ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

I tried but pussied out last minute because she just seemed very unapproachable, like she was afraid of me or something, but when there's distance between us I notice her looking at me a lot. She's very quiet too, hard to get anything out of her so it makes it extra hard to actually ask her out since I get mixed signals from her all the time. Sometimes when I'd make a joke she'd laugh with the group, then some days when I make a joke or say something around her she acts like she doesn't like me and rolls her eyes or something like that. Not sure if worth the pursuit to be honest but can't tell what she thinks so don't want to give up entirely yet

>girls, do you get jelly/upset/try to sabotage when a guy likes a girl of a different race than you?
I might get upset if a guy says that he likes women of other races because white women are horrible. It's mostly the stupid stereotypes and racism that annoys me.
I don't feel jealous and would never try to sabotage another person's relationship.

>girls, since you dont like arrogant guys, are you okay with guys that are 'classist'?
I like arrogant guys, especially if they don't have a stick up their ass. It's pretty fun to hang out with someone who is arrogant and can banter.
Classist guys are trash, like all other people who are incapable of seeing others as individuals and feel the need to classify others in large, meaningless categories.

That's a whole lot of words.
If you want to know definitely, ask her out and stop worrying so much. The worst outcome possible is that she doesn't like you, and that allows you to move on with your life.

No because that would be retarded.
No because that would be retarded.

If she acts that way around everyone or just you.

Love is dumb as fuck. Literally look at the threads in this board, morons get back with cheaters all the time.

>If she acts that way around everyone or just you.
She only ever hangs out with 3 other girls and even then I never really hear her speak or do anything, and she sometimes acts like she's bored when she sits with them so its hard to tell. I did notice once that this guy was sitting near them and they were all talking and all the girls smiled and laughed. Her friends seem to hate me for some reason tho, I only spoke to them once talking about some college related stuff and she just looked at me with this condescending look and then said nothing and looked away and talked to some other person in the group. I don't know how to apply your answer to this

Does she go out of her way to see you? Does she make eye contact? If she's shy, she won't make eye contact most of the time but you can be sure she's eyeing you from a distance.

Anyone?

Not really, she's always in her group, we only got some sort of contact towards the end of the college year which is now over so not enough opportunities to go off of.

Once we established some sort of casual contact I've been noticing her much more around college tho, before I didn't even know who she was, like she's more visible now.

As for eye contact, I don't know, we never really spoke for longer than few seconds and like I said, it was somewhat dismissive and she's quiet most of the time. I did once catch her looking at me when I was turning around to talk to someone in class that was behind me, she was sitting behind that person and I looked at her and she stared at me. Then I'd notice her looking at me from across the library a good few times, but that could be accidental, there was a lot of people there, but once I looked back and I think she was smiling but I can't be sure, she was very far away.
Whenever I feel like I have a chance to talk to her to gauge her reaction, she seems dismissive, like she wants me to go away immediately once I approach, so there was never any direct contact for longer than a few seconds and a few words

She's just scared. You need to talk to her. It sounds like she wants to hear from you

Well, now that college is over I can't really, unless you consider social media but I'm not really sure what to say to her, I wish I could just be direct with her but I've no idea how to convince myself to do it. What do I say to her given the opportunity? directly asking out doesn't seem like a smart move since she's not being comfortable around me it seems and I don't know if she won't just panic and say no

This kinda embarrasses me but need to see if there is a real problem or not.

So, I have a bucket list of 100 things and 39 through 51 are sexual in nature but tame and my bf and I have almost completed those. But, one of the items is a facial and my bf has tried but when he ejaculates not much comes out and it just oozes out or a little plops on the floor in front of me.

I'm not expecting porn type (yes I have watched some and how I came up with some of the items on my list) and I had one bf in HS who I never had real sex with but of the times I gave him a handjob in his car he came and it hit the roof of his car. (we both laughed so hard we couldn't breathe).

I really want to do this and with my bf but I can't just kneel there for 5 minutes in front of him while peeking and not getting anything.

