Stopped having sex

My gf rarely has sex with me at this point.
We've been together for 2 years now. She's a good woman, yadda yadda yadda - you've heard it before.
But there's almost no sex at this point, and even when we do have sex, most of the time she stops midway and I don't even get to bust a fucking nut.
And she always makes up an excuse to go along with it too.
>my tummy hurts
>my vagina hurts
>I'm sore
>we'll finish it later (sure m8)
>I need to go to tue bathroom (and then she just """"forgets"""" we had sex 5 minutes earlier)
And it'd be fine by me. But she gets between ME and MY PORN when I want to bust a fat fucking nut because she's been edging me for a week and I ain't about that shit.
She literally gets upset that I want to bust one to big booty bitches, MEANWHILE she doesn't want to put out herself.

What the fuck do I do?

>inb4 just talk it out bro hurrrmrmr
I've talked with her about it several times now. She just repeats the same old
>my pussy hurts wah wah wah
And I don't jump around the topic, I was as straight as you could be, and she still didn't settle for a solution beneficial to both of us.

At the very least, how do I make her fuck off and let me best my meat?

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Tell her that you are done trying until she sees a doctor to figure out what her problem is that she can't keep up with you.

Hold her down next time and force finish.

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Tried that, she just got mad and called me a fucking asshole.

Also tried that. She says it's somehow my fault that her shit hurts.
Dunno why, my dick is kinda average, has some girth to it, but nothing out of the ordinary.
Also we make sure she's wet - lube, spit by the bucketload, oil, etc.

Are you hitting her cervix?

When I start pounding the shit out of her, then yeah.
But I'll let you guess how often that happens, kek.
So, basically I don't.

Sounds like this might be the problem

are you a dumb nigger who tries way too hard to wreck her pussy? I know the blacks like to try that shit.

>She says it's somehow my fault that her shit hurts.
She’s an idiot. Sex isnt supposed to hurt. You gotta convince her to see a doctor because it could be part of s bigger problem

t. male

Considering the fact that she get in the way of your porn is a dead sign that she doesn't have a medical condition. She think she has you "locked down" so now she doesn't have to put out. Whatever she says is bullshit. I guarantee you if some hot guy came by that gave her tingles she would let him fuck the shit out of her.


Be distant with her. I don't know if you two live together or not but same shit regardless. Get out of the house, don't spend much attention to her, get your own hobbies and be indifferent to her.

This is the classic route which usually follows after she has gotten too comfortable.

Once she notices you stopped giving her attention and she THINKS you might be into another girl, I BET she will start having sex again.

If not, dump the bitch and find a girl who puts out.

Yeah this is one way to go if nothing else works then do it

Nope, I take it easy.

>she would let him fuck the shit out of her
Nope. She's a typical southern girl with an attitude. Treats our relationship like it's commanded by God, aka - once fucked some thot up because that thot bit my neck.
And I'm not in denial either, she straight up tells dudes to fuck off. Literally.

>out of the house
Did this already. I play basketball with my dudes daily, also go to the gym, and work on my car.

>I BET
That's where you're wrong, buddy.

Then your girl just doesn't want to have sex with you. Bet.

Get a new girlfriend. Or better yet, no girlfriend, have your fun as a single man.

>doesn't want to have sex with you
It's in the OP, my dude. Tell me something new.

leaving aside the sexual dysfunction, why doesn't she want you watching porn? I find it really creepy and controlling when people set those kinds of boundaries in relationships. like the kinds of people who get pissed just because their boyfriend/girlfriend says that someone else looks hot. it's a sign of insecurity and unhealthy amounts of jealousy.

Sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex with you. If she's not getting anything out of sex then why would she want to have sex with you? Maybe make an effort, don't put your dick in straight away, lots of foreplay, make it romantic or whatever it is she likes, put the emphasis on her for a change instead of pounding her cervix (You don't have to be large for this to happen, it's an angle thing and yeah, it can be unpleasant without any other stimulation) and getting off without ever giving her anything back.

>When I start pounding the shit out of her, then yeah
I'm gonna go ahead and read between the lines here and assume that this is what you try to do every time and that's when she tells you to stop.

tell her that she is becoming less of the woman you loved and ca-
she is cheating on you, get the shot gun.

THIS.

It is not normal to hurt. There are several conditions (that dont have to be relate to STDs, but they could) that can be causing it.

Also, you could tell her to ride you. That way she can be in control of how much goes in and how :).

