Why do girls hate male virginity? What can be done?

It's not a problem at any age.

A girl wants a guy who can get any girl in the world but he chooses only her. A male virgin would imply that no girl wants to be with him and she would be settling for someone who doesn't have any options

Being a virgin after the age of 25 kinda usually indicates other problems. It's not the virginity itself but more the reasons why you're still a virgin in your late 20s.

As a late twenties virgin, this isn't really true. They say it is but their emotions towards you change the instant they find out, regardless of reason.

I am fine with male virgins so long as they are the right amount of submissive to actually learn. The arogant, paranoid, and insecure ones need mental help because no pussy will solve those problems.

Define submissive woman

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bdsmwiki.info/Submissive

Nope, never, and no

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>As a late twenties virgin, this isn't really true.
What part isn't true? Most people think it's odd for people to a virgin in their late 20s and beyond. It's why we have the wizard meme (and the 25+/30+ threads on Jow Forums and Jow Forums).

nothing.
they can smell virginity in a radius up to 1100 meters.

>It's not the virginity itself but more the reasons why you're still a virgin in your late 20s.

This part.

Like I said, in my experience their emotions change about you instantly, before you even give a reason.

I'm sure it's not the case for every woman but it's always been like that for me.

Then you will not learn anything because you likely take issue with communicating things regarding sex to people you would stick your dick in.
>not even a "I'd be willing to have a sit down." or "maybe if you can show me to top." (◔_◔)

>Like I said, in my experience their emotions change about you instantly, before you even give a reason.
Because there are reasons already attached to it.

stop caring what women think. don't be an ass but don't put them on a pedestal

But that isn't what you said, you said it isn't the virginity itself but the reasons, but the judgment comes before any reasons, so it is the virginity.

It doesn't really matter, I was just sharing my experience.

>It's not the virginity itself but more the reasons why you're still a virgin in your late 20s.
Can anyone explain this?
I often meet people who don't share the same hobby as myself, but I don't hate them for not liking the things I like.

sorry babe but I'm not one of those dominatrix idiots. I prefer a relationship to be more like vid related, except that I'm the one bringing home the bacon
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it's a stigma that perhaps if you have not lost it yet, you have a lot of other psychological problems or there are reasons you have not been close enough to a woman yet to have sex.

it's rough but that is how our world is. people just pretty quickly. the good news is not all women are like this, and honestly only the really bitchy ones are going to hold this against you, which they would have held something else against you the moment you didn't fit their standard.

If you’re keeping it for religious reasons, no one will care

>you have a lot of other psychological problems
Harsh assumption, but assuming this isn't the first thing they ask you, they would talk to you prior to determine if I have psychological problems.
But despite me being a well rounded person, people still change how they act around me when they realize I am not drowning in girls.

>you didn't even look at the word top

I don't care about this "top", "bottom" and all that shit the fucking fags spew out. All I want is a woman that wont cut me off just for saying "I love you" or isn't a selfish cunt that will leave me for the most retarded reasons. That shit matters especially the latter because of my career choice

>indicates other problems
>why you're still a virgin in your late 20s
Because having your own opinion on the subject that differs from mainstream is bad, amirite?

I find virginity a virtue and I'm not interested in sex outside marriage.
You just called these two things "problems" just because they are reasons for a non-conforming stance on the topic.

If these things are "problems" to you, then we most certainly wouldn't match. Just saying.

Why are you getting defensive? If you're fine with it, then you're fine with it.

>If these things are "problems" to you, then we most certainly wouldn't match.
I'm a dude you faggot.

>hate
No one hates you cause you're a virgin, it's just a flag that raises questions. Being laid is a rite of passage, that's linked to other milestones.

>Being laid is a rite of passage, that's linked to other milestones.
then the vast majority of men have accomplished nothing because despite their research papers, flight hours, military experience, businesses, etc. All because they never sticked their dick into some hole which I'm probably sure other men have too since most women sleep around

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I guess you don't care to deal with the real struggles of getting laid either. That's fine, not my problem.

I am not a virgin myself, but a lot of guys think I am weird for being long term single.
Girls find it straight up repulsive and shames me for it.
I keep getting new male friends because after a few years, they figure it out that I am not just single temporarily.

Most women are repulsed by male weakness.
The solution is to get stronger.

Most women are absolute garbage. And I can assure you that any decent ones are mostly taken. Fuck off woman, your fellow women have made dating an absolute pain in the ass and it's only gotten worse because now the state and feminist garbage have made it even worse than it already is. I have more passion for other things than the modern woman anyway

And we found your problem.

Hint: It's you, not your virginity.

>disgusting incel misogynistic rant
And it all explains itself in the end. Enjoy your dry dick, user.

>Why are you getting defensive?
I'm not that other guy, relax.

Ok fine, if thats considered to be a serious issue, too bad for you.