Is this really normal and guys like my HS bf or the porn guys unnatural, is something wrong with my bf and if so is it temporary?

Not like I'm gonna die soon so got time but this frustrates me.

How do I be a better girlfriend? Someone interesting and mentally attractive, preferably.

Find something you'd have an interest in, develop your hobbies and talk about the progress you make, its interesting to hear about people's passions and interests and what they learned.

Socialize and have interesting stories to tell about what happened or what people you met.

Just be very interested in something thats your own, then you'll have that going for you to talk about and spark up some interest. People these days do nothing so they recycle the same conversations over and over again until you both pretend to be interested

Tell him to get on Viagra. Seriously. Shit saved my marriage. I have zero shame about that.

There's nothing wrong with his dick, he is just selective about when he wants to get laid. He'll still participate in foreplay and stuff, very clearly get an erection and then just nope, not tonight, see ya later. If he didn't react so clearly I'd already be out of the relationship because being kb'd when we're both that riled up makes me feel a little like I'm repulsive.

I have my own hobbies and interests, I even have some of his, I'm just boring to talk to.
I feel like telling stories about things that only happened to me, instead of sharing stories that mutual friends have lived through, is weird af. Do people actually want to listen to me talk about random shit I did that day?
How do I find something very interesting to be interested in? I thought vg and tg and work would be enough but it isn't.

Because girls can't stand being alone

Jow Forums has an infographic image with a whole stack of suppliments that are supposed to increase volume.
I personally noticed a huge increase when I was taking zinc tablets for a cold (zinc is one item on their list)
You'd also get some mileage if he abstained for a few days. Good luck with that one though since the zinc shot my libedo through the roof.

Is it true that if a girl is texting a dude more than you, she's interested in him and not you? Even if it's your fault?
>I'm not very good at texting
>respond 2/3x an hour when not in work
>not at all whilst working (9/10 hours)
>I'm not very good at making conversation
>Just respond to whatever she says, sometimes throw in small talk
>Found out some dude texts her
>Literally like ten texts an hour
>He asks weird AF questions / makes cringe jokes
>He texts her whilst he works
After checking her responses, she always responds to him as fast as she does me unless I've text whilst she's responding to him, then I'll get a response first. Tell me how to feel adv.

>Do people actually want to listen to me talk about random shit I did that day?
Yeah. My roommate would tell me stories of something that happened in her class when she was in college, or about something funny that happened to her during the day and sometimes I'm entertained. Sometimes I just listen but I'm not bothered by it, its just something to talk about, chances are we might hit a subject that the other person can relate to and then they talk about their experiences and share their stories which turns into a conversation.

Another thing you can do is share your thoughts, if they're interesting enough and are open to interpretation you can just come out and say them and at least you'll make them think which is interesting in itself.

As for interesting things to be into, figure out what type of a person you are, if you're practical and creative then start painting or play an instrument, then maybe hang up your paintings and all of a sudden its something to talk about. Play an instrument and become proficient at it, write songs and play them, its interesting to listen to.

Just don't be one of those people that only talks about what happened at work, especially if your job is regular like working at a building site, my friend does that and I listen to his stories but they just don't captivate me, I just don't find bricks and faulty installations all that interesting despite what people say on the streets

>Be walking outside
>See pretty girl
>Want to fuck
Girls. How do I communicate to a girl that I want to screw and achieve it?

just come up to them and ask for a quick game for a quick kiss. Then if she plays along, ask if she fancies a fuck, at this point, why not?

How often do people plan 1-on-1 hang outs with someone of the opposite sex, especially if they just plan to be friends. I keep misinterpreting this.

Depends on the person.
I hanged out with my male closest friend daily in college. Now that we're older we hang out once or twice a month alone, but more often with our SOs.

>zinc shot my libedo through the roof
Yeah I don't know about that, this whole thing isn't really even about sex but is sexual. I'll tell him about the zinc and he already has done the abstinence thing and didn't help. I'm trying not to make a big deal of it to him. Thanks though.

