I'm a straight guy who like crossdressing. How do I tell my girlfriend? I'm afraid she'll break up with me if I tell her, we've been dating for quite a few years. I just want her to accept me for who I am. I love her and I'd die for her, but I don't know how she'd react to this news.
My dream is for her to not only accept it, but encourage it and help me shop for clothes, makeup, etc. However, I'll never get that if I don't tell her.
Please help, I don't want to lose her. Is it even worth mentioning?
>I'm a straight guy who like crossdressing What do you mean by crossdressing? Do you just wear lady clothes and like hang out around the house playing Xbox? Do you take pics of yourself and share them online? Do you walk around town?
Robert Smith
How much porn do you watch and how much weed are you smoking? Be honest with us.
Stop doing both for a year and then revisit this question of yours. Lol
Justin Miller
>How do I tell my girlfriend? You don't.
Adrian Johnson
Gender and sexuality are two seperate things .
Ultimately in the long term I assume you want to be with someone who accepts you for who you are (and trust me there are women out there who would LOVE doing the things you describe).
Oliver White
I should say, in this case, gender expression and sexuality
Lincoln Reed
If you tell her, it’s the beginning of the end. Don’t fucking do it, mate.
William Phillips
just go on a date with her and show up in a dress and see what she says. record it too. thats 1mm views on the tube which is like 10k in ad revenue. so if u lose her at least u made 10k. (im entitled to 10% since it my idea)
Daniel Lewis
>I'm a straight guy who like crossdressing
umm no sweetie
Camden Gray
I barely watch porn but I do smoke weed at least 3x a day >What do you mean by crossdressing? I enjoy women's clothing in a non-sexually way. I get no sexual satisfaction from crossdressing, but I love the way women's clothes look, feel, everything. It's all purely aesthetic. >Do you just wear lady clothes and like hang out around the house playing Xbox? Sometimes, but I keep them in like-new condition for as long as possible so it's rare. >Do you take pics of yourself and share them online? Never have, never will. >Do you walk around town Nope, but I would if I passed 100%.
She probably won't break up with you. Instead she'll be supportive while she finds a realan to fuck her on the side.
Hudson Moore
Thanks, that helps a little but ultimately I want my current gf, not someone else - even if someone else might accept me more for who I am
Luis Edwards
Here comes the "oh you're a tranny and you should transition" posts from the tranny cult.
Logan Baker
Forgot to mention that I plan on regularly crossdressing at raves.
Also I have damn good fashion sense, If it wasn't for my chin and voice, you would have to stare at me for a good second to know I'm a guy. But my goal isn't to be noticed necessarily. I don't dress like a hon. Haha, no. I'm a guy. They can bark at me all they want.
Ian Jones
Yeah whatever you do OP stay away from trannies. They do not have your best interests at heart they are only fooling you to validate themselves. You have to understand they are a toxic community.
Jaxon Sanders
>sweetie Lol
Brandon Robinson
>Forgot to mention that I plan on regularly crossdressing at raves.
Well that goes beyond "I just like the look of it and how it feels"
Well the guy, out of nowhere, proudly stated that he would pass 100% and also he's planning on cross dressing in public and going to raves.
That's at least overlapping into deep tranny territory
Grayson Gonzalez
OP listen to this guy . Maybe you can try to probe her beliefs rather than outright asking her, but obviously 99/100 girls are not going to be about it and if your girl is not about it then she's going to lose all respect for you as a man and it's going to end your relationship. She'll stop listening to you the same way you used to and your sex life will dry up until she either cheats or leaves you.
Luis Miller
>Well that goes beyond "I just like the look of it and how it feels" How exactly? I do it there because it's ironically the best way I can blend in and not be noticed by anyone who I don't want to notice me. Plus lowest chance of getting beat up.
>Well the guy, out of nowhere, proudly stated that he would pass 100% and also he's planning on cross dressing in public and going to raves. Out of nowhere? It's an advice board, my dude. I want to add as many details as possible >That's at least overlapping into deep tranny territory Now listen here, buddy, I just wanna be cute.
>I'm a straight guy Not entirely. You might wanna rework your priorities so they don't revolve around keeping your gf.
Michael King
>I do it there because it's ironically the best way I can blend in and not be noticed by anyone who I don't want to notice me. Plus lowest chance of getting beat up.
I would think that NOT wearing women's clothes in public would be the best way to not be noticed/beaten up.
> I just wanna be cute
There's plenty of musicians or celebrities or whatever that girls and women see as cute, and none of them are transvestites.
Jeremiah Morris
>I would think that NOT wearing women's clothes in public would be the best way to not be noticed/beaten up. >There's plenty of musicians or celebrities or whatever that girls and women see as cute, and none of them are transvestites. I'm starting to think you don't understand the point of this thread
Hunter Scott
The not gay and not-trans man who wears women's clothes to raves and is proud of how much he passes as a woman?