Sorry babe, thats whats on my mind, you don't know how it's like to be an average guy. I've tried to go out with women, I never said I loved you or any of that. Still went nowhere. Face it, your gender demands too much yet offers so little.
You want my attention, commitment and money? You better give me more than just your body. Saying reddit phrases isn't going to change anything

It's a serious issue for any woman you should encounter, and hence why you aren't getting laid.
>You want my attention, commitment and money? You better give me more than just your body.
That's not an equivalent exchange and you should feel bad for phrasing a relationship request that way.

Well I just don't bring it up in general, period. I only say that shit here because this is an anonymous Singaporean Fishing Forum. I speak my mind here

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Just because you don't say it to their face doesn't mean we are oblivious to the way you act within the same perameter. Aka we can smell an incel.

blah, blah, blah, excuses.

If that makes you feel better.

I've never met a girl who hated male virginity. The first woman I had sex with knew I was a virgin and it was never a problem for her. The first woman who was going to take it only felt pressured about it because she didn't want to ruin my first time. This latter point might be a reason why people in general are concerned about being your first, but that just means they care.

There is no hatred for male virgins. There is dislike for mentally ill incels who project their every problem on women and become pathological misogynists because of it. There's a huge difference.

I just fucking wish that people would stop being so retarded about it. And for the record I am tired of women's shit.

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>will have sex for the first time
>watch a bunch of actually amateur porn(xvideos)
>have some stamina
>learn to use your fingers
>if you know she's clean, learn to use your mouth too

She won't notice your virginity, and even if you did poorly, who cares? Just some fucking thot. Unless you plan on some long term shit, the green text isn't even needed.

I think some women don't understand that we do not come out of the womb with a complete and thorough understanding of how to be attractive to women. They expect you to just "get it" and view educating somebody on sex or having the quality of sex in a relationship improve as it goes on, as "wasting time".

Nobody hates you for being a virgin. It's just that we're suspicious of your virgin status past certain age. Why are you a virgin? Is it because you've never met that special someone and didn't want to fuck random people? That's admirable. Is it because you're an atrocious human being and nobody would fuck you willingly? Yeah, not gonna make that mistake either, boy.

Unfortunately, most older male virgins belong to the second category, so you can't blame us for being careful.

Most people aren't retarded about it. You're thinking of the vocal minority.

Virginity rates are at an all-time high, climbing at an unsurpassed pace, and there's no end to it in sight.
Whether we like it or not, the future is chaste. At least young ones recognize it as an important thing.

So who is it that's making such a ruckus about it? You know who.
But there's no point in antagonizing them. Sympathize with them instead.
How would you feel in their spot? You'd try to rationalize it. That's what they're doing.
Bluntly spoken - it's a coping mechanism.

Let me assure you there's plenty wholesome maidens (not necessarily virgins, I know it might surprise some to hear that this isn't mutually exclusive) to choose from, especially younger ones, and they span all the way to late 30s.

>Why are you a virgin?
Because women have high standards and I have too much self-respect to go for the hambeast with neck rolls who lives under a bridge.

>Because women have high standards and I have high standards.
Really makes you think.

Not who you're replying to, btw.

>29khv
>Verbal/emotionally abusive childhood
>Mental illnesses
>Poor, never have a good place to live so can't bring women home

I've worked on my issues, it's taken years and a lot of money but i'm ok. One day...

I love this maneuver when incels pretend that there actually IS a group of women who would like to sleep with them. Stop kidding yourself, bro, you're a misogynist and nobody loves you.

Good luck to you, user. I'm sure you'll find a good woman.

Just be yourself!

I want to thank your for your reactions to her common-sense advices. When I see the pile of shit you're saying, I almost feel emotionnally and socially smart. You give me hope for myself user, thanks a lot for that!

Hey, I'm 29khv, too.
>See almost everyone on my father's side of the family, including my father, die of cancers and other illnesses by the time I was in my early twenties
>Spend 7 years falling into depression with severe anxiety
>Spend almost another 5 years trying to pull myself out

Keep it up, user.

Not expecting a bitch to be fat is a high standard? Damn.
There is though. I've been approached by women before who aren't fatties like you since I assumed I hit a nerve, but I have anxiety issues.

I assume*

>Not fat is a high standard?
No. That's not the point.
I'm pointing out the hypocrisy in complaining about women being picky when also being picky yourself.

You wouldn't want to date a fat woman. That's understandable and OK.
But in the same vein, some girl (whom does meet your standards) wouldn't want to date you, because you don't meet her arbitrary criteria.

In the end it's the same thing.
And it really is unsubstantiated to antagonize women in general because they happen to have standards.

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute just so I won't have that experience with a girl I date? I don't think I could get a regular one night stand.

kill yourself

Not him but you do realize there are double standards right?