What the oldest age guy an 18 year old girl should be dating? Should they be at a similar level of intelligence or would it be acceptable for the guy to be much smarter?

Any laydees with bipolar or bpd?

Was talking to this girl for a month who I’d known in highschool and she randomly hit me up to hook up when she was manic. A few days later she apologized and told me she’s really not promiscuous and wanted to hang out sometime to really catch up. So I decided to formally ask her out and she just wanted to hang at her place and smoke weed. I was a little anxious mainly because I knew she’d be different from the first night we met and she was, but in a good way. Then she unloaded that she’d been raped last year and had ptsd which wasn’t exactly a turn on but I still had pussy goggles on so it didn’t phase me. We didn’t sleep together that night but it did get a little hot and heavy with both of us half naked. Said she had a great time and we should do it again and even reassured me the next day over text that she wanted to see me again. Then she fell off the face of the earth. It’s been a month now and I still can’t get over it. I remember her saying to me how much she hates people not being upfront and just saying no so it just feels even more spiteful with that in mind. Was I just some toy to keep her mania entertained until she got bored?

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If a girl is checking you out and you decide to add her on social media, would it be a bad move? what would she expect? if anything at all

The zinc also increased total volume by an annoying amount.
Kegels could help too

You and your partner should be as similar as possible in terms of age, intelligence, education, socio-cultural background, etc.

So there's this cashier at my local gas station I believe is into me, her body language was so clear which has never happened to me before possibly out of retardation, but anyways I wouldn't mind asking her out or just to talk how should I go about this? show up here and there then ask her out for coffee or just go straight for the kill next time I see her?

Also another question should I try to go there on purpose or go with the flow?

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Is the 'half your age +7' rule applicable to that? How can you really gauge intelligence?

Have him drink a lot of water. Zinc, as well as Sunflower Lecithin can help him shoot farther. Edge him a bit too, do some lengthy foreplay when keep bringing him to the point of ejaculation then immediately stop. Rinse and repeat until you think it’s enough

My friend is a very handsome guy, not gonna lie, but he's a bit of a fuck boy in the way he looks and acts.
I'm not too bad myself but I'm kind of more "rugged" and wear jeans with some sweater or jumper so I'm not too flashy.
Everywhere we go, shops and whatnot, girls always flirt and look at him even though he hasn't really got much of a personality and doesn't really do anything.
When the two of us are around 100% of the time girls pay attention to him. It feelsbadman, but what can you do, I'm just wondering if there's any girls out there that would actually pay more attention to me than him in these kind of scenarios, its hard meeting women as it is for me, but all he has to do is ask for the number except he's too dumb to see they're flirty with him, but every time he's around my chances go all the way down to 0% so the only way to actually talk to girls and gauge their reaction is if I'm on my own.
Do girls really pay that much attention to looks and don't give others a chance to show they might at least be more interesting? I do attract some women when I'm on my own but I feel like every time a more attractive option presents itself, I have no reason to be there anymore since at that point all attention is given to looks and not personality.
Perfect example right here: the other day we went to some shop and the cashier was cute, so I made some joke and she laughed but once the joke was over she shifted her attention back to him and said something like "see you around" but completely ignored me, he said nothing throughout this whole thing so I can only assume she went straight for the looks. Feels shitty hanging out with better looking people, hard not to feel bad about it when he's bragging about all the looks he's gotten throughout the day. Any hope for guys like me?

More volume the better for this purpose and don't expect this to become part of our normal sex life. Just want to do it and check the box.

Thats a lot of work for me and just want to kneel there let him ejaculate on me a lot and maybe take some pictures so I can see what its like. I've talked to my friends that have and most don't like it but have at one time.

Girls same as guys focus on the best looking in front of them. So there are times you are around other friends the girls are focused on just you. Thats what happens with you are friends with a really handsome guy. I had one and it was insane what some of the girls would do and say and he'd just laugh and stand there but I fucked a lot of girls because of it and we tag teamed some.

Get good at telling stories. Often it is how we say what we have to say that is interesting, not the topic.

