Why the fuck do girls feel the need to just ignore messages...

Why the fuck do girls feel the need to just ignore messages? I’ve been wondering if this girl was still interested in me so I simply messaged her on Snapchat and said “Hey, would you be interested in another date?” and she literally has not opened the message in 5 hours and her snapscore has increased. Like what the fuck? Just look at my message and say no if you don’t want to

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Because they can't handle confrontation and there's always the outside chance that a simple rejection will escalate far beyond what's necessary with the guy chimping out and being mean and rude about it.

This. Just move on, dude. Why waste energy sperging out about someone that doesn't want to talk to you.

Honestly ive had this issue with a lot of people and you never know if theyre just never responds unless they have to ask something or someone who only responds to 1/3 messages

Can you elaborate? I’m not sure I follow what you mean

ive had friend who like they read the text and they wont say anything unless they want to respond something. Example:
them: Hey dude whats the assignment for next week
you: page 20, you have to blah blah blah blah blah
you: did you get all that?
them: airsilence
you: what did you decide to do the spanish project on, I need inspiration
them: airsilence

Whoa dude slow down, chill, if this is the kind of impression I get from reading a thread I can’t imagine how terrifying it must’ve been for the girl, creepy “stop whatever you’re doing and answer me” kind of thing, the girl dodged a bullet there

100% this, Scoob
Like 100%

Too often 'rejection' turns into 'the guy is pleading like he's in front of a goddam courtroom'

I guess you’re right, but if she were to say no (like I predict), I would have just not responded. I guess she doesn’t know that though, but this makes me feel physically sick. I’d rather have a rejection and closure

It's good that you are the kind of guy who can just swallow the rejection and not take it out on her, but as you say there's no way she can know that.

Remember that the stakes are higher for women as they're physically weaker. If they step on a land mine and find the guy who WILL turn out to be crazy after a rejection they'd be in much more serious (physical) danger than if the genders were reversed.

I suppose you’re right. Thanks for giving me a different perspective on this

Why are you so needy and obsessive jesus Christ

cringe/epic

Fuck off

What?

>I would have just not responded
We hope
For everything else in life, there's r/niceguys and it'll show you why girls ghost

Why do you even care op?
It literally doesn’t even matter

She's not interested. Someone that is interested will be delighted to receive a message from you and will read it when they see they've received it. Find someone else.

Fem here. Me and my girlfriends get this question a lot.
Guys don’t get texts like girls.
We can get a hundred texts from different people every day, and 99% of those are guys who want the conversation to lead to something.
So we are already on the defensive when texting you and also we have always someone better than you to talk to. Including girl friends and family and other personal stuff.

so what should we do then? seems like all girls on Instagram do this. They read your messages but never bother to reply.

so basically don't waste your time texting a woman?

Take the Escort pill. Tried first time yesterday and it was amazing. I don't want anything serious as I have had my Heart broken 2 times because I gave both relationships my 200%, and I'm sure a 3rd time would kill me. My biology demands I get laid so I do it the quick way. More time to focus on myself and enjoying my life instead of catering to a creature that claims to be a "real" woman who could falsely accuse you just because or cheat on you because hypegamy. If escorts become a bad experience I will try settle with a doll later. I'm done giving girls anymore chances of fucking me over.

There isn’t anything you can do, just be patient.

You can text a woman. Just know you are rarely a priority. This just how it is right now

>two girls treated you shitty
“Oh man I’m done with women forever, even though there are billions of them in the world I’m gonna let these two shitty women ruin love for me forver and only sleep with dirty hookers who only care about me paying them and if I want more I’ll just start banging an inanimate object”
Yeah real fucking good plan guy, I got dumped, rejected, and treated like shit by tons of women before I found who I’m with now and I couldn’t be happier, there were girls that I thought I loved who broke my heart and now I have something way better with my current gf than I’d ever had with them
Take my advice and don’t give up on relationships, that’s fucking stupid, you’ll make it one day you just have to have patience, thick skin and the confidence to not give up

Just want to add that this isn’t malice or some ploy to fuck with guys. We simply just don’t have the time and energy. Being on any social media or on the internet/gaming as a girl will bombard you with texts non stop.

Most girls I know belong to private chat server with only other women and a select few men.

>Just know you are rarely a priority. This just how it is right now
This makes me so glad I never bother to text a woman unless she texts me first.

>the problem is guys just message women to get into their pants
>become guys who are part of the problem
>"so just ignore women?"
S A S U G A, A N O N . . .

I've never messaged a woman to get in her pants. It's just a shame that women will ignore you because they'll assume that straight away

Ok, that's real cute, but what the fuck am I supposed to think if a woman constantly takes 1-2 days to respond to a simple text, and then asks me out to dinner?

Not OP, by the way, but I feel uncertain as fuck. I wouldn't really even care that much if she just cut contact, but why would she do this?

Because it doesn't fucking matter man, and a lot of guys say this and end up doing it anyway. I'm on the other side, I'm a guy, but the shit girls have brought to me. And again, we have repositories all over the internet for this shit.

It's not gender-exclusive, it's just that men are so much goddam thirstier. Good on you for not joining them, but you really can't blame them for this. If you had to deal with shit just because you were female-- not even because you were hot, or funny, or interesting, literally just for being female-- you'd get real fuckin bored too.

I know, I know. Why the fuck are guys so thirsty? I don't know. I've never known. I was, what, 13 last time I was that thirsty.
I don't know what to tell you man, it's a shame but at the same time I sympathize totally with them...
That she'd like to go to dinner. Not all people are glued to their phones and communicate solely through text, bruh.

People don’t pick up the phone when they don’t want to talk, you can’t make the phone ring a number of times that will change their opinion because actually they will just get more tired of you calling. Try someone else!

>dirty hookers
Maybe the ugly ones and old ones. They are often cleaner than clubsluts since their career depends on it.

>Not all people are glued to their phones and communicate solely through text, bruh.
Kek, girls are literally 24/7 on their phones. Have you ever taken a walk outside?

user even if it’s a 10,000 a night high end hooker she’s still taking money from random men in exchange for her letting them put their various penises inside of her various holes
Every hooker is a dirty hooker

Oh okay so avoid shitty selfish whores like you and go for women that give a damn and are respectful. That's pretty good advice, thanks.

Not her but you sound exactly like the kind of asshole she’s describing

>you're an asshole for not wanting to be around women that treat you like shit
okay then I guess I'm an asshole then, you got me

No woman is going to give a damn about you, I'm afraid
Your attitude is the male red flag equivalent of a 50-man bodycount on a girl. You're fractions of personality away from being literally undateable.

The sad thing is, all you want to do is mope and self-pity.

>Not all people are glued to their phones and communicate solely through text, bruh.


OH NONONONONO-

>women that treat you like shit
So not responding to your text is treating you like shit??
I’m sorry to say this pal but women have no obligation to talk to you or to like you just because you like them

>reddit niggers falling for bait yet again
newfags get out

What else is on Jow Forums besides bait?
OH right let's go talk in another >tfw no gf thread, where the OP ardently denies that he's responsible for a single one of his fuckups or the solution to those fuckups.

Go to Reddit yourself since you like it so much