Why does every internet community that I join eventually ban me?

Why does every internet community that I join eventually ban me?
Basically I'll join a discord server or whatever, this could be anything but let's use the discord server example, I say some stuff, and within a few posts everyone in the server is dogpiling me and spamming weird lil emojis on my posts, and before I know it they're just all utterly against me which has the effect of me getting banned, kicked or muted or whatever if one of those people happens to be a mod.
Why does this happen? Why can't I just talk and have fun like everyone else, why am I everywhere this controversial person?

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we cant tell with only this information, probably you were being really annoying so they had to kick you.

You're not telling us what you did. But the more overarching problem is that you lack self-awareness. I was mod in a discord that had some guy join and start talking in detail about the scat porn he does and start sharing it. No one wants to see that kind of thing, unless you're in a specific discord for it. Something about your messages either annoys people, grosses them out, or offends them. Learn to read the mood and learn what you can get away with around new people.

this happens on Jow Forums too, all the time, I post some opinion of mine and people just tend to respond by spamming memes at me instead of considering what I've said.
It just very alienating is all, everybody treats me like this wacky person and not to prop myself up or anything but sometimes it seems like it's just because they don't understand what I'm saying or aren't picking up what I'm putting down in general... seems kinda like I get judged on the basis of my writing style, which can be grandiose and has its idiosyncrasies, but always resolves or intends to resolve into something meaningful, and I just feel like nobody sees that, they just see me saying shit and immediately want to make me the butt of their lil satirical games which includes pepe and wojack pics, random quotations/greentext of things ive said, and in general just a very high level of incredulity being put forward... don't know what's up with this.

Don't think I'm overtly annoying and my content is always within norms, like I'm not some zany online weirdo or anything, I just post things in a similar vein as what you're seeing right now. Maybe I'm too verbose?

also pic related, an interaction I just had that shows the kind of stuff I usually say online... my last post was something from my soundcloud and I wanted some opinions on it, if it was good, bad etc... am I being annoying here? I honestly legitimately cannot tell if I am or not.

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Because we are spoon fed forever to hate people based on their outward apperance and opinions. See that pothead over there? His parents must be absent. Hey that girl on the second floor is a hooker, must be dumb as a rock... and so on

I mean I like to say funny things and generally just stretch my vocabulary or experiment with my turn of phrase, but I think people are just thinking I'm autistic or something? Like are they not catching the playfulness? I'm not saying they're the problem I'm just putting forward the impression I sometimes get from it which is mainly "this guy thinks he's smart so let's try to tell him otherwise through ridicule" or something of this general extraction. Am I just being annoying? I see other people spamming unfunny memes all day so I don't really get how I'm being annoying.
What yall think?

what's wrong with my outward persona though? isn't it at least interesting?

Yeah, you're pretty damn annoying.

how so

Its only as interesting as people make it out to be. When I was a teen I used to think being quirky or sort of aloof was THE shit as far as personality goes. Nowadays I grew more cynical and cringe at that past ideal of coolness.

You seem like you really want/need attention, you also keep spamming inane shit, that example you posted says it all. Sharing trash content in the wrong channel and spamming for replies.

People just aren't impressed man, I guess you make them feel awkward. You just need to chill out a bit and find the strength to stfu more about your shit and engage in their inane shit, you need to interact with people not make them interact with you.

You're annoying as fuck. Learn to shut up and respect the board culture. If you were in my server I'd tell you outright the same thing. You act entitled as shit. Even when someone was supportive you were a stupid cunt. You talk too much and act like everyone should give a fuck about you for some reason.

Also stop being pretentious. Flex your vocabulary all you want but it makes you seem like a tryhard when you're not eloquent to begin with.

1. Looks like you posted to the inappropriate channel for your own music critique. They didn't want to listen and then you demanded comment then you didn't like what they said
2. "I don't subscribe to low-culture" yeah don't hop on someone's discord, demand critique in the wrong room, and act condescending. I can understand that you didn't mean to come off this way but you did.
3. Some people don't like ellipsis(...) and when they don't like it... they really don't like it... it can come off as... cringy...

Don't think we're fundamentally talking about the same thing here... I'm not trying to be quirky and just personally I think people who 'cringe' at others are just dumb faggots with overblown notions of, and adherence to, normalcy which makes them basically NPCs. Now obviously the notion of NPCs in itself is 'cringe' since it implies I'm special, but see I'm taking this the extra level of indirection and rejecting this in favor of a sort of new sincerity, that emphasizes a lack of social mediation, and unconditional aspects of communicating. Yes, most people are NPCs but this isn't me being edgy rather it's me becoming disillusioned with the sort of 'slow and mature' wisdom which has become so commonplace that it's rarely ever recognized as basically irrational which it is.

>which makes them basically NPCs

I've heard of this before, are you by any chance that other dude from the other day saying he was going to Harvard? Pretty sure I've heard of that NPC talk before. C'mon dude, it's cool you think highly of yourself but not everyone is completely ignorant. We learn new things almost every day if we want to.