Also, I can think of two or three girls in my life that I would listen to about anything. I just enjoy being in their presence, their voice, how they tell a story.

reminds me of a time I was in a bar with a fiend of mine, he was talking to a girl and he asked her what do u do? she answered and immediately after asked me what I do ignoring my friend who asked her.

I’m so lonely that I feel my skin get cold when I think about cuddling with someone, I just can’t take it anymore. I pretty attractive, thought I’ve been only told this by gay guys that hit on me but not women, I have around a 1.1 million net worth and I’m only 20, but yet I have no one to share it with. I just want a girl to hold, it’s not even about sex anymore.

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Either gender. Containment post.

Okay, I know its probably a bad idea to ask out the student whateverthefuck president of my community college who came in one day wearing patriarchy hoop earrings, but... like... howww baaaad?

1 million?

I'll put on a dress and suck your dick if you pay my rent for the year

I have no answer but hot damn is that 1950s hot rod look hot on girls. Hoop earrings, tight leather pants, leopard print top showing some tit. Holy fuck, yes.

Girls,

Have you ever changed your mind about a guy? How did you decide a guy you liked, was now unlikable? What about undateable to dateable?

Guys say that girls will never change their mind about a guy. Is this true or just sour grapes.

What is the explanation for those amateur porn videos with couples that are one really ugly/weird looking/sometimes even fat guy and one pretty and in shape girl?

I'm not talking about the high brow stuff. I mean those really shoddy amateur videos you see where it's literally just a couple fucking in their bedroom on a shitty camera. And the dude is really weird looking and not conventionally attractive at all, while the girl is really attractive.

What's the explanation? Why would good looking girls have intimate relationships with such hideous guys if money isn't involved?

She could be drunk or high
You don't know she wasn't paid
They're from a small town where people aren't so shallow.

Probably made in some state where prostitution is illegal but making porn is not. So ugly dudes us it as a loophole.

>have close female friend
>whenever our circle hangs out, I usually walk her to her car out of courtesy and because the area can get shady at night
>she always offers ti drive me to my car in exchange
>I like to walk, but she always makes a joke that I could get raped, and is very adamant about it
>laugh it off but lately it's been getting to me as this happens every time

As I typed that out I realize it sounds stupid but how badly am I overthinking it? Ive always been looked at as soft and it makes me feel emasculated that she doesn't think I could take care of myself if something were to happen.

These seem like poor excuses to me.

Like the simplest explanation for the videos is just that they really are couples. Also you have those couples who churn out semi-amateur videos, and the dude is usually ugly or average looking or fat, and the girl is pretty. And they're probably making money off of it at that point BUT the premise is that when they started out they were just a kinky couple that decided to record shit.

Also I see plenty of these couples IRL too, where the dude is just not very good looking or is very plain, and the girl is stunningly attractive.

I just wanna know why girls do this. Why do they go out with bad looking men?

$$$$

But that isn't what happens most the time. Why are you making excuses?

Are you telling me you've never met a dude who is average looking, unkempt, and poor, yet mysteriously has a good looking girlfriend or has sex with good looking girls? Because I know plenty of guys like that.

I know one.
He's also the most popular guy I know, witty, and charismatic.
Git gud at something and it makes up for average looks

You can't learn charisma and wit, those are traits you are born with or develop in early childhood.

I tried to "looks max" by improving my physical appearance in every way possible, from physique, to hairstyle/facial hair, to fashion. But it hasn't gotten me anywhere. Guys who put no effort into their appearance still have more luck with girls than I do, by far.

College ended last friday and I didn't get the opportunity to ask out this girl. How long should I wait before asking her out by text ? I want to sort out my life a bit first so I'm more presentable, but is it weird to text a girl you've barely talked to 1-2 weeks after college ended ? I'll never see her again otherwise and I don't think she'll text me first

So Jow Forums, i know this girl, a friend of a friend, we have met several times over the past years, but never gotten to know each other, last night we ended up talking thru the entire night.

