So I have some online friends that I've been talking to ranging from the past 2-5 years. Over time I've successfully ruined all the relationships/friendships I've made by being too open, not controlling what I say enough, things like that. Which brings us to today, I feel like they've all put up some sort of barrier between them and I. Nothing I can say or do will break this barrier, I've tried practically everything and they've all moved on to better/other people. This constantly hurts me, definitely not as much as it did months ago but it still stings. And I realize now that because none of this will change, because I'm me, the only way to stop the hurt is to leave. Unfortunately these are the only people I talk to, so this is a pretty hard task.
Now for the real question, should I send a goodbye message to some/all/none? In total it's around 9 people, some I talk to daily and others none at all. I don't want to be a typical ghoster but what's the best option in this scenario?