How can I avoid girls like this? I’m a man who does not sleep around. Even tho I do have the desire to sleep with a lot of girls, I don’t do it because it’s immoral and I don’t want to risk getting STDs. I care about my health.
I just feel worried because it seems like more and more women see casual sex as such a normal thing that everyone does and it’s good to do it as much as possible. I don’t want a partner that so freely gambled her own health away like this.
>How can I avoid girls like this? I’m a man who does not sleep around. Congratulations, you answered your own question.
Look for girls who were raised traditionally. I know an albanian girl who comes from a small village and she isn't like that at all
You don’t understand. These girls who have casual sex won’t do that forever. Eventually they will want a boyfriend to be serious with. I know a girl who literally did that. Slept around for several years, and then changed her behavior so she could meet a nice guy.
Just talk to them honestly. It's not that hard senpai
I live in the US. Which is a problem because “sexual empowerment” is being taught here
What do you mean? Will they be honest with me? I asked the girl that I know if she would tell her boyfriend about her past and she said “nope, it’s none of his business”. So I asked her what she would say to him and she said “I had a few relationships”. I think that is wrong.
Sorry user but unless you can read minds, you will never know for sure. Every girl who tells you she hasn’t been promiscuous, every good girl, every shy girl, every church girl could lie to you and you would never know.
She probably won't lie about just that and if you have a brain you can tell if your partner's a liar, so you drop them.
Does this mean you are a virgin and want a virgin gf?
That’s why safe sex and being cautious is a thing.
Just keep doing what you're doing, and don't date anyone.
I don’t want to be lied to. I’m not, and I didn’t say anything about looking for a Virgin But safe sex isn’t really safe. My best friend caught 2 STDs from tinder girls. And he said he always used condoms
Real talk you should like a fucking loser who's trying to rationalize his insecurities with a fake concern to health. You can have as much casual sex as you want and by taking careful precautions your health won't be affected.
>I don't want a girl who freely gambled her health away!! Okay bud, hope your health is perfect.
Truth is you find them icky, maybe you saw some dumb spring break video on YouTube of girls cheating, or maybe you've been spending too much time on the internet reading about roasties, maybe you're just shy about sex. Either way, the only reason to not date one without first evaluating them as an individual is because of internal biases caused by insecurity.
Look, you can want a pure waifu or whatever. But then if you're going to simply doubt every girl that tells you she's not promiscuous, you've got a deeper problem to fix (your issues with promiscuity).
All your anecdotal reasoning for not trusting someone's word is pointless. I could give you the same number of reasons for trusting someone. It's an individual thing, be good at reading them and you can decide if it's worth it based on how you like the individual.
>I don’t want to be lied to. Too bad my man, time to get punched by reality
sound* not should sorry
>You can have as much casual sex as you want and by taking careful precautions your health won't be affected. But that’s not true. Condoms do not protect from all STDs
No girl wants a so-called nice guy like you OP. Again, you have nothing to worry about.
>Which is a problem because “sexual empowerment” is being taught here What are you talking about, the US is one of the most prudish backwards countries with no health care system. They're taught that sex is a dirty thing - so of course kids rebel and do it anyways - and then they can't afford STI tests because of privatized health care and even the few free clinics are being defunded and shut down by the Christian right.
How do pornstars do it friend? Sure, they get STDs from time to time, but pornstars can't shoot scenes unless they're clean. Many pornstars have shot thousands of minutes of sex. What about the people who engage in casual sex and have never gotten an STD? Sounds like your buddy was doing something wrong. Some STDs are transmitted orally BTW
Also nice job ignoring 90% of my post, really shows how genuine you are about fixing your problem. Saged
Do you actually have a point to make other than 'sex is bad" and are you looking for advice or are you just here to try to recruit incels into an abstinence program
What the hell are you talking about? Pornstars have sex in a controlled environment. They don’t have sex outside of the studio.
You said to hook up as much as possible. Having casual sex with random people is not a controlled environment How am I not a nice guy?.
>How am I not a nice guy? Nice guys don't go around telling people they are nice.
Where in my post did I say “I’m a nice guy”
>the US is one of the most prudish backwards countries officially maybe, but every bit of """culture""" they have revolves around sex
I didn’t say sex is bad. You made that up
That was 20 years ago
We've reached the point where the advice on Jow Forums is exactly the same you would receive on tumblr just more passive-aggressive
I don’t know why everyone is attacking me. I hold myself to the same standards that I would want from a woman. Why is that so unfair and wrong?
So what is the real reason you don't sleep around? Because you find it immoral or because you don't want an STI? If you are so paranoid about your health then I suppose you could date with a long term relationship in mind and hopefully share your health concerns with your partner and maybe go get tested together before sleeping together.
If sex isn't bad, why are you avoiding like the plague?
The culture maybe, but certainly not its policies
>How am I not a nice guy?. You believe in the "settling roastie" theory which is straight out of r9k
>the advice on Jow Forums is exactly the same you would receive on tumblr what does this even mean
It means it's not what you wanted to hear.
>If sex isn't bad, why are you avoiding like the plague? Casual sex is bad. That is not the same as sexual within relationships
>>How can I avoid girls like this? I’m a man who does not sleep around. >Congratulations, you answered your own question.
Fucking lol, this is exactly right but it's pretty much always been like this. This board is filled with edgy highschoolers and teens in the middle of their hormonal tempest.
And of course retarded fucks that dabble in the nonsense of social politics.
Super nerdy dnd playing girls/church girls.
>dnd playing girls Most of them are clingy and desperate and will sleep with any guy who gives them the time of day
Most "gamer" or "nerdy" girls are the biggest whores of all.
Finding a good girl isn't always easy.. it's just a matter of keeping your standards what they are and not worrying about staying away from women who aren't what you're looking for.
You didn’t read what I said earlier. Idiot
There's no way to spot it prior to dating, you have to go out with them for a few weeks and ask
How long do you think?
>US is one of the most prudish backwards countries I'm not a fan of the US but you're retarded of you think this is true. It's not even close.
>You don’t understand. These girls who have casual sex won’t do that forever. Eventually they will want a boyfriend to be serious with. I know a girl who literally did that. Slept around for several years, and then changed her behavior so she could meet a nice guy.
I'm a woman that has the same feelings about sex as you do. You just have to keep dating and trying to find someone compatible. Also many people seem to be uneducated about sexual health. The number of men that expect me to have unprotected sex with them within a few dates is disturbing.