GUIDELINES:

No.

>Anyway to remedy this?

Stop fapping, man. I know it's hard to supress the urge now that you fapped for so long. I was in the same boat when me and my fiancée fucked for the first time. I just couldn't have an orgasm no matter how much we fucked so I stopped fapping for two months and felt like my testicles will explode any minute but it was worth it. Now I don't even fap anymore. (Sex is so much better, obviously)

Dating apps? Idk how can I help with this but I'm sure there are some fellas out there that would do this.

I'm a figure skater lol.
I get wanting someone with similar interests or abilities but this seems a little fetishy. You'd still need to get along with them personally. Honestly take those skills and start ice dance, girls will fight over you because there are so few partners available. Any one of them you could end up dating even if you skate with someone else.

My bad, it wasn't supposed to sound fetish-y. I skate every week, I know the other regulars and the staff and the local hockey teams and the figure/dance/synchro skaters. The figure girls always seem to have a bad case of nose-in-the-air when it comes to us "lesser" skaters though (hockey players and casual skaters) like we're making a mockery of their hobby or something.

I (a dude) used bumble to find a girl that I'm friends with and sometimes we do stuff like going on dates and we cuddle/make out a little but we don't fuck due to mutual sexual trauma.

So I guess the answer is if I had seen you wanting that on a dating app I'd probably have done it just for fun.

currently drunk
got home from a party
woke up, texted some people that i punched a dude who fucked my ex, didn't actually do it though

and on the way home i see, of course, police
my ex is working as a cop
feels arise and now i'm at home thinking how much i miss talking to her and stuff
this sucks and all i want is to see my ex full knowing who she's fucking now
it sucks that you have to just let go of someone like that

Let her go and just find another girl to talk to. I'm sure there are thousands of interesting girls that would like to have a conversation with you. And stop doing dumb shit while drunk.

Lol I get it. It's mostly because bad skaters ruin the ice, get in the way, constantly stare at better skaters and expect photos or free lessons. Inexperienced skaters try moves and run into us, hockey kids keep racing around the rink recklessly. Then in the off ice area they clog it with their bags and shit. And it literally isn't hard to just skate forward but they use super cheap plastic skates, wear jeans, and are all afraid and over dramatic about leaving the wall and falling, and it gets old.

That said some skaters really are bitchy, but the sport is competitive, expensive, and you are out there alone in tight outfits so imagine the people they attract. Rich kids, overbearing parents, the whole thing.

maybe, probably
but...
i'd like to think that my ex was something of a good mixture of every ex i had before
something like the "peak" of what would suit me
not interested in fucking around, literally
just feel betrayed somehow

Everybody that had a partner they cared about very much and now they're not together anymore feels the same. You'll find probably someone better, more suited for you.

here's hoping user, thank you

Do you guys and girls have any good methods to stop yourself overthinking stuff related to your crush?

Yesterday I asked for advice here about an issue i was having where a girl i have been chatting with was replying less and leaving me on read, even though from my POV it seems like nothing has changed.

The advice i got was to chill the fuck out because the reasons behind it are likely nothing to do with me/our relationship.

I took the advice and just left it alone, haven't texted or contacted her like we normally do on the weekend. We will see each other Monday and I will see how she acts in person.

The question remains though how do i stop myself overthinking this stuff?

>It's mostly because bad skaters ruin the ice

I'm a good skater. Top 5% at the rink I go to.

Get yourself a pocket pussy and learn to exclusively jerk off with that for some time. Both gets you used to a softer grip and to not being able to control how tight or loose the sensations are.

>ex broke up
>we went seperate ways and i got in an relationship
>relationship ended and i checked her insta out of curiosity
>she posted a story about "what it means to be happy" some emo tier tumblr picture, which suggests unhappiness in herself.
Should i text her? She told me in october that her life turned to shit after the breakup. I don't know I'm feeling sorry for her

If you dont have much in the way of friends to introduce them to, consider coworkers. Alternatively, start chatting around, look for single girls, and introduce them.

I would strongly advice against sleeping with them yourself. Either they know you are gay already, or it will destroy their confidence if you later tell them you are gay. It says a lot about them that a gay girl was willing to sleep with them, and it's not a good thing.

Do you mean a tenga egg or fleshlight or something?