The subject went to relationships and she claims to not be in one even tho i know (she dont know i know) that she is seeing someone from time to time. She also talks about a crush she had on a common friend and mentions, "...but nothing will ever happen between him and i"

Is there a reason she denies and dismisses other guys she sees and have crushes on to me?

>Seeing someone from time to time

So she's single. The only way to know if she likes you is to ask her out

"I haven't tried so it's not possible"

You can social skills max with self help books, therapy, and meetup groups. It's hard because it opens you up to social rejection.

This isn't really a question to girls per se but all people itt. There's a girl in my school and she's really into me. Let's call her K. K is about 50-80 kilo overweight. She also only about 1,50 tall. Her face is in no way appealing and her character just radiates cringe and blue-pilled. I know for a fact that she's into me. We are even going to go to prom together because K asked me about 3 months earlier than normal and I had no partner at that time. I do have enough dignity and honor left to not say no when I even don't have a partner of my own. I don't like her.
And I think he's in denial because I made it pretty clear that I don't like her. I didn't actually say: "I don't like you that way K.", but you'd have to willingly ignore the signals I am sending her to not notice that.
And there's this other girl I feel like I'm attracted to. Let's call her N. N seems (or at least the mental image I have of N) like the perfect partner for me and I think a relationship with her would make me happy. Maybe it would help in lessening the surges of depression I have. I think I would be a good bf for her. I talked with N mostly over WhatsApp. N, K and I are in the same class. I think N and K are friends.

I really want to ask N out but I Never had a girlfriend and am really inexperienced in these sort of things. I look like a 6 or 7. I'm 195 cm tall and more on the skelly side of body proportions.

How do I maneuver around the probable drama that is going to be caused by this situation? I really want to ask N out. How do I do that?

Please help me.

>ugly guy cannot ever have attractive girl
grow up

I saw a girl I sorta know meme about being fat and single (pretty sure she's never had a bf). Many would consider her average, but I think she's cute. So figured I would ask her out to food and a movie since I'm in a good spot in life and can try out dating some. Send the message and get left on read. She's kinda a busy person, but still bummed she didn't give a reply. Should I just forget about it? Been a couple of weeks.

No
and
No
>she could have been mistaken or had false/anecdotal evidence
>abusiverelationship.exe
>keeping him around for sex
>he has money and supported her
>ect
x/2+7=18
x/2=11
11×2=22
Like going after the top lioness as a gazelle.
Yeah, because sometimes ya'll do shit that is disgusting. Unfriend, Unfollow, Unsubscribe from your shit. idc if you are ryan reynolds stunt double, gtfo.

>so autistic i flip of in the general direction of where my ex-gf lives

jesus christ........

Girls, would you date a guy who’s 9-10/10 cute and muscular and tall but is quiet and a little socially awkward

>exgf told me 4 months ago when we were seeing each other again after breaking up for about 3 months that i should watch out for her, hold her in my arms all that stuff
>2 months later she's with that guy
Just wow...

Okay, so what does it mean when your girlfriend wants to call/text every day? Now I'm not saying that I don't like the attention but she wants to talk all day, like I don't have stuff to do. I asked her why she does that and she just giggles and says "idk I like hearing ur voice teehee". It's kind of weird though, like we'll run out of things to talk about and when I try to hang up she'll get mad at me. This seems kind of weird to me, but idk I've never really been in a relationship before.

its just girlfriend wants to talk with boyfriend. content doesnt matter.

Oh, okay thanks

>ask girl out on a DATE
>she agrees have to schedule it for a while later because reasons
>post a pic on my snapchat with my sister eating oysters
>she msgs me asking where her invite was
>tell her it's dollar oysters every monday
>she says "we are going next monday"
>"already planning a second date huh"
>"not a date hanging out
trying to keep it CAS"
I'm confused if she presumes us going out is a platonic thing even though i specified date

Can you femanons tell us about your love of narcotics?