Fuckme

I literally just came on this site to post very similar story. Along with the sex, sometimes she doesn’t want to make out. Just now I tried to kiss her and she’s all “no I have my period everything hurts I just don’t want to move” then later I try kissing her neck she says my moustache is tickling her (I usually clean shave I just haven’t in a while).

I’m about to break up with her desu. The difference between a friendship and a relationship is physical intimacy. Even as innocent as a kiss for a few seconds. If I can’t get that. I’m done.

Sounds like she's not that into you anymore. Best for you (two) is to break up and find some real partner.

GL user, you'll find it.

terminate the relationship
she has clearly lost attraction to you. once this happens, the likelihood of getting it back is negligible

thats some weird shit, i think she just want the company and she's very comfortable with you (used to).
and if she's not lying about it hurting she should go to a gynecologist..
but if she doesnt want to fuck anymore you should make a choice mate

Begin to exercise you seductive abilities with other women. As soon as you can be certain you'll get what you want from other women, tell your girlfriend that you'll be around in all other aspects of the relationship. but that you're going to open of sexually with other women. She won't have anything to worry about, since you're not going to develop relationships with other women romantically, only sexually.

>inb4 this user will be divorced at some point
1. The alternative is to break up, so if you having sex (whether it is with her or someone else) is a dealbreaker for her, she'll break up at some point anyway
2. The number of women who'll be fine with an open arrangement is most likely much higher that you might expect
3. If she's not fine with it, you can use this as leverage for her getting her shit fixed. Consider it a shit test in the most enterprising way, since there is an actual high-risk/high-stake on your part, but you'll be able to tell how much you mean to her by the end of it. In 3 out of 3 possible outcomes you'll be able to fuck. It's either going to be her, her and other women or just other women.

or just break up with her, it'd be easier on them both

Birth control and BV can make you dry and cause you to hurt. She should go to the dr.

But wouldn't it be fun if she said sure go ahead

better to just end it on reasonably good terms

Why? OP doesn't mention anything else that's broken in the relationship. Why ruin that when he can get both?

because converting a closed relationship into an open relationship to "fix" it will just lead to more drama and suffering for both of them down the line. trust me, I've been there.

nothing against open relationships in themselves, I'm in one now and it's great, but they have to be open from the start. trying to transition into an open relationship after years of dating NEVER works.

>spit by the bucketload
DO NOT.
THAT CAN GIVE HER A NASTY INFECTION YOU DIRTY MONGOLOID.
DOCTOR
NO MORE SEX.

I've never had a gf so I wouldn't understand, but can't you just cum in her mouth to finish off if she doesn't want you to finish inside her?

>Tried that, she just got mad and called me a fucking asshole.

Ok maybe she's cheating on you.

You seem to not have read my original post at where I clearly stated several times
>The alternative is to break up

I'm simply suggesting that it's worth a swing at, you never know. Also stating that it never can work seem rather anecdotal.

My girlfriend and I go at it raw a couple times a week minimum usually, she lets me put it in her butt, her mouth, she's let me do some degenerate licking, and yet I still both masturbate and have her blessing to do so (as she has mine to do so of course).

I think the problem is like some have said, she's comfortable. Sexual compatibility is very real though, and you very much need it, and it very much includes quantifying as well as qualifying the sexual interactions.
Whether or not you bottom out and pound her cervix is irrelevant on its own; all of these things together make your sexual compatibility and between you and your ho, it kind of looks like there's little to none.

Get rid of the girl (she doesn't seem to care too much about you, just possessing you and the likes, get rid of that disgusting picture, get rid of porn and ultimately live a better life.

You're bad at sex/not attractive, so much that she gets turned off halfway through sex.

If she has no concern or care about your sexual well being, she probably doesn't care much about you at all.

my gf sometimes goes for long periods of time where her libido is just gone and wants nothing to do with sex but she is never a bitch about it and would still do what she could to satisfy me and would definitely never ever get in the way of me just jacking off.

If she cares about you, she would put some effort in or at very least stay out of your way of satisfying yourself.

She’s always been against PDA. But like we’ll be hanging out for a bit then I’ll go for a kiss then she’ll squirm and go “no not now”. It’s embarrassing tbqh

How often do you have sex? American average is 2.5 times a week for couples. Has she gone from all the time to never? Seldom to rare? Literally tell her you need sex then plan a date, do a proper date and have sex, once a week. Dinner movie sex. If she and you both can't find a compromise then leave and save yourself the trouble.

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