Why do women like erotic literature so much as compared to men who like video pornography more?

Why do women like erotic literature so much as compared to men who like video pornography more?

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Men respond stronger to visual stimulation.
In audio and erotica it’s a lot about how the people are feeling, their intentions, how and what about the interaction they are enjoying, the intricate emotional and mental parts ect

It's actually an even split of men versus women porn comsumption.
It's stereotyped that we prefer erotic novels because we're "emotional beings" and thus recieve more mental stimulation from a book or text based rp.

Porn is very male-centred. It's hard to enjoy porn for me because you can tell it is recorded for men.
Erotica is not the same.

Erotic literature does more emotionally and well more erotic than just porn.
You ever notice in porn the dialogue is terrible and the acting is even worse so the only thing you end up skipping to are the money shots? Well Erotic literature takes the parts we tend to skip and make them good and often than not you are quicker to bust a nut if you have good acting and dialogue.

Women need the a good drama for sex to be pleasurable. Involving the whole world around us. Not rented hotel rooms with awful scripts written with a quick meaningless orgasm in mind as boys get off to.

Visual porn never has enough sexy man it’s all about tits and ass which I don’t care for

Even as a guy I find erotica does a better job for fetishes than porn

All of this.

Also, while porn is already unrealistic, it tends to portray womens' pleasure especially unrealistically. Stuff like women orgasming easily from penetration (when up to 90% of women need clitoral stimulation first), as well as tending to show women being very into rough or aggressive acts that most aren't into irl. Even what the camera focuses on is almost exclusively catering to a male perspective.

In general, mainstream porn can be a pretty unwelcoming place for women. Not all women, not all porn, etc., but you can't really blame your average girl for preferring an erotic story where the guy is an attentive lover that focuses on her pleasure and goes down on her over porn where it's all about the money shots.

>clitoral stimulation first

I meant to say during or in addition

Men like it just as much, but they aren't allowed to emotionally engage with eroticism to the point that women are encouraged to.

For men, sex is a mechanical act, and the idea of elevating it beyond that is actually quite transgressive.

Women would prefer a bevy of fuck-bots ready and wiling with priapisms raised like spears against their waiting vaginas, ready to penetrate like good little soldiers, because it confirms the very real suspicion they have about anyone who wants to fuck their body, which is a pretty large percentage of the population at any given moment.

But guys know that there are limits to this logic, and desire the kind of deeper love-making that might include the sort of mutual nurturing that both parties would find ecstasy in.

It's a threat to women who don't want to have to imagine guys who know this.

It's a threat to guys who know this, but fear that they'll never live up to such expectations.

In short, humanity in terms of sexuality is a complete shit-show, and it's just about to the point where I'd press the big red button that obliterates all life in the hopes that someday we can figure it out.

I'm still an optimist, though, so I'm hoping it doesn't come to that.

I know you may believe you’ve written something profound but what you’ve said is absolute drivel. Try again, coherently this time

I'm a guy and if I do look at any kind of erotic material it's always erotic literature of some sort.
>can easily insert self and my gf into the story
>able to be interesting and do way more than with traditional video porn
>can make edits/add own stuff in
I'm not really attracted to anyone other than my girlfriend, so that might be a bit part of it too.

Dirty whores.

If you have penis, you penis machine.

Penis machine get hard and fuck vagina machine.

If no penis-machine, no vagina machine.

Vagina machine mean good thing; penis-machine mean bad thing.

Men forgot how to read and soon theyll forget how to see too

Can I just go ahead and put in for a grievance on behalf of men who haven't forgotten how to read?

I mean, you're not wrong. But for those of us who haven't abandoned our basic literacy skills... can we not maybe have to go through this shit again?

It's really more of a request to a larger consciousness than I could ever hope to manage, so I'll probably just forget how to read after long enough, but on the off-chance that I don't, I'd sure like to just see what I see.

I think beauty might be infinite.

I guess I'll probably yet again cast my heart toward optimism.

What else should I bother to hope for, after all?

I see you, though. And I love you.

Not in the sense that your gender defines your identity, though, but in the sense that you are more you than you gender can accommodate.

It's a good thing, though.

Marketing.

*your*

I guess just laugh at everything.

God this cannot be more true. I know a lot of men really hate the whole "Camera Man Talking While Two (especially lesbians) People Are Fucking" thing but holy SHIT, I'm sorry that entire genre of porn almost ENTIRELY exists only because of men.
This is also true. I also find that men have a much harder time getting off without some kind of visual stimulus. Like my ex pretty much admitted even though he'd fap to the thought of me, it'd have to be over porn.

I'm so picky about porn that I just don't really look for it, only very PARTICULAR things can get me off so I'd rather just fantasize.

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Notallmen etc.

I personally prefer weird manga smut with weird stories. I read the whole thing and not just the money shots at the end.

Of the real life stuff I tend to like personalities and moods that go with the visuals. Like I like gianna Michael's because of her laugh and attitude.

Also for irl I tend to like a lot of beautiful women with striking features and personalities. Like I like Stacey London on whatnot to wear. I like watching her give people shit, and she has nice legs and I love her facial profile.

Jacking it to a nice butt it something I did when I was 14.

Well said? And in good faith under no uncertain terms had I been required to relish in your incontinence I might consider the breadth of which you have gone to convey in oh so many words the situation should it arise that I might consider or at least take into consideration the very real danger that you are a fag

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Because they're smart. Video pornography is WYSIWYG, so you either get lucky with all of the actors and camera angles or you don't. Smut leaves so much more room for imagination.

My personal favorite is writing erotica and paying women to voice it. Hire someone whose mind is open and whose voice is sweet and you can explore every fantasy imaginable. Class.

Came here to say pretty much this. My husband likes porn and I like erotic novels and such. I think it's because if I'm in the character's "mind", I can go through all the same motions and the descriptions of the erotic parts tend to be more submersible.

I mean, I WISH it were as simple as looking at a dick and not needing anything more elaborate to masturbate to. I'm kinda jealous of men for that.

That shit actually happens in real life but you have to be good looking and the girl usually a bit drunk.

I like both. I rarely watch live-action porn though. It's generally too cringe. I will sometimes watch videos of people making out and that works. I like elit because it shows what's going on in the heads of the characters and that is usually what makes it hot for me. A lot of the time I will just use my imagination because it's hard to find a story or doujin that has exactly what I want.