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I may be wrong but depending on what kind of a girl she is, she might just want to start off as friends and then see where it goes, if she even likes you. Unless you've been friends prior to that. Just keep your cool and don't pressure the idea of a date, hang out, have a good time, show her that you see her as an interesting person who MIGHT end up in a relationship with you, don't assume relationship yet because she'll know you're desperate and by the nature of it, she'll be less and less attracted to you, but if you show you're interesting and you're being yourself she might fall for you and eventually want to date. But its a guess, I don't know her, I don't know you and your situation. Don't assume anything yet, just see where it goes

She's infatuated. Use this time to build a good relationship with her.

this is the first time i straight up used the word DATE when asking a woman out. The reason I did was to make my intention very clear from the get go given she is someone that i've known of for a while and the few interactions we've had before weren't exactly super flirtatious.

I think you have the right idea. thank you

>Yeah, because sometimes ya'll do shit that is disgusting. Unfriend, Unfollow, Unsubscribe from your shit. idc if you are ryan reynolds stunt double, gtfo

What about the other way? Can a person redeem themselves?

bump

Sure I change my mind sometimes but it's not very common and it is much more likely when I never knew that person very well to begin with, so it's mostly a first impression that gets corrected when I get to know someone better. From the top of my head I once knew a guy from university who struck me as friendly, playful etc, but after getting to know him a little better I realized he was spontaneous and into people but not a very pleasant person. It was little things, like telling about how a friend of his was buying a girl drinks all night and she just took them and opted to talk to [my acquaintance] instead of him, and far from feeling guilty or sorry he obviously enjoyed that memory. This is only one example, there was more.

I have become interested in people who did not stand out to me much the first time(s) I saw them but once I wrote someone off for whatever reason so far I never changed my mind. I don't rule it out in the future though.

Imo, does it happen yes, is it worth waiting around and betting for her to change her mind, no absolutely not.

>Yeah, because sometimes ya'll do shit that is disgusting
Can you give some examples? Are you talking about shit like having terrible hygeine or behavioral? I’ve had interested women disappear on me and I’ve always kept myself clean and never acted like a cunt so what gives

I'm not too well-versed in social media etiquette, as far as I know if you somewhat know each other and it seems like you caught her eye it's cool but don't expect too much from it. Definitely don't add her without messaging just expecting something to happen. And yeah she'll realize right away you are into her, not sure if you care about that or not.

She's either not really interested in dating you or unsure and doesn't want pressure. It's not a good sign that she corrected you, that's for sure.

It's good that you specified but honestly the whole "I didn't realize this was a date" is just something to say when you feel awkward and put on the spot. It only matters if you want to be sure you won't take out a girl who is not interested in you romantically. Otherwise whether or not she realizes it's a date is not going to impact her feelings. Just take her out (without paying all sorts of shit for her) and see what vibe you get from how much she engages and reciprocates. If in doubt and really not wanting to see her again unless there's potential, just tell her you're interested in more and would love to see her again but if she already knows you don't click like that for her you'd rather know it now.

I'm sure many girls would and on paper this is great but in practice if I couldn't talk easily with a guy I would not develop feelings for him. I am not picky, many men are cute to me and I don't care about muscle.

This is obviously one person's opinion though.

I don't really have any expectations, we're "fresh acquaintances" if that makes sense, but she seems nice and she caught my attention, I think I caught her's too but I don't know if me messaging her even just saying hi and talking about college stuff, how that will come across and if she won't be scared off by it or something. What kind of things do I message her about? at this point I don't mind messaging, just don't know what and where to take it.

The only reason I want to message her now, well 2 reasons,, is that 1) college is over and we won't get to see each other to talk and 2) her friends hate me for no reason, I don't even know them but they seem very stuck up and seem to dislike my personality so its hard to talk to her in person since her friends are always around and I feel like she doesn't wanna talk to me because of her friend's might react. But I caught her looking at me multiple times, on several occasions but I don't know if its just a temporary crush or if she's actually attracted. Based on all that, what do you think I should message? needless to say I'm new to those things so any help is appreciated

I wouldn't date a guy that isn't fun to talk to.
If you're relaxed around me, I don't care.