>girl, 24
>virgin, only been trying to get with 1 guy, but he friendzoned me, with the reason that I "look too young and cute to be fuckable"
>assume it's lies, and it's just because I lack breasts and butt to really look good to him.
>after a long time of no luck, decide to just try tinder
>some guy with a lot of the same interests as me namely gaming, but with 2 past relationships at the age of 26. Seems like a good match, he's a fine 6/10, so his appearance is not an issue.
>first date was at an arcade, second was just a small coffee date
>third date, we go to his place
>end up playing super smash brothers the entire night
>try another date at his place, last night, saying I could stay the night beforehand
>end up playing games all night again, despite my best efforts to get his attention away from the games, and he kept the attention there until I literally fell asleep during a game.
W H Y ?
H
Y
?

Is there really such a thing as "unfuckable"? Can a girl really look "too young" when you know it's a consenting adult? When even a tinder date refuses to touch me, I am just lost at what to do.

It's not that I have given up on this guy, on the contrary, I feel an impending friendzone up ahead, and I really don't want that to happen with this guy as well. He is amazing, and I dont want this to go the same way it did with the first guy.

Yeah a fleshlight. Wouldn't go for fancy vibrating stuff just one that mimics a pussy.

He's probably just an autist who doesn't know how to make a move. Alternately, you are an autist who doesn't know how to signal that she wants him to make a move.

Basically He's either a wimp or he just wants a gaming buddy.

I'm adding skaters to the list of grills I plan to pass up in the future, along with horse grills

What are the subtle signs you give when you like a guy?

How fucked up is a guy that dislikes making out and tongue kissing?

How do I tactfully let a girl down? Cause I panic when people cry, and when they get mad and cry my social programming just glitches out. I just would like to deescalate the situation so maybe take it down to friends.

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I don't like it either (I'm male).

Could be that he's on the spectrum. People with aspergers often have a dislike to certain forms of physical contact.

Male here. Tongue kissing is shit and making out is not that shit but still shit.

You want out the friend zone you're going to have to take action. Inch close enough that your leg is resting next to his. Next time after the match say, "good game" as you let a hand rest on his knee. And when he looks at you give the bedroom eyes.
If all that doesn't work, slide your hand up and in slowly till it's resting at your goal. If that doesn't work he's a homo, give up and come to Minneapolis and I'll help you out.

Wait, what's the difference?

I was talking about the words she used to describe the act of kissing with tongue.

But he has has two previous relationships?
>Alternately, you are an autist who doesn't know how to signal that she wants him to make a move.
It just felt like he straight up tried to deflect it, so I am pretty sure he knew... and a date, in his apartment, where we had planned to sleep together... i mean, if we were 10 years younger, sure, but this is a guy who actually has experience... he basically ignored it when I leaned up against him and he just did the "hug" when I tried to sit on his lap during a game, and he seemed unfazed. I mean, I get it, he has no reason to be flustered when he is probably quite used to this, but still...

>or he just wants a gaming buddy.
Just like the first guy who friendzoned me... I really hope this is not true.

I dont think that would work better than what I already tried. Though I dont know what "bedroom eyes" means, I don't think I could have been more obvious.

A girl was very interested in me, flirting with me all the time. She started dating some guy. But today, still, she gives me all the possible signs of interest, keeps flirting with me, talking a lot to me. I gave her hints to mention her boyfriend but she acted like she was single and did not mention him in any moment. Is she being a bitch, or trying to put me in the background if she breaks up with her boyfriend or is she still in doubt who she wants to be with?

Face > Personality > Boobs > Thighs > Legs (not feet) > Ass

Thighs >>>>

Anyone else find it extremely annoying how sexy women are because you dont have sex with them?

Why won’t any women swipe me right on tinder? I’m in nyc and there’s attractive women fucking everywhere and I can’t even get a match when paying for tinder since last year.

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The old coins meme is real

>seeing new dude
>he wants a photo of me
>I hate photos, imugly.jpeg (we met irl so he knows what I look like)
>agree to let him take a photo
>actually sweating over the idea of it
>if I see the photo I will probably tell him to delete it, which is just tedious

What am I supposed to do here to not come across as an insecure nightmare? I felt like sending him a sc but the filters vs my natural face difference is jarring and embarrassing, to be honest. I feel like I'm gonna try and act like everything's okay and is going to become very apparent things aren't. Any advice appreciated.

