My boyfriend wants to do anal with me because "my vagina isn't tight enough" but I don't think I'm really comfortable...

>Are there any possible compromises I could propose?

No.

It's your body. You have every right to not have a dick up your ass if it's something you're not at all comfortable with.

You tell your partner respectfully, but firmly that it's just not something your comfortable doing and stand you're ground. If he breaks up with your over it or acts like a dick about it, he was not bf material and you're better of without him because he doesn't really give a shit about you. Pic related.

My gf has been physically unable to have sex for the last 6 months due to medical issues and tough as it is, I care about her too much to make her feel shitty about it or give her some ultimatum. He sounds like an asshole.

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Pretty sure anal is looser than vagina. Your butt health may be compromised. He may also masturbate too roughly.

He is just manipulating you next time he says that tell him to try to make his dick thicker. Anal with this immature man will be painful and humiliating

Beta as fuck. She will cheat on you and it's as certain as my dubs.

If he rage quits because you won't let him dick your ass, then you have been freed from the grip of a large child with major issues.

Yeah. Fuck him right. Girl power

My girl lets me shove wine bottles in her ass, you sound boring as fuck.

You must be a basic bitch, do you love uggs and starbucks blended drinks?

noice

He sounds like an ass. There are a lot some things my wife would not do and I respect that because I like her enough.

Tell him he can get it if you peg him first. Sounds like a fair deal, no? Btw after you peg him, dump him without keeping your end of the bargain because he's a grade A asshole.

“It hurts”

Keep telling yourself that hun. Chances are you are doing it wrong.

This is actually a valid test mate. I would also add not being willing to swallow to the list.

Does your wife respect you enough not to make you prep the bull?

I realize my dick will never taste ass and feel sorry for those in my situation. I hear that it takes practice and you can't just do it without knowledge or it will turn you off forever. But did that PIECE OF GARBAGE actually say that your vagina wasn't good enough? If he reall said that, to hell with him. He should just delicately try to date rape your ass with the utmost of understanding upon rejection. He is well in the wrong.

And this is wise advice for dudesIt is sad to know that you will never experience it.

>having respect for your partner not to ask degenerate shit you wanked to in porn as a teen is being a cuck

On you silly child. You have a lot of growing up to do.

Just go fuck a hooker up the ass mate. Making use of a prostitute in this situation is no big deal unless you make it into one.

Entirely domesticated males are such a pitiful sight.

t. incel

Have fun not having someone hold you tight and silently whisper that they love you in your ear before you both fall asleep at night, user. I'd rather have that than shit dick. But to each his own I suppose.

Yeah. Wtf. If i had a gf and she didnt let me do anal that is a sign of disrespect. One time a girl wanted to eat my ass; and while I didnt like it I let her do it

Close, user, but no cigar

Thats fucking gay dude. I wanted that in maybe 8th grade.
YOU are the pussy here. You should want to fuck a girl in the ass more than you want some retarded romace shit out of a movie. “I love you” Lol who gives a fuck? Treacherous whores...

My god the incelness in you is strong. I can smell the virginity from here.

I dont care about women and I still bang

trolls like this should just get an IP ban and be done with it

why the fucka re you even on this board? your bait is absolute shite, go troll some other board where people might accidentally take you seriously.

Sodomy is very unhealthy and painful for the girl. Not that you would know.

with that attitude you're either paying or committing a felony

I've had both and while those whispered sweet words often turn sour in your memories when her love is put to the test the recollection of ramming it into her ass still remains the same.

You have no clue what you are talking about. My wife begs for anal sometimes she cums so hard her legs shake for an hour after.

this has to be bait

I may someday. I would never cheat on my wife but could convince myself that, given the situation, that is not, technically, cheating.

Cool she's a great actress then

Say no. Tell him to suck it up. I say this as a dude that sucked it up.

Delusional cuck

My suggestion is tell him you are uncomfortable doing it and try to find an alternative way to make it up
To him. It isn’t that you owe him anything it just helps to offer an alternative to nothing. It is perfectly healthy to want to explore and change up a sex life I doubt it is that it isn’t good enough the way it is.

>legs shaking for an hour after
>calls me delusional

oh i'm laffin my sweet summer child

Ask him to buy a strap on for you to fuck him in the ass first OP. If he can take it, you can take it.

Also fyi
>He seems insistent like this is a make or break the relationship issue
That's called being a manipulative cunt and a shit partner

The way I got my girlfriend open to anal was I started fingering her ass while doing her doggy style.
From there while I eat her out I finger her ass. Only thing is we're both not into eating ass so none of that happens.
We recently went and got her a buttplug too so we'll be trying that later.
It's not something you just go "I WANT ANAL NOW" and do. It takes a lot of practice and warming up to do it in a safe way.

It's really not. It's not that much different from porn honestly and neither should be necessary when you have a wife.

please go back to whatever subreddit you crawled out of.

Your mom is hot af then. Would bang.

I'm gonna be a faggot but can we amend that to basic human rights power? No? Ok

Fuck off we don't say reasonable stuff like that here on Jow Forums

>muh reddit boogeyman

i've been here way longer than you friendo. still doesn't change the fact your wife is great at acting. you should encourage it as a career choice tbqh, if you want to be a supportive husband and all

To be fair, if your partner doesn't want to do the shit you like it may be better to find another

It really isn't that bad. I'm a bi dude who has taken it in the ass

>My girl lets me shove wine bottles in her ass
Why would you even do this? I mean, what's the point?

How often do you shit yourself? Did the doctor prescribe hemorrhoid treatment?

>lost virginity to hom
you arent loose he just has a pencil dick
dump him

it's pretty hot my dude

Dump him

Quite likely but at least anal will require less preparation.