Sometimes girls will date guys who have worse looks than them. Not everything is black and white.

Given the circumstances I'd just bite the bullet and send a message akin to "hey x, you caught my eye, I think you seem like a really cool person and since we won't really get to talk much with classes being over and all, would you like going for drinks sometime?"

Of course, if you do a little "foreplay" and chat first you can show off humor, charm, whatever to become a specific person in her eyes rather than an interested stranger. But you won't have the chance to do that naturally anymore and it's much harder to have a relaxed, natural chat when not face to face. Besides the moment you talk to her she'll know you're hoping for something more, which is also somewhat different irl. Because of this I'd just take the leap and keep it to the point.

Definitely forget about it. It's at best careless and at worst rude not to reply at all. It's not going to get better if you probe her, she's not interested and it's not your fault. Kudos for giving it a shot.

Sounds like a plan, just worried that she might think I'm coming off too strong, she seems very timid and hardly ever talks in class, don't want to frighten her now so I was hoping to start off with something lighter, just to establish myself as a potential date but nothing serious now, I'm 99% sure it'll work out better than direct message showing interest. She knows my personality since I'm very "present" in college with my autism and humor so she knows I'm easy going and she seems to enjoy the stupid things I do in class, so something along those lines but I feel like I'm just gonna make things awkward if I message her, can't get that feeling out of my system so I need to figure out what to say in that case, to slowly grow on her and not be too forward too fast. Sorry for the excuses and whatever, just don't wanna fuck it up, she seems real nice

Thanks!

Okay first of all, I get that as a guy you're less experienced with this, but yeah many people when infatuated will see a glimmer of hope in EVERYTHING. You should've shut her down and told her no when she asked you to prom. You could've told her you wanted to ask someone else yourself if you couldn't stomach just leaving it at the rejection.

The human mind is flexible and can find a way. I have literally had men tell me, as I was sending them shit like "yes I am sure, I won't change my mind, I'm not into you romantically", the answer "you are still talking to me and you wouldn't do that if you were truly not interested, stop lying to yourself".
You said yes when she asked you to prom. She has a heart full of desire for a shared future. She is going to tell herself shit like "look at what he does, not at what he says". Her friends are going to feel bad for her and won't want to be the ones to tell her that nope, it's not looking good for her.

N might not want to date you because she knows she will lose K's friendship if she does, or because it just makes her feel too guilty. If this is the case nothing you can do will change that. All you can do is try to be graceful. If the prom is on short notice, go, be polite but distant with K, and tell her afterwards
>I don't want to hurt you and this is why I've avoided being more explicit, but I feel like I'm leading you on and that makes me uncomfortable, I just want to be clear that I don't feel romantic towards you
This is how explicit you need to be. No "I don't see myself dating now" or anything like that. Straight up. Yes it fucking sucks. This is why girls ghost, because you feel like Hitler. But you have to. You are prolonging both your discomfort now.
And then ask N out. The only alternative is consulting N about how to reject K, which is a risky strategy and I wouldn't recommend going there.

You keep fucking women instead of dating them you retard. You don't need a psychology degree to know that that's a bad idea. Enjoy your STDs.

A beautiful girl has no issue getting a handsome guy, as a result she might value it less. If the less good looking guy she gave a shot doesn't attract her long term she can always date a model looking guy again.

This is obviously an unprovable opinion but personally I also think women do care less about looks than men do for attraction. That's not to say they don't care of course. I just think there's more components for (young) women that make up "sexy" than for men. Many girls fantasize about being with a man who makes them feel certain ways, who treats and fucks them certain ways. A confident, emotionally intelligent guy with amazing sex skills is rare to find especially when young, rarer than a handsome guy.

Also it is likely to me that if a guy is dating out of his league and knows it, he's more likely to feel desire to show off to the world what a woman he gets to fuck. So I wouldn't rule out that part of the effect is that these couplings are much more than average inclined to tape themselves.

Because male and female mate seeking differs. Basically, we have different priorities.