When I was 15, I learnt that guys are retarded. So I just tell them "I like you, would you like to do [x] with me?".

My fiancé and I have been together 9 years. He's Christian but hates all churches, I've recently become Catholic. I've been praying the liturgy every day for two weeks now, and it's been constant fighting between us over it. Last night, he told me to choose: Christ, or Him.

My answer is Christ, but my question to anyone out there is if there is another way? I don't want to lose him because I refuse to renounce God, but he must feel like he's losing me because I'm now committed to something he distrusts. If we can't reconcile, how do I even say the right words to him today?

This has to be bait. No one is this retarded.

>my 2 week old religion is more important than my fiance of 9 years
You lost the second you placed some new random obsession of yours, this far above your relationship. There is nothing that will save this.

I've been a Christian for two years, the last two weeks have just been adding the liturgy. Appreciate the feedback.

A person who does an ultimatum like this is not a big loss, to be honest. If you can't respect your partner's religion, you're a bit of a piece of shit.

What the fuck

Test

What kind of guy are you attracted to?

You failed

Women

Good luck, but he's giving you an ultimatum. There aren't many good ways of dealing with those.

That said? 9 years is an awfully long time to put into a relationship. If he does break up with you... He may regret it shortly after, if you handle the break up correctly. Depends on how important his beliefs are---at the moment, he's putting his beliefs above you.

Things I always want:
>smart
>goofy
>nerd
>funny
>adorable (does cute things/likes cute things)
>practical

Nice bonuses:
>strong
>board / card game enthusiast
>sweet
>waaaaay smarter than me

Given she has been "constantly fighting" over the last two weeks due to her recent choices, and she refuses to adapt or compromise at all, this relationship is probably dead regardless of the ultimatum or not.

I appreciate it a lot user, thank you. He's quick to emotion, so you are probably right. I'm speaking to a priest today for input on the right words in case of a breakup. The ultimatum, I hope, was just made hastily. We'll see.

Physically - tall, average body type but wide shoulders, pale as shit, dark hair, dark eyes, glasses. A genuine smile will do most of it. I like stuff like crooked noses and slightly uneven face features, scars.

Personality wise.
Guys who make me laugh. My boyfriend and I can spend a whole day on the couch, talking about the most random shit, and laughing our ass off. Even just watching a dumb tv show we've already seen is top tier.
Guys who are interesting to talk to. Whether you have fun anecdotes to tell, know a bunch about niche shit, can have a discussion about politics or why female serial killers are almost always inferior- all good. Just talk to me.
Genuinely romantic and sensitive guys. Someone who is thoughtful, who will open doors for me, who will surprise me. And who will listen to me, talk to me, actually try and put effort in. Someone who will tell me he loves me a lot, and be childish as fuck with me.
I like people who are are spontaneous. Who are very outspoken and maybe a bit arrogant. I like calm/chill guys.
I always dated right wing guys. I like people who like dogs and kids. I get along best with people who don't like many people.

I've offered to quit praying the liturgy, he said it wasn't enough. I offered to shut up about religious positions on various topics, he said it wasn't enough. I truly do want compromise.

Then listen to him. You are ruining a relationship due to a recently acquired "faith", that it seems you knew would drive you two apart.

It seems like you want it to fail, so I'm not sure what you see asking here. Just let it go and find someone else. If you want the next one to succeed, reconsider such dramatic changed to your life.

>at the moment, he's putting his beliefs above you.
Or he is mad that her recently acquired obsession is driving a wedge between them, and she refuses to listen at all.

She isn't doing anything wrong. She doesn't have to change.
He's ruining the relationship because he can't accept her.

Have guys aren't exactly physically attractive to you ever grown on you over time?

Mh. Not really.
I met guys online and liked their personality, and then kept liking them even if I found out they were ugly as sin.

So close yet so far

Im saying have you ever overlooked appearance if he takes care of himself and you get used to him?

Again, not really.
If I meet you, I think "wow you ugly", I'm not going to change my mind because you groom.
If I talk to you without knowing how you look like, I might think you're hot because I already like you.

Not him but I have a question.

If you talk to him and you think he's hot because you like him and he turns out to be ugly. What do you do?

So im fucked?

Already replied. I keep liking him.
It happened to him once, had a huge crush on a 3.5/10 guy I met online for a while. Snapped out of it because he lied to me about being married.
If I like someone's personality, I end up finding his physical appearance hot. But I need to know the personality first.

