How often does your girlfriend give you a blowjob and is it always a "I'll do you if you do me" type of thing?

How often does your girlfriend give you a blowjob and is it always a "I'll do you if you do me" type of thing?

I'm new to this and I have no idea how fucked up my worldview from porn is.

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depends on the girl. good luck

rarely. just have sex. if she does, it's mid sex for a lil

Often, my blowjobs occur when delivering pizza to horny housewives, being a lifeguard/fitness trainer at an all-milf fitness facility, arresting a sexy perp as a cop, or being a plumber going to "clean the pipes" of a rich hot woman.

Pretty often with a few girlfriends, but I was happy to do it, I love eating pussy and think I'm good at it.
To solve this issue the best thing is to try a 69 position, my last girl came buckets from it.

Never. Mine said she doesn't like the idea of mouth-genitalia contact.

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I give my boyfriend head on the daily. He gives me head often too, unless I'm on my period. It's never an exchange, we're both happy to do it, and we both find an "exchange" unsexy and uncomfortable.

IDK, I'm kind of addicted to eating my girl out. I really enjoy it. She's got a beautiful pussy, squirts everywhere, and makes nice sounds. She has amazing hygiene.

I am flexible enough to suck my own dick, so receiving blowjobs from her isn't something I'm extraordinarily concerned with. That being said, she gives me a fair amount. It is less than the number of times I give her head, but it isn't to the degree that I complain. I enjoy it more than she does; that is fine. (There are times when she worships my cock, though, and those blow jobs are always the best. Something about being in the shower together makes her wants to blow me.)

I don't watch porn anymore because I had bad porn brain a few years ago when I got together with her.

Depends on girl and relations. Who has active role and who is submissive. And that depends a lot on your dick size. I will say honestly, dick size isn't really important until we speak about how much she wants to lick and play with that. I can't say numbers, but basically if you have average dick then you have 50/50 or less. If you have huge dick then almost all women wanna that, but sadly most of them have problems to deal with something more than glans.

Really depends on the girl.

Personally I always give a blowjob before sex. Also will give after if he wants to finish that way. I do enjoy doing it though, and although I do enjoy and appreciate being eaten out it's not like I won't give a bj if he doesn't

Like everyone else with at least half a brain cell said, it entirely depends on who the girl is. Some will suck your dick in your sleep, others will absolutely refuse to even kiss it.

Nice LARP

It depends on the girl. Honestly, for me, it's typically a "I care about you and I want to get physically intimate, but im not in the mood for penetration." So if my bf comes home, seems stressed, and we're cuddling, and he gets in the mood but I don't, I give him a blowjob to make him feel better and to make me feel like a good girl friend.

>make me feel like a good girl friend.

I hate this attitude. You all try too hard. I wouldn't let my gf go down on me for a long time, because I wanted to hold on to the power I had going down on her often without getting anything in return. But she kept nagging me that she wanted to make me feel good in return, etc. so I just gave in and let her. She does it fairly regularly now. I miss being able to hold that over her if even it was unspoken.

I suck my boyfriend's dick daily, often more than once. I don't always make him come with my mouth but I can go on for 15-20 minutes and then we fuck.
I don't like being eaten out that much, he does it maybe 1-2 times a month.

Clean your dick

She will as long as im shaved but desu senpai I usually just go for sex instead

i do it for treats like extra beer and candy and such

>because I wanted to hold on to the power I had going down on her often without getting anything in return
So it's really about you and you complain abotu girl's attitude? Your hypocrisy is overwhelming - you basically do what probably quite some of those girls do, and I wouldn't be surprised if some do it with exactly the same reason behind it.

Me and my gf are in the process of rekindling our sex life after some stressful times kind of hurt our sexdrives.

That said, she's always cordial about giving me sexual attention if I need it, and I usually reciprocate enthusiastically.

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>"I'll do you if you do me" type of thing?

this is fucked up. it shouldn't be a favor. it should be

>ill do this because i really enjoy it, and if you want to return the favor you absolutely can and i would even really appreciate it.

sex isn't business.

>ill do this because i really enjoy it
Your partner isn't going to share 100% of your sexual preferences. I don't think
>I'll do it because it makes him happy!
is a good reason to engage in something that you dislike. Doing it because you'll get something out of it is better, the relationship is more equal.

I give my boyfriend blowjobs 4-5 times a month. I don't like receiving, so he doesn't do it. It really depends on the person I think. Communication is very important, if it isn't fun or enjoyable, I don't think you should do it. At least when it comes to sex.

My girlfriend makes me do that kind of thing myself.

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My gf begs to suck my cock cause she gets turned on by me getting pleasure. I show her how much I'm enjoying it with some moans and every once in a while will stop her and kiss her deep af while grabbing her titties and she loves it. Basically it seems with this kind of girl if you make it known you like blowjobs (and if you're a gentleman) giving head and making her feel just as good, you'll be swimmin in bjs. Something to note.. she hated them before she got with me.. was with two guys before me and said both of their dicks tasted disgusting and made her gag the one time she tried it.. with mine she says it's sweet and she loves my cock. My gf is 5'nothing and I'm 6'2" with an average penis but holy fuck when she holds onto it I feel like mandingo... got off on a tangent sorry

Tldr: with the right girl, as much as you want.

Dude WTH? I want to feel like a good girlfriend with a good boyfriend. What's wrong with that? I'm not playing whatever shitty manipulative mind games you have in your head over there. I care about my bf, and I want to do right by him, FFS.

I was with a woman for 5 years who I could get off with oral literally in a couple of minutes, she enjoyed giving blowjobs ad loved cum.
I had no issues with going down on her before or after getting a blowjob, sometimes I did both, sometimes she would just give me a blowjob and get herself off while she did it.
That said, all women are different, some don't like giving head, some don't like receiving oral sex.

