How can I man up? I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we haven't even kissed yet...

How can I man up? I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we haven't even kissed yet, I am a really timid guy and I try to be really gentle with her. She thinks it's cute, but she has mentioned that she's a little annoyed with how I can't "take charge". She literally told me one day to just grab her arms, pin her against the wall, and tip her face up to kiss, but I just can't get myself to do it. I know in the anime she watches she always like the agressive types, I just have no fucking clue what to do

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in a romantic setting, look her in the eyes. then at the lips. After that slowly lean in, don't go all the way. If she also leans in then go for the kiss.

A whole year without kissing? How is that possible

Holy shit that is cringeworthy. Even with an invitation, even being told directly to kiss her, you still can't. idk what can be done for you my dude.

It's real fucken easy pal

You go to the movies. You get settled. You hold hands/put your hand on her leg for a while. Then once things have settled down you turn your head to look at her. Bitches be on the lookout for this kind of signal so she will turn to face you too, probably looking at you with a question in her eyes like "what's up?"

Once you two are facing each other you sit forward a little bit so that you can lean in, tilt your head to the right slightly (everyone tilts their head to the right for some reason, humans seem to be born with this knowledge), and lean in like 90% of the way. At this point she will move the rest of the way to meet your lips, then wull-ah you are kissing.

lmao did you just give this guy advice from Hitch.

Anyway, OP, I think your problem is deeper than just being timid. If you're anything like me, I think you fear rejection. You're scared that you'll do some weird shit thats super cringe and she'll judge the fuck out of you. I was like this, and I still am, except I learned to be dominant in bed.

I did 3 things. They may help you too.
1) Go to therapy and get to the root of why you fear rejection. This is an ongoing thing for me.
2) Watch male dominant porn exclusively. I'm still working on this because I enjoy female domination porn - but i'm now able to bust a nut to male domination. It stopped becoming a really outlandish thing.
3) Ask your girlfriend to show you how to do it. If she's not a cunt, she'll be willing. Just have a night where she tells you what she wants you to do. She'll say shit like "hold my wrists like this" and "talk to me like this". You'll get 'practice' in, and you'll learn whats weird and what's not.

Good luck, OP

Literally believe in yourself

>She literally told me one day to just grab her arms, pin her against the wall, and tip her face up to kiss, but I just can't get myself to do it
Why is that? I’m a timid dude as well but come on, you like her right? That’s what she wants, do it to make her happy

OP have u even had sex with her? im guessing not.

seriously how do you go 1 year without a kiss. that girl has patients lol

My first kiss involved me and her being nervous for 2 hours all for makeout. It was both our first, but she was a little anxious. But when it was right i just went in and so will she. It just falls together and it’ll be so much easier other times OP. At the end of the day its only a kiss. But a year without advancing is a little worrying. You need to be more dominant

>be more dominant
What do I do? Examples please I'm clearly retarded

This is literally why even ugly girls dont want pussies like you. Being dominant AKA Alpha Comes with other traits like taking initiative, being confident, not hesitating. I can almost guarantee she's been taking Chad Thundercock's dick. Not even a kiss. Wack.

On a helpful note. Dominant means unrespecting of her choice. Don't rape her, just take the lead.

>haven't kissed for a year
>Likes aggressive anime types
Wtf you 12?

>I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we haven't even kissed yet
You are not dating, you are just friends...

OP can't be more than 13.

Not feeling very comfortable giving advice of sexual nature to a 12 year old kid

The easiest board it doesnt matter what larp you use

How old are you?

If a guy is this timid, no girl goes longer than a couple dates without either kissing the guy first or rejecting further dates.

OP she is not your gf

I'm 20, I swear to god. Should I just kms now
We're both each other's first time dating. She's a super shy shut-in type, she has the patience of a saint, she calls me her bf so I followed suit

Thanks for the tips, anons

I'm also 20, how did you make this happen?

To be honest I have no fucking clue how it worked out. Blogpost: I saw her sitting alone in my college's dining hall, and I walked over and we started talking, I had to leave for class so I gave her my number on a napkin. She texted me and we started talking and getting meals together. We were subtly flirting for about a year until I worked up the courage to ask her on a date.

Sounds pretty nice. I really don't have any grounds to complain, all I can say is I wish I was that lucky. How did you even start talking to her?

It's comfy, I just wish I could be better for her. We had been in the same group during our college orientation, so I said "Hey you were in my orientation group right?", then we just did small talk for a couple minutes.

>I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we haven't even kissed yet

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I didn't realize it was that strange