Is there a place where women list arbitrary quantitative criteria and date a man who meets it? I'm tired of the unspoken universal criteria for dating that all women have, "impress me"

someone hasn't been to tinder

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i did this and have yet to find a real girl who likes me, it was a lot of fun though and probably worth the money, but yeah for me personally it didnt really remove any anxieties

Yes. That's why I made it clear in my example that the girl's criteria may be completely arbitrary and the point still stands.

Nope. Unfortunately you pretty much nailed it with your "impress me". For women it's more of a spur of the moment thing.

"He smiled at me" or "why is he staring at me like that" are ten times more important than a fit body and a manly stride. No joke.
That's why all successful PUAs revolve around overwhelming the girl with too much too fast so she can only react with "yes".

And that's why the best advice for men looking for a partner is to put themselves in as many different situations as possible to maximize women's exposure to you.
The idea is that if you do lots of different things, eventually you'll end up in a situation where a girl finds you attractive.

>atrocious human being and nobody would fuck you willingly
What do you mean by atrocious human being? What if I'm being friendly to my female (and male) coworkers but I don't like social events, I don't go anywhere and usually prefer to chill out at home? Am I atrocious? If not, then what does this word mean?

Because lol XD he doesn't go outside what an INCEL WE DID IT REDDIT!!!!
In all seriousness though that guy or "girl" is full of shit

This looks stupid. her legs are too skinny for her ass. i realize men are visually and proportionally retarded but this is so obviously fake.

t. normal woman realizing i can get a fake ass tomorrow without consequence or worry that you literal retards will be able to clock my future fake ass

post ass

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That chick is 18-19 you fucking idiot. Just because white bitches have no ass doesn't mean every other girls ass is fake. Also her legs are VERY proportionate so also get your eyesight checked

no i dont have a nice enough one to post, hence, 'normal'. however, i am extremely comforted by the fact that you morons have fucking literal blinders or chronic beer goggles for eyeballs, kek

Yep, this 19 year olds body is definitely fake. It's definitely not jealousy, yep.

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her legs are nothing like OP pic. her ratio of thigh to ass makes sense.

lol jealous incel?

how are her legs proportionate? are you comparing this woman's legs to children's legs? i'm literally hispanic and you're saying this to me like i'm a delusonal board-thin WASP, kek. please, go take a class in anatomy and art. you're absolutely porn-sick and have no idea what normal proportions are like.

Sure that's definitely not the same girl with tigher clothing

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Whatever helps you deal with your pancake ass

everyone is beautiful user who cares about proportions, her head is massive, her tits are small, just because youre salty grape'd about her big juicy ass doesnt mean she isnt beautiful. I will validate you by saying she is definitely out of proportion, but so are you. Everyone is beautiful to someone.

nope im just bored. fine if you guys realize this is augmented, but imo, this reaching kardashian tier warping and you guys don't realize it because you don't have first hand experience with the normalization of brazilian butt lifts. it's not completely out there, but anyone without a dick can tell her quads and hams are too small for it to be lifting, or anything else

pic related: shit you guys will think is proportional in two months given the extreme level of delusion you guys are exposed to

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(even if you were proportionate, which youre probably not, your personality is dogshit and i wouldnt want anything to do with you)

I think we need to classify incelism as a new mental illness derived from specific, repeditive, and usually self-inflicted traumas. It touches on nearly every condition in the book.

then it's the same girl but drastically different angle and/or gratuitous shooping (though it could just be angle and lighting). she looks massively different down to the skintone and you know that the angle in previous pic is gratuitous considering the subsequent photo

Go to the gym loser

Fuck off Berry

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Wow! Brighter lighting means lighter looking skin tone! Who would have guessed?! I'm more annoyed at the fact you can't admit you're just jealous, no wonder girls don't like each other lol

user, you absolute sticklet, look at the hams and quads on the photo you posted, vs op pic, then you advocate the gym. men and women who lift KNOW that you cannot develop ass like OP without developing quads and hammies, while she has none. so stop acting like you're knowledgeable while posting photos of women who have well developed muscles all around (not just her ass), yet telling me "got to the gym". delusion.

i just dont want to have to work out because its not fun and the other boys were always stronger and faster than me anyway i want to be a boy that didnt have to try to succeed like most are

You're not wrong

She's prettier than you, ugly bitch

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SEETHING

i wasn't insulting her, dumbfuck. holy shit, you're illiterate. i was saying her muscle development is proportional because you can't easily isolate your ass and spot reduce fat while keeping it in your, ass, idiot. brazilian butt lifts and injections have been a part of the black community for well over 15 years. actually read about it for once.

>Didn't have to try to succeed
There's plenty of examples of people that did have to try to succeed, keep coping and being lazy. Hopefully one day someone makes you see the bitch you are and you decide to do something. Probably won't happen, but it's a shame as a male to never feel hunger or discomfort

because they can't into sexiness well

Yeah, she definitely doesn't workout and is just gifted with natural womanly curves on top of it.

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