her and drop the issue for now. She needs to learn that discussions need to be two-sided, and it sounds like she's putting her feelings way above your own. Tell her you can talk about it again when she listens to what you have to say and stops interrupting you. If you let her speak when she interrupts you, you're just accepting the fact that you don't get to have a voice. If you shout over her, everyone just gets riled up and productive discussion doesn't happen. That's why I think it's best to change the tone and structure of your discussions. And of course, always give her the courtesy of not being interrupted.

Sounds like a rough situation. Good luck, issues can only be resolved when both parties are listening to each other.

Not accepting my sincere apology seems spiteful I mean. He sees that I'm sorry but says it's not enough. If there's really nothing I can do to regain his trust other than wait for him to acknowledge it, it's like he's dragging it out just for the sake of it.

Talk to them about common interests? I don't see how it's that different. You just have to tone down stuff that can be taken as flirting like physical contact.

Has anything good ever come out of contacting an ex months later. She made it clear recently she wants to be friends again, I don’t know about that, but I wouldn’t mind having a conversation with her.

>You just have to tone down stuff that can be taken as flirting like physical contact.
So is being nervous and awkward, which is a problem I don't have with men as much anymore and when it does happen they're forgiving

Talk if you need closure on anything. Otherwise I find it best to just move on.

I mean I have moved on. Like I said it’s been months. But I saw her recently, and she told me she wants to be in touch again, she asked me to reach out. Why she wouldn’t just reach out herself I don’t understand, but I guess she reached out by approaching me in public when I was basically ignoring her.

Have you really never had your trust violated?
Heard the phrase "forgiven but not forgotten"
What if in a heated moment he slapped you but said sorry. Would it be over once he showed he was sorry? In your heart it would go right back to normal?

So I was really down and kind of depressed one day and I badly wanted to see my gf because I figured that would at least cheer me up. I text her and and told her I wanted to see her because I was sad that day, she said she couldn't that day because she was really busy with work and said I should just go home. I said I'd be fine waiting for her to finish all her work first before meeting with me because that's how badly I wanted to see her that day, I kind of needed her too. Then she got really mad and told me to leave her the fuck alone.

Was I in the wrong here? I understand she was busy so I said I was really fine waiting for her to finish all her work first before seeing me, it isn't really an issue for me to wait for her because I don't want to bother her with her work but I still wanted to see her afterwards. I just keep thinking she could've been a little more supportive of me that time even though she was busy. Is this selfish thinking of me?

It seems to me that your gf doesn't like you as much as you like her

Sounds like stress. Talk to her calmly about it. I sometimes snap too, without realizing it, just because work is making me stressed out. Sounds like that's more or less what happened here.

But yeah, it is selfish of you, but that's sorta required sometimes. Can't have a good relationship between 2 happy people, if you both never think of yourselves.

I am of the firm belief that you aren't mentally healthy, if you can take a beating, and be right back to trusting that person again simply due to a few words.

Seriously people, if someone you claim to love hits you, even """just""" a slap, you leave them. You don't have to involve police or press charges, but do yourself a favour and get out ASAP. It will not get better with time, because the more comfortable he/she becomes around you, the more it will happen, and you accepting the apology will tell the abuser that you are willing to look through physical harm, if they just say "I'm sorry" while sounding sufficiently sincere.

Focus on your common interests. I have a couple of actual offline friends through /tg/ interests, and we spend quite a lot of time together.

When it comes to friends of the opposite sex, you really need to keep your mind off the person, and more on the activity. Otherwise it tends to end in someone getting unwanted feelings.

Talk about common interests, banter once you get close, the regular stuff.
My closest friend is a dude I met off here, we talk about soccer and then just shoot shit about our day.

Don't fully ignore her for days, Jesus Christ.

If she doesn't let you finish a sentence, make this clear to her, and tell her you aren't going to do these discussions if she can't let you talk. No need to ignore her for extended periods of time.

Alright that's wrong of me too. It just happened too many times now despite whatever I tried to do I just got so fed up and needed to cool off for a while. I wanted to be as reasonable as possible with her anyway.

Gf texted me at like 11pm
>we're gonna see each other tomorrow
>lying in my bed, good night and sweet dreams :*

And spotify tells me, she created a romantic songs playlist at like 1am

Not sure what to and if to overthink this

I'm not kidding when I say such a blunt rejection like
>second day of ignoring her she told me to never contact her again
It's probably a combination of not wanting to deal with someone who goes straight on ignore mode for days, and not caring about someone who just runs away and hides. It seems a bit cowardly.

To be fair, she just said good night, not that she would go to sleep.

I often lie awake, unable to sleep, and just play with my phone until I doze off. Since I usually don't notice when I suddenly fall asleep, I just close any conversations early, so they don't suddenly feel ignored because I fell asleep mid conversation.