Think he was being ironic hence the all-caps.
Also think you're a dumb loser lol, shut the fuck up faggot talking about eloquence jesus christ... look at you bro you're purple.

Dude, you're a tool. Get off your high horse. Imagine the following:
>You go to a new country
>Your culture is vastly different
>Rather than respect the culture of the locals you try to force them to accept yours
>Act surprised when they don't like you
Have some self-awareness. You're unlikeable because you think you're superior and don't respect other people. Even now you're talking down to them because they have their own cultural norms.

If you were a pedophile would you use this same argument as your defense? They need to think for themselves and are adhering to standard normalcy so they are therefore just NPCs!

Know Your Place. Stop thinking you're enlightened. You're just another stupid asshole like the rest of us. You're even less wise because you're "disillusioned" enough to think you're somehow smarter than everyone else. If you were really so elite you wouldn't be here asking for advice.

Please stop being a nuisance and they will like you more. You are certainly the problem. Just let it go and start over.

You were being annoying but they were also a clique of immature people. Recipe for failure. Try again somewhere else and be more polite.

I'm not going to harvard, harvard students arent exempt from the mass-man label nor is anyone else who actively participates in the shared illusion of industrial society - and are such because of this participation, because through it they believe in vague and nebulous notions, like laws, like respecting social norms, like career, industry, economy... they believe in the power of consumption and production as legitimate standards of life - they believe the current labor conditions as being inherent to life... most people simply believe in all this hypernymic nonsense... and then they'll come onto the internet and talk about how I'm cringey for thinking I'm any different. Don't know what they want from me, all I want from them is some fuckin friendliness or whatever idk. I'm trying my best to fit in but it's not really working hence this thread... again I regret to say all this because it's just gonna prompt an endless stream of "wow that's cringe bro" type meme posts or otherwise it's the hyperviolent "you pretentious fuck" type posts. Just want someone to understand for once lol.

this kinda an example of the latter type of post I've described... just don't understand this lol.
I don't think I'm enlightened, you just think I think I'm enlightened. Like I'm just saying what I think and you're ascribing a sort of pompousness to me which isn't there to begin with.
You're like stradlater from catcher in the rye because you think everybody who presents differently is secretly just a big smarty pants lol... like behind all my big words and concepts I'm actually just really average, cause that's what you really want to believe... faggot. What if I'm not average? I mean I value humility quite a lot and wouldn't really try to put myself over anyone else, but when other people try to bring me to their level I feel like I have to.

like when you use big words and all the retards get uppity because from their point of view you're being a tryhard or a smart aleck lol. find that a lot on this board wonder why

Anyone who's mean to others over trivial shit like ellipses is a petty little bitch that needs to stop viewing the world through such eyes clouded by anger.

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You need to lurk before posting.

you are presumably not a 13-year-old, stop acting like one.
no, you're not different. you sound exactly like the average Jow Forumsatheism poster.
you can't just join a community and expect them to greet you like an old friend and put up with your stupid quirks and jokes from day one.
you wouldn't walk up to a random girl on the street, hug her, ask her how her day was and expect her to respond positively, would you? you need to become friends first, right? it's the same thing with internet communities.

As intelligent as you may be it seems you lack the social intellect needed for this challenge.

A fish may swim flawlessly but if you ask it to climb a tree you'll find it rather useless.

Obviously your behavior makes you stand out in a negative way so again I emphasize this: learn to say less. Especially when you're the new guy. It is how you set yourself up for failure.

I've been pretty hard on you in this thread but I feel I'm starting to understand you better. Your problem is that you see a bigger picture but don't know how to talk on a level suitable for the layman. You're seeking comrades where there are none for you. But you're also willing to try something new by being here and asking, so I'll stop being so rough and offer some kind of sincerity beyond my hostility.

Ive met a number of people like you who only know how to speak with mastery of the english language that is quite honestly beyond the average reader. I am able to understand you but have to actually take my time to do so. Youre communicating using exact words but these words are alien to people who just use common English.

Again, consider the foreigner angle only now it's language. You speak a different English and they don't have patience for you. Find simple ways to express yourself and don't overextend. If they aren't receptive move on. 7 billion people out here. Just find the right ones.

You came here and asked this because you noticed a pattern.

Assuming someone isn't larping as the OP, your problem is lack of experience.
You are insecure.
That is why you care in the first place to make this thread.
Heads up, unless you achieve chim, or go full sociopath, you are always going to have some form of validation seeking behavior, it's normal.
What you are going through now is finding contacts to validate you, that you can validate in return in a social contract.
Keep looking, try to learn and question, and try to be okay with social rejection.

goddamn OP even in this thread you come off as a super annoying attentionwhore. perhaps you aren’t cut out for online communities

Low key ironic post

It means communities with accounts and bans aren't for you. Stay on Jow Forums.