Women are scared of my girth and I don't get to do put it in the ass in most cases and that's when I envy guys like OP a little bit.

No one here will ever meet you nor want anything to do with you. You're demand is from a fantasy about your fecal/degradation fetish, you will never actually care about a woman anyway so your opinion is wholly irrelevant.

I think you each make a very good point. Unfortunately some men will never mature enough to know that what they put their dick in is not one of the most important things in the world. It would be wrong for those guys to marry a woman thinking that they could eventually convince her.

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Have this manglefuck of a bf ever stepped into a sex shop?
There's all kinds of shit to make him feel nice in there. Like goddamn.

if you love him, you will give your ass to him

If he is a chad*

These guys are weirdos you're honestly better off without him. Sexual incompatibility is big deal.

>Are there any possible compromises I could propose?
Sit on a fire hose and put his dick in a blender, thot

Dude break up with him because his dick is too small to fill up your vagina

Assholes are exits, not entrances. Any guy asking a girl for anal shouldn't be trusted.

Get a great big strap-on nigger looking dildo and tell him "you first, big guy".

If he refuses to let you violate his ass, dump him.

If he lets you violate his ass, dump him harder, he's a faggot.

Tell your boyfriend that if he gets anal, it's only fair that you do as well.

Honestly if you love him and you are confident in your relationship you would do it

he's probs just attractive and goes on tinder

I think it's more that your boyfriend's dick is thin.
Like a pencil. Tell him to sign his name while he's in there."ShitFucker McFaggyBalls"

That's a very absolute statement you're making there. I'm sure there are tons of trustworthy guys out there who happen to fantasize about anal sex. OP's boyfriend simply happens to NOT NOT NOT be one of those guys, obviously.

>I lost my virginity to him
How old are you, if this is your first sexual relationship?

>My boyfriend wants to do anal with me because “my vagina isn’t tight enough”
>I lost my virginity to him

Oof... he’s kind of an asshole...

To be honest, I’m sorry, but when someone who is supposed to care about starts to prioritizes their own pleasure or gratification over your stated discomfort, that person is being selfish. When they’re starting to try to pressure or guilt in spite of your protests, that person is becoming toxic.

Don’t ever be forced to do something you’re not comfortable with trying, that only ever leads to regret and resentment.

>when your first bf would leave you if you didn’t let him fuck you in the ass, yet very handsome, kind man you meet thereafter just can’t live up to how he made you feel.

life is strange

That's just how first relationships are. Us humans want to believe that the perfect partner is possible, and only the pain of loss can dispel that fantasy

Dear user... Listen, that the priority question... What is important for you? One day, sorry to say that, your ass will not be tight enough for him, and he will prefer somebody's better ass or vagina... What are his priorities in such relationships? Does he deserve to be with you? If you are looking for compromises... Dear... Compromises will hurt you, because there is nothing that he willingly going to give back...

Would destroy your life with my dick.

Honestly from what you said, to me personally at least, he sounds like he's being insensitive.

Do this (really curious about this no sex issue. Kind of impressed) but if he keeps the shit up combine the final step with this or this or both.
He should know how it feels if he's that much of a piece of shit. Like, legit think that is a prudent and ethical punitive measure in this instance.

Also worthy of note, though maybe not with this guy if he keeps it up: HUE

Ask him if he wants to do penis humiliation fetish. Tell him you want to really go at and have a "serious" (i.e. not fetish) discussion about how you can only get off to his horrible penis if he does this and say that you will break up with him if he doesn't take you up on it.

...Then break up with him.

>legit think that is a prudent and ethical punitive measure in this instance
As a general rule, saying things which are only being said for the express purpose of hurting another person is generally not going to be the ethical move. I think OP could absolutely explain to him how he has been an asshole without saying things that are ONLY meant to cause hurt.

Cuck mentality

He fucking deserves to know.
Fuck this cunt of a bf.

Ain't like he's going to learn any other way

You are not getting pussy for this

Lose him. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who would break up with you because you won't let him stick his dick up your poop hole and says things like your vagina isn't tight enough? He doesn't love you.

Jesus christ the savage said you're a roastie to your face. Lmfao.
More likely your vagins is fine but hes a fap addict mand doesn't understand vagina doesn't feel better than Masturbation to a porn addict.
I was there once, doesn't excuse him being that much a douche to you tho.

I don't know if it has been touched on in this long ass thread but there is somthing, at least a little gay, about wanting to put your dick in an ass.

Chances are if he took your virginity and that wasn't tight enough, he's got a tiny dick. He sounds like an ass anyway. I'd just move on.

First off, I think your vagina is probably fine and plenty tight. He probably has gotten too used to masturbating with a very tight hand. It's called death grip. It's really his problem and not yours.
I know a lot can be lost when posting on an online forum but it seems like he blames things on you in the relationship and puts you down. Do you feel like that's true in any way? Or is this situation unique and outside the norm?
Assholes are tight only around the opening and feel looser than a vagina. He's going to be very disappointed and I suspect blame you for his dissatisfaction. I would not recommend having anal sex unless you think it would be a pleasurable experience for you and you have a very supportive partner which he does not seem to be.

The tightness of a vagina is based on pelvic muscle strength.

You're missing a lot of variables in that equation.

like misogyny?

You taught me a new word.

He sounds like a degenerate faggot, just dump him and find a normal man who's not a porn addict. Asking your partner if they want to try something sexual is fine, but when you start to guilt trip them and give them ultimatums it's a red flag.

>How dare he criticise a woman
>Your vagina is lovely my dear
>No man should hurt your feelings
>Tips fedora

Fuck off you pathetic bitch boy.