Just make sure you don't take what you get for granted, the longevity of your sex life and relationship is based on if you are going to keep winning each other over, if you are getting regular blowjobs you should make sure you're also winning her over.

>ouroboros
that's gonna be a hearty kek from me

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>porn brain
What's that?

>unironically drinking piss
lmao

>it's sweet
You have diabetes.

Sometimes during foreplay or rarely to wake me up because she's horny
It's never an exchange since she doesn't want me to eat her out since it makes her come to fast and she prefers penetration

Some girls like it some girls hate it. Some girls like it but are bad at it. Personally, if I'm being honest I would never pursue a relationship with a girl who didn't like to suck dick or was really bad at it. It'd rather date a fat girl who sucks a good dick than a skinny girl who lies there and doesn't do anything. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't date a ham beast or anything.

The correct order is
Blowjob > Cunnilingus > sex (cow girl) > sex (doggy) > sex (missionary) > Blowjob

never. i will not degrade her. she will not degrade me. mouth is for food, not sex.

I used to love them from my SO, but now she just doesn't do that great anymore and I don't care to even ask. Seems more like a job to her than something she enjoys doing.
I'd guess maybe 2 or 3 times a month, if I ask, maybe once otherwise.

Ever heard the phrase "Different strokes for different folks"? It is literally true about sex. Absolutely everyone is different and there are no "norms" or "typicals" about anything

Why not both? Mouth is already for food, breathing and talking. No reason it couldn't be for sex aswell.

asshole is for shit. why not also eat asshole?

Because that just doesn't work. Humanity has demonstrated that sex with mouth works quite well indeed.

You can however take some medications and drugs with your asshole, and I've even heard some people ingest alcohol with their asshole.

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A blowjob is the highest tier of sex imo. But you might have to do something to her to get that blowjob so keep that in mind.

She's bullshitting you about the other guys. Damn man, how fucking gullible can you get? You'll get an wake up call in the future for sure

Whenever I ask basically. Some weeks its daily, some weeks its once. Being in uni and working, theres not much time for sex

Only during foreplay. She has offered occasionally when not feeling like sex, but I declined or changed the subject. She isn't into it and if she doesn't feel like having sex, there is really not much of a point. She isn't that good at it and I can't see myself cumming from it. I also don't eat her out, since she feels weird about getting saliva down there (lucky me since I don't enjoy the smell or anything else about it).
Its nice when she does it during foreplay though, gets me rock hard pretty fast.
Despite how boring and stuck up this all sounds, I'm actually very satisfied with our sex life. We fuck a lot and are very comfortable with each other.
If you would enjoy more or a certain amount of BJs, tell her. Communication, communication, communication...

that is disgusting and degrading. begone.

No its not. Plenty of women blow guys at the club, their weed dealer, hot guy at work or the drummer of a local house band. Its one sided to please a guy they want.

Watching porn regularly

Why is it bad?

I don’t think my gf likes doing it, so I never ask her to

Porn fucks with your idea of intimacy

Here's the thing about girls giving bj's when they don't like doing it. The only guys they won't give a bj to is their bf or husband. They can hate doing it but if its some crush or guy they meet and kinda like they power through. Now she may have powered through when she first met her bf or husband but once she locks him down, she tells them or intimates she doesn't like it and knows the bf or husband will give her a pass.

So. New guy she'll suck his balls dry. BF or husband, get that thing away from my face.

No it is not.
Have you ever received one?
It is a bit more of a power trip than sex, but it is not like it feels better or anything.

I don't know who you're but you're a genius.
I can't comprehend how this combination work, but it does.

That's why I only watch masturbation porn.

What I'd like is if my girlfriend put on a bit of a show, made a move, was sexually assertive and aggressive and came and sucked my dick. A handful of times she has woken me up by sucking my cock and it was the best thing ever. That said I get my dick sucked whenever I want, it is just honestly only whenever I want and that fucks with my head a bit. Like she'll do it, but only if I make it happen. I end up thinking does she want to do this? Does she like doing this? Does she only do this and act like she likes and wants to do this because she likes and wants to please me and I'm asking for it? It happens about twice a week. She likes it when I ask her to do it, when I give her instructions, tell her what I like, what to do. Sometimes slap her a bit, choke her out, get a bit spitty and sloppy, abuse her throat a bit. Which I only like because she likes it which I guess makes me a giant hypocrite for wondering if she only does it because I like it. I guess thinking about it a blow job where I lay down and moan a little while she does her thing isn't as interesting as one where I start telling her to suck my fucking dick and make me come while yanking on her titties, pulling her pig tails and telling her to choke herself like a good little whore.

not often, because id rather just fuck. going down on one another is often included in foreplay, but it is very rarely the main event

I think it varies girl to girl. My ex loved sucking my dick, but she wasn't very good at it anyway.

It helps when you have a nice looking cock tho...

No, I don't.. I get regular checkups and bloodwork. I eat plenty of fresh fruit so it's normal to have my precum taste like that and she sure slurps down a whole lot of it.

She's not, she is a very timid girl and was lead into it in the past, I can tell she's a beginner because I have to give her tips on how to do it properly. I'm man enough to look past her past the same way she is for me.. I'm not about to hold it against a young, 20 year old beauty that she's sucked two cocks in her life.. I've fucked at least 6 chicks and eaten out one of them and she doesn't hold it against me. Sounds like you've been hurt in the past, sorry bud.

Why wouldn’t you be desperate to eat your girls pussy even if she didn’t give you a suck back? Are you sure u rly like her? I think eating pussy is amazing in and of itself, No matter what Imma get back. Of course she shouldn’t neglect you but it doesn’t always have to be I did X, so you do X. Why not do it to enjoy pussy or to have her enjoy herself?