How am I supposed to reply to this? I don't fucking know, and I don't speak for all women.

What if you already know him then learn the personality is great?

If I already know he looks like shit, I'm not going to get into it because he is a nice guy.
I have to develop a crush first and then get to know how he looks like.

Not him but tell me what you think. Ive already lost 20 lbs since this pic. Be honest.

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I think you should learn to upload files with proper resolution if you want to get a rate, and post them on soc and not here.

You look alright.

Wrong file

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>She doesn't have to change.
But she did, radically, 7 years into a relationship.

This is just the type of stuff here you split, because someone grew up mid-relatiknship, and you no longer match each other.

I'm not negative either way - it's just how it is. She developed into a completely different person, with opposing ideals to her partner. That happens when you grow up, and then she needs to step away and realise she cannot save this, unless she forcibly changes the person she used to love (bad idea), or goes back to the way she used to be (even worse)

Soc only ever speaks in riddles for some reason

Here

cringe
based

How big of a red flag is it to women if I don't have friends to hang out with?
After high school all my friends split for college. After college all my friends spread across the state. After my best friend died all my regular friends split up.

>get attention from women
>maybe even touched
>this makes me feel worse than rejection
I don't get it

I don't think it's such a big issue. After I started uni, my only friends were my class mates and I would see them only there. At uni I met my fiancée, so I'm pretty sure it doesn't matter that much.

Can you give me appearance advice?

Why lol

Want to look better, but everybody keeps acting like its some kind of joke.

Yes just make your desires clear upfront. Be prepared to dismiss him making moves on your, it's very hard to resist.

Say you're not interested in sex and not looking for a relationship. He'll be surprised by the end of the night when you invite him in. When he's in bed, remind him of what you said at the start (that you're not looking for sex) and he'll decide to just cuddle because he won't want to leave you since holding girls with boobs is the next greatest thing to having sex with them.

If you want to seal the deal, and never see him again, then just piss him off. Tell him you don't date guys as (short/smelly/whatever) as him, or that you have HIV. He'll be out of your hair in no time.

>Christ, or Him.
It's a bluff. If anything you can just flip the question on him.

>how to
Tell him how you feel honestly. Don't speak with anticipation, speak from the heart.

He's being kind of selfish (ok, major selfish). So exploit it: show him how amazing your faith will make you for him. Tell him that catholic women are expected to be a certain role, to love and admire their husbands, to be faithful, to tell the truth, and you settle these qualities in the deepest part of your heart because you take the oaths from god. Tell him that he's looking into the eyes of the best woman he'll ever meet (yes, be proud. Pride is a deadly Sin, but disbelief is also a sin; pray for permission if you need to). Tell him that while you tolerate him unconditionally, that you ask the same in return.

Tell him that catholic is nothing to be ashamed of, because even performing catholics hate what's happening in vatican city (see luke-jr's twitter). And that he can and SHOULD feel proud to have a catholic girlfriend.

Remind him that he's not god, he's an man and imperfect. So asking you to choose between a man and god is just silly, because the choice is so obvious. A imperfect being will never have all the answers. Tell him that there's room in your heart for both

if you find a guy like that you'll probably dump him because you might think he won't find you sexually attractive.

>be incel
>start asking women out because never have before
>chatting a few girls up, asked out 7 girls in the span of a month
>rejected by all but two, one which ghosts me after a while and one who said I’m a manwhore after finding out I’ve asked like 7 chicks out in the past month
>now known as a desperate man whore on campus that asks out anyone who walks by him

There is no hope for us

>you'll probably dump him
Um, yeah. user clearly stated that intent. Reading comprehension.

Which is bullshit since a lot of dudes ask out several dozen a month. Shes just an insecure brat who had to feel "special".

I still occasionally talk to ex from 4 years ago. I never message her first though. But she usually sends me a message twice a year or so asking me how I'm doing and then we chat for a few hours and then no contact then for another few months. Why?

Why not?

Use skincare products if you want to feel better. I use face wash, face scrub and moisturiser. (Am male) Groom, I got a very very short haircut but it depends , if you like it, try it. I don't work out (am skinny) so I can't help with that. Basically make yourself better by feeling better and more confident.

I have man boobs but not fat. I'm 5'10 and 160 pounds. What do?