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how is anything I've said related to atheism. fucking idiot faggot shut up, you're the 13-year-old in this scenario... I hate all of you, im sorry I made this thread. im sorry for expecting people to look past basal norms... everybody else is just cool and mature like this guy with his double spacing and bad verb agreement, or this guy with his apparently totalitarian discord server... you're all just way cooler and smarter than me, I'm nothing compared to you. My use of ellipsis is cringe bro and I am just pretentious but behind it all I'm actually really stupid, it's all an act, I'm no different from anybody else you find on the street who works their wage and goes drinking on the weekends.

Anyone who goes on discord for friends is a retard

Fucking hate all you faggots with your big overwrought criticisms of me, fuck you. Imagine being some average loser who thinks he's being all frank and well-spoken while he types out a bunch of badly worded normie shit about not being pretentious or whatever... you're just another dumb loser with shallow polemical abilities with nothing to say but these dumb banal platitudes... you're stupid and haven't even ruminated on your own stupidity so you go on Jow Forums and be like "DUDE YOU ARE ANNOYING AS FUCK. STEP DOWN OFF OF YOUR "HIGH HORSE" AS YOU ARE QUITE PRETENTIOUS" just because I used some words you don't know, or said something contrary to popular consensus. Fucking dumb bootlicking faggots fuck you.

>people called me names, a bloo bloo
grow up

I think part of your problem is that your writing style is very "stream of consciousness", while at the same time being really flowery and verbose. Break down your sentences into smaller statements and don't use complex vocabulary when it isn't necessary.

Also don't let people get under your skin so much lol.

OP sucks and is a troll. He continues to blame everyone else and relies on ad hominem to insult people.

YOU ARE THE PROBLEM

reading through your replies in this thread, it's painfully obvious

no meme, are you autistic or something?

"anyone wish to comment on my post"
no, if people wanted to they WOULD HAVE.
"cold..."
this just makes it awkward to deal with you dude
"blah blah
blah
blahblahblah"
you come off as depressed/low energy
"damn, so I'm generic
anyway that's wrong give me the right answer that I'm good because I need validation and you need to take care of me but I'm not quite that open"
"huh that's a bit pejorative brother"
Man, fuck off. I'm not mad over your use of the word pejorative, it's that you're such a negative nancy.

"well unfortunately it the only one i have access to"
you're making it sound like you're GOING TO stay in this channel to post soundclouds. I know you probably meant to say "I only have access to this one right now, sorry about that can you give me access to more channels?"
but that's not what you said. You're challenging the power structure with no equal power (charisma or any other form of power you have nothing)

first, you're not controversial. Second:

thats not how you use pejorative.

you sound very young, and trying to express yourself with advanced vocab. Stop it and just speak plainly.

Third: all social settings have norms and customs. some are very simple, some are complex and nuanced. When you join a new one and post without any regard to this fact, you are not acting harmoniously with that setting. You are inviting yourself up for ban by not having the patience to read the tea leaves of the new place

assholes like you are the reason this board is full of shitty advice and shitty people that should just stop fucking giving advice.
fuck off, you're not helping him, it'd be better if you didn't say anything at all.

OP, I'll be your friend, add me, it's
Desty#0220
play around with the d. I think it's supposed to be capital letter because when I tell people it's desty#0220 they say they can't add me but then I tell them to try a big letter and they say "nvm got it"

lmaooo what an incel

Red, I consider the fact that you're explaining yourself so thoroughly to be very sincere. I consider your mind to be quite insightful into stuff I've thought about too but noticed escapes most peoples' heads because they're thinking about more immediate things. I used to not be liked either but I learned how to interact with different kinds of people, and I've learned a lot by the age of 20.

I don't know why people ban you, I don't personally ban or kick people unless they're actually causing problems. The easy fix would just be asking you to please stop posting in ways that are disruptive or spammy. It's annoying when people screech in a voice call, so people tend to mute those people. If you can stop long enough to recognize that your behavior isn't fitting that particular community then just move alone.

I've been told my server is pretty chill compared to others because I just want to enjoy discourse about games or media with people who share my passion.

Based on your posting patterns you seem very prone to defend yourself or get aggressive quickly when things start to go south. I encourage you to just take it easy, friend. Float on. As much as some people may let you down, remember that all of us will die all the same in the end. Rather than focus on why they're different from you, try to build on those strengths born from what you have in common. Hope this helps.

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Ok so from what I gathered from this thread and what you showed us is that you may have an issue of taking criticism of any kind because you believe criticism should come in a specific way. Now the thing you are going through is that you get alienated by the opinions of others instead of taking their replies in strides. You should always know that the internet is filled with people who will say ANYTHING to get under your skin while just passing by. Try to ignore those posts. They werent well thought out and you shouldnt give them any thought and dont respond at all.
You seem to feel like your character is under attack and you lash right back thinking you are in the right.
Maybe its time for some self reflection and see what you can do to better yourself.