Hmm i just might be overthinking yeah. Then again, the only time she listens to those kind of songs is when she's having sex, at least with me that is.

Shouldn't jump to conclusion though eh, should i ask her what she did yesterday evening? In person that is, when i see her later

>Then again, the only time she listens to those kind of songs is when she's having sex, at least with me that is.
Then preparing a song list makes a lot of sense, so she doesn't have to do it when you are actually together. Or she listened to it while masturbating. That helps a lot with falling asleep.

>should i ask her what she did yesterday evening?
If you really want to, sure. If she is actually your girlfriend, pretty sure it doesn't matter.

Well leaving the discussion and ignoring her for now is the one thing I've never before. I've already tried letting her finish, shouting over her, or changing the tone like says. I've also already asked her to not do that in our previous arguments and to let me also finish but she keeps on doing it.

I guess my mistake is extending the time I'm ignoring her for now, maybe I was just that mad this time. Mad at the fact that she wouldn't listen to me whatever method I try to do.

I'll just wait and see how she reacts when she sees me, maybe she'll tell me she made that list

It would be pretty back-stabing if she'd text me something sweet and was sleeping with someone else, god damn you brain.

Yeah... that's massively overthinking it, buddy.

Thought so. Need to put the brakes on my brain then. Thanks user!

I mean, it's reasonable to be mad at her for doing it. But overreacting doesn't help either.

Sometimes you have to be the grown up to make a relationship work. And sometimes the other part just isn't mature enough to handle it. Simple as that. Maybe you would be better off finding someone less immature.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it
This is the epitome of overthinking it. All she did was create a playlist, relax.

If those songs are her sex music (which is honestly hilarious, never heard of someone who has songs specifically for sex), then it sounds like she had trouble sleeping, and masturbated to help fall asleep.

yes but they're always really weird like there was one where i was in new vegas and i was fucking a raider while also shooting raiders and i had another one where rob lowe was eating me out which is funny because i am not attracted to him

it depends on the type of anime but that's just because i, personally, am very snobby about anime. if he likes ghost in the shell, i'm down, if he's a giant one piece fan or something, not for me

>All she did was create a playlist, relax.
I know user i know, my brain though told me "oh she wished you a good night and 2 hours later she's still awake, listening to romantic songs"

Let's say it's music to get in the mood, she rarely masturbates if any though.

>mfw I always dream I am a guy fucking a girl
That has confused me so much for so long, because I have 0 attractions to girls, and neither videos, pictures, or even stories about lesbians, have ever been able to have an affect on me. Yet I always wake up super wet and horny from these dreams.

Thankfully they are fairly rare. Glad I'm not the only one having nonsensical wet dreams.

Would it be crazy to travel 7000 miles to see someone you met on facebook?

I travelled across the world to meet someone I met off Jow Forums. But we clearly said we were very into each other.

I lost my virginity thanks to Jojo's. So no.

traveled like 400km to meet someone from Jow Forums, too
be crazy it's your life, just don't get into trouble

So I have a question, and I need the honest opinion of guys (preferably with brothers) on this.

If you had a female friend, where neither of you has ever talked about interest in each other, how much would it affect you if she started dating your brother? How much would your relationship with the girl change?

Asking because a rather close friend of mine has a brother who has been flirting a lot with me, and has recently asked me on a date, and I kinda want to take the offer. He seems really nice so far, and I kinda like him too. I'm just not sure how my friend would react to it. It's kinda weird, because in my head, this would be good, I would get closer to my friend, and basically become part of his family if everything just works out, but my gut instinct is telling me that guys might have a different opinion on this.

>Asks this on Jow Forums
>Jow Forums
Not exactly a great sampling, is it?

>Cares THIS much about very specific anime shows
This is next level pickiness. Calm down.

I could understand if you were against some of the perverted stuff with underage girls, but this is just absurd.

I would never date a guy who watched some of those degenerate "loli" show, but if it is just one piece or whatever those typical shonen anime are, eh, whatever.

A bit childish for my liking, but I'm 25, so YMMV.

Girl does these things:
- Playfully tells me to ‘come over here’ and not to ‘run away’ from her
- Asked if I wanted to lick each other’s spoon
- She asked me to look away when she was getting changed. There were other friends around but she didn’t ask them to look away. She called my name and I turned back and she was in her underwear and bra, halfway through getting changed

Does she want sex? She’s taller and bigger than me so I’m dubious...she doesn’t do this to anyone else

Is it intimidating if I am a high level athlete in various sports? Can do any dance styles well? Speak 6 languages? Play several instruments, sing, and write music? And lived around the world since I was 20? Also have a crazy sense of humor and model like proportions, save my height is a bit average?

I feel like it is.....